#this doesn't apply to blogs that i know don't tag things bc that boundary is clear

[dumbdomb]

NO: lurkers, likes only, inactive, empty, or blank blogs. DO NOT "LIKE" MY CONTENT. DNI. ♥️

18 and 19 year olds get away from my blog now and block me forever. teenagers dni. leave my posts alone! be over twenty-five or block me!

my blog is NOT 18+ it is 25+ ONLY.

If your age range is between 18-22 years old: Do NOT Interact with me or anything on my blog. i am ageist against teenagers following me just bc i'm in my thirties - i'm not your older person fantasy. read this post for more information.

ReBlog My posts to show appreciation! Mutuals and Followers may "Like" posts as a social thing. Do not Re-Post anything as a "New Post" on your blog. I love reading your tags when you reblog My stuff! I love chatting, but I can be slow to respond. I love asks and anons always - as long as it's consensual and not hate mail. ♡ xoxo

🫸 if you have any questions, ask or dm. 🫷

Men: Hard BLOCK ME right now if you're "mostly straight" or "attracted to women" or "like whatever you're into" (including "just posting stuff you like" and "posting whatever you want to" and other variations of this statement) and your blog is mostly about M/F relationships, thin white and nude women, unrealistically large ass and breasted women, female nudes, rule 34 underage cartoon anime girls in nude or sexual scenarios, or mostly just imagery of women, only going to like or reblog visuals of my body, or following my blog after liking or reblogging visual content of my body, don't know much of anything about gender and sexuality, pretend to not be an allocishet male by using inaccurate labels and keywords you don't even understand the definition of in order to hopefully avoid getting blocked or to receive nudes from people who clearly have boundaries against allo cis het men interacting with them (like i do), or if you have "women dni" in your description or pinned.

if you have "men dni" OR "women dni" on your blog, then do not like, reblog, follow, or interact with anything on my blog whatsoever. D N I .

Women: Hard BLOCK ME right now if you're "mostly straight" or a lesbian who doesn't like nonbinary people, bisexuality, queerness, if you have a problem with men, masculinity, butches, or only view me as either a man or a woman, have "men dni" in your description or pinned.

SAPPHICS / LESBIANS, READ: 👇

Sapphics with "men and minors dni" in their description or pinned: Do NOT Interact with me or anything on my blog. (see literally one line above this addressing women, right above this paragraph, literally, the block of text right there)

Blogs I block on sight: underage, no age, likes only, lurkers, spam likes without reblogging anything, no content on blog, not currently active, new blogs, people from other platforms, those with r/196, r/fems, febfems, and other gc people with iv> and ∆ and ∆⊝ and |⃤⃝ and other signifiers in their description, ALL conservatives and discourse blogs. i do not hate anyone for having different views and beliefs from mine, and i'm not here to change your mind. dni with me or my blog if your heart and mind are filled with hatred and negativity. my existence is not a punching bag for your own insecurities. i do not condone sending hate to anyone for any reason.

Do NOT Interact means Do NOT like, reblog, reply, comment, direct message (for anything other than polite and respectful clarification).

DNI: no/maps, loli, icky kink, "icky" blogs, "pro-para" (maps, incest, unspecified paraphilias like all the other generalized names i've listed here, rqc ☔️🍰 and other anti-trans people in the "para safe" community), unspecified "hard" kinks, unspecified "gross" kinks, unspecified "taboo" kinks, unspecified "dark" kinks, ddlg (specifically, doesn't apply to all cgl), older men / younger women, incest, forced fem, detrans kink, misgendering, misogyny, matriarchy, patriarchy, race fetish, fat fetish, feeder, gainer kink, dyke breaking, corrective rape, tradwifery, cucking, infidelity, cheating, hot wife, trophy wife or husband, cucking, pregnancy, alphas, sigmas, femcels, beastiality, zoophilia, allocishet "straight people" kinks and any conservative ideals romanticized or fetishized in kink play or in vanilla romantic and sexual relationships.

if you use afab/amab and tme/tma terms seriously and definitively, if you have an issue with "transandrophobia" or the experiences of transmasculine people, if you're prejudiced against butch, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, agender, or gender nonconforming (cisgender people included) then steer clear of my blog.

ℹ This is a personal blog. I do not conduct professional business here. All posts are lifestyle kink and thusly for Myself. The boundaries I have in place reflect these intentions and were written based on how people have treated me. I don't send anons, but love receiving them. I am very much against anyone sending hate for any reason whatsoever. Body and Kink Positive. 💝

Black ▪︎ grey-ace ▪︎ androgyne ▪︎ femme ▪︎ bi and queer ▪︎ intersex ▪︎ they/them ▪︎ neurodivergent

SoCal 🎃🦇

October '90

Dyke Fag QUEER

Femme Pillow Princess

I am NOT a "Soft Dom" ⚠️

Dominant Bottom (Sadist Top)

Sir, Mister, Miss, Daddy, Goddess

bro, babe, dude, pal, a friend 💕

✅ Turn ONS:

humiliating, degrading, and dehumanizing My partner(s). seeing them in zentai or a gimp suit. i like my chest, being spoiled and cared for, being treated gently, depravity, perversion, Cnc, omo, piss, sweat, drool, dacryphilia, medfet, gfd, fdom, blasphemy, denial, scent, primal, terato, sanguine, impact play, whump, fear play, leather, masks/hoods, snuff, necro, horror fantasies, weaponry, stockholm/lima, cute clowns (not scary), kawaii kink, tickling, feet, pegging from the bottom, hypnotism, forced masc (but only for the affirming celebration of masculinity, i don't like the forceful part), being overstimulated to cum multiple times until i'm catatonic and involuntarily convulsive or nearly passed out and totally limp (physically weak)...

