#or you'll just feel worse and worse about yourself with every passing day bc guess what baby you cant go back!!

[ccorinthian]

fuck you ageism fuck you life ending at 30 fuck you makeup industry forcing us to feel bad about a natural process fuck you hustle culture fuck you instagram fuck you youtube fuck you glorification and deification of youth fuck you who make people feel bad for not having "achieved anything" in their 20s fuck you people who peaked in high school and try to drag everybody down by insisting it's all downhill after 19

[etherealsign282]

8: I just. You literally can't speak angrily, violently, aggressively, with hostility, etc, then pass it off as "I'm fucking sensitive". You're the other side of the coin of those people who say "you're just sensitive" to gaslight them, you use your "sensitivity" aka embarrassment and resentment to be as nasty and dismissive sounding as possible so that way when someone labels you as "mad" or aggressive, you play victim.

8.5) also for the record of what you were whining and bitching for that day: you can't fucking just be like "do you even care about me" when you've been the passive aggressive one, the "idk what I want but whatever you do I won't like it and it's your fault" one, the nasty, dismissive one, the two faced one, the verbally and emotionally abusive one, the "i cant put in effort bc im mentally ill" one, the "I'll kill myself every time you do one wrong thing" one, etc, and then when I explain all of this, turn around and go "whatever, I can't explain myself to be understood so fuck me I guess". Your version of being understood is being right but you can't be correct in a situation where you take advantage of someone and don't appreciate their efforts while giving zero back, and then act like the victim, which is why you have never been able to "explain yourself properly". You're just not good at manipulating and gaslighting into being correct about a situation you're actually wrong in. :)

9) using past issues to never forgive while being offended that you weren't immediately forgiven for everything, case in point. "in 2017 they were already tired of me weaponizing suicide so I don't feel bad for them being suicidal 4 years later uwu" also you: how dare you not forgive me automatically for things I haven't fully changed because im doing it very slowly (and then replacing it with something far worse). How dare I get broken up with because I thought I was doing good and what do you mean the damage had already been done long ago? This will shape me forever as someone who has been undeniably betrayed and harmed for years to come and I will never forgive my abuse victims.

I don't believe I need to say more.

10) when "you can't use the bathroom for too long or I'll freak out" suddenly turns into "you can't fall asleep until I tell you" which turns into "you have to play video games that I play, watch what I watch, and not talk to your other partner unless you're also actively talking to me", one can assume that it is not those things you need to keep switching around, which becomes worse and worse as we go. It's about fixing your controlling, possessive behaviors. You changing means fuck all unless you can be in a relationship with someone and not obsessively tell them you'll d13 if they don't react to every single post and only talk to you and not poop for longer than 30 minutes. Just changing a little bit is just a dismissive excuse for abusers to minimize how the abuse victims feel.