people who just use acespec as their identity instead of something "more specific" or just "asexual" are cool
people who just use arospec as their identity instead of something "more specific" or just "aromantic" are also cool
people who use acespec and a more specific identity are cool
people who use arospec and a more specific identity are also cool
acespecs and arospecs are cool
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Happy Pride-Month! 🏳️🌈
Let’s celebrate with Pride-Togepis :)
I will offer these as stickers in my shop in Autumn.
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here’s another fun fact: asexual does not mean nonsexual.
asexuals’ relationship with sex and sexual attraction tends to be….complicated. there’s a bit of an idea of like, oh of course, you’re either sex-favorable, sex-neutral, or sex-repulsed, but honestly i see a LOT of discussion about how wildly different those can each look for each individual. some people are comfortable with some acts in very specific contexts, and deeply upset by them in all others. some people find certain forms of nonsexual intimacy (like kissing) to still be off-limits, while something most people might consider more charged (like nudity) is totally fine. a lot of us just kind of have a long laundry list like “this is fine, this isn’t, that one’s okay, that one’s always off-limits….” because the big secret is that “sex” isn’t really any cohesive act as much as a lot of little things that people just threw together and called one thing.
as for attraction: some aces are actually attracted to other people once in a blue moon, and simply don’t want to clarify that every time. some aren’t entirely sure, but don’t want to spend their whole lives guessing. some ARE completely sure they never have and never will feel an attraction.
at the end of the day, much like any label, this single word really doesn’t tell you much of anything about what a person is actually like unless you bother to ask them what it means to them.
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Okay so I don't know why people say sex or love is what makes us human. Lots of organisms in nature have sex or mate for life. You know what makes us human? Cooking. Nothing else in nature cooks except humans. Checkmate aphobes. Sincerely, an ace cook.
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is that true??
Holy shit!!
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Happy international asexuality day!
For aces who are in the closet.
For aces who can't coming out.
For aces who already come out.
For aces who use microlabels.
For aces who like sex.
For aces who hate sex.
For aces who don't mind sex.
This day is for every ace.
This day is for you.
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Be Ace, do Crime
(Small doodle for the International Asexuality Day!♠️♣️♥️♦️) Gentle reminder that:
💜You are not broken or in need to find the ‘right person’ to fix you💜
💜you are never alone and your other 70 000 000 fellows ace friends around the world will always support you💜
💜You’re valid and awesome and if someone tell you otherwise fight them with your cards💜
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Happy International Asexuality Day everybody! May this be a wonderful international celebration of everybody under the ace umbrella! And may this be the first one but certainly not the last time this day is celebrated all around the world by fellow aces!
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here, have some:
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demisexual folk are wonderful and outstanding and if youre demi, ily
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Sharks support Asexuals and Aromantics, sorry I don’t make the rules.
No reposting
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