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Just. Had an idea for a beeduo comic. In the Year Of Our Lord 2023?? am I possessed? Is it the fever??? girl this Sickness is Kicking My Ass

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Kind Regards, Detective [Part 5] -Prelude to Deepest Sympathies

(I don’t usually trigger warn or content warn, but this might be a triggering chapter. I’m including the Reader’s Drabble I wrote a little while back as recommended reading prior to this, [Drabble 2] but if it’s hard to read about family death then maybe avoid it. This chapter was hard, but important. And I think sets up a truly important dynamic. I’m a slow-burn romantic kind of lady, and I wanted their relationship to be powerful and important, not just one of lust. Or even basic attraction. I needed it to be human. Anyway I liked writing it, and feedback is always appreciated and loved and treasured ((i seriously reread any feedback and comments)) and as always, ask to be tagged or removed from tagging.

Pairing: Detective Loki x fbi!Reader

Word Count: 3k

Warnings: Death, emotional anguish, PTSD flashbacks, language)

Catch up: [Part 1] // [Part 2] // [Drabble] // [Part 3] // [Part 4] // [Drabble2]

She didn’t sleep last night, which was no surprise. She had spent much of the night awake and poring over documents and cataloged pieces. Her own theories had been spun and while some might have felt outlandish in her head, she understood that this was an outlandish case. It had been hard enough to put on those headphones and let herself fall into a trance. Remember her sister. But not directly. She remembered remembering. Buying that damn CD she would play over and over. Peter Gabriel was her sister’s favorite, not that she’d ever tell anyone. Neither would. Her sister touted her love for System of a Down and Trust Company back when those bands made you cool.

For years after her sister passed she had found the only thing that felt vaguely satisfying was leaving that CD on her sister’s grave. And when CDs started becoming scarce, she had spent a few hundred dollars on Amazon buying all of the CDs she could find with that song on it. She’d be damned if she ever missed a single anniversary. Never went on the day of her passing, though. No. That felt sacrilegious. She went on her sister’s birthday, played the song on her headphones, along with a few others, but Heroes was the one that she played most. It was the one she’d leave behind after telling her how her parents had finally divorced, or how her dad had been ‘thinking’ about retiring again. For the hundredth time. Or how she’d been accepted as an Agent and two weeks ago, about how she was feeling so fucking lost.

But memories of memories are easier to put away, and much like her locker that held Detective Loki, her sister’s, much more ornate and much larger, she put those memories of memories away.

Her bag was hanging off her form lazily and her hair was done just enough to be presentable. By no means was she falling apart, but she was working. Working hard meant she lost focus on other parts of herself. It meant she had zeroed in on certain aspects of the case. Like how all of the individuals abducted had been on the same phone carrier, Radius, or how the TV was a model made by the company Source that had been discontinued three years ago, but at the time had been beyond revolutionary. Even now it was considered brilliant. She had found no traces of the nerve agent were discovered at the scene which meant they were probably injected with the pure form. Which meant someone had a lot of it.

Her theories meant that this man was not just dangerous but he had resources. He had access to things that people shouldn’t have access to and maybe he worked with Radius? Had access to their systems? The generator powering the church had been a Source item as well, meaning both were connected. Who used Source and Radius?

The precinct was still somewhat quiet, at 8am, slightly later than yesterday. Shift change had taken place and the detectives were still filtering in. Except for Detective Loki who was hunched at his desk, a long sleeved, form fitting black shirt on his form and black pants hanging off his hips. He looked sleek. Dangerous, even. She could see how someone might fall for someone like him.

Placing her bag down in the conference room, having actually remembered her coffee traveler this time, she glanced up as one of the cops walked in with a box, “Agent Y/L/N, this was left here about an hour ago for you. UPS dropped it off.”

The 2-PAM. She smiled and took it, “Thanks. Kind of nice when things work out like they’re supposed to for once,” she chuckled, curious why the box was so damn light.

The officer left and Y/N looked down, noticing that the label wasn’t stamped ‘FBI’ and in fact the sender name was absent, save for an address in Pennsylvania that didn’t look familiar. Maybe not the FBI?

