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slyshyfoxy · 3 years

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Hi yes, I just wanted to share like my thoughts for recently, I started my university first week of school and school was hectic, like there were a lot of things that I have yet to do and I need some time to relax too.

I think the most important thing to me right now is, I want to focus more on my career and meanwhile making new friends that eventually might turn into good friendships or someone that I can date long term, so I lowkey am getting anxious looking at people’s igstory where they are posting couples going out and so forth. But honestly, it does bothers me sometimes, but I rather be alone then be with wrong accompany and with people who don’t understand all the sides of me. I rather take things slow, meanwhile mostly focusing on my career and myself my health and so forth.

If it’s meant to be will be, I’ll just surrender and focus on how to make my bank go x3 fold or many fold so I can be rich 🤑. If the person imma gonna date should have passion and goals too, like to be rich one day too alike like me. Ofc we have to be committed , loyal, and honest to one another about the things we want. Ngl, I feel like a lot of my scars will surface if I am not contented fully by myself first. So meanwhile, I’ll just be myself, continue to be myself, and like do my own things, whatever that’s going happen will happen, and I’ll focus on the present and ya. So don’t feel anxious or pressured to do anything, u are on the right path on the things u have chosen and all. Only once I feel much more secured then I’ll have fun 30k in my bank = I’ll have fun 👌🏼🤩✌🏻.

I’ll make new friends to hang out with too, work hard and really this time round being a good friend to others, and being good to myself. Mentally, physically and emotionally ❤️ and giving more time to my family and my friends. 💕🧏🏻‍♀️

- afternoon of 11 sept 21

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sitp-recs · 2 years

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Hidden Gems by @violetclarity

Violetclarity is another incredibly talented and underrated writer that should get more love and appreciation. Interestingly enough, I stumbled upon her Pansmione magnum opus first, and was utterly obsessed with it. That fic is actually responsible for pulling me into this ship when I started the blog in 2020, and I still remember screaming at @teacup-tai about how brilliant it was. I found her excellent Drarry works soon after and fell even more in love with her writing; those sensitive and feel-good love tales make for perfect bedtime reads and I especially appreciate “strengthen to stay” for promoting body positivity 💜 I found her Ginsy fics more recently and was once again completely blown away by her A+ femslash content - these are long-ish fics with interesting plots, top notch angst and a fascinating take on the characters, the levels of UST and emotional development are addictive! Here’s a short selection of my personal favourites, I had a blast reading each one of these and I highly recommend checking Violetclarity’s full catalogue here. Happy readings!

Drarry

Christmas Eve and the Kisses Four (2018, E, 5.3k) - sweet friends to lovers get together with cheeky meddling kids (I love Scorpius!), domesticity and family Christmas feels.

Draco was determined to ignore Harry and have a good time at this Christmas Eve party, but with enchanted mistletoe in the mix, that was easier said than done.

Proper (2018, E, 8.7k) - a lovely 8th year secret relationship exploring their first time with enthusiastic consent, some awkward fumbling and unexpected feelings.

Draco sighs. “What kind of absolute twit has the chance to have sex with the Chosen One and can’t go through with it?"

In which Draco studies with Gryffindors, learns a new spell, and navigates the difficulty of being in a not-so-casual secret relationship with his childhood nemesis.

the strength to stay (2018, E, 29k) - my personal favourite! Auror partners, case fic, enemies to lovers with chubby Draco, mild angst, body image issues, very sweet happy ending 💜

Draco and Harry are the best Senior Aurors in the DMLE, which is why they’re working the case about Wings – a dangerous new potion that sends users into a dreamscape from which they may never return. When Harry is kidnapped by the group behind Wings, Draco takes it upon himself to go after him, and is forced to confront the reality of Harry’s feelings for him, which he’s been ignoring for years. Read my rec here.

Rare pairs

Private Relations (2018, E, 10k) - delicious Ginsy with Quidditch player soft butch Gin and badass PR Pansy, fwb to lovers, enthusiastic consent and background Drarry as a treat 👌🏼

Pansy Parkinson is the Harpies’ new PR person. Ginny Weasley is not impressed. // A tale of friendship, flirtation, and fancy dress parties.

Single and Snacking in Phoenix, AZ and art by keyflight790 (2019, E, 25k) - brilliant fwb + fake relationship Ginsy 🙌 oblivious Ginny, background Harry/Luna, some Harry and Draco bashing cause we love to hate them

When she told her friends she was bringing a date to Harry and Luna’s wedding, Ginny had only wanted them to stop bothering her about her love life. Now she’s facing an entire weekend of pretending that Pansy Parkinson, her casual hook-up, is actually her girlfriend. What could possibly go wrong?

Pansy, Rows, and Mutual Wanking (2020, E, 27k) - hands down my favorite Pansmione fic, such a great and emotionally rewarding journey! Hogwarts 8th year, they were roommates, enemies to lovers, pining Pansy, internalized homophobia & coming out (Hermione), party games, lots of sexual discovery, happy ending!

Eighth year. Hermione's ready. She's going to study, have fun with her friends, and ignore her new roommate's obnoxious wanking habits. And alright, maybe she wouldn't be so annoyed with it if she'd had any good sex in the past. But that doesn't mean she wants Pansy Parkinson to teach her how to wank...does it? Read my rec here.

#hidden gems #day 37

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