teaveetamer

[teaveetamer]

Imagine being too stupid to use MS Paint to censor your own sock puppet and then acting like you’re the god of media literacy who terrifies the masses of hAtErZ lmao. Bro expects anyone to take him seriously when he can’t even read his own screenshots

This (almost) week on "Raxis screencapping people who've blocked him who he says he totally wants nothing to with," here he is not only not censoring my name yet again, he has also left a completely unrelated other person's name uncensored.

(censoring done on my end)

Which, two things:

I was talking about the fandom, not the game, so nice going there with the media literacy you claim you have oodles of.

Is that a sockpuppet

Like that blue1lion6stan account. With the default pfp? That, after a bit of digging, has only been around since... May of this year? So, barely five months? And it has like.. two reblogs and four likes? In the span of, again, five months at the minimum?

Did like. Did Raxis accidentally out one of his sockpuppets

[teaveetamer]

Why do you to take everything i say literally and to heart

I haven’t posted on this blog in like two months what are you even talking about, nerd

[teaveetamer]

Let’s just be clear: I don’t “send” my friends to do anything on my behalf. They saw you lying about me and acted on their own accord after I had responded myself.

I appreciate the apology. Don’t do this again.

Edelcrits being Lesbophobic Take 2:

Okay, so remember my blogpost about that guy with very colorful opinions about sibling on sibling relationships being asked to pass judgement on whether or not Lesbians are wrong about liking Edelgard? Yes, the Edelcritical Lesbophobia just intensified

Aka Dimitris Lethal Cock, somebody who praises Azure Gleam as Gay and lies about being a LGBT Safespace while deliberately misgendering people on other blogpost of theirs. So yeah, I think it doesn't need to be said that we can automatically dismiss this person speaking for sapphic and lesbian women. I guess what they mean is that lesbians should learn to behave and start to demand androcentric stories that values male relationship in a way that cisheterosexual women can read faux-queer relationships tailored to their heteronormative tastes out of it without offending the cisheterosexual male fanbase? Because lets be honest, this is the majority of queer subtext in the Azure Routes and Azure Gleam even doubles down on it by sidelining Dedue in favor of putting more emphasis to Dimitris Relationship with the white weeb twink.

But yeah, this post is really written by somebody who does not understand sapphic women, probably never interacted with a transfem lesbian their entire live and clearly has some extensive prejudice against sapphics which are widespread in Fandoms, because these kinds of debates always end in bashing the sapphics or their media. Because otherwise they would take back a step and notice...that Edelgard is very much in line with the typical fandom favs of sapphics?

Because lesbians don't want and probably hate whatever you consider to be better and most sapphic fans probably would immediately drop the series if you had any say in what to creat tbh? We are talking about some vile weirdo who seems to be into Azure Gleam after all, lol. I already made my point clear why Edelgard resonates with Sapphics. Her design, her personality and narrative are a super strong match, which is just further supported by also having Dorothea right next to her, another sapphic fav with strong feminist themes in her narrative.

Ultimately, I really recommend especially trans Edelgard Fans to stay away from this person as they seem to be quite nefarious, as I mentioned, I've seen them already deliberately misgendering members of the Edelgard discord, I assume in order to move forward their strawman, that Edelgard Fans are only men.

[teaveetamer]

I’m a queer woman. Take my name out of your fucking mouth, you pathetic liar.

Read the post you screenshotted. It’s literally talking about asking for better representation for queer women. Believe it or not you’re not the queen of the fucking lesbians, you do not speak for the damn trees, and I’m allowed to criticize the male-gazey portrayal of queer women in a video game without asking for your fucking approval.

Maybe instead of making up shit you should address why your Buddy Raxis is making horny comments on fics about grown women fucking their 12 year old little brothers, and maybe you should talk about why the mods of that server you’re in keep cheering on genocide and permit death threats. Or, I dunno, give me an actual apology for jerking off about genocide in the comments of my fucking “which character is the hottest” poll?

Quit trying to make fetch happen. You’re just a more pathetic imitation of the 30 year old man child you idolize, and he was already too pathetic to describe with words. This behavior doesn’t make you cool and it doesn’t make you popular. You’re clearly not blocked (yet), so if you have a problem with me you could at least have the confidence to reblog my post instead of taking screenshots like a whiny little coward.

