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26-50 wit huuu dagon and jame aaand long time no joe and mae?

big boys. and mae

26. What sacrifices do they make for the other?

Dagon's given up a bunch of his screentime to give to Jame instead at least and switched his eating habits to be a bit healthier

It's not a sacrifice if they want to do it and being a stay-at-home dad was Joe's dream anyways, but I think it was a big thing from Mae to agree to be pregnant not once but twice

27. How do they say “I love you” non-verbally?

Jame ensures Dagon drinks his water, Dagon cuddles up, they shave each others' hair/beard, Jame traces around Dagon's vitiligo patches, kisses and other small shows of affection, Dagon snaps at Metzli for talking shit

Little touches and kisses, hugs throughout the day, lounging on the couch together either spooning or Joe's head on Mae's lap, playing with each others' hair or hands

28. Who’s the better chef? Do they cook for the other?

Jame's better but Dagon's picking up what he's putting down, if they eat together they cook together

They're both alright but Joe cooks more and for the whole family I think, fixes lunches for the kids too, Mae comes home from work and Joe's almost done setting the table for her to eat too

29. Describe their nighttime routine.

Jame has convinced Dagon to stop looking at blue light like an hour before going to bed, do some stretches, brush teeth, cuddle a bit and talk about day, give a good nights kiss and go to sleep

Maybe shower, brush teeth, cuddle up and chat and kiss a bit, talk about the day and what they're gonna do tomorrow, give a smooch goodnight and settle to sleep

30. What are their respective love languages? Do their love languages work well together?

Dagon practices quality time and physical touch but also some acts of service, he's cuddlier than most think but he thrives with parallel play as well

Joe is big on physical affection and verbal affection in his own way, but also quality time, Mae doesn't do physical affection the same way Joe does so they meet in the middle and just enjoy each other's company

31. Do they often go out on dates? What are these like?

On occasion, usually on an anniversary, go out for dinner and a few drinks before heading back home. They're cordial but nice dates, hold hands under the table maybe, play footsie, onlookers would think its a first date but no this is their 7th anniversary

They like going on dates, just getting drinks at a bar or going to a proper restaurant to eat, date nights are a nice way to add a bit of pizzazz to the usual, they can act all lovey dovey with just the two of them

32. Do either of them drink? If so, who’s the lightweight, and how does their partner care for them?

Neither drinks a lot, neither is particularly lightweight but Dagon wins by just being largehuge

They drink very moderately, Joe has a few beers on date nights (refuses to sip those girly cocktails though) and Mae can have something tasty too, he stays pretty much sober so she has nothing to worry about

33. How do they flirt? Who’s the worse flirt?

They throw glances in each others' direction (hard to see when Jame has his visor), sometimes they stand next to each other. When in private Dagon can get a lil flirty, c'mere I wanna cuddle

It's fun to go to a bar and pretend they're not married, Joe knows way too many awful pick up lines, props his boobs up and becomes insufferable until Mae breaks character

34. Do they have any inside jokes?

Maybe about Dagon being like velcro when asleep or then their height difference

So many from all the way to before they were even dating

35. Is their relationship a secret? If so, why?

Not particularly? But they don't advertise it either. Kris knows because he's besties with Dagon, Vadim knows bc he's nosy, others aren't really aware bc they haven't felt the need to tell anyone

Nope, they're so obviously in love, suck it Helen

36. How do they feel about having kids? Are they in agreement?

They agree on no children

They agreed on two children, they got three, love them all to bits

37. Who’s more emotionally sensitive/cries more often?

I think Dagon is a bit more sensitive but also he cries like once in a decade too so

Mae more, but Joe has learned to show his feelings too

38. Who’s got a quicker temper?

Dagon also, mainly shows it when his code doesn't work, but will tell Metzli to stfu too

Mae also

39. When and how did they admit that they loved each other? If they haven’t yet, why?

Dagon slipped it by half-accident a few years into their relationship, Jame said it back and they moved on. No need to say it out loud when they both know it well enough

After seeing each other for a longer while, a year maybe, when both knew it was serious and it was time to introduce the other to their parents etc., Mae had to say it first but Joe was ready to say it back

40. Do they have any regrets in their relationship?

Not really

They managed being apart from each other for longer whiles, Joe being a mercenary and Mae being a scavenger and all, Joe regrets not being more in touch with his emotions and later for being gone when Damien was small

41. What would they do if they lost the other?

Just go quiet and grieve in solitude for a long while I think

Be destroyed, support is needed

42. What’s their relationship like with each other’s friends/families?

Nonexistent, Dagon doesn't talk to his parents, his brother died while he was in prison and his sister-in-law/her kids don't talk to him either bc he was a criminal. Nor has he ever met Jame's family

Close, Joe's family is tightknit and his parents and sisters love Mae, sisters's husbands and kids too, its a big group and she/her parents were taken in without question. Mae's parents were a bit more sus about Joe but Mae liked him and he seemed nice so he was accepted

43. If they picked out outfits for each other, what would they look like?

Jame gets the ugliest shirt

Joe would look more put together instead of just a T-shirt and jeans, Mae would wear some kind of a black dress and maybe a lil jacket, accessories whomst?

44. Do they cuddle often? Why or why not?

Sleeping with Dagon is not a question of if you get cuddled, but when. But they do enjoy watching films etc. cuddled up too. Dagon just enjoys closeness and he's a Great hugger/pillow

They cuddle pretty frequently, Joe is also a great pillow and warm and soft and he enjoys holding Mae too, its a great way to watch movies or hang out

45. How do they support each other? How do they rely on each others support?

They listen whenever the other has grievances to air, and they trust that the other one will listen also. They got this understanding that everything's free game. Dagon also will read his code out loud to Jame to catch mistakes he's made sometimes but he does that to rubber ducks too

If Mae's had a long day at work, Joe's cleaned the house and made dinner and handled things for her so she doesn't have to worry. They listen to whatever they have to say and Mae encourages Joe to be more open about his feelings, Joe knows Mae will never think his fears or insecurities are dumb

46. Do they consider their relationship casual or serious? Is the answer different depending on who you ask? Why?

Very serious, if someone asks they say it's not their business, frankly

Very serious, no matter who you ask that is the love of their life

47. Do they sleep beside each other? Why or why not?

I think they still have their own apartments, but they often stay overnight and share the bed

Every night if they only can

48. Do they talk about their future together? Why or why not?

Not really? They're very happy where they are right now, I think they've talked about marriage and come to the consensus that no thank you (Dagon is not entirely against it but if Jame doesn't want to, he's fine with that). They take it day by day

They're happy where they are now but they do talk about stuff like when the kids grow up and go to college and move out and should they move house to a smaller one when that happens and Joe wants to buy a boat and when will they retire and normal stuff regular people talk about

49. Do they keep secrets from each other?

Nah

No, unless it's a surprise

50. Would they ever break up? If so, why? Who would handle the breakup better?

At the moment a breakup is not coming, they're very happy. Might stick together for the remaining centuries or so. With their constitutions and support circles I think they would manage it well, Dagon maybe a bit worse bc he's more emotional but he would accept it after a bit

No breaking up, ride or die. They'd both scream and cry if they broke up and I can't imagine which would even be the one leaving