#this took wayy too long for a meme

[lav3nder-bees]

Theyre guilty 😔

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[jadequarze]

birdwives!!! domestic 1. - who proposes (and how??)

Domestic [bird wives]

This is a long one jsyk

If they get married, who proposes? (Bonus: How)

They proposed at the same time, with the help from their critter friends who are done with their hopelessness.

From the previous ask, I did mention these two having an intense rivalry since childhood and keeps trying to one-up each other. Cue to the time before they propose, they still try to one up each other. With that many attempts, so many failed attempts of them proposing each other, much to their dismay.

Until one day. These two were having a casual fly over (totally not planning of how to propose). They were heading for their favorite spot. Feeling the breeze as they fly there, they think to themselves, "Maybe this is it. Maybe today's the day." They reached their spot and each telling the other, they need to fetch something. You see, their favorite spot are surrounded by wildflowers. So, they figure they'll pick their partner's favorite flowers and hide another gift in the bouquet. They asked their critter friends to subtly place these flowers at a specific spot. Which little did they know, their small friends are tired of these two having to dance around and one-upping each other. So, they collectively worked together and make it a surprise for these two.

Evening comes, stars starts to appear and they've returned from their slight detour. To their absolute surprise (and embarrassment), this beautiful landscape of freshly-picked flowers, delicately placed by their critter friends. In the midst of this landscape, a spot was reserved, weirdly enough for these two to lie down and gaze at the stars. So, they did and it was quiet. A comfortable silence as they lay down next to each other, not a thought of wanting to challenge who can make the most unforgettable proposal. Just the warmth of their body, snuggling close and whispering about anything and nothing. As they were chatting, they each felt a weight and looks at their empty hand, a small box. They forgot about it. Instead of making a grand gesture, they turn towards each other and opens the box they've bought. In these two boxes, each containing a long gold chain respectively, one have a ruby gem and the other have an emerald gem. They whisper their vows in this perfect evening. A silent sigh of finality from their critter friends that these two are done one-upping each other (or so they hope)

[littlemaggpie]

DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN ON DA I REQUESTED YOU TO MAKE FUCKING . BRANDON AND GUMDROP IN A SPECIFIC POSE IN A PAINTING AND YOU JUST PHOTOSHOPPED THEM AND DIDNT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY

I REMEMBER BEING SO DISSAPOINTED I FAVED RANDOM ART SO I CAN DROWN IT

YES I DO... On my behalf I was just very confused on whether you meant it as a joke or an actual request. So oopsie daisies.

[kalunfinch]

I really worry about people my age and younger than me with all these posts about how acknowledging the humanity of horrible people in media makes the creators bad writers and bad people. The most ludacris example I've seen is someone claiming that ATLAs anti-colonialism message falls flat because UNCLE IROH is an easy character to root for.

I'm not saying that all the people who start discourse like this are young. Personally, I just HOPE they're young and speaking from inexperience about life in general.

Like there's this guy at work I was talking to about two years younger than me and we were complaining about an old coworker glad she was gone type shit. He said something like "she's wayy too concerned with badmouthing minors and getting in their business" and I was like. "What? What does that mean?"

Apparently what he meant was that he was too involved in HIS business making snide comments, overcorrecting his work and all that. Like... Josh honey. The fact that she called you fat isn't bad because you're not 18 yet. It's just BAD. Tbh, I had no idea that people actually spoke this way. I had seen memes and assumed it was a gross exaggeration like the fucking "did you just assume my gender?" thing from when I was a kid.

I'm getting off topic.

My point is: you have to acknowledge the humanity of horrible people. The people that hurt you aren't playing some sick game of chess like a fucking batman villain trying to find the best way to hurt you. They live day by day just like anyone else.

It's HARD to acknowledge the humanity of people that have hurt you or even just horrible people that you just know ABOUT. Like insert any politician that's trying to remove a groups rights.

But that's exactly why you have to do it. If you can't recognize that, you're going to get yourself into some awful situations with bad friends and abusive relationships. It will take you FOREVER to realize that the way you're being treated isn't okay because their actions don't match this master manipulator idea you have about abuse.

All we are is what we do. You ARE all fhe awful things you do. Actions speak louder than words.

The picture in my head of who my mom is doesn't match her actions. In my mind, she was the only person that had my back and she protected me from other people that would hurt me worse. That's what took me so long to accept that my relationship with my mother wasn't okay.

It took cutting off my father to realize how bad my relationship with my mother was. She wasn't the "only one protecting me from him". In fact, she was very similar to my father. The actions she took against me have hurt and scarred me much worse than anything my father ever did.

My mother still sees herself as that person I thought she was. Most likely, she will continue to until the day she dies.

And for gods fucking sake can we stop with the anti-redemption bullshit. Uncle Iroh wasn't even a colonist during ANY of the events of avatar the last airbender. People can CHANGE. They can grow. Really, I hope the people I've left behind throughout my life DO grow and change. That doesn't mean I have to be a part of that change. And yeah, it'll hurt sometimes to see people who've hurt you do better. There is a thirteen year gap between me and when my mother had new kids.

A part of me hurts knowing she'll do better for them than she ever did for me.

People are allowed to improve themselves. You don't owe them anything tho. You don't have to resume communications, you don't have to be a part of their growth. Hell, you don't even have to forgive them.

Just please. Please give people the room to grow and change.

God I'm so tired.

[simone-garnett]

fanfic title: stay (josiepea)

reincarnation au.

It was Sweet Pea’s fault damn it, of course he had to piss off the witch walking down the down trodden path. Does it matter that he had a wife waiting at home, or that there was a storm brewing, or that the king’s men hunting him down for a crime he didn’t commit, or that he didn’t see her in front of him, too focussed on not being followed.

