theangeldiaries

[theangeldiaries]

the distraction technique is 😳

i have never had 3d movement so fast

[theangeldiaries]

hello 1000 followers 🪷

[theangeldiaries]

define: states 🫶

also known as: how to manifest using states!

your state is what manifests, not your thoughts.

this has become a very inflammatory sentence for some, but it shouldn't be scary. states simplify manifestation, it doesn't complicate it.

at the beginning of my loa journey, i would affirm alllll day long. while watching tv, while reading, while hanging out with my friends. and by the logic of "your dominant thoughts manifest," i should've gotten my manifestations after only a few days of that. but i didn't, because dominant thoughts aren't what manifests, it's your state that manifests.

you are not a state. you are I Am, and you enter in and out of states all day long. there is an infinite number of states, and no one experiences states the same way. so even if two people are manifesting the same thing (for example, money), the State of Being Rich will probably look different for both of them. so there's really no one specific way a state should look/feel!

because there are an infinite number of states you can occupy, right now you have the power to be rich, just as much as you have the power to be poor. it is just as easy to occupy the state of being rich as it is the state of being poor. you are both of these things, and you know that you are both of these things because you can imagine being both of these things, and everything stems from your imagination.

the state that you consistently go to, also known as your dwelling state, is the state that manifests into your 3d reality.

so, how do you get into a state?

you switch states simply by intending to. the second you want to switch states, you do. in order to maintain this new state, you can use a technique such as affirming, scripting, or visualizing.

let's talk about affirming.

affirming is a TECHNIQUE. some people argue that since affirmations are just thoughts, you can never stop affirming and should be monitoring your thoughts all day long. i do not agree with this.

your thoughts do not manifest. it's why i spent my time from summer 2020-summer 2021 affirming on a constant loop 24/7 that i was in a relationship with my [old] sp, and it never manifested. it's why when you get intrusive thoughts they don't manifest. it's why--even tho every time you go to the bathroom you check behind the shower curtain in case something's there--nothing ever is. it's also why you were able to manifest something by thinking you wanted it once.

you do not need to "create new neural pathways" or think in your favor 24/7. your negative thoughts act as indicators that you fell out of your desired state, and you can instantly correct this by shifting back to the state of the wish fulfilled. you don't even need to flip the thought. your thoughts have no power, unless you give them power by allowing them to let you wallow in the state of lack.

all that being said, affirmations can help you maintain your desired state. i say maintain, because getting into the state is instant, and requires no technique. however, there is such thing as affirming from lack.

what is affirming from lack? it's affirming to get what you want. it's affirming from a state of not having your desire. it's the same as thinking of your desire, instead of thinking from your desire.

a few months ago, the 10k challenge was going around. it was marketed as a fool-proof way to get your manifestation, because all you had to do was "affirm 10k times to create a new neural pathway which created an assumption." yet so many people affirmed 10k+ times and still didn't get their desire. why? because they were affirming from lack.

quality > quantity. you can affirm 10k times and not get your desire, because you weren't in your desire state. you can affirm once and get your desire, because you were in the state.

so how do you not affirm from lack?

an easy way is to pay attention to your affirmations. mindless affirming is out! this shouldn't be a scary thing to hear, because as we discussed, there's no need for you to affirm 5 million times in order to reach some imaginary quota, because your thoughts don't manifest.

affirm with purpose! create an affirmation that implies you already have your desire, and repeat it with the purpose of conjuring the feeling of knowing. the feeling of knowing may feel like calm, peace, relief, contentment, or even excitement. when Neville Goddard said "feeling is the secret," this is the feeling he was talking about, NOT emotions.

if your affirmations are making you feel anxious, this can indicate one of two things:

affirming is not the technique for you (which is OKAY!!)

you're affirming to get

"affirming to get" is a big debate as well. yes, you are manifesting your desire because you want to get it in your 3D. but in order to get it in your 3D, you must change your 4D first. so you should be using techniques such as affirming in order to change your 4D, knowing that if you change your 4D, your 3D will follow. there is no one to change but self.

