#lots of girls liked him tho !!! jakskdkd i feel like his appeal was part that he was rlly nice but also kinda mysterious | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

seiwas · 10 months

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YASSS SLEEPOVER IS BACK

how are you sel !!! i've missed hearing about your day and what's going on with your life :)) but i come to the sleepover with hot cocoa mix and lots of bad hallmark movies!

and also my lil sleepover gossip question of the night: do you consider yourself a flirt? are you successful when you flirt or does it fail horrendously? because right now, there's this person i'm interested in but they genuinely make me feel so head empty no thoughts when they're around that i cannot fathom the concept of flirting.

currently throwing a fluffy pillow at you as we speak, make sure you're taking care of yourself sel!

iris!! 🥺 welcome to the sleepover ✨ thank you for your goodies!! i am making us hot cocoa and putting on one of the movies you brought!!! 🥹

i’ve been okay!! the past weekend was rlly busy, but i spent it mostly with my bf and our friends!! 🥹 i also baked a lot yesterday—just some cookies i’m planning to sell in our neighbourhood!! how are you?

oh gawsh iris i’ll be honest 🥺 idt i’m a flirt at all 😭 i am very much a slowburn friends to lovers girl even irl akkssnjxbd my bf rn is (kind of) my hs sweetheart (i say kind of bc we got together towards the end of senior year) & we’re approaching 6 yrs soon 😭 my only other ‘dating’ experience is this thing i had in my 2nd year of hs that only rlly lasted like 3 months (that one was also a friends to lovers case & we are still friends today 😭)

i’ve never attempted flirting w someone (to my knowledge) but i do think i’m pretty vocal when it comes to giving compliments!! and i say things like ‘you’re so cute’ as reactions a lot!! so if you freeze up with flirting, genuine compliments/observations might help? otherwise, just showing you care about/like them in unspoken ways works too 🥺 you can still show interest without flirting!!! ask them to hang out more often, compliment their outfit or if they smell good, or tell them smth you like about their personality!! oh!! and if you can i think subtle touches work too!! hand on arm, that kinda thing!!

it’s so cute how you freeze up with them around tho 🥺

i am catching that fluffy pillow and kicking my feet hehe this is such a cute question iris 🥹 update me how it goes!!!

join the sleepover!! send in anything—a question, a story, dreams, recs, tips and tricks, and more!!

#between me and my bf rn he’s the flirt kanzkdn tho we were rlly far from it in hs !! we were both rlly shy aknskdjd #and we were friends for 2 years before we got together kamskdn #lots of girls liked him tho !!! jakskdkd i feel like his appeal was part that he was rlly nice but also kinda mysterious #(he told me yday that’s what he tried to do when girls were chatting him 😭 but not to me cos . i was rlly in the friendzone iris 😭😭)#(how i got out . idk . but he said he saw that the way i cared was different or smth and that he started to feel different too ajsknzks)#irisintheafterglow #iris.🐥#ask #rep #sleepover!

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