advanceheater

[planetary]

i literally only go to a few very specific subreddits so reddit is actually really fun for me. theres cat pics and cool rocks and video game lore analysis and some pretty good original stories and a dedicated place for answer any “dumb” questions you might have without judgement. and of course the trans girls

[madmaxxing]

so glad other people noticed the trans reddit thing. i had to leave every single trans subreddit because it didn't matter where i was, there was ALWAYS at least one trans woman trying to speak over trans men in the comments. even in r/ftm and r/ftmmen... r/honesttransgender was so much worse but it's crazy how, even in explicitly ftm groups, they decide to butt in and make it their business.

like, bestie, i'm asking about testosterone-induced vaginal atrophy. you have NO idea what i'm talking about and experiencing. why the FUCK are you speculating, u/transsexualbanshee?

Fr, fr. It's, idk. I get it that right now transfems are on the social bullseye for all the bad shit one trans (because theres so much misinformation around of "cis" people doing Things (actually an established trans person but were gonna say theyre cis ans they suddenly go by she to get special treatment bc it helps our agenda)) person does that affects how the ENTIRE community is seen. But... Transmasc are invisible.

The one news about transmascin my country was that one got pregnant and had a child. And thats it. We are invisible, and if we are seen its only highlighting how womanly we can be.... Idk man it feels bad.

I left I think it was r/traaaaaaa however many as it had when some transmasc made a meme of yeeting away I think it was his tits (the meme of a cartoon lady basketball yeeting a baby) and it was properly labeled as transmasc. And there were. SO MANY TRANSFEMS being like "Uh WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO THROW AWAY YOUR TITS?" "this is not relatable at all!!" And they made a "fixed" version. And there was drama for a couple days. And honestly I just decided to leave because I'm not gonna bother arguing when they're just trying to make a transmasc meme about themselves.

It would've been fine if they just separately made their version personally. But they butted in a lot in the transmasc version of how it was wrong and unrelatable and they made a post specifically saying "fixed" version and I take issue on that.

I have trouble enough as it is being taken seriously IRL. I don't need the people I could consider sisters to also belittle me because one or two every ten memes in the trans subreddit is abt transmascs.