No, not really, the witch’s anger easily ignited and burns fervently. And maybe if he apologised more sincerely, if he seemed embarrassed for it, maybe he could have avoided this. But that isn’t how it goes down and she curses him, condemns him to live a life where he’s denied his love. Because if she’s so important that he doesn’t focus on the poor and lonely before him, than that’s exactly what she’ll take away.

He doesn’t pay attention to the curse, not really, barely remembering the words, the fact he would only ever have a day,, that true love’s kiss isn’t a saviour but a poison. He doesn’t know what she means until he gets home, a quick kiss pressed against Josie’s lips as he tells her the tale that happened on his way to her. She seems more worried, lips pursed and frown lines on her forehead.

It doesn’t make sense until, less than twenty four hours later the king’s guard finds him, not giving him the chance of a trial, sword through his stomach as he is left to die alone. (Josie finds out shortly after, whispers going through the town, of Sweet Pea’s head on a spike at the castle.)

(rest is under the cut bc this got looooong)

Sweet Pea shouldn’t be attracted to the speakeasy’s newest singer, especially when he knows the boss has designs on her, Reggie all but claiming the girl.

He can’t complain, she is smoking, dolled up in her glitter and short sequined dress. And she seems smitten just as much with Reggie. But then she catches his eye and it is as if everything changes and the world fades away. He had never understood Fangs’ romantic notions of finding a partner and falling madly in love - but with Josie, it makes perfect sense.

But she doesn’t seem interested, not in public. But when she catches his eye, there is a fire in them that he can only believe was burning for him. He falls in love with barely a sentence exchanged between them.

They do eventually talk, Josie walking to her hotel room, crossing a road. Being involved with the mob - even if it is only performing at one of their more… legitimate business ventures is sure to mean she makes enemies, though she isn’t expecting them to try and hit her with their car. But she is pulled away from the danger and into an alley, Josie catching her breath before going to thank her saviour. And it’s Alan “Sweet Pea” Mayberry. He’s just standing there, crowding her into the wall, chest heaving in exertion, eyes black. And god, she tried to fight this, she really did.

And they kiss, the experience not pleasant, not when a migraine strikes immediately, both doubling over. And they both get flashbacks of a past they lived. “Josie?” And it’s her name, but he is asking so much more in that question. She nods quickly, arms flung back around his neck as she throws herself at him, the pair losing themselves in their reunion. “I like this dress a lot more than some of the other outfits I’ve found you in,” his fingers high on her thighs, dipping underneath the material.

She rolls her eyes at him, hiding her proud grin against his neck, teeth dragged over what she knew was very sensitive skin. And they forget everyone else, forget who they are and who they worked for, a craving for the other almost overwhelming. He takes her to his room and she follows easily.

Sweet Pea doesn’t realise that they were seen, not until the next day, Josie still in his bathroom prepping for the next day. He’s still lying on his bed when Reggie waltzes in, gun focussed on Sweet Pea. He calls out Josie’s name confidently, the woman coming out shyly, Sweet Pea locking eyes with her just as Reggie pulls the trigger, the last thing Sweet Pea remembering seeing is Josie on her knees screaming.

He is a gladiator, a slave to his owner, forced to fight for entertainment, a mere tool of profit to the snake who claimed to own him. Herculaneum wasn’t the greatest place to battle, but he had to develop a reputation for being ruthless, for being brutal. And he couldn’t do that in Rome, where there were many gladiators fighting for their life. Here in the South he could cultivate a following that would, hopefully, follow him to the city.

Sweet Pea is trained to be ruthless, to not have a heart. All his training disappears when a slave-girl walks into his room, cloth and water in her hands. She is silent as she treats his wounds from his fight hours earlier. And she returns after the next fight, humming softly to herself. Her first word is an apology as he hisses in pain. The third time he takes her hand and asks for her name, she tells it to him. Josie. He repeats it, runs it over his tongue. He likes it. Over the weeks they exchange stories, her of her home land in a place even more south, Sweet Pea of a place further east. And it is easy to fall in love with her, Josie with her lovely voice and sweet smile.

It changes after one battle, particularly fierce, Sweet Pea returning with multiple wounds and a busted lip. It horrifies her, Josie almost dropping the basin as she gasps at the sight of him. He is silent this time, and she’s scared to ask why. And before she can leave he whispers her name, catches her chin in his hand. She moves easily as he guides her face to his, Sweet Pea kissing her, drinking her in.

And then it happens, the pain in his head, the memories of past lives coming back, of his wife. Of Josie.

There is recognition in her eyes, Josie pulling him into a hug, blood staining her clothing as she soaks in the moment, in his presence. It takes a long time for her to separate and when she does Sweet Pea misses her touch.

“But this doesn’t make sense, Ancient Rome was ages before the nineteenth century, how are we here now?” Sweet Pea just shakes his head, logic not important, not when he had his wife in his arms, warm and happy and remembering him.

“Doesn’t matter babe, all that matters is that we have each other, and that we’ll escape this damn place, we’ll escape and live a life together.” She nods, tells him that they will the moment he is recovered, tells him that she loves him.

They should have paid more dates, to the location. Maybe then they would have run more quickly, escaped the volcanic eruption that would wipe them all out that evening. It was foolish to think it was the same as all the earthquakes that had struck the region in the years previous.

The ash gets caught in their throat, thick and burning and it is an awful way to die. Trapped and alone, their last thought being of each other.

Josie had wanted to be a singer, but when the war started she needed to help people. Her mother is disappointed, but it is the right thing to do, travel overseas to serve as a nurse.