Her heart suddenly began to race, carefully putting the box down as she looked to the side, seeing Detective Loki still hunched over. The man was on a mission.

Reaching behind herself she withdrew the small switchblade she kept tucked into her waist line, the one that no one ever saw. That was small. Cold and awkward at times but useful. Like now.

Why did this feel like defusing a bomb?

The blade clicked and she carefully began to open the box. She was aware it didn’t matter anymore who touched it, or if she damaged it. She knew whatever was inside the box was key. And with a final tug, the lid opened and she peered inside.

Time stopping had always felt like kind of an exaggeration to Y/N. How does time even ‘stop’? What, does the world freeze? Well, it did.

Staring inside the box she could see the face of a man she knew well, a man who cradled her soul and her heart and sang brilliant love songs to her, who had kept her connected to her sister, even in death. The black CD cover with two red forms on it, her sister claimed them red blood cells but said they looked like rose petals.

Her hand was surprisingly steady as she picked up the note inside, reading the immaculate cursive written on some kind of specialty papyrus paper, “My deepest sympathies, Agent. Your triumph through tragedy only enhances your beauty.”

And with that, she ran for the plastic trash bin nearby and fell to it, retching hard as she threw up the entire contents of her breakfast, causing the box, the note, and the Peter Gabriel CD with Heroes on it to tumble to the floor.

Immediately David heard the noise and jumped, running inside the room as the precinct suddenly jumped to life, turning to take in the scene. The note, CD, and box were on the floor and Y/N was kneeling by the small, cheap plastic trash bin puking.

“What the fu-” David was almost able to spit the words out before a strangely animalistic sound came from her lips, screaming into the bin that she had already emptied the contents of her stomach into.

The world grew quiet as the scream died down, leaving Y/N on her knees with her eyes closed, knuckles white as she gripped the bin as though it were the only thing keeping her alive right now. Stable. Present. Here.

“Get me gloves and bags for the items, now!” David yelled out, to no one in particular as he knelt by the woman in a kind of distress he didn’t know a person could experience from a simple box, “Hey, talk to me, what happened? Are you OK?”

Her face snapped, wiping her lips as she glared, “Do I look OK to you, Detective? Do I fucking look OK?” Her voice was raised, though not yelling.

Snapping back David glared, “Do we need to decontaminate the room? Is there anything infectious?” He looked at her seriously.

Taking a breath her eyes pulled away, “No. No chemicals. But it’s toxic none the less.”

Her voice was quiet as she spoke the words, closing her eyes and trying to forget what she had just seen. Experienced. Felt in her gut. Her soul had been torn forth in that moment and the timing of the CD was so tragically horrifying. For a brief moment of paranoia she wondered if perhaps someone had been able to access her personal phone, heard what she was listening to. The artist. The song.

Getting up rather quickly, Y/N stumbled slightly as she made her way through the people that had clustered, watching as two other detectives came rushing forward with evidence collecting items. Forensics would get it. They’d dust it for fingerprints and they would come up with hers, the delivery driver’s, the handlers at the warehouse… maybe a dozen people. And none would be the culprits. David would direct people to track the package and they would. They’d track it to some nondescript location where cameras weren’t installed and it’d been paid for with cash. She knew it like she knew the songlist on that CD.

Heading for the door of the precinct her head felt light, woozy, and she was struggling for something stable. Something to keep her grounded. Even as she threw open the doors of the building, those glass doors lined with metal, solid as hell, heavy as fuck, she ran out into the bitter air, feeling the cold devour her skin.

More.

She didn’t realize it but she was running now, into the parking lot, David not far behind, though he didn’t exist right now. Her sister’s smile was there, a true memory in its purest form, the smile she had wanted to see last night but didn’t want tainted and tied to this psychopath now.

Unthinking and perhaps uncaring, her hands grabbed at the hem of her sweater, pulling it up and over her head, tossing it to the ground of the parking lot filled only with cars, otherwise without a soul. The air was frigid as it enveloped her and tore her from reality. She gasped as the item fell, leaving her in her form-fitted white t-shirt and jeans alone, able to see her breath as she felt it stopping her from hyperventilating, the cold burning her skin, tearing at her and pulling her out of this other reality.