Edelcrits being Lesbophobic Take 2:

Okay, so remember my blogpost about that guy with very colorful opinions about sibling on sibling relationships being asked to pass judgement on whether or not Lesbians are wrong about liking Edelgard? Yes, the Edelcritical Lesbophobia just intensified

Aka Dimitris Lethal Cock, somebody who praises Azure Gleam as Gay and lies about being a LGBT Safespace while deliberately misgendering people on other blogpost of theirs. So yeah, I think it doesn't need to be said that we can automatically dismiss this person speaking for sapphic and lesbian women. I guess what they mean is that lesbians should learn to behave and start to demand androcentric stories that values male relationship in a way that cisheterosexual women can read faux-queer relationships tailored to their heteronormative tastes out of it without offending the cisheterosexual male fanbase? Because lets be honest, this is the majority of queer subtext in the Azure Routes and Azure Gleam even doubles down on it by sidelining Dedue in favor of putting more emphasis to Dimitris Relationship with the white weeb twink.

But yeah, this post is really written by somebody who does not understand sapphic women, probably never interacted with a transfem lesbian their entire live and clearly has some extensive prejudice against sapphics which are widespread in Fandoms, because these kinds of debates always end in bashing the sapphics or their media. Because otherwise they would take back a step and notice...that Edelgard is very much in line with the typical fandom favs of sapphics?

Because lesbians don't want and probably hate whatever you consider to be better and most sapphic fans probably would immediately drop the series if you had any say in what to creat tbh? We are talking about some vile weirdo who seems to be into Azure Gleam after all, lol. I already made my point clear why Edelgard resonates with Sapphics. Her design, her personality and narrative are a super strong match, which is just further supported by also having Dorothea right next to her, another sapphic fav with strong feminist themes in her narrative.

Ultimately, I really recommend especially trans Edelgard Fans to stay away from this person as they seem to be quite nefarious, as I mentioned, I've seen them already deliberately misgendering members of the Edelgard discord, I assume in order to move forward their strawman, that Edelgard Fans are only men.

[teaveetamer]

“If Lumera just kept the rings blah blah blah” genuinely anon why do you hate fun lol. Imagine sitting down to watch a murder mystery and this dude rolls up like “UM ACKSHUALLY the victim TOTALLY could have avoided being murdered if they’d just spent their entire life in a windowless sealed bunker 👆🤓”

Like yes, technically that’s true, but then we wouldn’t have a story, SHARON. Stop being such a killjoy, SHARON. Interesting things don’t happen when every character acts 100% perfectly with no faults, SHARON.

Fates had so many holes, loose ends, and inconsistencies that it needed a dlc campaign and two more mini campaigns to try to plug everything in, and it still wasnt enough. The entire plot of engage could have been avoided if Lumera kept the super dangerous must not be abused emblem rings up on the impenetrable Somniel.

That's nice, anon

[teaveetamer]

Obvious answer? If you’re starving in the desert and someone hands you a loaf of bread and a cup of water then you’re probably not gonna ask too many questions about where it came from or who is giving it to you. Any representation, even bad or fetishized representation, feels like a feast compared to the fat load of nothing queer women got before it.

I don’t think the question should be “are they following the wrong character”. The question should be “why are some people telling us that this is the best we’re ever going to get?” It reeks of “you should know your place” rhetoric. IS can do better, and we deserve better, and it’s sad so many queer folk resign themselves to being treated as lesser as long as they get some breadcrumbs.

Considering the undeniable fact that Edelgard was written for men and not them, what do you think that says about her lesbian fans? Are they following the wrong character? Or better question, does she truly have a significant sapphic fandom to begin with?

This is a difficult question for me to answer directly, because I'm not a lesbian. I've gotten a variety of comments from queer women addressing issues related to this on my relevant videos, with the range of responses being overall mixed. Even those who can enjoy Edelgard as a bi option (and/or her other F/F prospects) are usually still aware of IS's blatant misogyny in the way they handle their female characters, and acknowledge that these conversations are useful to have.

