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#you're truly happy to be that way means you're the ideal and desired endgame of the whole gendered culture and have been successfully
sammygender
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the thing thats always missing in conversations about gender in general is the fact that 'cis', as an identity, is not a innate Thing Some People Are, but rather a state of acceptance society grooms us into from birth
#im sorry but no one is inherently 'cis' bc gender is inherently not real (saying this in cool trans way not transphobe way).
#being 'cis' just means you live as the gender youve been assigned. being 'genuinely' cis in a way where youre not repressing anything and
#you're truly happy to be that way means you're the ideal and desired endgame of the whole gendered culture and have been successfully
#groomed into accepting only half of yourself (the half that can exist in the gender role you inhabit)
#Like every culture agrees that people have both 'masculine' and 'feminine' within them but on entry to the earth the vast majority of peopl
#are placed within a role that rewards either 'masculine' or 'feminine' but not both. and of course everyone continues to be both but
#theyve still been placed in one role.
#To be honest i think we need to rid ourselves of the idea of gender as something innate even though its nice to teach to well-meaning
#liberal cis people. 'born this way' dogma was a useful vehicle to pitch existence in but its unhelpful when queer people actually act like
#its the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
#dont get me wrong i couldnt be a girl cause i self destructed and died and that was just something within me. totally that is a thing 100%.
#hashtag born this way. but just because it doesnt go that far for some people doesnt mean that theyre Innately Cis. it means they accept
#their circumstance and r priviledged to be able to do so. thats what cis means
#to be clear: i say being cis is the result of grooming. thats not to say that people who reject cisness are smarter or more radical
#necessarily or doing the right thing. some people stay cis and push the boundaries of that role wherever possible and thats just as radical
#i think in fact its more radical than trans people who ruthlessly uphold gender roles
#tldr its not a moral failure to identify with ur assigned gender and to argue that would be incredibly ridiculous
#but the only reason u feel identification with it at all is because of the grooming. shrug emoji.
#oliver talks
#gender
#gender abolition
#gender assignment is grooming & its violence & its awful
#ted talk over
#Disclaimer if anyone wants to pick a fight that i do literally identify as trans so take of that what you will
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