#like asking my dad to be my guarantor for my flat last year and i explained that it was the same as first year but instead of being | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

nerdie-faerie · 1 year

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My entire uni process since I applied three years ago has just been accompanied by a series of my parents getting pissed at me about information they made up, like how are you mad at me about stories you created

#Uni shenanigans #+Extra #personal #ace is a grumpy bean #im sorry theyve really set me off i cant even deal with my own sht without them making up a problem to be mad at me about even when im not #there like fck i already moved to the other side of the country which sure its not far but was the best i could do without a passport #im kinda dealing with all my childhood trauma right now its kinda bringing it all back for some reason #but its been like this the whole time they convince themselves they know things and then get mad about them when thats not even the case #and its not like they fcking listen to me anyway when im the one actually experiencing it and its not like i dont lie to them #i absolutely do but those arent the things they get mad about which makes it extra bizarre #like asking my dad to be my guarantor for my flat last year and i explained that it was the same as first year but instead of being #assigned random flatmates i would be with my friends and he was like 'oh you want me to be your friends guarantor and pay their rent?#im not doing it' and i was like ?? no you theyre parents have already agreed to be their guarantors were all paying separate rents for #separate rooms its the same as last year but i dont get assigned a random flatmate and you didnt pay my rent last year what #and then he started claiming he wasnt my guarantor last year but you cant rent without a guarantor as a student? and i certainly didnt #have a rental history before first year so obviously i needed one what are you on and he just kept getting pissed that i was tryna force #him to pay my friends rent its just been that kinda sht over and over for 3 years with a side of threatening my autonomy when im home #im just so tired and fcking frustrated and i just wanna lose my sht at him about it cus its not like we talk we dont have a relationship #and yet hes still finding things to have a problem with me about when i got enough to deal with as is like youre not getting money from me #right now do you want me to starve? i got grocery and laundry money and tuition thats it there aint no spare money you shouldnt have made #poor financial decisions so you could bully money out of me assuming id be home for the summer only for it to backfire cus #now you owe sht and moneys tight and i aint coming back

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