I think Monica's writing in Hopes sums up very well just how little the writers of these games are thinking about lesbians when they craft these characters and situations. Monica's attraction to Edelgard is treated as one long joke at her own expense, one that Edelgard appears to humor at best but never really understands. It's especially galling because this is the same game that takes a remarkably sober approach to Shamir's attraction to women, both in general and to Catherine specifically. There's also the matter of the M/M subtext, which as ever exists in a blind spot of straight male writers. With Dimidue alone, we have a situation where men are saying stuff like "You are irreplaceable, cherished" and "I cannot know happiness without you by my side" and holding hands and each other's gazes for something like fifteen seconds in an animated cutscene...and still expect us to believe that that's only platonic devotion. (As far as lord + retainer ships go, hold up Monigard and Dimidue side-by-side, and it's very obvious that IS is laughing at the former and isn't aware that the latter could even have romantic dimensions.)

The majority of IS's sapphic material exists in a different, though comparable blind spot: that lesbians exist as profitable titillation for straight men, and are always subject to the male gaze and the potential interposition of a male proxy for the audience (the Avatar, usually) because women's attraction toward one another isn't something to be taken seriously. Out of the various examples of F/F subtext and text in the entirety of FE, I feel like I could claim Heather from Radiant Dawn as maybe the only instance where the writers were thinking of actual queer women - and even then Heather is still mostly mild comic relief.

(As far as "following the wrong character" goes re: the fandom faction wars, there's always been the consistent irony that Rhea is subject to much of the same open objectification, ex. her summer duo alt with F!Byleth, and even gets to be a same-sex S rank as well. Humorously, this parallel or its implications is pretty much never brought up whenever Rhea's getting roasted as the Worst Ever.)

It's difficult to tell exactly how much of Edelgard's fanbase is sapphic. Of course Tumblr and AO3 skew queer as a rule, but those are just two sites; there's also Twitter and Reddit and SF and GameFAQs and 4chan and art sites like Pixiv and DeviantArt. We also know for a fact that at least two of the most prominent and combative elements in the pro-Edelgard side of the fandom are straight/bi men producing F/F Edeleth fanwork...which I remark on only as a counter to the frequent accusation that Dimitri fans are all horny fujoshi. How that does or doesn't play into what you're asking is hard to say - although one of them tends to get rather pissed when anyone brings something like that up and may still be stalking my blog.

It'll be interesting to see what troll anons I get now.

[teaveetamer]

"This person got an ask that was WROOOOONNNGGGG ABOUT 3H" raxis there are racists in the server you are in can you maybe talk about that for once

I don't get why it's so difficult for him to talk about it. Like you can block evade and make an entire tv tropes page about a fic that isn't even yours, but you can't talk about the bullshit going on in the Edelgard discord server? Okay then

[teaveetamer]

Yeah the tldr is that one of their mods reached out to is to resolve things. I made a discord server as like a “chat on neutral ground” thing. It did not go well. Results are literally still my pinned post.

I mean I really did try, but, like, the second Shandale entered the chat he started ranting about “route wars” and “people insulting others just based on the fictional character they like” and “people being meanies about Edelgard” when the entire point of the conversation was the harassment toward actual people he was allowing to take place on his server and the extremely questionable rhetoric he was normalizing. He basically ended the conversation by calling everyone fascists and then leaving the neutral ground server (and lying about what happened there). And then not doing anything about the death threats that started rolling in.

Their (at the time) admin was at least polite and seemed upset about what had happened, but they ultimately didn’t do anything to remove the problematic mods, moderate the community, or stop it even though they had the power to. So like. Yeah.

I applaud your impulse to assume that these are reasonable people who want to seek resolution, anon. I’m sure some of them are, but the truth is the vast majority of the mod team/active community in that discord seem to like that Shandale is behaving this way. Of the ones who don’t like it, they either have no power to stop it or they don’t have the courage to stop it. Which means the dude is just gonna keep doing what he’s doing and the best we can do is warn people away from interacting with him/his spaces.

Have you thought about contacting the other mods of the server to speak in private about Shandale? I know at least one of them has a Tumblr account of their own that you would be able to easily find. That seems most effective if you want something done about them.

The thing is... people have already done that. To be specific (and I've asked their permission to ping them here) @ezralahm and @teaveetamer had a private chat with multiple members of the discord, including Shandale and the admin of the server at the time, where they had at one point directly told Shandale to their face that the rhetoric they've been spreading was horrible.

