#reefs meefs

[kiruliom]

quick question: you don't have to answer if it's too invasive obviously, but could you explain why reef is comfortable using shi/hir but andi doesn't because kie isn't intersex? if your body is intersex would it not be that both of you are allowed to use it even if you aren't also intersex internally? and your rentry says you're dyadic but in that case wouldn't neither of you be intersex? or is it just outdated? sorry i'm not very smart (whole ask is /lh)

the body isnt intersex but reef is, as its their species (sea slug) and thats how wave exists in the parcosm! we've talked and discussed with it with bodily intersex people and they said itd be okay for hir to use it as long as we know of and respect its history and how its been used against intersex people, which we do

[kiruliom]

NOOO I FORGOT TO BRING MY BRUSHES AND PALETTE TO SCHOOL

[kiruliom]

yuor tjeme <33333 ... eats it eats it eats it ea

NOOOO MY THEMEEE ToT

I was gonna post some terms too but I have no time left today >:(

[kiruliom]

Ineed to remake the lifrankame gender system flag 1 its outdated 2: I think I used like, 300 x 500 resolution so it looks awful

[kiruliom]

well hi.

Im cofronting with reef so I may edit this if shi leaves front and I change drastic enough but

Im andi, Im a jaguar, I look vaguely like the lisa frank leopard cub in coloration (pictured above). Im still very very fresh so Im figuring stuff out

idk what to say I split from Archie because it was stressed and using tropical stuff and daydreaming as a coping mechanism and.. yeah. i'm guessing Im linked to reef because Archie was trying to trigger a front for reef in the first place so.

I use I/mew/meow/meowne/meowself first person pronouns and uhhhh just use reefs 3rd person pronouns for mew (me) as I figure stuff out? (except shi/hir, Im not intersex)

[kiruliom]

I Unironically associate us (you and me) with palette genders L;KFLD;SKAG

KFJBJ SAME!! its easier to describe my gender with colors than it is with labels sometimes hhvgjbhjg

[kiruliom]

omg Nembrotha Aurea sea slugs are so prettyyy

id never heard of them before

you slay /pos

thank you!!

the picture I used was color adjusted so its not the true colors but I wasnt aware of what species it was when my brain went "hm next time we split were gonna make it one of these fellas" and when I did front I had to find what specific species it was because Im like that qwq

[kiruliom]

wanna re-theme the blog around aquatic stuff but like that might be selfish(towards the rest of the system) but theres 0 inner world communication past like *faint feels* and the feels say go for it but still I feel guiltyyyy

[kiruliom]

heyey! Im Reef and Im a Nembrotha Aurea sea slug (pictured above), Im an extranth, not otherkin!

I use the same pronouns as the core with emphasis on ocean themed neos

I for some reason dont have the body adjustment struggles Velvet has, but I think thats because Im not as distinct of a facet ^^ I do have dysphoria (dysmorphia?) about the lack of my rhinophores (the antenna thingies that help with smell and taste) and I do long for the ocean more than the core though

Im not much different than the core other than that! if it helps my art style is a little different.