All The Data: Michaela (Bates) + Brandon Keilen
The Couple—
Michaela Christian (Bates) Keilen (b. January 23, 1990)
Parents Gil + Kelly Jo (Callaham) Bates
Child # 2 of 19
Hometown Rocky Top, TN
Early Education Homeschooling (Abeka and IBLP / ATI)
Higher Education—
Tennessee College of Applied Technology (Bringing Up Bates (11–14–19), “Home is Where The Heart Is!”), Nursing / LPN (2019—)
A.A. / A.S. in Liberal Arts / Medical Health Sciences (2016), Roane State Community College (Online) (See Bringing Up Bates (9–22–16), “Three Pointers and Puppies.”)
Credentials—
Licensed Emergency Medical Technician (TN; 2011—)
Licensed and AED–Certified First Responder (TN; 2009—2012)
Occupation
Owner, Keilen Corner (Online Boutique) (Oct. 2019—)
Nursing / LPN Student, Tennessee College of Applied Technology (2019—) (See Bringing Up Bates (11–14–19), “Home is Where The Heart Is!”)
... Previously—
Owner, BrandonAndMichaela.com (Online Boutique) (2017—2019)
Nanny (Dates Unclear) (As of Late 2013 / 2014, Michel had the job for a “couple of years.” Bringing Up Bates (1–22–15), “Training Up Bates.”)
EMT / First Responder, Medford Volunteer Fire Department (Rocky Top, TN; 2009—?) (Bringing Up Bates (7–7–16), “The Big Chili.”)
Brandon Timothy Keilen (b. September 15, 1989)
Parents Ronald + Jillene “Jill” (Pope) Keilen
Child # 8 of 10 (Bringing Up Bates (2–26–15), “Michaela + Brandon”)
Hometown _____, MI (Id.)
Early Education Homeschooling (Id.)
Higher Education B.A. in Biblical Ministry (2014), IBLP’s International Ministerial Institute (Burnet, TX) (Note—Oddly, Brandon mentioned that his “final semester” at IMI was Fall 2013... But, later, he’s still in school, and that’s why he and Michaela couldn’t get engaged until Spring 2015. Duggar Data has a theory of why this is... IMI is a 3–Year program, with an option to extend to 4 Years and earn a bachelor’s degree. I think the 2013 graduation was from the 3–Year program. Brandon must’ve opted to go for the bachelor’s degree, which explains the additional year.)
Occupation [ Unknown ]
... Previously Videographer / Creative Designer, Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) (Oak Brook, IL; ?—2019) (Note—Brandon first started working for IBLP in Chicago after his homeschool graduation, probably 2007 or 2008. Bringing Up Bates (6–11–15), “Meet The Parents.”)
The Relationship—
First Meeting c. March 2009
Location IBLP Headquarters; Hinsdale, IL
Details The Bates Family took a trip to Chicago, so that Michaela and her sisters could attend Journey to The Heart. Before departing for the session, Michaela was at IBLP, where she happened to notice Brandon. Brandon also recalls meeting the Bates Family, at that time.
Timing We know that this all happened in 2009, “just after” Michaela’s 19th Birthday—i.e., January 23, 2009. Apparently, it wasn’t immediately after, though, since Brandon recalls it as “Spring 2009.” Duggar Data is pretty confident that it was March 2009—which is arguably in the spring—based on this Post on FreeJinger, reporting that that’s when Michaela did Journey to The Heart. (Unfortunately, the Post cites to a page that’s now deleted, so it’s impossible to verify.)
Pre–Courtship November 29, 2013 (See Also) (Friday)
Location by Phone (Michaela in North Carolina.)
Details After praying about it, Brandon called Gil Bates and asked him for permission to start a relationship with Michaela. Gil and Kelly talked to Michaela, and called back later that day with their blessing. Brandon then called Michaela, and their pre–courtship began. (See Also.)
Timing On the “Our Story” Posts on their website, both of the Keilens recall the fateful first phone call happening on Black Friday 2013. (Note—Thanksgiving 2013 was on November 28, so Black Friday was on the 29th.) Oddly, some other evidence contradicts this, indicating it was on November 28. Duggar Data can’t really explain why... Brandon realized his feelings on November 28th, then called Gil on the 29th? Regardless, my spreadsheet has November 29 as their Pre–C.S. Date, based on the “Our Story” Posts.
Courtship December 30, 2013 (Monday)
Location Restaurant at The English Inn; Eaton Rapids, MI
Details While Michaela was visiting Brandon in Michigan, they went on a date to The English Inn. Over dinner, Brandon gave Michaela a journal, a poem professing his love, and a gold–plated dried rose, then asked her to start an official courtship. She agreed.