if affirming is not the technique for you, there is always visualizing, scripting, vaunting, etc.

also the distraction technique, my fav way to get into the state of the wish fulfilled! hehe

to sum it up:

"it's not focusing so much on getting the objects, but becoming the one who already has it." - Edward Art

where does persisting come in?

you should still be persisting in the fact that you already have your desire. you persist by consistently shifting back to your desired state, no matter what you see in the 3D.

reacting to the 3D, like negative thoughts, is an indicator that you have slipped from your desired state.

it can be very beneficial for you to have self-soothing tactics to use in case your 3D causes you to spiral or makes you anxious. these can include eft tapping, breathing exercises, etc.

your 3D is malleable. if you see something in your 3D that you don't like, you can change it. your 3D is simply a reflection of your dwelling state. if you don't see what you want in your 3D, let it serve as a reminder to shift your state back to your desired state. once again, you change your 4D to change your 3D. there is no one to change but self.

FAQ

question: if you can affirm to get into a state, doesn't that mean your thoughts create your state and that your thoughts technically manifest?

answer: WRONG! like i've mentioned earlier in this post, you enter a state by intention. affirming can help you maintain the state, but your thoughts do not create your state. your state creates your thoughts. every state has thoughts that correspond with it, which is why can manufacture affirmations that imply you already have your desire and repeat them to conjure the feeling of knowing. it's also why negative thoughts act as indicators that you fell out of the state.

question: isn't that the same as someone saying "just assume?"

answer: NO! there are techniques to help you maintain the state. yes entering a state is instant, but there are techniques for you to use to stay in it.

question: are states ableist?

answer: NO!!!! this is something that people are saying on loatwt in order to villainize the people who teach states, and it's frankly disgusting. ANYONE can get into a state, even if they are neurodivergent! you are always in a state! you're in a state right now. i am neurodivergent, as are most of my friends that are states enthusiasts, and it has helped all of us to manifest our desires without driving ourselves to mental exhaustion by affirming 24/7.

question: how long do i have to stay in the wish fulfilled?

answer: it's not so much about how long you stay in the state, it's about frequency. no, not frequency as the law of attraction vibration bullshit, but how often you go back to the state. if you think about your desire 15 times a day, you should shift back into the state 15 times that day. if you think about your desire 5 times, then you should shift back into the state 5 times that day.

hopefully this helps clarify the idea of states for you, and helps you manifest your desires!! <3

[theangeldiaries]

I’m sure you get asked this a lot so forgive me for this, but how do I change my physical appearance without….y’know, obsessing over the 3d ?? i don’t know why but physical appearance is what I’m struggling with the most bc all I have to do is look in the mirror or even look down. I feel like I do accept the imagination as truth, I really truly do believe in all of this stuff. but it also feels like I accept the 3d as well too much. It feels like I’m stuck between the two realities tbh, and both are fighting to have most of my energy and attention. So I guess another question would be how do I balance the 3d and 4d in my life? I don’t think I want to completely dismiss the 3d and see it as irrelevant.

…..Also love your account k bye 🫂❤️

"all I have to do is not look in the mirror or even look down" you don't have to do this! I've been there as well where i tried to avoid mirrors as much as possible. please don't fight with your 3d. your 3d is a gift you received from god(yourself). your 3d is a simulation of yourself and should be highly honored as such. I'm 100% against the "fuck the 3d, 3d is my bitch" attitude.

you’re obsessing over the 3d because:

a) you're still trying to change the 3d

ditch this mindset immediately. it won't aid you in any way. if you want to be successful, you are going to have to ditch this "i want to change the 3d, my 3d needs to change" mindset one day. there is no other way. manifesting isn’t about changing the 3d although that’s what attracts most people to this community. your goal isn’t to change the 3d. it’s not your job to change the 3d. your job is to change your self-concept aka your state of consciousness. that’s all you are concerned with. you only spiral because you think it’s your job to make it happen in the 3d, so when the 3d goes wrong, you think you must be doing something wrong.