She meets and treats many soldiers, but none of them strike her as much as S. Pea. He is in a critical condition and she hears the whispers, unlikely to survive. But she can’t give up on him, not when the others have. So she treats him, and, when his heart stops she gives him mouth-to-mouth.

And while she wants to regret the decision, Pea groaning in pain, she can’t. Not now she knows he’s alive and not when she regains her memories of him, of them. And when her shift ends, she returns to him.

She stays by his side that night, fingers interlaced. “Seriously Sweet Pea, why do you think this is happening?” She turns a sharp look at him, “and why did you have to go and piss off that witch in the first place.”

“I dunno Jos, all I know is that whenever we kiss I remember everything and the next day one of us is dead.”

Her heart goes into her throat, “do you think that mouth-to-mouth is enough to trigger the death?” There is a tremble and his face softens, resignation settling.

“If it was enough to trigger our memories than yeah, probably.” It is enough to trigger tears, Josie kissing his knuckles, unwilling to fall asleep. But she does, too exhausted to fight it any longer. And when she awakes,

he’s gone.

They don’t think it’ll ever end, lifetime after lifetime of finding each other and then immediately losing each other, and all they ever really want to do is have one, just one where they can stay together. 

They grasp their opportunities with both hands, tumble into bed with each other even if means having an affair, if it means sleeping with the enemy. Because they know that first kiss signifies death, and if they are going to die they are going to drink in every moment that they have together, every last second.

They go through 100 different lives, 100 different times of falling in love, 100 different memories of dying.

The 101st is when Josie McCoy is introduced to Toni’s best friend Sweet Pea, another kid from the Southside, another Serpent. He’s cute and tall and she wants him, only for a summer fling, only as a temporary distraction. Others she hadn’t really contemplated but him… there is something different about him. And he can’t keep his eyes off of her.

So when she propositions him, he readily accepts, gaze already devouring her. She feels naked and exposed, which is ridiculous because she’s fully dressed, but his eyes are dark and her skin is burning and when he goes to kiss her she ducks out of the way. “Uh uh uh,” she tuts, not until summer starts.

He mostly succeeds, Sweet Pea finding her that Friday morning before class, and he spins her around, her breath hitching. But she sees it is him, sees the way he is looking at her and it is Josie which crosses the distance. The pain she gets used to, but the memories, the feeling of love that strikes her, their past, that she’ll never get used to.

“Josie,” he sighs, and they kiss properly, melting into the kiss. And he finds her earlobe. “Wife.” It is growled into her ear and she shivers at the sound, at the feeling of his lips brushing against her skin. He pulls away, proud at the effect he had.

“Damn it Sweet Pea,” and he whines, unsure why she punched him in the arm. “We have a day now.” And the rest of their curse comes back to haunt him, his face falling.

“Well, let’s make the most of it.”

“Yeah,” she agrees. “After school.” He pouts and grumbles, but she stays firm in the decision, promising him that after 3 she was all his. And she keeps her word, Sweet Pea taking her to the trailer, his dad dead and mother working hard to support them, barely at home. He strips off her clothes and it is strange; he knows her so intimately already, knows her like he knows himself, but he feels like a teenage boy, feels like it is his first time all over again. And shaking hands trace her curves, an unholy mouth skims every inch of her skin. But he finds his confidence in her, in her moans of encouragement, in the way she tells him she loves him, always loved him, in every life time, every time she saw him, always him, only ever him. They spend hours together, Josie drinking in every piece of information she could, fingers and lips skimming his scars, Sweet Pea asking for just one more song. They don’t mention the fact they are going to die, that this is their last moments together. They just are. It is a struggle around 3AM to remain awake, the pair exchanging ‘I love you’ before sleep wins the war.

Josie wakes up the next morning, warm and comfortable and alive. She sits up at that, the clock reading 11AM. She wants to jump up in joy, wants to scream. Because she’s alive, their alive and it’s been over 24 hours since the first kiss. And they are alive.

She stills at that, Josie quickly turning to the boy next to her, the rise and fall of his chest confirming that yes, he is still alive. She wakes him with a kiss, peppers them over his face, grinning like a fool when he eventually awakens. And the realisation takes a little longer to dawn on him, Sweet Pea slowly waking up to the fact.

Josie shrieks as he moves, pinning her underneath him, and they smile at each other, Sweet Pea teasing her with gentle kisses, laughing against her mouth as she huffs and lifts her head up, a more firm kiss.

It is agonising to break the kiss, to pull away from his embrace and bed. But her insecurities and fears come rushing back, Josie McCoy the teenager, warring with all the Josie’s in her head.

“Wait,” and his hand is around her wrist, tugging her back into him. His smile is soft and his eyes are scared. “Stay.”

And she can,

she does.

[saintobio]

[visibly shaking and crying] hey, Satoru redemption arc antis, [sniff] y-y-y-you, you got what you wanted [sniff] toji fuckers [sniff] it’s our time [sniff] i-i-it’s our time t-to shine [cries harder]

—that is the first and last time I type shit like that, anyways, i took a break from slandering Satoru and instead now i found a new hobby of defending homeboy now for fixing his wrong doings. I say i don’t believe in second chances but in reality i give everyone irl second, third, even eighth chances. As i see it is that fuck a second chance because if you do give someone a second chance it meant that they fucked what would have been their only chance (idk if that makes sense), however second chances, imo, are only valid if they do show that they learned and grew from their previous shit and now i’m rambling. WHAT IM SAYING IS THAT SATORU DEFINITELY IS VALID FOR A REDEMPTION ARC BUT I LIKE DRAMA AND THROUGHLY ENJOYED THE ENDING WAYY TO MUCH

–This is how i imagine Satoru walking back into his apartment after all of THAT

Disclaimer: i could have edited that better but rn isn’t the time

ALRIGHT WHAT IVE BEEN WAITING TO SAY AND I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH, LEMME HEAR YALL SAY IT: 📢FUCK🔊//📢THEM🔊//📢KIDS🔊

part of me was so happy that Sera was negative and Ieiri was so quick to put her in her place [deservingly] because god damn for claiming that MC is selfish and entitled, that’s so hilarious to hear her say that, considering her track history of entitlement, egotistical and narcissistic tendencies, shits hilarious.