Nothing happened. Because no one there wants to do anything

[teaveetamer]

I think this is a good time to point out that racism has become both more subtle and more sinister in many ways. We’ve taught a generation of people that racism is saying slurs or beating people on the streets. So people think if they don’t do that, they can’t be racist. We’ve completely decoupled racist actions from the rhetoric used to justify those racist actions.

Actions don’t just happen, they’re built up to (and then reinforced by) rhetoric. Why were so many white people okay with murdering black folk who loved or married (or wanted to marry) white folk? Because they were told that “mixing blood” would destroy the purity of whiteness, and mixed kids would be dirty, violent, sinful monsters. Why were so many white folk okay with slavery? Because they were told that black folk were inherently inferior, that they deserved to be enslaved, that they would be violent and murder white people if they were allowed to “roam free”.

You can’t stop the action without disrupting the rhetoric. Nobody does racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. shit “just because”. The rhetoric is the key to why people believe they’re actually justified in committing horrific acts (“of course I had to kill them, they were going to kill me first if I didn’t!!!”). If you see the rhetoric, that’s the unambiguous indication that you need to be wary or alarmed by the person using it.

The reason why so many of us are VERY concerned by this “mixing blood makes you evil” rhetoric is because we know that. And sure now you’re “just talking about a video game” but you’re normalizing the rhetoric every time you say shit like this and then bully anyone who would call you out into silence. Eventually that’s going to spill out into real life somewhere. At the very least, by making the people (who you’ve bullied into not calling you out for it) much MUCH less likely to speak out when they see it being used against real people/groups. And then what do you think happens?

The fact that someone in 2024 can say "a person is bad because the blood from another race mixed with theirs and made them bad" without any shred or irony or self awareness is ghastly.

Probably comes from the idea that they are "good people," so they can't say racist shit or be racist because racism is bad and they are good people.

Which leads to shit like Shandale and multiple other people repeatedly saying shit like "The Nabateans as a race are ontologically evil and deserve the genocide that happened to them and the humans who genocided them were the good guys." "The Nabateans need to have their rights stripped away from them and live as second-class citizens to atone for what other Nabateans did." "The Nabateans are so savage and violent and evil that having their blood mixed with yours makes you evil like them." The Nabateans are evil, so they deserve to be erased. They deserve to be oppressed. They deserve to be killed. All of them. Even the children. No exceptions.

But they're not a "real" race so it's fine to advocate for their genocide. It's fine to cheer on their genociders and wish they were "properly" portrayed as the good guys they clearly are. It's fine to say "only humans should rule over humans" as if that isn't an ear-bleedingly loud dog-whistle for racial supremacy. Shandale is a good person so Shandale can't say Bad Person things, of course.

And the worst part is that Shandale knows what they're saying sounds bad. They fucking hate it whenever anyone with enough nuts in that cesspit of a discord directly tells them "hey yo this is some racist ass shit you're spewing out, can you like, stop?" They and the people who agree with them pull the "YOU'RE pulling the real world into this, and THAT'S so distasteful and bad!!" because Shandale knows that they only have that cover to hide behind. Shandale isn't saying what they're saying because they aren't aware of what they're saying or don't know why what they're saying is bad, they're saying what they're saying because they found the race they can scapegoat into getting away with saying this.

They all very clearly desperately want to say this shit. They will all go on for hours upon hours at a time vehemently going to bat for this hateful rhetoric, to the point that they will quite literally make shit up about what the Nabateans have done to make them evil. They owned slaves! They destroyed culture! They were tyrants! All of them! Genuinely every single one of them! All that shit is the CORNERSTONE to Shandale and their buddies' rhetoric, and they fucking made it up! It makes you wonder why they're so desperate for this clearly untrue thing to be true, and none of the answers to that question do them any favors to put it kindly.