❌ Turn OFFS:

being submissive, switching, topping, straight people, being praised, being called a good girl or good boy, being called mommy, breeding, ovi, impreg, cum, facials, lactation, hucow, Master/slave terms, diapers, scat, rape play, rough or forceful play, pussy slapping, tit torture, age gap, fauxcest, furries (ally, but personal squick), abo, sissies (tfem and not forcefem is ok), anal, the mainstream version of many popular kinks are often done in an unappealing way for me...

Do NOT talk to me about cnc intentionally being painful, emotionally or physically. don't talk to me about sadism being an act of anger, conflict, or otherwise unhealthy form of de-stressing or releasing frustration. i am NOT interested in kinks being misogynistic, dehumanizing, etc.

PSA: me not being interested in something you like is not a judgment of you or your interests - it just means that i am not interested in it myself. if you're upset that i don't get turned on or pay attention to something you enjoy, just block me or close the page. i don't exist as your "content."

100% Dominant ❤️ 94% Sadist 🧡 92% Rigger 💛 75% Degrader 💚 74% Master/Mistress 🩵 70% Voyeur 💙 67% Boy/Girl 💜 62% Primal (Hunter) 🩷 results 🖤

i tag reblogs from other people and on my original posts. some warnings i use are: food mention, eye contact, weapons mention, religious mention, alcohol mention, drugs mention, smoking mention.

⬇️ posts: domb brain | pics: virtueldom ⬇️

[lingeringscars]

gentle thingy with the current t/100 resurgence. actually 2 things : i am still v sensitive ab bellamys death and still will not write about it and encourage people to Not talk to me about it / the very end of the show.

the main thing is that i know esp w/ t/100 there is A Lot of critique/hate that happens. i’ve lived through all of it as someone who watched from s2 on. there is a lot to be critical about i’m not going to deny that or try and argue otherwise BUT it can and has really sapped my energy and excitement over it so if u post on the dash pls just... tag it?? whether it’s over a ship or character or the show or even j/roth.  

[lokigodofaces]

Hi, you just reblogged a post you made! I’m lowkeyorloki, just on anon bc my Loki blog is a side blog. I wanted to say I understand where you’re coming from about too many asks for nsfw - I had the exact same problem when I started my blog at 17 (!!!) years old. I didn’t want to write smut for a lot of different reasons. When I got older and willing to do it, I was pigeonholed and now my sfw fics get very little interaction comparatively, which is wild bc I get asks about being a perv who can’t write anything but porn. It’s also funny, one of my multi chapters has a lot of nsfw and I got flack for that. The past ten ish chapters have been plot heavy with only one sex scene, and a fair amount of comments are saying things like “amazing fic but I miss the smut.” It’s hard, because as content creators, we honestly can’t win. Anyway, this is all to say I agree with your tags and I’m sorry your readers are giving you that feedback. I understand how frustrating it is :’) I think it’s amazing you post work in the first place and we should all be thankful for that! Keep doing what you’re doing ✨

here's the post for context (because this is important and I want to give my followers another chance to see it)

Thank you so much! And I'm sorry that you've been through this on both the nsfw side and the sfw side. And that you were getting those asks so young! I started getting comments about that when I was 16 or 17, so, yeah, that's not good. I also first published on Wattpad (which has a generally younger audience) and started publishing on Ao3 and other sites later, so that was concerning to get those comments on Wattpad when I know half the writers are <15 (so there are either adults on Wattpad that are being creepy as heck towards minors or there are teens that are looking into some stuff (that they maybe shouldn't be) and don't have boundaries figured out enough to know that not everyone wants that).

I honestly didn't know about problems nsfw writers had because I don't write nsfw or read it. I kinda just chill in my corner with my sfw stuff (and lots of aspec stuff :D). And I just...hadn't really ever thought of it? Because it doesn't apply to me? And it felt kind of...nice to know that I'm not the only one with problems? That fandom spaces are kinda fricked up and can't decide what they want? What is morally correct (because that's always dragged in for some reason)? So both sfw blogs and nsfw blogs get this crap. Because if there's no smut, we're prudes. If there is smut, we're pervs. (Which also feels like it has something to do with misogyny? Like I'm a woman writing a few romances (some of which are x readers that are very self indulgent) that don't include sex scenes (or even implied sex, depending on the fic, if characters are sex averse), and that is seen as wrong? I'm seen as a prude? And, I don't know if you are a woman, so I won't use you as an example. But I'm sure there are women with similar experiences to you, and they are seen as horny pervs who care about nothing but sex if they write nsfw. And, if you aren't a woman, there's a fair chance you have been misgendered since Loki is seen as nothing but eye candy for women by lots of Marvel fans. Which causes lots of problems).

Also, this ask made me feel better because I wasn't sure if I was just experiencing aphobia. Don't get me wrong, I am. I thought there was a serious bias against sfw fics, but I wasn't sure since all of mine are aspec. But if other people are having problems...this isn't just an aphobia thing (though the aphobes love it). This is allonormativity, maybe a bit of misogyny.

But, yeah, thanks for this ask! Makes me feel better to know that I'm not alone. And I'm sorry about all you went through and the crap you get from people. Proud of you for hanging in there! <3