b) you're not fulfilling your desire in imagination

desires are within and must be fulfilled within. i’ll preach this until the day i die. it’s not “once i get my desire in the 3d, i’ll be fulfilled”. no. you fulfill yourself in imagination. that’s the only place where you can truly fulfill yourself. once you fulfill yourself in imagination, you won’t look for results in the 3d because you already feel fulfilled. that’s when the 3d results suddenly seem irrelevant to you. you realize that this whole time, you didn’t actually want results in the 3d, you wanted to have it in consciousness/imagination. results in the 3d is a bonus, not your priority. desiring is a confession of not being it. so, if you’re still desiring, that’s already enough of proof that you have not fulfilled yourself within.

c) you're not identifying yourself with your true self(the invisible you) but instead with your avatar(3d self, body)

ed art’s videos and series (must read!)can explain it better than i ever can!

to your next question,

"how do I balance the 3d and 4d in my life?"

3d isn't something separate from the 4d. would you say 2d is separate from 3d? probably not. a piece of paper is 2d, and it exists WITHIN 3d. so, 2d is a part of 3d. it's the same thing. 3d is WITHIN 4d. they're not separate!

"all that you behold, though it appears without, it is within, in your imagination, of which this world of mortality is but a faint shadow" -william blake

there is no "outer world". there is nothing "outside" of you. though it appears without, it is within!! everything in the 3d appears to be without, but it is within since 3d is a tiny section that exists in 4d just like how a piece of paper(2d) exists in 3d!

there is no "balancing" the 3d life and the 4d life. you're always living in imagination. always. you can never stop imagining because imagination is who you are. this is equivalent to 2 dimensional bugs such as ants asking how to balance their life of 2d and 3d. whether they like it or not, they’re living in the 3d. but since they’re 2d beings, they can only sense 2d with their physical senses. but it still doesn’t change the fact that they’re living in this 3d world. it’s the same thing for us. 

when you see something you dislike in the 3d and think to yourself "ugh! i hate this! why is it like this?", where is that taking place? in imagination, in your consciousness!! everything and everyone in the 3d penetrate your brain. so, it is in your brain, in your consciousness/imagination(i don't believe in brains but you get what i mean). everything you experience in the 3d, you experience through your consciousness. everything is consciousness.

the only thing you can do when you see something undesirable in the 3d, is to not accept it and be indifferent to it. the key for me is not identifying myself with it.

there was a girl who lived in neville's time and went to neville's lecture and asked him how she can change her undesirable circumstances. she went on and on to explain her situation. and you know what neville said? he smiled and said, "don't accept it". she then realized that no matter what’s going on around her, she was under no obligation to accept it as final. she started focusing on the fulfillment of her desire instead of her circumstances, and she was able to manifest in 2 weeks. 

if there’s something in the 3d that doesn’t deserve my precious attention, i simply do not identify myself with it. there was recently a family drama where my grandma had a beef with my aunt and she called my mom crying blah blah blah. what did i do? i didn’t identify myself with it. there was no need to resist or fight with it. i simply do not identify myself with anything that does not serve me or make me feel good. 

say you want hazel eyes. but in the 3d, you have brown eyes. you identify yourself with your inner self, which you always have been, and fulfill your desire in imagination/consciousness only. then you’re conscious of having hazel eyes and have this inner conviction that you have hazel eyes because you do. then you catch your reflection in the mirror and see brown eyes. what do you do? don’t identify yourself with it. 3d is a magnified mirror of your (inner) SELF. so, you seeing brown eyes in the 3d is simply a remnant of the state you were in. but you’re no longer in the state of having brown eyes. therefore, it shouldn’t bother you in any way. you simply don’t identify yourself with it. plus, when you fulfill your desire in imagination and identify yourself with imagination, the 3d no longer bothers you because your desire feels so real. you can’t even deny it.

hope this helps! 

