#the original list was on my old studyblr so I copied it and added more recent things

[ben-learns-smth]

a list of happy things I trans nonbinary edition (original + updated version)

the first time someone uses they/them for me, after I tell them

tiny trans pin on a stranger’s bag

every time someone uses my chosen name

“young man can you reach the top shelf for me?”

golden by zella day

taking care of myself because I like who I’m becoming (do your stretches)

“our youngest child”

cloud 9 by beach bunny ft. tegan & sara

“you’re not trying too hard, you’re trying what fits”

button up shirts (bonus points for binder underneath)

reading about moments of trans joy

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every time a friend creates a new nickname (or nicholasname)

“btw what are your pronouns?”

growing pains by freddie lewis

my name on my student ID

recognising myself in the way someone else lives their truth

soft dark hair on legs, arms, upper lip, chest

reading books I see myself in

every time my voice cracks a bit, every time it feels a bit lower

“we love you and we’ll love who you’ll become”

as per usual feel free to add your own list of happy things or tag me if you make a post about it! doesn’t have to be gender related, can just be you related or general joy

[caffeine-creativity]

Studyblr Tag

I originally found this tag from @organizedminimalist and wanted to share because my studyblr is relatively new! Make sure you use the #studyblr tag if you decide to do it also, which I hope you do.

GENERAL

What country are you currently studying in? Pennsylvania, USA.

What’s your major or specialization? Neuroscience as my major and creative writing as my minor

What year are you in? 1st year of undergrad

What courses are you taking? This semester I’m in creative writing, psych/neuro introduction, German language, and international politics, but next semester I’ll be taking biology, the nature of hope (psych-based), modernism and modernity in literature, and archeoastronomy.

Favorite course? My favorite course is actually from my dual enrollment in high school at a different university; I took an anthro class on Women and Religion. It was superb and the prof was very intelligent/ laid back.

What languages do you know? Which do you want to learn? My first language is English but I’m also proficient in German, and in the future I want to learn Morse code and French! I started studying German in seventh grade, so about 12 years old??

What language do you study in? Which language do you think in? I study in English (except for my German homework😜 ) and usually I’ll think something first in English and then my brain tries to articulate the same thing in German. Weird, right?! Sometimes I also try to think of a German synonym for an English word if I’m writing a paper.

Career aspiration? My goal is to either go to Med school for psychiatry or get my PhD and become a professor. I love being able to mentor people and help them reach their fullest potential! Conducting research is also super fulfilling to me.

If you couldn’t be #8, what would you be? I would want to be a poet, pastry chef, museum exhibit designer, or public figure.

Moment when you knew what you wanted to do? I don’t think there was a definitive moment when I decided… it was more of a process or system in which I weeded out what I like and don’t like. And I’m still going through that process!

STUDY ENVIRONMENT

Where is your favorite place to study? It depends on what I’m doing and what mood I’m in but usually a quiet place that’s good for people watching. So perhaps a library or cafe :)

When is your favorite time to study? The morning!

Clean desk or organized mess? Best intentions are tidy though sometimes I fall short

Music or no music? For studying I sometimes listen to piano/violin classical or swing jazz but usually nothing with lyrics; it gets distracting and I can’t focus!

Name top 3 worst distractions: Adding stuff to a to-do list, TUMBLR, and online shopping (Bonus: non-pressing or fun assignments)

Exam time, dress up or down? Usually dress up but it has to be comfortable and include socks so my feet stay warm lol

Exam time, hair up or hair down? Hair up for dayzzzz

Favorite outfit for studying: Leggings and a sweater plus cozy socks

Favorite study scent: Not sure if this counts, but my fave perfume, which is Light Blue. It makes me feel confident to take on my work!

STUDY TOOLS

Name 5 things you would consider your ‘study essentials.’ Water, laptop, notebook(s), class notes, and a quiet environment

Hard copy books or pdf online? Both work:)

Favorite study snack/drink: latte or water + goldfish crackers or Chex mix

Fave pen and pencil? InkJoy gel pens, pilot pens, and Ticonderoga pencils

Name 5 apps/tools that help you be productive. Inspiration graphic organizing software, Noodletools, google drive, onelook thesaurus, earbuds.

How many pens/pencils/markers are in your pencil case? Too many to count

Backpack or purse? Backpack for practicality although leather satchels just look so aesthetic and collegiate lol

How many notebooks do you have? Again, too many to count although probably 6 or 7 in current use.

STUDY HABITS

How do you motivate yourself when you’re not motivated? Talk to a close friend, look at other studyblrs for tips, assemble my study outfit, snacks, and tools and dive in!

Pump up routine before an exam? Usually I have to pump myself DOWN haha because I’m jittery. I’ll take deep breaths and think about how everything in my life will be the exact same after it’s over and that in the long run, it probably won’t matter.

Crammer or pacer? Pacer!

Type of learner? Kinesthetic, visual, and writing

How do you plan? With my at-a-glance weekly/monthly planner and occasionally google calendar.

Preferred note-taking method: by hand for sure. I can make all sorts of graphs and notes during class that take too long to generate online

Do you make to do lists? Every day, but sometimes I need to take a break because I get too overwhelmed with them.

Do you stick to your to do lists? Mostlyyyyy:)

Group study or independent study? 99% of time time—independent but once I have most of the material down I’ll review with others who also want to do well.

Average number of hours of sleep during exam time? 7?

Ever pulled an all nighter? Nope!

STUDY MENTALITY

What of you do to recover from getting a grade lower than expected? I always remind myself that it’s the collective that matters, not each individual test. Then I usually mope for a bit and then go get help from my teacher/professor.

One advice you’d give to others? Don’t try to study all the time! Have other important projects that you invest yourself into, such as volunteering or creating an online presence.

What are you most proud of right now? In high school I won a national award for a research project that is very near and dear to my heart. Other than that, I’m currently working on a chapbook so that makes me proud!

Favorite quote to keep you going? “It’s all temporary.”

Favorite way to destress? Exercise, Tumblr, youtube, talking to close friends, creating something.

OTHER

Favorite five studyblrs? Studyquill, TeaCoffeeBooks, Students and Lattes, My Little Study Spo, and Force of Nature

How often do you check Tumblr? Probably 3x per day?

Hobbies when you’re not studying? Writing poetry, making videos, running, reading

Favorite compulsory-reading book? Theories of Vision from Al-Kindi to Kepler by David C. Lindberg

First nerdy joke that pops into your head? What did the cell say to his sister when she stepped on his foot? Mitosis!