Once, during training, she had been shot. Not with a real bullet, of course, but shot none the less. A rubber bullet the academy insisted they feel the impact of to know what they might use in certain circumstances. And, perhaps, be prepared for since it’d be similar to a bullet hitting a bulletproof vest. The bullet had been fired by some complete and utter asshole Thomas Engleson, a man who didn’t think women could hack it. He shot her in the ribcage, instead of the stomach. He hit her directly. Not indirectly. And of course he was excused for it.

The pain of the shot had been incredible but she had gritted her teeth and taken it in. A cracked rib meant she was out for a bit, but it didn’t actually stop her. She kept training. Moving. Not exacerbating the damage but doing just enough to keep going. But the pain of that moment had been etched into her body’s memory.

This hurt worse.

Her skin was covered in goosebumps from the cold, beginning to shiver as she stood, perhaps for ten minutes, David standing behind her as he looked at her. This woman unshaken by so much, who had taken in twelve dead bodies and kept going, who took information meant to terrify and had kept pushing. Whatever had been in that note, in that box, had been meant just for her on a level those notes for David never touched.

It felt like an ache, standing in the cold as he watched the woman he had found himself so fond of suddenly pushing out the entire world as though it might infect her. He wanted to grab her sweater, wrap her in it, and pull her close. He’d swear to god he’d get the guy. And he would, even if he didn’t tell her that. He swore as he watched her, that finding this man would be his only task. He wouldn’t sleep. Wouldn’t eat. This was Dover and Birch, but now he was the onve involved. His own life was on the line.

“Do you ever wonder what it feels like to die, David?” The words were loud enough for him to hear, the wind suddenly picking up as she stared ahead to the road leading into the precinct, fairly empty though cars scattered about, the day cloudy and bitter.

He took a moment to consider it. He had. He had wondered once, when the kid in his backseat was frothing at the mouth, if maybe he prayed hard enough her poison would go into his body. He could take it, he thought. Better let the child live. He had seen enough, “Yes.” He answered simply. Now was not the time for banter.

A sort of dark chuckle left her lips, “I used to wonder what it might be like to die. After my sister was killed, I thought it was the only thing left that could actually scare me. The world couldn’t hurt me any more than it did when I was seventeen. I didn’t want to die, I still don’t, but I knew I could face that fear.

“But now? God, David… I wish I was fucking dead.” She fell to her knees so suddenly it caught David by surprise, running to her as he grabbed her sweater, saying ‘fuck it’ to the world as he wrapped his arms around her, pressing her body to his as he tried to finagle a way to keep her sweater on her as well.

No sobs or cries escaped her lips as her body went lax, falling against him as she wondered, perhaps, if maybe just giving in to this would be best. This felt so goddamn dramatic, and maybe it was, but for good reason. This man had found out one of her most intimate details of her life and sent it to her in a box. He had delivered to her a piece of her, and what scared her most was the fact that this man, this murderer, thought he was showing some sort of deranged compassion.

Time seemed to stop and David was grateful for the fact that they were far enough away, and behind most of the cars in the lot, that the world wouldn’t see them like this. He could smell the free, nondescript shampoo offered by the hotel, unsurprised that she wasn’t doused in perfume. But she did smell of something. Her own personal brand of herself. Pushing back some of her hair he spoke, “You can’t go anywhere yet. You can’t possibly trust me to finish this case by myself,” he grinned, stopping himself from pressing his lips against her head.

Chuckling, despite her desire not to, she shook her head, “I sure as hell don’t expect you to solve this alone. You need my theories, Detective Loki. I came up with a bunch last night.” It was tragic in a way, how fast she was working to compartmentalize. Whoever it was that had sent her the letter had done a bang-up job scaring the shit out of her. He had opened the locker that held her sister and emptied the contents without permission. But Y/N was cleaning it up. She was fixing it. In her mind she was already putting herself and all those pieces back together.

Looking confused David pulled away slightly, “Don’t you think you should go get coffee or something? Take a- Ah, fuck, who am I kidding. You’re not listening to me, are you?”