[theangeldiaries]

Stop focusing on how it works and just realize that it's already working. Stop getting in your own way by assuming you have to do xyz to get it and just assume that it's already done. Do whatever you need to to get there, but just allow yourself to accept that you have it already in the 4D, and that the 3D is gonna reflect that, and that'll be enough 🥰

[theangeldiaries]

hi angel ! ive been in love with this boy for forever and i heard from his friends that he liked me too, but recently i just found out he has a new girlfriend and he got another girl a box of chocolates and a teddy bear for valentines day and im heart broken, i dont know how that could have happened just out of no where. i'm devastated and i cant stop crying, i know i can revise it but im just so confused...i love him so much that it hurts...any advice?

hiya !! here’s the thing right… your boy is so love in with you that he can’t stand it so he’s gotten with a new girl to try and distract himself from how much he likes you. obviously that won’t work and they’ll only be together for another week or two until he realises that no matter what he does he will always want you and ask you to be his instead 💌

or, he gave you chocolates and the cutest teddy bear and confessed his love to you, not anyone else. either works 💗

(my point is, it doesn’t matter; keep having faith in him and trust that he’ll come to you)

[theangeldiaries]

mindset and self concept so good that i jokingly thought of "okay, im definitely gonna be someone's valentines on vday"

AND IT ACTUALLY ENDS UP HAPPENING??? SLAY

SLAY

have the best valentines !!

[theangeldiaries]

Guys I stg, it gets so much easier after you realize that the 3D doesn't fucking matter. Like the 3D is the LAST thing that will manifest, why would you rely on the last thing to manifest to be your confirmation?? Like no, you have to take that confirmation from inside yourself, because you manifest instantly in imagination. Take the thing that manifests FIRST (thoughts, imagination) as confirmation because that's all the proof you need 💕

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hi i have no clue where to ask this 😭 but ive been pursuing an sp for 6 ish months, but within the first 3 or 4 i did some stuff that made them (and their friends) uncomfortable and i've been affirming almost nonstop but as of now the 3d has shown me almost traumatizing stuff relating to them and what i did :(( idk if i should just keep persisting and wait for it to turn around or start new because it's gotten pretty bad but ik circumstances don't matter! i'm just conflicted ^^

revise it, we don’t want anyone feeling uncomfortable; you’re right, circumstances don’t matter so from now on as far as you’re aware, you didn’t do anything and this situation doesn’t exist. that’s the new story, commit to it

[theangeldiaries]

the only thing keeping unfavourable circumstances in your reality is you. enjoy the relief this knowledge should give you :)

[theangeldiaries]

Tips if you feel “stuck”

1. Take a leap of faith. Let yourself believe the wonderful things you want believe about yourself. Allow yourself to feel good. With brazen imprudence, dare to assume that your desires are yours, dare to recognise imagination as the only reality.

2. Relax. You do not have to feel good 24/7. It is so healthy to have different emotions, thoughts, and feelings. Remember you are GOD simply passing through a state, and your thoughts and emotions are not who you are!

Take it easy, creation is finished. All the possible riches and beauties of the world are already at your fingertips, at YOUR command and attention. Simply knowing it is done is more than enough.  

3. Fulfil within. Prioritise your inner world, and say “yes” to every desire. You don’t have to change a single thing outside of yourself, because you are the source. Imagination is your playground, go straight to the end and spoil yourself with your wildest dreams. 

4. Experiment. Don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun with manifesting! Find out what works for you. You absolutely do not have to do what bloggers do. The key is what makes you feel good. Take time to understand the law and apply. 

[theangeldiaries]

i have an sp and their with a 3p and i’m always seeing affirmations about affirming for my sp to only want me but i already know they do but the 3p just forcing them to stay in a rls and keep manipulating they way back into their life and i just want the 3p to move on so me and my sp can be happily together. i have been affirming but it’s like everytime i try to manifest something i would affirm and persist and feel good asl the first three days but then i would start to question and waver. i’ve been affirming: “my sp is all mines nb wants my sp but me” “nb is with my sp but me” “me and my sp are happily together with nb else involved” “my sp is all mines/my sp belongs to me” i’ve kinda been overthinking and wondering if these are good enough but i really wanna change and persist bc i really want this. thanksss 🫶🏽

if you want to change your affirmations you can but i don’t see anything wrong with the ones you’re currently using. it’s not the affirmations, it’s the attention to the 3p that this ask suggests you give it. affirming over and over and then questioning why your sp is still not with you is so counterproductive. the affs are so fit, now just remove your attention off the 3p (p.s. it’s easier that it sounds) or even better: script a new story - one where the 3p literally just doesn’t exist - and stay faithful to that story while you’re affirming. then there will be no 3p to worry about :)

