#toxic mother-child dynamic where the kid thinks theres a lack of love but the real issue is that the mom never bothered to prove the love.. | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

hyperfixation-or-death · 1 year

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Victor Deslandes & Alice Deslandes

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#disney parallels #parallels #paralleles #disney paralleles #web weaving #ok so i actually made this right after i made that text post. but i've been working up the nerve to post it ever since. so here it is now.#anyways have a web weaving.#they're very interesting. i have a few more thoughts about them but not enough to make a post about.#toxic mother-child dynamic where the kid thinks theres a lack of love but the real issue is that the mom never bothered to prove the love..#like. it's so much easier to believe she never loved him that it is to realize she loved him and just never did anything useful about it?#and then it's like. so much complexity because like. “admit you never loved me” she's never gonna do that!#because their definitions of love are fundamentally different! she thinks she loved him and he thinks she didn't but that's not the point!#the point is that he didn't *feel* loved. that's always been the point.#love that doesn't guide action is never going to be enough and that's where so much angst potential lies!#especially considering the hurt and grieving child and the favoritism and the detachment and the affection and the complexities! angst!!

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