Announced January 2, 2014 on the Bates Family Website (+3 Days)
Engagement April 13, 2015 (See Also) (Monday)
Location Great Falls Park; McLean, VA (See Bringing Up Bates (7–9–15), “Brandon Pops The Question.”)
Details Brandon set up a scavenger hunt for Michaela, which led her all over the Washington, DC Area. It coincided with cherry blossom season, which was a nice touch. After a few too many clues, Michaela ended up at Great Falls Park, where Brand was waiting with the ring. (Bringing Up Bates (7–9–15), “Brandon Pops The Question.”)
Announced April 16, 2015 by UpTV (+3 Days)
Featured On Bringing Up Bates (7–9–15), “Brandon Pops The Question”
Wedding August 15, 2015, 2:00 PM (Saturday)
Location Wallace Memorial Baptist Church; Knoxville, TN
Officiants Gil Bates (Bride’s Father), Dr. S.M. Davis (Groom’s Mentor) (Bringing Up Bates (2–4–16), “Wedding Bliss and First Kiss.”)
MOH Kelly Jo Bates (Bride’s Mother) (Id.)
Best Man [ Unknown / Unable to Verify ]
Announced N/A (No Formal / Media Announcement)
Featured On Bringing Up Bates (2–4–16), “Wedding Bliss and A First Kiss”
Honeymoon Wyoming and Montana (See Also Bringing Up Bates (2–11–16), “Fly Fishin’, Zip Linin’ Honeymoon.”)
Information about the Keilens’ infertility struggle... After the jump.
Infertility Struggle—
Since their marriage, Michaela + Brandon have struggled with infertility. They went public with their struggle in January 2017, when they chose to discuss it on Bringing Up Bates (1–26–17), “Doggy Dilemmas.” They have shared since shared additional details about their infertility on the show, their personal blog, and social media. Here’s what we know—
Firstly, Michaela + Brandon very, very much want children, and it was expected they’d probably have a large family. Here’s what’s been said about this—
Michaela: “Brandon and I have talked a lot about having children... I would have as many as I possibly could.” (Bringing Up Bates [BUB] (1–22–15), “Training Up Bates.”)
Michaela (on the Keilens’ Blog): “Growing up I always dreamed of being a mother someday. ... Children were the greatest miracle in my eyes, and I spent all my free time babysitting. Every time I rocked a baby to sleep, I dreamed of someday cuddling my own little one.”
Brandon: “That ... is an area we want the Lord to have control in. ... He is just saying no for now. We hope it’s not no for always—but, it’s no for now.” (BUB (1–26–17), “Doggy Dilemmas.”)
Kelly: “Everyone in the family has always predicted and said, ‘Michaela is going to be the one that has a really, super large family.’” (BUB (1–26–17), “Doggy Dilemmas.”)
After 6 Months of marriage, Michaela + Brandon began to worry that Michaela wasn’t getting pregnant. (BUB (1–26–17), “Doggy Dilemmas.”) Michalea went to her doctor, who ran a few tests but told her: “Don’t even think about a baby until you’ve been married at least a year… Babies take time!”
By the Keilens’ 1st Anniversary, Michaela still wasn’t pregnant, and the Keilens decided to see a fertility specialist. (BUB (1–26–17), “Doggy Dilemmas.”) The Keilens have shared quite a bit about this process, including the following—
The doctor did extensive testing. Apparently, Michaela + Brandon were both examined. (BUB (1–25–18), “SUN Day, Fun Day.”) Brandon hasn’t commented publicly on the process, but Michaela has... She described doing “a lot of bloodwork,” and getting “a lot of ultrasounds.” (BUB (8–31–17), “Here’s The Scoop.”) She stated that, over the course of a year, they “tried all of the major tests”—racking up significant medical bills, in the process. (BUB (1–11–18), “Decorating Dilemmas Job Decisions.”)
Despite all the testing, the doctor hasn’t been able to determine what’s causing their fertility struggle. (See BUB (8–31–17), “Here’s The Scoop” and BUB (1–25–18), “SUN Day, Fun Day.”)
One thing the tests did show is that Michaela hyper–ovulates. Bringing Up Bates hasn’t mentioned what’s causing this, or whether her doctors even determined a cause. (Medically speaking, hyper–ovulation means that, if Michaela conceives, she’s at increased risk of having multiples.) (BUB (1–25–18), “SUN Day, Fun Day.”)
Around August 2017, Michaela decided to undergo one final test, “then take a little break” from all the medical intervention in her infertility. The test was a hysterosalpingogram—i.e., a medical procedure that uses x–ray to visualize scarring in the uterus or fallopian tubes. Dr. Vick did the test. He identified, and was able to clear, a fallopian tube blockage. He advised the Keilens to wait three cycles, then consider surgery if they’re still unable to conceive. (BUB (1–25–18), “SUN Day, Fun Day.”)
