#tuffgirl

[streetsoffairhope]

OK everyone 10U girls all-stars are on fire!! first place again for the second time undefeated!! #thesegirlsareonfire #fairhope #softball #tuffgirl (at Street's Exquisite Plants & Aquatic Gardens Inc.)

[jushamandalorianwoman-blog]

My two primary Mandalorian costumes!

[healthdio-blog]

#fitnessmotivation #fitnesslover #sweetfitness0 #weightlossmotivation #stayfitdontquit #alkatone #alkatonediet #alkatoneketo #goodfitness #lifechoices #fitness #dontgiveup #nevergiveup #keepfighting #tuffgirl #tuffshed #betuff #fitnessmotivations #becool #motivation #howmotivationstarts #discipline #workoutmotivations #fitnessquotes #fitnesslifestyle #alkatoneketoreview #fitmanmattes #sixpack #alkatoneketoprice #alkatoneketodiet https://www.instagram.com/p/B50xtzqHQxi/?igshid=1pqq48cdcex01

[thehollydoll]

When you’re feral af and live that playground thug lyfe ✊🏻 bouta slap a bandaid on it and call her Nelly 🎀 #feralaf #feralchild #zoeyireland #3yearsold #playgroundgangsta #blondie #longhairdontcare #roadrash #tuffgirl #accidentprone #likehermama https://www.instagram.com/p/BtOx89iAzBZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=m7i781wjqyp8

[victoryroadburnout]

#40 for Char pls?

Your character is getting ready for a night out. Where are they going? What do they wear? Who will they be with?

char goes to a shady off-league battle ring in her most tuffgirl outfit with her boys to go get into fights of both the pokemon and bar variety

alternatively, char and mewtwo find a nice quiet spot on the beach at night and hang out/smoke/bangarang (often, all three)

[jerkdouglas]

This is Julie, she’s shaping up to be a totally unlikable Tuffgirl®

Maybe I can teach valuable lessons about basic survival with her.

[omaredmison]

Remember that time my pal got this gangster lettering? She is hard as nails & twice as smart. Damn it feels good to be a #gangsta #omaredmison #allamericantattoo #salemoregon #tatshackshakin #browning #shotgun #bangbang #rifle #hipoint #tuffgirls #girlswithtattoos (at All American Tattoo)

[msenvyjingles]

#ShortGirl #MsEnvy #TeamNinja #ImTiny #MsWonderland #KickYourAss #TuffGirl #InkedUp #BeastMode #TattooLife #TattooAndEmployed #Inked #InkedVixen

[lunasaturnine]

Amfucking TIRED of judging other people for being DIFFERENT from me...or WORSE or STUPIDER than me :) Mostly I judge people for being 1. Dumb 2. Sloppy

Wow !!! That’s succinct and accurate. I’m so cool!

Okay. The reason I’m tired fo judging other people isn’t because it’s bad on principle. It’s because it’s...annoying. I just think it’s lame. I think it’s dumb and sloppy. Like I can tell it’s fake, because, the moment I learn something, I immediately think everyone who doesn’t know it is dumb. Including me from 10 seconds ago.

I’m not trying to boast here on my private blog. But I do have insights REALLY fast. I don’t know what it is like to be any other way. My body doesn’t necessarily always keep up... I don’t necessarily have everything embodied thus fully incorporated. Maybe that’s why music is so Fucking Dope it’s like a slowed down workshop experience for embodying who you are.

My therapist is really expensive and our convos are kinda like this:

me: Blah blah blah

Her: Blah blah YOUR DAD blah!

me: :00000 *pays $100*

I am TuffGirl because of my yelly dad. My defenses are all up bc of him. But also, I absorbed the attacking part of him too. I have his judgmentalness and his snobbiness. So I have internalized the attacker and that’s why I keep my walls up.

I just ... sloppiness annoys me so much. Its dysfunction is SO evident to me. I have several friends who have sloppiness that shocks me into silence, I can’t even respond to it, and it wreaks havoc in their lives.

