the-defender-of-tomorrow

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

:(

white boy Jayce scares me

He does that.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

This post is about the user @/kayden-kay

All of their Arcane-based roleplay blogs:

This is not a thing I ever wanted to make. Please don’t send any harassment towards Kay, but consider blocking them. 

I just don't want to give them the benefit of the doubt anymore. People have tried to explain to them some of the things they have done wrong before and end up just getting blocked.

Rest if the info under the cut :

If possible all links to posts will be provided.

It originally started with a group of roleplayers realizing that they had all been having issues regarding roleplay with Kay. Someone compiled these concerns and sent Kay a private

message about them. I had mentioned feeling uncomfortable with some remarks Kay made in-characters, which was included broadly in the message. 

This document contains the message written out and then sent to Kay: Doc

The concerned person was immediately blocked with no response. 

Screenshot as proof of message being sent with no reply:

Now the stuff regarding their general lack of regard for the safety of minors. I would like to note I am 16. I make it very clear I am 16 on all my blogs, either putting it in my description or the pinned post. I sometimes reply to asks with suggestive jokes, but this does not change the fact that I am a minor.

Screenshot of the comment Kay made that made me uncomfortable:

Link to the original post. I can’t get a link to their post because they have me blocked: Post

At the time I didn't realise I didn’t process this wasn’t a comment I found uncomfortable, but looking back at it knowing this person is 20 it feels kind of gross. I decided to try and avoid interacting with them, blocking them for my own comfort until they pinged me in a post regarding one of my blogs. I learned about said post through someone else who had seen it.

Screenshot for said post :

I then messaged them regarding how I'm not comfortable with them making any sort of contact with my blogs. I understand the way I ended up talking to this person was not fair and I should have tried to be a little more civil about my approach.

Here is that entire conversion. They block me at the end of it.

I do not think using your age or disabilities as an excuse for your actions is right. I have an understanding that these things can make things harder as I have dyslexia myself (A mutual of mine edited this post for me and fixed any typos and grammar). I have a hard time reading things and having to have aides to help it. But that doesn't excuse not taking into consideration how old the people that you are interacting with are.

For context this is where my age is on all of my accounts.

After this they made a couple of posts on their main account.

Link to post

Link to post

Kay, I doubt you are never gonna read this. You block people a lot of the time when they are trying to tell you they are uncomfortable. But even if you were 18 or such you should know better than to make suggestive comments to people you don’t know the age of or minors. You especially should not excuse your actions using your age or disabilities rather than apologizing and trying to do better. Whether or not you realize it, you are 20. You are an adult, you should know you have a responsibility to make sure you aren’t exposing minors to NSFW content. Check people’s ages, and tag your blogs and posts as NSFW if they include suggestive or 18+ content. 

On another note:

Link to post

If your blog is NSFW, do not interact with minors using that blog. The fact you either ignore or do not understand shows you should not be in spaces with minors.

That is all, again please do not send harassment to this person in any regard. If you feel uncomfortable with them, ignore or block their accounts. This is just to show their disregard of minor safety online and how they ignore people when they try to mention the things they have done wrong.

thanks to @prince-o-rot for helping me edit this

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

nah, i don't mean it as an insult, i just think the amount of time and other things it took you to realize is honestly impressive. i mean this in a lighthearted way. i don't think i know anyone else who would take that long to figure things out lol

it adds to the giopara charm

Oh well thank you? I don't know what else you want me to say

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Dear jayce giopara I come knocking on your door to beg of one thing.

pleaplseaplDeplazeplwadepleaseplease. DO NOT GET RID OF YOUR WHITE HAIRS😭😭

I wasn't planning on it??

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

twenty years, three kids, and you were insisting you were straight until the last month and a half

it's kinda impressive to be honest

...I can't tell if this is an insult or not so imma take it

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

https://www.tumblr.com/the-defender-of-tomorrow/772783614111956992/saying-it-again-im-not-gay-i-do-not-like?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/the-defender-of-tomorrow/777044606380638208/hows-fighting-the-bisexuality-going?source=share

🤨

Okay. Not my brightest moments.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

20 years

three children

Get out.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Yes I will.

20 years

3 children

@the-defender-of-tomorrow

Ha

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

how's fighting the homosexuality going?

I mean me and viktor are dating so proabanly pretty well.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

...

I'm gonna blow myself up.

20 years

3 children

@the-defender-of-tomorrow

Ha

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

how's fighting the bisexuality going?

I'm gay. I don't like women. So

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

can i get a yippee for the crowd

Yippee?

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Yes yes I am <3

Apparently, making bombs isn't a good hobby according to Viktor. Which is bull

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Apparently, making bombs isn't a good hobby according to Viktor. Which is bull

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Ay...still be careful or something.

Well. I made a deal with someone. So I'll be going to Piltover, next.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

....

Pretty sure I have a chemical burn on my arm....

Viktor, if you see this no you don't go away.

[the-defender-of-tomorrow]

Omg bro...I love you bro

I had a few days off and basically slept the whole time. It's a neat little trick. Just don't sleep a lot and then sleep super long to catch up. Then you're fine again.

Can highly recommend

- Jayce Talis