As of 2020, it’s unknown if Michaela got—or intends to get—the surgery that Dr. Vick mentioned.
Michaela has said that she is interested in adoption, if she’s unable to have her own children, saying: “Someday [I’ll have a baby], maybe, and if not, I’ll adopt me a baby.” (BUB (8–31–17), “Here’s The Scoop.”) As far as I know, Brandon hasn’t ever spoken publicly about the possibility of adoption, surrogacy, etc.
What’s Next—
The Predictor will assume a couple is incapable of having children if they’re 5+ SDs Late to announce Pregnancy #1, and they’ve been married for 5 Years. In the Keilens’ case, they’re already >5 SDs Late to announce Pregnancy #1. (As of April 11, 2020, they’re actually ~47 SDs Late... Way, way later than 5 SDs...) Their 5th Anniversary is this year, on August 15. If they still haven’t announced a pregnancy by then, the Predictor will stop predicting children for them.
... That’s All The Data for Michaela + Brandon.
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Sasha & Chris’s Chicago Elopement
Laura Davis and her team at Charming in Love have taken a special interest in elopements and intimate weddings. Why? Laura herself eloped with her husband at the Chicago Courthouse! How great is it to have a visionary who knows EXACTLY how you feel? Read through our latest love story and imagine the possibilities for your own day!
Sasha is from Russia and Chris is from Illinois. This beautiful couple met on a cruise ship where they both worked as performers (she’s a dancer, he’s a singer). He proposed in Moscow in a hot air balloon (swoon)! They flew to Chicago and contacted Laura and Charming in Love to help them plan their elopement. With only a few days to arrange everything (right before Christmas I might add!), they were able to plan the sweetest day.
Bride: Sasha
Groom: Chris
City the couple calls home: Chicago, IL
Wedding Date: 2015-12-23
Ceremony Location: Chicago Courthouse
Reception: Ten Cat (Local Bar)
Photographer: Charming in Love – Laura Davis
Florist: Asrai Garden – Adina Fried
Rings: Jewellery Chez Faye – Jeff Faye
Bride’s Apparel: Club Monaco, BHLDN
Groom’s Apparel: Express, Banana Republic
Any honorable mentions when it comes to food/cake: McDonald’s
How did you meet and fall in love?
I first met my amazing wife, Alexandra (Sasha), in Northampton on July 28th , 2013, the day before our rehearsals started in the rehearsal house I was staying in. We were both cast in the production cast set to sail around the world on a cruise ship. We were getting to meet most of the cast before our rehearsals started for a production show contract that we were both hired for. Rehearsals were in Northampton, England with Belinda King Creative Productions.
Why did you decide to elope?
Given that Sasha’s family is all living in Eastern Europe we had many complications in figuring out travel and arrangements to be able to have everyone here in Chicago for our wedding. We thought long and hard about what we should do and ultimately decided that this day was about us and that it wouldn’t be complete with only half of our family with us for it. We decided to elope to the beautiful Courthouse in Chicago the day before Christmas Eve and made the decision to renew our vows with all of our family as soon as we could get them all here to visit. We are currently hoping that this will happen Summer of 2017 when everyone has vacation time and visas to visit!
Describe the day for us.
Early in the morning I (Sasha) woke up to get started with make-up and hair. Chris seemed to be up to something suspicious when he woke up and said he had to run out. I continued to get ready and he came back in with flowers, coffee from our favorite coffee shop down the street and Egg McMuffins! Although we didn’t have much time to eat and enjoy our coffee, it was the perfect way to start out our day!
Did you have any difficulties while planing?
Sasha had an intense search to find the best outfit and we had a little rain in the morning, but honestly it all couldn’t have been more perfect! Actually, it was one of the warmest late December days at 61 degrees F (16 degrees C)! Our celebration was a bit different, as we just went to our neighborhood bar with our puppy. We even ended up locking ourselves out of our apartment!
What was your favorite moment of the day?
Of course, our I do‘s were absolutely amazing, but our favorite moment was the romantic trip from our apartment to the courthouse. We took photos, sang, called Chris’s parents, gazed out the car windows… just enjoyed the moment. It was perfect.
Do you have any advice for couples planning an intimate wedding or elopement?
Do it. Don’t think too much about it, make sure it’s completely about the two of you. One of the best things about it being just the two of us is we could do exactly what we wanted, and loved every second of it!
Sasha and Chris’s celebrated their first year anniversary December 23rd, 2016!
Congratulations you guys! xo
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