And everyone in that server with the means to kick Shandale and all the other people who are clearly fucking racist and are using Nabateans as a scapegoat to vent their clearly fucking racist views would rather DM me to tell me ~oh so kindly~ that I should stop airing their moldy tattered laundry (in exchange for the mods following their rules of their server that they've been ignoring for fucking years) than do fucking ANYTHING about the mod that is peddling the racism. Shandale and their buddies don't need any shred of awareness - or more accurately, any shred of acknowledgement - because they know the second they bare their asses to the world the other mods will fucking scramble to cover for them. It's all beyond pathetic and disgusting

[teaveetamer]

I’m sorry, but the weirdest fucking part about this is that he tried to pull that screenshot as evidence of you being intentionally duplicitous. I think the vast majority of people can read that and glean that, hey, the relevant part of this is how it’s highlighting the disparity between the mod reaction to Birb being in their server vs. what the person who actually spoke to Birb in their server says happened. Which is not changed AT ALL by the completely irrelevant message sandwiched in the middle, regardless of who it came from. I swear you could take a sip of water and this dude would try and find a way to spin it into how you’re trying to poison the minds of the youth or whatever. It’s embarrassing how obsessive he is about this.

Thanks for the catch Raxy boy! I have now made sure that the two names I censored were better differentiated!

Since you're looking over my blog anyway and care so much about me talkin' about your buddies, can you finally directly address all the horrible shit Shandale has said?

Like this?

Saying that the entirety of a race should be subjugated and stripped of their rights because of the (MADE UP) actions of some of them? I've talked about this clearly horrible example of Shandale's rhetoric before but you seem to have missed it! So here it is again for you since you're combing through my blog again <3

And here's the entire conversation that the person I'll refer to as White - who you forgot to censor, by the way, you left their name unedited in that second screenshot, fixed that for you in this post but you might wanna go do something about that in yours - had with deathbirby (as much as it can be gleaned from the deleted messages):

See how White is seemingly having a conversation with themselves, especially in the bottom portion of the last screenshot? That'd be because they were talking very cordially with deathbirby about birds - not even talking about 3H!

But then White asks deathbirby why they were in the discord... and they have a cordial - if very strange and telling - response to whatever was said:

How weird! Even though deathbirby has done nothing in the server to warrant any action from mods, White seems pretty convinced that deathbirby is going to be kicked... just because they "are part of [the] group [the discord's] sorta 'beefing' with" and no other reason! Not for any argument they were trying to start up, since again - literally only White was talking to them! And they were literally only talking about birds! At best Shandale dropped two bird pictures! No shit was started at all! But the discord seems to have that bad of a tribalism problem that literally anyone who associates with The Wrong People are automatically deemed undesirables by the people in charge, and White already expects deathbirby to get banned because of it - totally not worrying at all!

Then out of nowhere, here comes another mod and Shandale!

Accusing deathbirby of "bringing tumblr bs" but, hm... they were just talking about birds to White; seems like they just wanted talk to me! At best they wanted to have a discussion about something, and it probably DID relate to something about 3H, but given White's responses deathbirby was far from "starting shit" about anything - wonder where Wonder got that idea from?

Hey, when does it say that post was made? October 29th? What "tumblr bs" was going on at that time that deathbirby had on their blog-

Oh. Ohhhh. The "tumblr bs" was my first post pointing out Shandale's proclivity to use genocide apologetics and upholding genociders as liberators for 3H - and the first reblog I did for that post going further into Shandale's posts, if we wanna go for the exact day. So deathbirby not taking keen to Shandale's racist rhetoric gets dubbed "tumblr bs," and then, oops!

They're "stirring shit up" now, they're "acting like an innocent party" now, they're using "bad faith arguments" and "outright slander" now. Looking at messages said by Shandale and still held by Shandale which Shandale stubbornly defended and Shandale openly deleted messages over is bad faith, and deathbirby gets banned for it. With White still wanting deathbirby to talk despite all that! Despite Wonder and Shandale accusing deathbirby of starting shit! Almost like... White didn't think deathbirby was trying to start shit! Probably because nothing shows deathbirby was trying to start shit!

Almost like you, Raxy, only insist that because you think anyone you dislike - or is around people you dislike - couldn't possibly want to have a cordial conversation with you and your buds! Almost like that's because you and a lot of your buddies would never have a cordial conversation with anyone who disagrees with you! Funny how that all seems to click together!

