#unable to come over and then they fuckingm the day he died. i was out at an appointment and when i got the news that the time had come i had
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#i ran out of tags under my last post so read those first but about my little brother#i didn't want him or especially his young wife to ever interact with Bill and Jeanette bc i know they hurt everyone they meet in one way or#another so I'd told them not to speak to them not to come to the house just talk to me my phone number has ALWAYS been the same yet i now#found out that months ago Jeanette went over to HIS- my family's- house and told them she was trying to evict us and asked for their help! !#and my! !! brother! !!!!! as stated on this restraining order a legal document on permanent record it says that he has recorded phone calls#and gave them like other personal info to use against us like so first of all beyond the horribleness of that betrayal like first of all#that violates federal wiretapping laws and the federal privacy act but I'm not sure how to begin to pursue that#beyond getting restraining orders against all them to at least stop them sharing more personal info but like also they all have businesses#with clients and i feel like their clients should know that their private personal info is not safe w these ppl but idk maybe juststay out?#but secondly they twisted the info and straight up lied like one example my brother worked with my dad before he got sick and died and my#brother was training to take up the family business 4th generation well he's such a know it all ass that he'd get into massive brawls with#my dad he would scream at him and cuss him out and it would just kill me to see that but i was powerless my family is VERY patriarchal so#like i have no say as a woman and but also my mom would verbally and emotionally abuse my dad so bad and especially when he was sick and it#was so hard bc i wanted to be close and spend as much time as possible with my dad while sick but she did things to ensure i was stuck#unable to come over and then they fuckingm the day he died. i was out at an appointment and when i got the news that the time had come i had#a panic attack so bad i passed out which my husband told them and so i wasn't there when he died and honestly i don't think i could have#handled seeing that like my bro i can see is clearly traumatized by just seeing him die well i now found out that my entire maternal family#severely JUDGES ME for not being there? !? at the moment of my dad's death? !? and they think my husband was like keeping me from it bc he#told them I'd passed out and was deep asleep and not well and like I'm sorry but dude nobody should EVER judge how anyone grieves or mourns#or handles death like that okay that's just not right but apparently they're all holding that against me i don't understand they know how#much I loved my dad. him and i were more alike it just. and his side of the family backs me up 100% the whole thing they've dealt with all#these ppl for decades they say they've been like this forever they're just awful ppl like my bro claims he's been helping and taking care of#my elderly paternal grandmother whom he also owes but denies $10000+ since he bought the house from my mom who had used my grandma's money#for the down payment she was supposed to get that back upon its sale it's her life savings but now she's too old and tired to fight it I'm#but so i just i can't believe the level of nasty my family just WHY. I've asked them even to please if they don't want to help me fine but#please at least do not actively harm me. easy enough but no they go out of their way! !!! to hurt! !! i don't get that! !!! why! !?!?!#and now it looks like several of my fam from Chicago is in town too so like WTF are they all up to also its nice they come out for this shit#to help my mom and bro abuse me but they couldn't be bothered to come out for my dad's funeral. wtf. and like i just. there's a tie in I've#mentioned before w religion and their local congregations which I've never wanted to talk about in here bc obvs I've stepped away from that#but that's why i don't have any local irl friends to call bc they're all on their side via religion and being told I'm like bad I'm shunned
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