The ghost of a smile crept onto her lips as she raised an eyebrow, looking at David now, “Not really. And I mean, what’s stopping going to do? We both know I’m invested. He… he may have targeted you and those other detectives, and honed onto you, but with me… I’m a happy accident. He picked me. I don’t want to be another body in a church, David,” her eyes changed as she looked at him, suddenly fragile and vulnerable, opening her heart to this man. Detective. The one holding her in the parking lot of the precinct while both tried to put together what they just went through.

Stroking her cheek lightly David whispered, “And you won’t be. You’re gonna get up, put your sweater on, and go back inside. And when everyone looks at you, or asks if you’re OK, you’re not gonna smile or fake it, you stare at them. Through them. None of them matter now. Not a single soul inside. We’re gonna find this asshole, and we’re gonna stop him. Now get up.”

He pulled away, nothing truly romantic in the gesture but one that broke her just the same. They were words that felt charged with something more than a pep talk, but instead felt like a true demand. David understood she wasn’t some person who just fell over because they were pushed. She’d stumble. She’d fall. And he knew she could get right back up and go back to bat. And as she stood, David doing the same, he watched her eyes as she put the sweater on. Something had changed, briefly, something else. Something oddly dark that he couldn’t put his finger on, but understood she perhaps needed. The same thing he had needed in his time.

Turning her back to him, Y/N made her way back towards the precinct, her feet marching with purpose, her eyes focused, laser focused, as she understood what this was. This man chose people. Always. He had a reason and a purpose and it was never an accident. He had found the CD she brought to her sister’s grave (though she suspected it wasn’t the same one), he had written a detailed note, and he had found the one thing in this world she was still so very vulnerable to.

Now she was going to find him.