Oh, and just cuz I'm nice like that: when you say that someone "tried to start shit," that's commonly understood to mean that that person was trying to start an argument of some kind - whether a "debate" argument or a, oh, would you look at that, "trying to start shit" argument! Hope that helps <3

[teaveetamer]

What’s up everybody here’s my fire emblem cop tier list no flamez plz 🫣

[teaveetamer]

The way I immediately recognized the “cop tier list” person as a notorious fandom shit-stirrer and I already had them blocked💀

[teaveetamer]

???????? Maybe those tone deaf weirdos need to stop treating IRL oppression like point multipliers to make their fave look better. People have been throwing out this “would my fave punch cops” thing since 2020 with the same energy as “does my fave like cheese” or “does my fave prefer cats or dogs”

“Teehee my fave would punch cops” why don’t you shut the fuck up and stop trivializing oppression by making it into cutesy fucking tier lists about which characters you like the most. Like can we have ONE, fucking ONE world event happen without the most deranged loser faction of terminally online freaks trying to turn it into some pissing contest about which fake PNG is better than whichever other fake PNG? People are dying, Jan, but THANK FUCKING GOD we all know that YOU think your favorite fake girl wouldn’t be okay with it.

Fuckin hell

"edelstans" oh my god shuuuuuttt uuuuppppp it is 2024 just stop fucking talking about 3h if you can't handle people liking the scary red lady Grow The Fuck Up.

The 'Scary Red Lady' fans made a tier list about which characters from a very subpar game would side with a very oppressive organization that actively targets and harms me and my people, at this point it ain't about discourse, I straight up just think the world would be better without those people in it. 😊😊😊

Anyway, I didn't tag the post with anything that fans of her would be regularly be on nor on any general tags, so I assume you either follow me or hate stalk my blog.

If you hate when I talk about deranged weirdos talking crazy online, idk go fuck your waifu about it or smth

[teaveetamer]

Dude might as well get “hypocrite” tattooed on his forehead, cuz he’s also repeatedly tried to imply that Ezra is a pedophile for pointing out localization shenanigans in Fates/Engage when (CW for fictional depictions of CSA)

when Raxy apparently has a history in a different fandom of consuming and commenting positively on media where an adult woman fucks an 11 year old boy. Like doesn’t even have the defense of “it was a 1000 year old Shota dragon” if my understanding of the context is correct. And he seems to be real uncomfortable about having that called out, since the second I even alluded to it he went and tried to wipe the comments.

(And yes, I verified that this was real and I have receipts. I don’t want to post them cuz I don’t want people to go harassing anyone but I’m happy to DM them if people don’t just want to take me at my word)

I’m not saying this makes him a pedo or anything but it sure does demonstrate what an unscrupulous weasel he is. Dude has no principles and he will say and do ANYTHING to “win”. He doesn’t care if that means parading his white ass out to scream over a black man talking about racism, or if it means falsely implying a queer woman is a pedophile b/c she mentioned localization sanitation even though he clearly has far more questionable skeletons in his own closet.

Raxis is friends with someone who uses genocide apologetics/denialism as part of their reason why they hate the Nabateans (saying that what happened to them WASN'T genocide but "getting rid of oppressors," that they HAD to all be evil because Nemesis was known as a liberator, shit like that). Said person also literally said the Nabateans should become "subject to humanity as atonement" "not as slaves, but not allowed to hold any positions of power over humanity." Raxis has never once called this person out and even defended them when this was made open (likely because this person is a MOD for the Edelgard server Raxis is a part of).

As you can see he's a guy who has every right to be calling people racist and he totally isn't a giant scumbag with giant scumbag friends.

GROOOOSS! 🙃🙃🙃

Do these people not play other FE games? It's the classic "Human Hubris results in benevolent dragons being hunted" that has been present ever since the first game. Why oh why do these people spout this vile nonsense?

[teaveetamer]

Nah, you misunderstood. You're completely right that you don't own them decency, that's why it's ironic looking at how you and your mutuals asked not just decency but also litteraly make numerous demand over someone you stalked.

So let me get this straight. You’re really treating me keeping literally the most basic of tabs on the people who are sending me death threats and stalking me… as me stalking people? Like seriously, you think a 35 year old man aggressively stalking people since they were literal teenagers, someone intentionally trying to trigger someone else’s trauma, death threats, etc. is just as bad as… calling that behavior out? I got one word for you anon: yikes. I’m not responding to anything else you send me after this, so don’t bother okay?

