#like at least say it with your whole chest yknow. dedicate to being queer dont sugarcoat it because its the polite option

[androdragynous]

i wrote longer bullet points and then realized my thoughts on the Unending Debate About Using Queer are just

if someone wants to call themselves queer that's okay and do not force them to change this

if someone does not want to call themselves queer that's okay and do not force them to change this

being uncomfortable with the way someone else describes or does not describe their own identity and refusing to respect their choice is a You Problem

shut up about if it's a slur or not. like yeah so are half of the terms LGBT people use to self identify what else is new. who cares.

edit to clarify i am trans and gay this is not a transphobe-friendly post. gargle my dick and balls