#lottiecrabie sex ed column🕺

[lottiecrabie]

Another member of the virgin squad back at it again 🫶🏻 How can I make making out more enjoyable for my boyfriend?

We still haven’t gone all the way, and I don’t think we will because of some other issues, but I feel like I need to make things more enjoyable for him :/ I have a good time, but idk, after our last ✨experience✨ I’m feeling a little dejected.

the Virgins Anonymous crew grows….

mmh well first of all this will be annoying to hear but Obviously you should communicate that with him. in the end no one knows this man more than himself and any advice i could give will never be perfectly catered towards his own likes and dislikes like advice He could give. also! important to communicate if you’re feeling dejected or insecure!! i’m sure he would like to know and he can reassure you.

i think the most obvious advice i could give is dry humping lol. a lot of my friends when they weren’t ready for sex would do it and it would feel just as intimate and complete. it’s a good way to introduce more ~sexual aspects~ without straight up getting your genitals out. also it’s hot

i’m not sure What you are already doing when you’re making out and what you’re comfortable with. neck and jaw kisses are a nice touch. i know one of my friends goes Crazy when someone kisses their ears. biting their lip (do NOT bite their upper lip for the love of god). taking your shirts off. a bit of Boob touching. teasing him by pulling away. Touching them too, even if it’s just their chest or their shoulders or their hair. compliments (men like to be praised too).

again, these are all pretty basic stuff that you might already be doing. i don’t think you have to be doing six hundreds crazy tricks for men to enjoy making out. honestly if You are enjoying it then most likely he is too as it’s a big question of chemistry and energy. do not get too in your head thinking Oh i have to be doing this and this and this, in the end what comes naturally to you is best. if you’re just overthinking all your kisses, you won’t enjoy it anymore, and most likely he’ll feel it.

good luck soldier🫡 pls talk to him