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Jem: Who ate the donuts?

Kit: (panicking) Not me

Jem: Then why is there white powder on your face?

Kit: It's cocaine

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“nice blog”

thank you im really good at clicking reblog

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"... You're what??"

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''i wasted those years'' who cares. you lived the only life you could've lived in those moments

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If a girl is to do the same superman thing where he takes off his disguise, we just look pervy. Not the same effect

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I love the "glasses are disability" thing because it applies to basically every complaint abled people have about disability

"You're not even that bad, why would you get that?" Have you ever used a magnifying glass for small details or zoomed in on a picture

"Why do you have that accommodation TODAY?" Why do you wear reading glasses when you're reading

"It seems like your 'needs' are inconsistent." Yeah and you wear sunglasses when it's sunny and not all the time

"But you can technically walk without that." Yeah and if I put the page really close to your face you could read it, it would just hurt and be hugely impractical, inconvenient, and limiting

"But you COULD go without it all the time, you don't NEED it to live." And maybe you could technically see without your glasses, doesn't mean it's comfortable or practical day to day

"If you REALLY had a hard time seeing you would have glasses." Have you ever known someone who couldn't afford a new pair of glasses? Or eye appointments? Someone who needed vision therapy or special prism glasses? Someone whose vision only gets bad during migraines or seizures? Someone with astigmatism that glasses can't help? Someone who didn't qualify for LASIK?

"You only use it when you're out in public." Have you ever gotten up to use the bathroom at night without putting on your glasses

"Decorating it is just trying to get attention, and it's a medical device so stop glamorizing it." Do you hate any patterned or colorful glasses frames too? Art with characters who wear glasses? People who make OCs with glasses? Glasses chains, prescription sunglasses, aesthetic fake glasses with tinted lenses?

"There are secretly lots of people just using aids for fun and attention." There are secretly lots of people wearing fake glasses or colored contacts for fun and attention, it does not affect you

"We need to find fakers, they're stealing disabled resources!" Someone pretending to need glasses is "taking" a seat in the front from someone who might need it more. That sucks and they shouldn't do that. But I'm not going to scrutinize every person who wears glasses to see if I think they really need that seat. You personally are not the arbiter of who is (based on the random times you've seen them) secretly not disabled

"My friend has that and doesn't act like that." Does every pair of glasses in production, or even every pair close to your prescription, work for you? Is your vision identical to every other nearsighted person?

"If you can do X why can't you do Y? Some people with that can do Y."/"But if you have that how can you do X? People with that can't usually do X." Some people are nearsighted and some people are farsighted and some people are both. Some farsighted people can read some without glasses and some can't. And good distance vision doesn't mean you don't ever need glasses, it's just an entirely different reason you'd need glasses

"You're too young to need that." And there are young people who need bifocal lenses

"Why don't you use this DIFFERENT aid though, it would look like you didn't even have an aid." Why doesn't everyone in the world wear contacts

"Why can't I/my friend/my kid play with it?" Do you let random strangers and children try on your glasses at the grocery store

"I was just trying to help, I thought you'd need a push/you were in the way." Are you cool with me suddenly pulling your glasses off your face to clean them, or because the glare was distracting me

"You'll eventually stop using it though right?" Are you planning on no longer needing glasses someday

Disabled people are free to add

I am aware this is not a 1-to-1 perfectly accurate post. Do not come into the notes trying to "um actually this isn't a perfect comparison." I know. Just don't

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I genuinely don't understand people who don't like emma carstairs as an main character in TDA... there was a considerable period in which both clary and tessa were insufferable in their series, and cordelia somehow went downwill, from wonderful in chog to annoying as hell in chot.... emma makes mistakes yes but at no time is she annoying, insufferable or boring... she really is cassie's best main girl, and she isn't even trying yk... no special skills, just a badass shadowhunter!

(disregarding the strength bc of the parabatai curse, emma is still just a badass shadowhunter!!!!)

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cutely emits a single ping

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Me knowing that we‘re about to get freaking TWP character portraits from frostbite.studios herself

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WHY IS KIT WINNING WTF

GUYS I'M A KIT LOVER TOO BUT WE ALREADY HAVE SO MUCH OF ART FOR HIM

GIMME DRU OR ASH PLEASEE WE HAVE SO LITTLE OF THEM

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how to get close to people for beginners

getting close to people strategies

first time getting close to people walkthrough

techniques for getting close to people

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the way we got the most delicious, heartwretching, beautiful situationship and then had to wait a literal decade for them to become cannon is fucking criminal