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Black Tudors: The Untold Story edited by Miranda Kaufmann 384 p.; History A black porter publicly whips a white English gentleman in a Gloucestershire manor house. A heavily pregnant African woman is abandoned on an Indonesian island by Sir Francis Drake. A Mauritanian diver is dispatched to salvage lost treasures from the Mary Rose… Miranda Kaufmann reveals the absorbing stories of some of the Africans who lived free in Tudor England. From long-forgotten records, remarkable characters emerge. They were baptized, married and buried by the Church of England. They were paid wages like any other Tudors. Their stories, brought viscerally to life by Kaufmann, provide unprecedented insights into how Africans came to be in Tudor England, what they did there and how they were treated. A ground-breaking, seminal work, Black Tudors challenges the accepted narrative that racial slavery was all but inevitable and forces us to re-examine the seventeenth century to determine what caused perceptions to change so radically. Someone You Love Is Gone by Gurjinder Basran 256 p.; Fiction I sit at the table and forget myself for a moment and the past steps forward. The house is as it was before Father died, and even before that, before Diwa left and before Jyoti was born. The house had a different light then or perhaps that’s just memory casting a glow on everything, candlelight and sunset, everything only slightly visible. Mother is in the kitchen, washing the dinner dishes. Steam is rising and the window in front of her fogs over her reflection. Even here, she is a ghost. Simran’s mother has died but is not gone. Haunted by her mother’s spirit and memories of the past, she struggles to make sense of her world. Faced with disillusion in her marriage, growing distance from her daughter and sister, and the return of her long-estranged brother, she is troubled by questions to which she has no answers. As the life Simran has carefully constructed unravels, she must confront the truth of why her brother was separated from the family at a young age, and in doing so she uncovers an ancestral inheritance that changes everything. She allows her grief to transform her life, but in ways that ultimately give her the deep sense of self she has been craving, discovering along the way family secrets that cross continents, generations, and even lifetimes. Spring Garden by Tomoka Shibasaki 154 p.; Fiction Divorced and cut off from his family, Taro lives alone in one of the few occupied apartments in his block, a block that is to be torn down as soon as the remaining tenants leave. Since the death of his father, Taro keeps to himself, but is soon drawn into an unusual relationship with the woman upstairs, Nishi, as she passes on the strange tale of the sky-blue house next door. First discovered by Nishi in the little-known photo-book ’Spring Garden’, the sky-blue house soon becomes a focus for both Nishi and Taro: of what is lost, of what has been destroyed, and of what hope may yet lie in the future for both of them, if only they can seize it. Langston's Salvation: American Religion and the Bard of Harlem by Wallace D. Best 320 p.; Religion Langston's Salvation offers a fascinating exploration into the religious thought of Langston Hughes. Known for his poetry, plays, and social activism, the importance of religion in Hughes’ work has historically been ignored or dismissed. This book puts this aspect of Hughes work front and center, placing it into the wider context of twentieth-century American and African American religious cultures. Best brings to life the religious orientation of Hughes work, illuminating how this powerful figure helped to expand the definition of African American religion during this time. Through a rigorous analysis that includes attention to Hughes’s unpublished religious poems, Langston’s Salvation reveals new insights into Hughes’s body of work, and demonstrates that while Hughes is seen as one of the most important voices of the Harlem Renaissance, his writing also needs to be understood within the context of twentieth-century American religious liberalism and of the larger modernist movement. Combining historical and literary analyses with biographical explorations of Langston Hughes as a writer and individual, Langston’s Salvation opens a space to read Langston Hughes’ writing religiously, in order to fully understand the writer and the world he inhabited. The House of Unexpected Sisters: No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency by Alexander McCall Smith 240 p.; Mystery Mma Ramotswe and Mma Makutsi are approached by their part-time colleague, Mr. Polopetsi, with a troubling story: a woman, accused of being rude to a valued customer, has been wrongly dismissed from her job at an office furniture store. Never one to let an act of injustice go unanswered, Mma Ramotswe begins to investigate, but soon discovers unexpected information that causes her to reluctantly change her views about the case. Other surprises await our intrepid proprietress in the course of her inquiries. Mma Ramotswe is puzzled when she happens to hear of a local nurse named Mingie Ramotswe. She thought she knew everybody by the name of Ramotswe, and that they were all related. Who is this mystery lady? Then, she is alerted by Mma Potokwani that an unpleasant figure from her past has recently been spotted in town. Mma Ramotswe does her best to avoid the man, but it seems that he may have returned to Botswana specifically to seek her out. What could he want from her? With the generosity and good humor that guide all her endeavors, Mma Ramotswe will untangle these questions for herself and for her loved ones, ultimately bringing to light important truths about friendship and family—both the one you’re born with and the one you choose. Mean by Myriam Gurba 160 p.; Memoir True crime, memoir, and ghost story, Mean is the bold and hilarious tale of Myriam Gurba’s coming of age as a queer, mixed-race Chicana. Blending radical formal fluidity and caustic humor, Gurba takes on sexual violence, small towns, and race, turning what might be tragic into piercing, revealing comedy. This is a confident, intoxicating, brassy book that takes the cost of sexual assault, racism, misogyny, and homophobia deadly seriously. We act mean to defend ourselves from boredom and from those who would cut off our breasts. We act mean to defend our clubs and institutions. We act mean because we like to laugh. Being mean to boys is fun and a second-wave feminist duty. Being mean to men who deserve it is a holy mission. Sisterhood is powerful, but being mean is more exhilarating. Being mean isn't for everybody. Being mean is best practiced by those who understand it as an art form. These virtuosos live closer to the divine than the rest of humanity. They're queers. November 03, 2017 at 11:00AM from ReadInColour.com http://ift.tt/2iZ08ms

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Why jewellery will always be in vogue

When I left Vogue after twenty five years as Editor-in-Chief, I was allowed to choose a print from the incredible archives. Since the magazine was founded in 1916, there was over a hundred years of beautiful era-defining photographs and illustrations of the fashions and styles of the day to pick from. Unimaginably elegant women in taffeta and duchesse silk ballgowns, Swinging Sixties black and white shots of Twiggy and Jean Shrimpton in mini dresses, the mannered poses of aristocratic looking models in Dior’s New Age silhouette, were all among the options. How was one to choose?

