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always-andromeda · 1 year

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What's your love language?

Okay, goodness gracious, I hate to be such a contrarian bUT. I haven’t really subscribed to the whole love language theory for like years now just because I don’t think the way it’s emphasized and used, especially for relationship advice isn’t always the most helpful?

Because honestly, out of the big five love languages, I prioritize almost all of them pretty equally? Like I don’t think any one of them fulfill me more than another? Basically all five have nearly the same amount of importance to me!

#askmeda✨#anon ask✨#this answer feels so pretentious of me but idk what to say #it’s true y’all #also the dude who came up with the love languages isn’t a licensed counselor or anything #he’s a guy who appointed himself as a marriage counselor at his own church #the love languages were very much desigend to cater to a heteronormative christian audience #okay sorry sorry sorry i’ll get off my soapbox now #thank you for the question!! <3

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