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i dont know who needs to hear this but stating that ur anti endo isnt syscourse at all

its completely okay to be anti ableist and it shouldn't be a subject of discourse

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i do not ENDOGENIC, i do not WILLOGENIC, i do not MIXED ORIGIN, and if its not traumagenic IT IS NOT A SYSTEM

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People can't always control their alters, but I think the point is you cannot use alters as an excuse for bad behavior because the responsibility falls on everyone

If your alters can't be trusted to not post something that will get you in trouble, make you lose friends, get you banned from your platform, etc.

They should not be allowed to post.

If they do and get your ass in trouble, it's up to the entire system to take responsibility. Just because they're not the same person as you doesn't mean you can use that as an excuse to be a complete and utter dick.

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♥️ - we have 2, the sides (dimension) and the Apollo amalgam! The sides thing comes from really old complicated shit but might have originated from sanders sides when I was like 12. Apollo is just our collective name and amalgam sounds cool w it

🧡 - a lot of us are video game companies or consoles and yet I don't think we have too many favorite games. Mine (Hamlet) are Luigi's mansion and portal 2 :) . I know a few of us really like splatoon and Minecraft

💛 - oh God uhhh harry would be honey nut cheerios and Sarah would be apple cinnamon Cheerios yay

💚 - orange purple and blue... I (Hamlet) associate with orange and blue and the sys as a whole adds purple and tones down the orange a lot

🩵 - cuddling with me. Reaching out to me when I'm spiralling. Saving me.

💙 - we would have a Scott the Woz ass video game collection . Oh and a safe home ig.

💜 - istg I never questioned the times my "imaginary friends" or "OCs" fucking took over my body. I don't even think it was that I thought it was normal- I think my brain was blocking me from really questioning it

🩷 - we don't play sport :)

THIS IS AUDREY SHE IS A JRT BEAGLE MIX AND SHES 4 MONTHS OLD.....

🌈🌈🌈NON-INVASIVE SYSTEM ASK GAME YIPPEEEEE 🌈🌈🌈

❤️ - What is your system name? How did you choose it?

🧡 - Do different alters have different favorite games? What would you say is the most popular game among your system?

💛- Pick one (or more) alter(s). If they were a cereal, which one would they be and why?

💚 - Do you associate your system with any colors? Why those colors?

🩵 - What’s one thing your grateful to your system for?

💙 - If you had a million dollars, how would each alter spend it?

💜 - what’s something you thought was normal pre-syscovery that you have since realized does not happen to most people? (Can be as silly or deep as you want)

🩷 - Does your system play any sports? Are any alters better at that sport than others?

🌈 Bonus, non system related: Do you have any pets? What’s their name? Show a picture!!

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do not claim to support systems if you are pro endo.

do not reblog posts that are anti endo if you are an endo “ system “ or support them.

do not claim to be neutral and then reblog discourse or either pro/anti endo aligned things — that’s not even close to neutral .

do not say you don’t can about terms when you should at the risk of breaking someone else’s boundaries.

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BY THE WAY . i don’t care how anti—endo you are , you should NEVER make someone “ prove “ they are a system by making them share their trauma .

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"Censorship in media is bad and people should be allowed to write what they choose to" and "Writing a story where SA/abuse is glorified and romanticised is not a good thing to do" are statements that I think should be able to coexist

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being a system and also being autistic is super funny because like you can so clearly tell what a system's special interest is by looking at how many fictives from that source they have