Bitches and Bros, and Non Binary hoes, [respectfully] Naoya

On god, fuck Naoya, I don’t, what crawled up his ass and died along with any sense of kindness is beyond me and what i would like to know why does this sense of evil manipulative genius kinda hot? IM SORRY BUT IM LIVING FOR THE DRAMA. As much as i enjoy the idea of fucking shit up on the expense of Sera getting used, now that it’s put into practice, i really do feel bad for her, like damn Sera thought she did something while MC just was so done with her shit and just ENDED her existence with one sentence ONCE AGAIN IM LIVING FOR THIS,

I COULDNT FIT A MEME OF HOW I FEEL ABOUT TOJI BOUT TO MAKE A MOVE HOWEVER IM INTERNALLY SCREAMING BECAUSE HOMIE ALMOST SLIDE INTO THIS HEART AND BETWEEN THEM LEGS TOO IF HE REALLY WANTED TO- THE SEEN IS LIVING IN MY HEAD RENT FREE I CANNOT

I hope you’re doing well and you take care! Please take your time and don’t rush yourself with any future chapters, you deserve to put yourself and your health first rather than this, this ask is already way too long, but to sum all of this up:

Saint, respectfully and platonically, hand in marriage pls <3

YULI OMG THE GIF IM LAUGHING SO HARDJFJS AND UR GOD TIER MEMES AS ALWAYS 😭😭😭 help ur intro to this ask too i rly enjoyed reading through this, thank u <333

[foenixs]

Idk woozi is? Can you show me?

ya'll really just saw my last post and went: bet xD

but because I can't resist the urge to share my love for Woozi, this is one of the most talented people out there:

he can sing, he can dance

he's a songwriter, composer and producer (and has a track record of over 100 song at the mere age of 24)

he can play multiple instruments

and on top of all that he is the most attractively cute person ever

in conclusion: we stan a short king

that has big meme potential

this took wayy too long to edit but i needed to find the perfect pics xD

[phanchester]

10, 20, 36

10. game you were best at in p.e.?

bold of you to assume i am good at any sport in p.e. hahaha killmenow. i remember in year 3 i balanced on one leg for the longest?? thats not even a sport?? look, the thing is, i like team sport im just really bad at all of them. but my favourites are hockey and basketball so i guess those are the ones i am the best at?? im actually shit at all of them but you know

20. preferred place to write (i.e., in a note book, on your laptop, sketchpad, post-it notes, etc.)?

in class i like recording things on my computer as i can type relatively quickly so i can get it done quickly. i also find it easier to multitask when typing. but i actually like physically writing in notebooks. i absolutely love notebooks and i have way too many for a normal human but right now the ones i use the most is one i got from typo and it has an atlas and a book labeled “procrastinotes” where i put my homework. honestly, if i was a youtuber i would do like a montly notebook haul i have wayy too many.

36. what is the first meme you remember ever seeing?

oof, i have no idea. i remember in year 2 someone put memes around the school so maybe then?? idk.

however, here are the first memes my friends and i sent to each other.

yes, a mushu meme. the height of my meme career

the fact that the caption was “LOL ALERT” really is the cherry on top to this meme…

oof still applies today

thank you @panlesters for the questions again! i really enjoyed answering them and i hope you have a good day! sorry it took so long to answer - i think this is from earlier but i only just saw it now sksks sorry

weird asks that say a lot

[whyldkratts]

for the ask meme: all of them, but if thats too much maybe just the last 10?