After many hours of searching I decided on an illustration published in the 1943 Christmas edition by Carl Erickson, one of the famous Vogue illustrators. In pastels and ink it portrays a woman, from the side, her hair swept up to better show off the large double strand of pearls around her neck fastened by a clasp. We can’t see her face but her nails are carmine tipped and she is obviously clipping an earring onto her ear. An enormous cabochon cut diamond is on her wedding finger. The caption read “Give her pearls….not just an anonymous little strand that she might fasten on automatically…..but great big ones like these”. Indeed. The pearls, the diamonds, the suggestion of an earring, together with the delicate and sensuous lines of the image encapsulated so much of not only the subject matter that I worked with at Vogue, but also of something both luxurious and intangible. Certainly this beautiful woman (I assume her beauty even though I can’t see the features of her face) leads a glamorous existence that is demonstrated, along with her sleek up-do and the fashionable neckline of her deep purple dress, by her collection of classic aspirational jewellery. And that might be enough. But as I look at the pearls, the lines of the diamond ring, and imagine the invisible earrings as glittering diamond studs, I am seeing something else. I see privilege, good taste, position in society. She adorns herself in preparation for the evening ahead, the jewellery a statement of who she wants us to think she is. And that’s the thing. Nothing has quite the sweep of purpose as jewellery.

It’s one of the great multi-taskers – a trophy, a token of love, an indicator of status. It adorns and decorates us and has done since the earliest human times. And it is of both great emotional and financial worth. Jewellery is a currency valued by all. What defines something as precious? Why do we all, across so many cultures, centuries and civilisations share this understanding of the worth of jewellery? What gives it such value? Generally societies value most, that which is hard to achieve. Things that are accessible to all are likely to be valued less. Gemstones, gold and silver have to be discovered, extracted, polished, cut and alchemised before they can be turned into jewellery. It’s difficult, labour-intensive and time consuming and demands substantial resources and huge commitment. Because of this fine jewellery has an in-built rarity value. But we also regard it as precious not purely expensive and this is because of the unique combination of attributes – monetary worth, emotional resonance and of course visual appeal. Not only does our jewellery mean something to us but it also means something to those that view us. Jewellery is a sure-fire way to tell those around us, something about ourselves. And this has been the case since the earliest days. Primitive man used a kind of jewellery – ornamentation – to enhance sexual attraction as well as believing that it could be used as protection against all manner of disasters from snakes to evil spirits.

“Jewellery is a sure-fire way to tell those around us something about ourselves”

Cleopatra employed jewels to demonstrate her wealth and position, creating a tremendous glamour that seduced those who met her and also enhanced her power. She raided every gem mine in Egypt with a special fondness for emeralds, and not only did she cover her body in jewellery but she used precious metals and stones to decorate her home. Centuries later Napoleon too was a fan of emeralds bestowing them on his favourites who would display them as signs of his pleasure. Caesar ruled that only aristocrats could wear pearls thereby anointing them a visible class status that set the wearers apart. Association with jewellery though has not always had a happy ending. Ill-fated Marie Antoinette was said to have further hastened her journey to the guillotine by her suspected involvement in the famous affair of the diamond necklace, a necklace of unimaginable ostentation. In her case even though she never owned the necklace in question, said to cost over £12 million today, her perceived connection to it was enough to exacerbate her reputation of moral corruption and extravagance.

When we examine contemporary associations with jewellery, there are, incredible as it may be, many of the same notions in play. Despite the massive changes that have taken place on this planet over the last few millennia, jewellery is still used for pretty well the same purposes as it always has been. The inventions fire and the wheel were of practical use, clothing has both practical and moral purpose and food is essential to our survival, but jewellery which has never had anything like as vital a role has been valued in our societies around the globe for as long as any of these. We all have collections, big or small, of personal jewellery and for most of us this includes pieces that are very much more than adornment. They are tangible markers of an important occasion or they carry a sentimental legacy. Often the items we most mind losing or being stolen are the jewellery and watches that we may have inherited – our mother’s ring, the cufflinks our father wore for best, our grandmother’s brooch.