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''Is it ableist if I don't want to speak to any of my friend's alters?'' Let's start off simple: Yes, It is. But, allow me to explain why It's ableist. I feel like this type of saying coming from singlets Is a big problem that comes from misunderstanding and lack of research. Many singlets often don't know anything about how DID/OSDD works, and end up saying things like this as a result. DID/OSDD forms In childhood. If your system friend, Is, for example, 13 and FOUND OUT (important keyword here) they were a system, then they didn't just create their system right off the bat. They found out. And let's remember here that your friend wasn't a singlet before discovery, they simply found out about the disorder and their alters! They are an alter, too. There Is no 'original' personality, you have already spoken to their alters before, too. You just didn't know it, and neither did they! Saying ''I don't want to speak to your alters'' Is ableist, and very disrespectful at that. They're an alter too. They all are, and they're not any different from the host, or any alter that you have spoken to before. If you're a singlet with system friends, please do your research instanstly Instead of assuming things like this. They WILL appreciate you trying to understand them. Don't be afraid to reach out to resources or research websites. Please remember. Be respectful. And if they allow it, don't be afraid to ask questions. My system personally always appreciates questions about DID/OSDD, and we're always happy to answer. For systems, I know singlets may struggle to understand. But please give them time and resources to learn, have patience and allow them to understand you, even if it's just a little. thank you for coming to my tedtalk

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PUP EMOTUM

An emotum term for when one’s emotions/emotional state can only be described by puppies, are linked to/related to puppies, feel like puppies, or just are pup/puplike; to have pup/puplike emotions.

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"This user is a puppy all the time"

"This user is chronically puppy /silly"

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what if we make our own little anti-endo tag for the hell of it. what if we made sysfreak a tag because yes, we're ACTUAL systems and we are FREAKY to society and we will EMBRACE IT no matter how much endos bitch and whine about "wanting to be like us." they can never match our freak. never ever.

anyways obviously the tag won't be for everyone and that is okay, we just want an alternative to syspunk because for some reason endos think their ableist bullshit is welcome in punk ideology lmao

god forbid endos let actual systems have their own spaces WITHOUT them because they're all entitled and wanna be pampered by the whole internet. so we'll make our own!

(I shouldn't have to say this but just because we are sometimes aggressively anti-endo DOES NOT mean we support harassment towards ANYONE for ANY REASON. be smart, use common sense, all that jazz)

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Me saying ‘endos do not interact’ does in fact mean endos do not interact.

It doesnt mean to send asks or comments arguing with me for being anti endo.

It doesn’t mean trying to justify being pro endo to me or trying to get me to support the belief that you’re endogenic.

It means do not interact.

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Being an introject from a source where people either hate you or they love you to a unhealthy degree <<<<<

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dump of colourkin flags!!! flags are probably eyestraining. a little dissociated so they might not be the best quality or best looking colours but hopefully these are good :fire:

possible eyestrain tw!

red | orange | yellow green | idk what this colour is | cyan blue | dark blue | purple pink | hot pink | pink alt

colourkin flags! for beings who are colourkin.

no spoons for id, help appreciated but not forced <3 coined by felix & danny! orange for drew, purple for @yashasnowfairy2006! symbol from this post! (link)

taglist!!! @radiomogai @idwl @rwuffles @daybreakthing @boingogender

not a xenogender, tagging for reach

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Sys4sys gang is always taking new applicants....

dont get me wrong ive grown to love being a system and i wouldnt trade it for anything but holy shit. it makes finding long term friends and partners Difficult. and its like. no matter how you treat your alters youre doing it Wrong.

treat them like your ocs? wrong. faking. treat them like your friends or your roommates? wrong. faking. pretend they arent there and try to have a consistent singlet sona? wrong. faking. say "fuck it" and go balls to the wall crazy and just let whoever do whatever they want because youre SO FUCKING TIRED? wrong. hopital.

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no we are not "privilege" for having trauma. It's fucking crippling we can't go anywhere with alcohol without having a ptsd attack. We can't handle being touched, we can't handle being screamed at or left!! It's fucking us over and we also have to deal with being a fuckijg system!!

Which, no, it is not fun to be a system. If you call systems "traumascum" or "syscum" your ableist plain and simple!!

(Btw plural isn't a endo only term dumbasses think of that before you make a "call out" post abt us lmao)