Sorry for the long post aaaa1: Let’s start with a tricky one; what is the real reason you are confused right now? [I bought lottery tickets bc I was in texas and they’re not legal where I live and the cashier at the gas station didn’t even ask for my id. I tried to show him and he just shook his head and let me go???? He didnt even care wtf]2: Do you ever get “good morning” texts from anyone? [Nah]3: If your significant other smoked pot, would you care? [Yea a little bit. I mean if it was just occasionally that’s probably fine? But a lot of my family has fucked up their entire lives with drugs so anything like that is iffy for me. It depends on how often they smoke ultimately]4: Do you find it easy to trust others? [I’d say yeah, probably. As long as you don’t fuck me over or guilt me within the first few weeks of knowing me id probably feel comfortable messaging you if I needed someone to talk to]5: What were you doing at 11PM last night? [Scrolling Tumblr]6: You’re drunk and lost walking down the road; who is with you? [Probably my irl bffs lindy and raven!]7: What would you do if you found out you had been cheated on? [Dump them. Adios fucker. I hope they’re happy with whoever they cheated on me with]8: Are you close with your dad? [Yeah I’d say so? I love him and he usually let’s me do my thing]9: I bet you kissed someone last night, right? [Nah]10: What are you listening to? [Run by hozier]11: You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life - what is it? [Sweet tea!!!! I’m from the south baby]12: Do you like hickeys? [Never has one so I don’t know!]13: What time do you go to bed? [Uhhhhhh 5am?]14: Is there someone who continuously lets you down? [My siblings.]15: Can you text as quickly with one hand as you do both? [Nope I fuck up spelling a lot and have to go back and fix it no matter how many hands I’m typing with]16: Do you always answer your texts? [I try!! Unless I’m emotionally tired or forget]17: Do you hate the person you fell the hardest for? [No. She’s my best friend now, actually]18: When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends? [LIKE 3 MINUTES AGO I was complaining about how long it car ride home is]19: Is there someone that makes you happy every time you see them? [My irlbest friends, the cars discord chat I’m in, and a lot of my wk friends]20: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night? [I was writing ducktales fanfiction in my head]21: Is anyone else in the room with you? [I’m in a car with my mom for the next uhhh 7 hours?]22: Do you believe what goes around comes around? [Karmas a bitch]23: Were you happier four months ago than you are now? [I was visiting family in Indiana, so yea probably? Tho I am pretty happy now too]24: Is there someone you wish you could fix things with? [Sometimes, with my old pal cat. She did some bad things so I stopped talking to her, but sometimes I want to catch up and see how she’s doing.]25: In the past week, have you cried? [YEAH over a darkwing duck episode]26: What colour is the shirt you are wearing? [Grey. It has Mickey mouse on it!]27: Do people ever call you by your last name? [Noooope]28: Is anyone ignoring you right now? [I wouldn’t know]29: Do you have a best friend? [YEAH everyone in the cars discord and raven and lindy]30: Would it be hard seeing someone else kiss the last person you kissed? [No it was my great grandma lol]31: Who was your last call/text message from? [Call: red cross asking for my blood. Text: raven saying “dang”]32: Are you mad at anyone? [Not really? I don’t get angry very easily at all]33: Have you ever kissed someone older than you? [When I was a freshman I was dating a junior]34: How old will the last person you kissed be on his/her next birthday? [My great grandma! 88 I think]35: How many more days until your birthday? [LIKE a whole entire year. August 2nd]36: Do you have any summer plans yet? [Help my friend after her spine surgery p much. Visit family around the 4th of july]37: Do you have any good friends of the opposite sex? [I have tons of girl friends!! All my best friends are girls (except em but they’re a good friend still!!!)]38: Are you keeping anything from your best friend(s) now? [Lindy doesn’t know I’m trans]39: Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone? [Uhhhhhhhhhhh next question]40: Have you ever regretted kissing someone? [I try not to regret things like that]41: Do you think age matters in relationships? [UH YEAH?? An adult dating a minor ain’t my deallll]42: Are you available? [Lmfao yeah but don’t hold your breath I’m awful at relationships]43: How many people have you had real, strong feelings for since high school ended? [My ex and bff dksdkdiajsai kill Me. I’ve had small crushes but I don’t rly let them grow too much if I realize they’re poppin up]44: If you had to get a piercing (not ears), what would you get? [Septum]45: Do you believe exes can be friends? [Yeah!!!!! I just reconnected with my ex from freshmen year and he’s cool]46: Do you regret anything? [Times where my mouth moved before my head could think and I hurt someone I cared about. Times where I didn’t listen. Times where I hesitated. But the past is a different country, and I try not to waste the present lamenting what I could’ve done.]47: Honestly, what’s on your mind right now? [Home. And the mistakes I’ve made.]48: Did you ever lose a best friend? [Yeah. She moved away and we just… talked less, and less, and less.]49: Was your last kiss a mistake? [Nah it was my great grandma]50: Why aren’t you pursuing the person you like? [They have a bf and also dont like me plus im unlovable and bad at relationships and feelings *shrug emoji* the other person I’m interested in lives too far away and also doesn’t like me like that]51: Has the last person you kissed ever seen you cry? [Twas my gg and probably when I was a baby]52: Do you still talk with the person you LAST kissed? [All these last kiss ones are so angsty and sad and it was literally my grandma 5 hours ago I’m laughing]53: What was the last thing you ate? [McDonald’s French fries!!!!!]54: Did you get any compliments today? [Nah I’m in my road trip attire so I look like a mess]55: Where are you going on your next vacation? [New Orleans in October for voodoo fest!! Gonna see the foo fighters B)]56: Do you own anything from other countries?[I think I have Canadian money somewhere…]57: Are most of your friend guys or girls?[girls!!]58: Where have you lived most of your life?[Sweet Home Alabama]59: When was the last time you took a long drive?[DOING IT RN!!!!! 13 HOURS]60: Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?[yea but it was like, mashed up with truth or dare. Instead of kissing we asked them truth or dare]61: Have you ever TPd someone’s house?[nah I’m pretty mild]62: Who do you text the most?[raven probably? Or max]63: What was the last movie you saw?[spirited away I think??? First time I ever saw it]64: What’s preventing your current boyfriend/girlfriend from going back to their ex?[I’m single, don’t remind me :P]65: How many boyfriends/girlfriends did you have in 2011?[I was 12 and right smack dab in the middle of my ugly awkward phase (thays still going on today!) So I had none lmao]66: Is the last person you kissed younger than you?[nah]67: Do you curse around your parents?[GOOD LORD NO]68: Are you happy with where you live?[I? Hate Alabama. My city is okay but I want to move somewhere nicer]69: Picture of yourself? [I have a selfie tag. I would upload but I’m lazy. Maybe if I find a pic I like later I will]70: Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?[polyamory All the wayy!!!!! But monogamy is cool too]71: Have you ever been dumped?[probably in elementary school but I don’t remember? I usually am the one to end it bc I get freaked out and skittish around people genuinely caring about me so I break it up before they’re disappointed]72: What do you most like about making out?[being comfortable and close enough with someone to do it.]73: Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren’t seriously involved with?[yup!]74: When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other?[depends? I’ve asked to kiss someone and I’ve been asked equal amounts.]75: What part of a person’s body do you find most attractive?[eyes? Idk there’s a lot that goes into finding someone attractive it’s hard to narrow it down]76: Who was the last person you talked to last night before you went to bed?[my mom]77: Had sex with someone you knew less than an hour?[virgin]78: Had sex with someone you didn’t know their name?[virgin]79: What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face?[Any cartoon character I’m currently hyperfixated on]80: Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?[yes. But i would go slow and I wouldn’t want to meet their child until we were both sure this was something we wanted long term.]81: Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?[no its usually me? Wait i take that back!! One girl did while I was in hs but I’m pretty sure she only did it bc she just figured out her sexuality and I was queer and there.]82: Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?[nope I bottle that shit up!!!! But if it’s a long standing crush I’ll tell a few people eventually]83: Do you miss your last sweetie?[No.]84: Last time you slow danced with someone?[my friend Franklin at prom. We pretended to be spies on a mission forced to act casual as we scoped out potential enemies]85: Have you ever ‘dated’ someone you’ve never met?[??? Don’t like the skeptical quote marks. I’ve been in long distance relationships before, yes.]86: How can I win your heart?[just like…… be nice to me, ever, and I’m into it. Talk about things you like, ask me about things I like, try and get into/understand my interests and I’ll do the same?? Don’t make fun of me and don’t belittle my interests. The bar is low]87: What is your astrological sign?[leo]88: What were you doing last night at 12 AM?[sleeping]89: Do you cook?[pasta!!!!!!!]90: Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?[yeah!!! 3 years of no talking and I reconnected with max recently]91: If you’re single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?[uh it’s complicated. Yes but idk if I’m in a good place for a relationship. I haven’t even begun to transition at all.]92: Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?[you say that like I could get multiple people to date me]93: What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?[nice dress style?? Glasses are good too. Idk questions like this are hard augh]94: Name four things that you wish you had![money, a job, plush darkwing duck toy, a car]95: Are you a player?[no]96: Have you ever kissed 2 people in one day?[nooooope]97: Are you a tease?[hahahahaha no]98: Ever meet anyone you met on Tumblr?[nope!!! Not yet]99: Have you ever been deeply in love with someone?[maybe. But I don’t think you can love someone too deeply who doesn’t love you back]100: Anybody on Tumblr that you’d go on a date with?[sure, plenty]101: Hugs or Kisses?[both??? Both is good]102: Are you too shy to ask someone out?[It’s Not shyness, it’s rejection I have a problem with]103: The first thing you notice about the opposite sex?[girls are pretty]104: Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you babe?[Yeah I guess]105: If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew he/she was in relationship, would you go for it?[If it was an open relationship and everyone knew the situation, then yea prob?? If not, then no.]106: Do you flirt a lot?[not really]107: Your last kiss?[my grandmaaaaa]108: Have you kissed more than 5 people since the start of 2012?[not in a romantic way]109: Have you kissed anyone in the past month?[not in a romantic way]110: If you could kiss anyone who would it be?[next question]111: Do you know who you’ll kiss next?[nope!! It’s a hopefully nice surprise for future me]112: Does someone like you currently?[probably not lol but ive got no idea!!]113: Do you currently have feelings for anyone?[sure]114: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?[I want to fall in love.]115: Ever made out with just a friend?[yeah]116: Are you happier single or in a relationship?[in a relationship I think?]117: Your own question that you want me to answer. Just write it.[just send me an ask and ill answer it]