[teaveetamer]

Yeah this is not good faith at all, even coming from the very first sentence. Anyway, I'll leave, you're not in a space to listen and without purpose this message is only giving you more negativity that you certainly don't need.

I'll just leave you with the sad irony of that statement "I think I had every reason to not do given the way that person being insulted has treated me (And the lack of apology I've received from them for that)." looking at behavior you expected in the past from other.

I'm going to try and say this in the nicest possible way. You're the one who came into my inbox and basically accused me of being permissive of absolutely heinous behavior, something you consider on par with death threats, stalking, and false pedophilia accusations given the way you were talking about it. I explain that I can't be online 24/7 and I don't track the discourse when I am, because in case you hadn't noticed this blog is not super active anymore and I'm an adult with a life, but that I am absolutely not okay with that behavior if it's happening. When I quite literally invited you to point me to literally ANYTHING you think warrants a call out from me, and I directly offered to look into it deeper and see if there was anything I can do, your response is "wow it's so IRONIC that you treated someone with basic human decency after they treated you like complete and utter dogshit!" Like... huh? No that's not ironic at all? I wish they had been willing to treat me with respect and decency. I think it's extremely fucked up that the individual in question decided to intentionally try to trigger me with genocide "jokes" on my stupid shitpost poll about which FE character is the hottest (and then never apologized to me for it), but I still did and I'm still going to treat them with basic human respect because I'm not a shit head?

So like... okay then? Bye, I guess? Good luck with whatever it is you have going on over there. Hope you feel better about the whole situation now?

[teaveetamer]

It really sucks that you're getting harassed, but u should look back at the harassment you never really stopped to support and the harassment you avoid talking about too. Everyone sucks here, you're incapable of decrying the harassment coming from your "side" because you care more about blorbo discourse... Do you actually stand up against harassment if you don't say anything when it's from your "side" or at least people who enjoy your blorbo? If you only do so when coming from fans of the character you don't like?

I sincerely hope the harassment you receive stop, to be clear you absolutely do not deserve the shit you're dealing with, nobody does. But I hope you'll genuine look at yourself and the people surrounding you too.

Anon, I'm going to take this in the best possible faith, but holy shit this is so fucking terminally online. Like, you are aware that I'm an adult? I'm slaving away at an unpaid internship, I'm in graduate school, and I've got 20k words worth of academic papers to write and exams to study for. I'm spending time with my dying grandpa and I'm finding new and inventive ways to give a semi-feral cat heart medicine without getting my thumb bitten off. I'm not "intentionally ignoring" things going on, I'm just not an omniscent god who can keep track of 472 million Tumblr users at every given moment of the day and also have a job and a life. So if you've got beef and you think I'm not properly calling someone out then I'm going to need you to send me a link. I get maybe and hour of Tumblr time a day, and I don't actually follow 3H discourse because, shocker, I don't actually find getting into the exact same tired fights we were getting into 5 years ago all that fun or enjoyable. Isn't it wild though? It's been half a decade since 3H launch and I've spent like half of that with people stalking me and sending me death threats for no fucking reason!

Anyway, I could not give two tenths of a fuck whether or not you like my blorbo. I'm primarily concerned by the people sending death threats, actively defending genocidal rhetoric, stalking people, making false pedophilia accusations, et-fucking-cetera. I've done literally everything in my power to try and come to an understanding with the people inflicting the harassment and they're stiiiiiiill just doing it, years later, cuz I guess they don't have anything better to do. The only remotely comparable thing I've witnessed from "my side" in recent days, which frankly doesn't even come close to the level of vitriol and harassment of death threats, was that one of my mutuals called the genocidal freak (who intentionally tried to trigger me in the past) a mean name. And I only found out about that because a friend of mine saw it and talked to me about it. And wow look at that, if you actually go to the post you can literally see me telling that mutual to knock it off! And I spoke to them privately about it too! Which is something, frankly, I think I had every reason to not do given the way that person being insulted has treated me (And the lack of apology I've received from them for that). So like, not sure which kidney you want me to sacrifice to prove that I'm not actually cool with people stalking others and sending death threats.