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All bubbles will pop eventually.

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It’s okay to cry. Sometimes your body just needs to let out that stress and emotions you’ve been holding in

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I know I can't expect the warmest of welcomes but it's my fucking house. Once again I'm trapped upstairs and he's going to be mad at me for hiding myself away. The options are feel like an outsider in my own house or take control and make myself an outsider.

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{Learn to be okay with setting boundaries}

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{You’re going to make it through this}

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Here I am, once again feeling on the outside. Sat upstairs while they hang out together. I am happy for him being with his kids I just wish they showed him the same affection they used to.

BM has got into their heads and I don't know how he's going to come back from it.

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I am absolutely devastated.

She drops the kids off, starts an argument at the door, calls me Homewrecker once again and starts accusing me of being dangerous. Luckily I stay well away from the door and let her run her own argument into the ground, hysterically crying in front of OH and her new fiance (who is a super wet lettuce btw).

Now I'm hiding upstairs away from the kids and OH who is trying so hard to get me to be involved but I just wanna curl up in a ball and cry forever.

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Cat's out of the bag!

Oh BM you never fail to do exactly what I think you're going to do. And what I thought you were gonna do was get pregnant straight away with a man you've known for 5 months!

Congratulations on bringing another child who's life you'll ruin by being the same old narcissistic D-bag you've always been.

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Take a moment to breathe. Notice: you are okay, you have survived, and you have made it. You are going to make it. You are alive. And you are breathing. Your heart is beating, you exist, and you are strong, you have survived.

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BM, if you think that dropping OH's stuff off and trying to take a trip down memory lane is going to wobble me, you've got another thing coming. All it did was let me and OH have a good laugh at your tactics and remind OH why he's so glad not to be with you...

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“Is it true that money cannot buy happiness? Yes, it is true. Money cannot buy happiness—but it makes misery more comfortable. That’s why I am not against money—I am all for it. It is better to be comfortably miserable than uncomfortably miserable. I have lived in poverty and I have lived in richness, and believe me: Richness is far better than poverty. I want you to be rich in every possible way—material, psychological, spiritual. I want you to live the richest life that has ever been lived on the earth.”

— Osho, Fame, Fortune, and Ambition

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never stop being a good person because of bad people

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I grew up thinking I was a Disney princess. Turns out I’m this lady

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More quotes about moving on here.