This got a bit of self hatred dashed in there whoops sorry!!!

[dutiifully]

✂

the salty af munday meme: Accepting

✂ A fandom that you feel isn’t open and accepting?

Hmmm honestly pretty much all the fandoms I run in have been decent & accepting (Then again I have very few fandoms in particular & most of them are either old & dead or obscure video games) but if I had to choose one I’d say it would have to be the Sailor Moon fandom, at least during the years I was away on Minako & on another muse.

It was never really THAT bad & it’s especially great now cause we have a terrific mod who runs the fandom discord & helps to make everyone feel welcome & set people at ease (shoutout to the official fandom MOM @kinmokian!) butt yeah seeing as how I’m probably one of the longest time members of the SM fandom (been RPing here on Mina since 2011) boi let me tell ya I have seen some SHIT! During the early days of the fandom it was nice & peaceful & probably the friendliest & most open fandom I had ever seen! (back in the days when the SMRP group ruled all) but from around I’d say… 2014-2015 that’s when all of tumblr RP began to shift really & with it went along our little fandom as well. Suddenly everyone was getting all up in the discourse regarding fancy graphics/formatting/themes & selective vs non-selective. Cliques started up & a lot of people took issue with that & the fandom was targeted a lot. In this case I honestly don’t even blame the fandom for being so closed off during this time period tbh cause man if you would’ve seen the shit that had gone down… There was drama on the dash & callouts & vauging nearly every other day I think that would make pretty much the whole of any fandom skittish & slow to warm up to newcomers!

To be perfectly honest, I personally don’t really see the problem with cliques?? Like EVERYONE new has to pay their dues when it comes to tightly established groups it’s like that in real life too. I find that as long as you’re not a jerk & put yourself out there people will eventually warm up to you & slowly but surely you’ll be let in or find your own little group, usually the ones that tend to whine & complain straight off the bat about ‘unaccepting & cliquish fandoms’ are ones that don’t even try & expect everything handed to them as soon as they enter a community & I’m sorry but that’s not how it works?? Like at all??