My own collection of jewellery, while not enormous nor particularly valuable is filled with pieces that are a part of my personal history. There is the square gold ring with a tiny diamond that my godmother gave me. She was married to a South African diamond tycoon and long after their divorce she split up a necklace that he had given her into individual diamonds, one of which she had made into identical rings to give to each of her god-daughters. I wear it every day and have done for over forty years. There is the gold and topaz necklace that my father gave my mother on the occasion of my birth – I was the first born of three and I don’t believe a similar gift followed after the other two popped out! A delicate filigree web holds the dozen, faintly rosetinted topaz in a necklace that falls just inside the collarbone. Topaz is my birthstone and eventually my mother passed on the necklace, in its original satin cushioned, black leather case, to me. Strangely it is only now, that I have begun to wear it and each time I do I picture my late father and hear his much missed voice whilst loving the thought of its genesis. There was the beautiful silver and aquamarine antique ring I treated myself to after a particularly successful Vogue event I hosted where we managed to corral a high-profile mix of Prince Charles, Kylie Minogue, Giorgio Armani and Lord Rothschild but like too many pieces of my jewellery, it was lost. I feared thrown by myself in the rubbish bin clearing up a dinner party. And for my last milestone birthday my sister gave me a gorgeous old diamond belle époque necklace created by a jeweller at the Russian court.

Our jewellery tells us the stories of our life, so no wonder we treasure it so. And not only does it carry with it our experiences and memories, our family, our lovers and often our successes but it has forever been treasured for its portability. The stories are legion of how jewellery has been invaluable in times of crisis: The aptly named baguette cut diamonds literally exchanged for baguettes in French Revolutionary times, the White Russians fleeing with their heirlooms sewn into their hems. When bank accounts can be frozen, property seized and art bulky to hide away, jewellery is the safest asset of them all. Currently jewellery is riding a new wave in terms of fashion credibility. Since the Sixties fine jewellery has had a hard time positioning itself as part of the contemporary fashion scene. There was no lack of appeal in the glamour stakes but fashion, with its inbuilt need for change has been a harder nut to crack. There was something about rejection of values considered as old fashioned during that period which robbed fine jewellery of its fashion status. Youthquake earrings were pop art Perspex discs rather than chandelier diamonds, bracelets were likely to be hippie silks rather than gold cuffs. Expensive jewellery was regarded as something that belonged to the old folk, mouldering in their stately homes or Riviera villas. Fine jewellery had lost its cool. Of course, due to the lasting values of jewellery it has continued to be big business but, in the main has operated outside fashion. Instead the famous fine jewellers loan jewels for high profile events like the Oscars and Cannes Film Festival for positioning rather than relying on fashion magazine covers. But things are changing…

“Currently jewellery is riding a new wave in terms of fashion credibility”

The growing rejection of fast fashion, the interest in sustainability, the trend towards owning less but better – all lead in the direction of the desirability of precious jewellery. During the Haute Couture weeks in Paris, luxury jewellery houses have started putting on their own events attended not only by clients but now by the fashion press. We are reconsidering our possessions and examining our shopping habits in every area. We want to treasure what we own, rather than enjoying it for a short time and then consigning it to the dustheap. As a result in recent years there has been an explosion of new jewellery brands and designers as we move away from the mentality of a new It-bag every season towards investing in a permanent collection of jewellery. An increasing appreciation of the craft and individuality of the object has also contributed to the fashionability of jewellery. Even the trend for multiple piercings which has now gone mainstream has seen a growth in highly valuable adornments of this kind. For the first time in decades real jewellery is beginning to be seen again as a key part of the fashion scene and this has resulted in the expansion of the demi-fine jewellery category, positioned between fine and costume. This has also played into the fact that the new big sector in the jewellery market is women buying for themselves. No longer do we feel there is something a little tragic about buying our own jewellery, as if the piece is somehow of greater worth if it has been gifted. Instead fine jewellery is becoming one of the most popular ways women reward themselves for a moment of career success, or celebrate a personal event. Gone are the sentiments so brilliantly stated in Diamonds are a Girls Best Friend – “Men grow cold as girls grow old/ we all lose our charms in the end/ but square cut or pear shape/ those rocks don’t lose their shape”.

In our fast moving, social media driven, politically motivated world jewellery, as it has always been, is a reliable and cherished treasure. No wonder its future remains sparkling.

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