#t4tmisgendering

[depravedcuntgirl]

I think I'm really gonna detransition. It's not for the kink — it's for legitimate gender reasons, "healing my inner self" reasons — but I'd be lying if I said the kink wasn't involved. I wouldn't have gotten to this point if not for the kink, and honestly my reasoning and decisions have probably all been encouraged, confirmed, and pushed further by the kink.

Part of me thinks I was... or maybe still am... a guy? The "bigender/two sides" thought still rings somewhat true; it might take a bit to leave that behind me, even if it wasn't a perfect fit. And if i partially or fully detransition I'm not gonna be cis, FTM identity has informed my experience immensely. But I've also had conversations in play that have made me think "huh, could that have been me misinterpreting something else as a sign of actually being trans?". Either way, my beliefs oppose a rigid sense of the self... Whatever I was before doesn't have to be what I am now, and that doesn't necessarily have to be what I will be forever.

I might add some of those realizations onto this post in another rb later, as other girls might find them helpful. Might make another post for detransition updates or might just tack onto this one.

- 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮, 𝓒 💗💜

[frogmansfrog2]

Hey y'all! I am starting a t4tmisgendering subreddit and I could really use some help with it!

I am currently a mod for the general misgendering subreddit but I wanted to make one that is more of a safer space for just trans people as I know a lot of people in this kink prefer an a t4t space only. (People can still talk about cis people and fantasies with them but posters and commenters are trans people only)

I am currently looking for mods. I know that this kink is very ftm and transmasc dominanted but I'd really love at least one trans woman or transfemme person on the team as I feel it's important to get that perspective within the community. I think it would also be really cool to get a mix of doms and subs as I think trans doms (especially transmascs and ftms since we're usually seen as submissive) are really overlooked in this community.

I'm looking for about a team of 3-5 right now. I wanted to get a good mod team before promoting it.

I'm looking for people that are responsible, active, and that this kink is purely fantasy for. DM me if you're interested in a mod role. I'd greatly appreciate the help and think it could be a really fun opportunity to create a space for trans people into this kink.

Also please have reddit and discord as it is probably gonna be the easiest to have a group chat on.

[depravedcuntgirl]

I'm a trans girl just starting my transition and like. I keep finding that ftmdetrans stuff hits me hard like the. "Ohhh you were really always a girl let me show you" condescending vibe, so new fantasy:

I'm sooooo nervous about every step of my transition that I convince you to do it with me, after all, you have experience with this, right? Thanks for letting me watch you shave, now I know how to do it! But um. I'm nervous about dress shopping when I look like a boy. Maybe you can come with me? Oh, that dress looks so good on you, keep it on. Soon we're both pretty girls having lesbian sex.

Fuck, that's really hot 🥺

Of course I'd love to help another g- I mean, another trans person out! And you're new to this, there's no way you mean any harm. Even if some of your requests are a bit... odd.

But really, you just saw that I was meant to be a girl all along, just like you were! And every time you're about to make me cum, you remind me you're so glad you made me into your perfect lesbian girlfriend, and I'm so grateful 💕