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#our initial conversation was about whether a song is more pop or rnb....... & she twisted that into me being negative lmao
cheekblush
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i'd rather be friendless than to constantly have my boundaries disrespected
#i am so frustrated and annoyed rn
#at the beginning of this year my ex best friend reached out to me and i cautiously let her back into my life
#things were going great but now she turned a harmless topic into a full blown discussion even though i told her multiple times that i no..
#.. longer want to discuss this matter but she kept going & then accusing me of continuing the discussion as well
#and tbh i really should've stopped engaging with her messages much sooner but it's so annoying when someone sends you lots of messages with
#their opinion although i mentioned several times that i want to drop the topic & then i'm just expected to shut up lol
#she didn't respect my wish to move and made a huge fuss about nothing
#i stopped replying to her since yesterday bc i really had enough & i should've just left her on read much sooner
#but her messages were truly annoying me
#her last message now says that we often have different opinions & she thinks she's more optimistic than me & that makes it hard for her to..
#talk to me..... i was so dumbfounded when i read that this morning
#our initial conversation was about whether a song is more pop or rnb....... & she twisted that into me being negative lmao
#she was so obsessed with being right that she couldn't drop the topic even though i told her how exhausting the convo was for me
#and like it's such an irrelevant topic... imagine being that obsessed with always being right 😭
#idc anymore i'd rather be a negative bitch than someone who disrespects others' boundaries <3
#i thought she changed for the better but she's so self-righteous opinionated & stubborn it's awful
#i calmly told her that her behavior is bothering me & we easily could've just moved on but she kept going on and on
#and she herself admitted that it's one of her flaws that she always has to be right & she's being petty & yet she didn't stop 🤡
#even writing all this down feels so silly to me bc the initial topic was sooooo trivial
#am i supposed to feel sorry for thinking a song was rnb rather than pop???? like go touch some grass please
#she even sent me a screenshot of the wikipedia page of the song to prove that it's rnb & it literally said synth pop & rnb lol
#but i wasn't even mad about that her not respecting my wish to drop the topic & move on even though i said it multiple times really pissed..
#me off though.... like girl just let it go it's not that deep!!!
#but apparently i'm negative & pessimistic for having a different opinion than her 🤷🏼♀️
#like imagine starting a fight over smth SO IRRELEVANT but i'm the negative one sure lmao
#okay i just needed to get this off my chest bc i don't have anyone to talk to about this & it's just ridiculous to me
#☁️
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