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not feeling safe your whole life to share your real honest feelings with your father because he explodes and takes it as a personal, utterly disrespectful offense when you have, but now youre trying to learn and heal from that so you decide to be honest about your feelings with your father instead of lying to please him and he explodes and takes it as a personal, utterly disrespectful offense <
#👍#and when you literally explain this to him he claims that he did no such thing#because he cannot do anything without fighting and opposing. and he does not know what it is to simply let something be#and he deludes himself into thinking because he has good intentions no one can fault him for bad outcomes and if they do thats disrespectful#THATS WHAT IT IS OH MY GOD. ive been trying to figure iut what thr hell it is hecause its so confusing#he always says ‘my intentions are good. you know that right?’ etc etc etc everything about how hisnintentions are good#LIKE BROTHER I KNOW THAT!!!! I KNOW!! but good intentions do not excuse anyone from the harm they may cause!!!!#thats not how it works!! you are AVOIDING TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THINGS BY USING GOOD INTENTITON AS AN EXCUSE#i KNOW you mean well. and thats commendable. thats great. but you fucking HAVE to realize that#good intention does not automatically translate over to good action#GOOD INTENTION =/= GOOD ACTION#FUCKING HELL MAN#or maybe its better to say good intention does not automatically translate to excused actions#because then he would say he never CLAIMED to always do the right/good things because of his intentions#the problem is that he WILL NOT take accountability for when he doesn’t end up doing the right thing even when he has good intention#because he cannot possibly see himself as in the wrong or being able to improve as long as he meant well#froegis meep tag
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