Though I will admit there IS one very problematic aspect when it comes to cliques & that’s when it comes to callout culture & feuds. Tbh this is related to tumblr’s mob mentality & sheep-like culture as a whole but man is it REALLY bad here on the RP side of things! Basically what happens is if you’re in a clique & a really tight & popular insider happens to get into a feud with someone outside the clique & then calls you out and/or vagues about you on their blog… Then you’re pretty much finished, all the other clique members will now step in line, refuse to think for themselves & get BOTH sides of the story & will automatically unfollow & block en masse. The the ones who you thought you were on pretty good terms with before the shitstorm occurred? Sorry, you’re now dead to them too & they won’t even bother hearing out your side because insider members always come first, objectivity & fairness has no place when it comes to the power of seniority & clique connections.

Now granted SOMETIMES this is justified, especially when ppl bring the receipts & there’s valid proof something particularly nefarious was going on with the individual being shunned (such as stealing, force shipping, being a hate anon sender, being a perverted creep, bigotry, etc) its why I put in my rules that I’m neutral when it comes to callout culture discourse. However I find that most times shit gets way, wayy blown out of proportion due to most of tumblr’s user base having poor communication skills & everyone expecting everyone else to be able to read their minds & the witch hunt & perpetual high-school like shunning & shaming of individuals who happen to be on the wrong ‘side’ of the feud is completely uncalled for & just ridiculous! And the fact that this shit could even follow you & your rep around in the comm for years? All over what might have just been a simple misunderstand & mistake that took place ONLY between two individuals yet somehow now anyone who’s anyone now has your name on their blacklist? Yeajhhhh that’s when I think callout culture & the tightness of cliques goes way wayy too far & I’m honestly just  t  i  r  e d!

TD;LR: Sailor Moon fandom used to not be so open to newcomers years ago, most of those reasons were justified, now it’s great! Usually cliques are fine & the complainers are just butthurt whiners but when witch hunts, personal feuds & callout culture gets brought into the mix of clique dynamics that’s when things can start to get problematic regarding them.

Basically I’m neutral, like I am on most things regarding Tumblr RP culture lol.

[i-amusemyself]

All categories. Every question.

Bloody hell!! 😂 Who on earth wants to know so much about me?? This could either be great or terrible! Thanks!Quick facts:1. Age: 182. Gender: Non binary i guess3. Sexual orientation: bi/pansexual but its complicated4. Zodiac sign: libra5. Best friend: @only-slightly-dangerous6. Height: 5'11" last time I checked7. Favourite colour: black.8. Hobbies: sleeping, self loathing and memes. In that order.9. Shoe size: 710. Eye colour: brownHave I... (this is gonna be a short section)1. Had sex? Nope2. Kissed someone in the rain? Nope3. Had a job? Yup! 3. I now have none smh4. Smoked weed? Nope5. Done drugs? Nope6. Drank alcohol? Yuup7. Broken a bone? Yuup, a couple8. Self harmed? Yh :/9. Caught sneaking out? Lmao nope10. Been in love? Doubt it, but I've loved very strongly.This or that1. Good morning or good night texts? Good night texts are cute as hell but they make me kinda sad so I'll say good morning texts.2. Sweet or salty? Sweet3. Chocolate or vanilla? Chocolate4. Fancy dates or casual dates? Casual dates all the way!!5. Airplane or drive? Drive6. Mountains or beach? ...mountains are cold but beaches have sand sooo? Both and also neither.7. Baths or showers? Baths! I miss baths!!8. Blonds or brunetts? Brunetts. I don't have *that* much of a type, but I never seem to go for blonds.9. TV or music? I love them both? ...ill say music.10. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? Mean girls. No question about it.Last...1. Person you kissed: idfk i havent kissed anyone, family or otherwise, in ages2. Text you sent: "you on your wayy??"3. Person you texted: my friend rowan4. Show you watched: doctor who5. Time you cried: a week ago ish?6. Song you listened to: always something by cage the elephant7. Shoes you wore: some black converse8. Thing you ate: chocolate 😄9. Thing you bought: does a bus ticket count?10. Time you took a selfie: this morning,, but we're talking unflattering via snapchatDo you...1. Tan easy? I dont go outside enough to know 😂2. Regret anything? There are a lot of things I wish never happened, but they kinda made me who I am sooo...I'd say most things I regret are things I've said and things I haven't.3. Want to get back with your last ex? I think its easier as friends, in the best way possible.4. Have trust issues? Hoo boiiiii yeah.5. Like chinese food? It's a fave!6. Believe in love at first sight? Nah, attraction at first sight though.7. Sleep with your door open or closed? Its open just a tiny tiny bit so I don't make noise if I leave my room but I still feel safe8. Type fast? I'd say so yeah9. Have pets? Yup!! 2 bunnies that I love sooo much and a crackers cocker spaniel called borris!!10. Smile at strangers? Yeah! I mean, im awkward af but if i catch their eye then sure, you never know who might need itSex and romance? (This sections gonna be even shorter)1. Relationship status: single as usual2. Are you a virgin? Yeah 3. Ever cheated? Been cheated on? I could never cheat, I've seen what it does to people and it makes me so so mad. And nah, thankfully.4. How many people have you slept with? See 2.5. Given oral sex? Recieved it? Nah6. Hot make up sex or slow romantic sex? ...would need experience to decide 7. Worst sex you've had: see 28. Best sex you've had: see 29. Ever had sex with more than one person at a time? See 210. Rate yourself as a lover on a scale of 1-10? 1.Someone you...1. Miss: ummm... no one majorly. I guess theres someone i like id love to see2. Love: my best friend3. Trust: i trust like 2 people in this world- see one and two.4. Live with: my mum5. Have kissed: my ex i guess6. Have slept with: no one7. Hate: besides trump, theres a couple of people that have fucked me over that still make my blood boil.8. Idolize: Kaitlyn Alexander 😶9. Need: idk, friends in general. 10. Have known for years: girl at my sixth form called ella; ive known her since before i could talk.Miscalleneous1. What did the last text you sent say? "AAAAAAAAA" ~ I got sent a cat video.2. Have you ever done a prank call? Probably when I was like 8 but nothing very successful!3. If you're drunk and can't stand, who's taking care of you? I wish I knew 😂 4. How long does it take you to get ready in a morning? An hour and a half, at least. That's excluding time for picking clothes and doing makeup etc.5. Behind the camera or infront of it? Behind6. Last book you read? The Five People You Meet in Heaven, but it was last summer!7. How can someone win your heart? Be so authentically yourself that I can be me too. And be honest.8. Did you lose your virginity before 18? Nah9. Do you like your handwriting? When I'm not rushing, sure10. Do you play any musical instruments? I'm grade 8 at the kazoo11. Where do you want to live when you're older? I kinda want to move to canada or denmark! So long as I'm living with some I love its all good!12. What's something you like about yourself?.......bloody hell....erm......I guess I like that I always try. I don't really know how I do it, but I'll always find that extra bit of energy if needed.13. Whats something that drives you crazy about yourself? Just like who I am as a person 😂😂😂 nah, erm, I hate it when I can't communicate what I'm thinking irl (im okay if I'm typing). Things tend to come out wonky and in the wrong tone or meaning the wrong thing and I just beat myself up over it for the rest of the week.14. Closest friend on tumblr? @only-slightly-dangerous what a surprise!15. Do you think you'll be in a relationship 2 months from now? I should be so lucky 😂16. Do you like when people play with your hair? Yaaaas17. Top 5 songs right now? Bloody hell, erm, right at this second? In no particular order: -Rats- Motionless in White-just basically the entire new miw album (as esp the eternally yours video 👀)-The Night We Met, piano version, on repeat.-No Rest For the Wicked by Cage the Elephant-Corpse Roads by Keaton Henson18. Spell your name with your chin: ywtkur. Wow.19. Trip to the bottom of the ocean or outer space? *banging fists on table* outer space!!!!! Yaaaaas!!