I also have sloppiness that does that, for real, for real!!! Maybe if I can respond to it in others, I can respond to it in myself? Or vice versa. But how should I respond? Should I wait until I can formulate something compassionate? Or should I give it my rawness?

Rawness. In a book. Rawness gets you access to your body.

The BODY is the secret in therapy IMO. The AMAZING things that have happened in therapy have been the result of me going to the brink of tears and riding that fucking wave. And then in processing with my notebook, same thing. Life-changing results - by life-changing I mean, my experience of literally every moment is better. But I want more changes! And a cheaper therapist. And I think I want a somatic therapist.

[tuffgirlfitness-blog]

#morning #healthy #gym #fitness #bodybuilding #motivation #tuff #tuffgirl

[weirdempathicbadass-blog]

Check out our fierce family!

[mymmalifeblog]

Bujuchicas rifando y controlando #bujutsurifaycontrola #bujuchicas #bujuatnight #mynights #mygirls❤️ #mygirls #tuffgirls #jujiteira #mymmalifeblog #bjjforlife

[lechcoastshining-blog]

#SARE #TUFFGIRL THX4📷 @latinthug_36

[lunasaturnine]

i will get therapy

I am therapist shopping HOT DAMN do I have a luxurious life AKA A little extra spending money WHILE ALSO being a millennial. Anyways...

I am looking at 3 diff people. 2 are both named M******, the name of the bee priestesses of Demeter. One is a male. I haven’t reached out to the male yet but he is local, seems nice, is an artist, and specializes in art psychology and ALSO chronic pain. So that’s all great, except he’s male. Not saying that makes him a bad therapist, but every relationship I have with a male is complex - even the really good ones - and I want a simple relationship with a therapist.

M #1 is an astrologertherapist. That’s what I want, bay bee, but she’s in Colorado which means 2 things. 1. She is not exactly allowed to give therapy outside of Colorado. 2. Her prices are higher.

M #2 is a straight up Jungian therapist with loads of degrees who studied in Zurich. I have a date w/ her on monday.

I had a consultation with M1 yesterday. It was an overview of her services. It wasn’t a therapy session or anything. But all she had to do was say “So, what’s up with you/why are you interested in therapy” (she said it more professionally than that) and I immediately started crying. Not busting out in tears, but as soon as I started to calmly say the things I’d been imagining I might say, I choked up and had to try to talk thru tears, and then it overcame me.

I did not feel SAD. I don’t feel EMOTIONS like you PETTY HUMANS. Just kidding but sometimes I think I feel them less than most people which there is astrological precedence for (moon in cap conjunct saturn, hence my username). Because I don’t feel them when I type, or I’m not clued into my inner cues, and that’s one reason I can type about just about anything on any level of vlunerability. But when I go to speak, in an interaction with others, and my mind-messages have to go through my voicebox? It happens pretty frequently that I can’t say half as much as I thought I could, and/or that I cry.

I realized I am never ever in a vulnerable situation. I am always TuffGirl who Knows Everything. Even as a student I am savvy and equal to the teacher in some ways, even if I am respectful. I am never Baby. Sometimes I will tell my friends about vulnerable issues, but even in those cases, I am still leveraging the upper hand of a power dynamic. I am pouring my situations out at them, showing off how well I have figured them out myself. I don’t really expect them to help me. The closest to being vulnerable I’ve ever been in an extended and not momentary way was s*x with b***n, in which there was much crying.

These are going to be some expensive and necessary crying sessions. I am excited.

[wadey-padey]

Addie was showing off her #bellyflop #tuffgirl #daughtersrock (at Lena Moser Community Pool)

[tuffgirlfitness-blog]

#gym #fit #fitness #tuff #tuffgirl #tuffgirlfitness #motivation #fitnessgirl #fitwomen #stronggirls #womens #girl #girls #bodybuilding