[theangeldiaries]

does affirming to “get” really not manifest? i seen someone on twitter say that affirming to get is not what gets you your manifestations and that it’s more too it even tho i tell myself i have all my desires, i feel like i’m doing everything wrong now 😦

i think what they mean by that is you’re not affirming to get, you’re affirming to remind yourself you already have your desires. i mean an affirmation is an affirmation so as long as you have the intention of getting your desire behind it i really don’t think it matters. i also think it’s more about checking the 3d; affirming whilst looking at the 3d and waiting for your affirmations to translate into your reality is probably going to lead to questions like ‘where is my desire’ and ‘why isn’t it working’. but affirming to “get” does manifest, we’re not putting this work and discipline in to not get like that doesn’t make sense 🤨 but yeah that’s my take on that, i see it alllllll the time as well !! 💗

[theangeldiaries]

I’m ND and I overthink a lot and can’t seem to stop thinking about the old story. I affirm and persist and I always think as if I have everything I want to manifest but the old story just keeps slipping into my mind, do you know any tips on how I can discipline my thoughts into not going down that path? thanks so much friend 👼🏼

hi!! you don’t have to forget the old story. i mention it a lot in my posts just because i’ve been there are when i realised that any unfavourable circumstances i was dealing with could be erased for good i went all in with the new story and then i didn’t have anything to worry about. i did deal with quite a lot of resistance to the new story at first but i just kept pushing until the old story came to mind less and less and i credit that to repeating affirmations. but if you’re finding that too much of your energy is spent trying to forget the old story, you don’t have to continue on with it; simply manifesting whilst knowing that the 3d has to change is just as effective. hope this helps 👼🪐

as for discipline, i can only speak from experience but i regarded the new story as an affirmation and the old story as an unfavourable thought: i would have an unfavourable thought of the old story and simply repeat a simplified version of the new story over that negative thought to counteract it and reinforce the favourable story. for example:

i can’t believe my sp is in a relationship with someone else when all i want is to be with them. (unfavourable thought/old story)

actually no, i’ve been with my sp since last march and our relationship has never been better. (reinforcing a positive thought/old story)

the new story is all that matters 💗 i hope you can find some relief in that

[theangeldiaries]

something that’s becoming increasingly more apparent to me is the fact that i need to stop trying to change the 3d and just go within. I never fully understood this, after all, aren’t we manifesting with the purpose of changing our 3d and living with our desires? it made no sense to me.

after listening to edward art again & reading ‘at your command’ and ‘feeling is the secret’ by neville goddard, i realised that this inner man, my imagination, it truly IS the real reality. something edward art said that really stuck with me was “let your inner man experience it” (not sure that was the exact quote but along those lines).

why would i care what the 3d is showing me when i have it in my imagination right now ? why do we place such importance on the 3d and not within when we can experience our desires right now. am i after validation from others? what’s the difference between having it in my 4d as opposed to having it in my 3d?

i realised validation was the answer. i wanted my desires to be validated by people around me. i wanted others to notice the changes in my life and comment on them so i could feel successful and, well, validated. now i realise this is futile & pointless. the only validation i need is my own validation. if eiypo, then wouldn’t others opinions be me validating myself anyway? so why would i wait for that when I can have it now & feel whole and complete now? it makes no sense and I now think i understand that.

so i guess the point of this post is to tell you that you don’t need to wait for others to validate your desires or congratulate you, congratulate yourself now, compliment yourself now, after all, you have it already in imagination don’t you?

[theangeldiaries]

what affirmations can i say for a 3p situation while manifesting my sp?

‘sp isn’t interested in anyone but me.’

‘i’m all my sp wants.’

and then forget the old story.

any affirmations along those lines