[sonofsuperman-archive]

jolian for the ship meme ???

♡ Send me a ship and I’ll tell you (aka the ‘Watch me sail this ship across the Pacific blindfolded’ challenge) || Accepting ( x )

Who accidentally pushes a door instead of pulling/vice versa?Lian. She’s probably not paying attention when it happens. Jon’s more aware whenever they are near a door since he’s used to opening them for anyone nearby (elderly, kids, women, disabled, etc.)

Who doodles little hearts all over the desk with their initials inside them? Jon but he’s only done that once before. During that time, he’s been switching up their initials trying to see whose last name would fit better with the other and if they would hyphen their names someday. The last name has to be the man’s?? What??? PFTT…

Who starts the tickle fights? Jon!! He’d sneak behind her and just tickle her whenever she’s feeling down and needs his affection and attention to forget what was bothering her.

Who starts the pillow fights?Lian! She throws pillows at him ALL the time. Whenever he says something corny or idiotic, she’d throw a pillow at him. Whenever he just smiles at her and has that in love look in his eyes, she’d blush and throw a pillow at him to stop him from staring.

Who falls asleep last, watching the other with a small affectionate smile?Depends. It’s mostly Lian since Jon sleeps early (too early even, she says) but there are times that Damian steals him to patrol and leave his precious sleep. Sometimes when he comes back and feels too hyper to sleep or if the suns about to rise, Jon would just waste the minutes staring at her or move their positions in the bed with her as his little spoon.

Who mistakes salt for sugar?None. Jon has salt in a cute salt and pepper duo container while the sugar is in this larger container, so unless they exchanged it for a day (which they wouldn’t), then no one would make that mistake.

Who lets the microwave play the loud beeping sound at 1am in the morning?Both. Jon probably microwaving popcorn to watch a horror movie at 1am in the morning, while Lian’s probably having her dinner or midnight snack at that time.

Who comes up with cheesy pick up lines?Lian. She’s used them all on Jon and Jon’s reactions range from exasperated ( so done with you ) to laughing wayy too loud.

Who rearranges the bookshelf in alphabetical order?Jon. Lian forgets to place back the books she got in the order she took them from. Jon’s too used to cleaning after his mom and his messes that he’d rearrange them once she puts a book back.

Who licks the spoon when they’re baking brownies?They both lick the spoon or the batter but Jon’s the one baking brownies, cookies, and other deserts.

Who buys candles for dinners even though there’s no special occasion?None. Jon’s not too fond of candles or anything that can create a fire when they’re living in a place without emergency sprinklers.

Who draws little tattoos on the other with a pen?Lian. She covers his arm with different types of drawings and writings, sometimes even colors them. She’s fond of writing ‘Property of Lian Harper’ on a visible part of his skin when she knows he’s going to be gone for long.

Who comes home with a new souvenir magnet every time they go on vacation?Jon. He loves splurging on souvenir shops and often thinks of her when he’s in another country, so he’s spent lots of his cash buying mini gifts for her.

Who convinces the other to fill out those couple surveys in the back of magazines?Lian. Whenever she’s reading magazines and Jon’s trying to finish one of his college papers, Lian’s often the one to pull him out of his college misery and relax him by taking those surveys.

@licn