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reason 19382818 why I hope anyone who enjoys loli and anything remotely similar to it kills themselves. the sheer devastation sexual abuse causes to children for the rest of their fucking lives cannot be understated and to you it’s a fucking fetish and you enjoy depicting it. die NOW !!!!

do you ever look at old pictures of yourself as a little girl and genuinely wanna cry knowing that during that time grown ass men were sexualizing you? I was a literal baby how could anyone find that sexually appealing.. like fuck y’all I hope you burn in hell forever

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gender is a brutal oppressive system and gender ideology is a useless liberal attempt at reforming it, true radical action would be abolishing it all together

I don’t believe in the benevolent version of any tool of oppression. I don’t believe in trans people who are “just living their lives”. I don’t believe in good versions of watered down religions. I don’t believe in harmless beauty rituals. I don’t believe in harmless sexual violence. I don’t believe in “nice men”.

A dull knife is still a knife.

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do you ever look at old pictures of yourself as a little girl and genuinely wanna cry knowing that during that time grown ass men were sexualizing you? I was a literal baby how could anyone find that sexually appealing.. like fuck y’all I hope you burn in hell forever

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Just read a long ass post by a TIM complaining that everywhere he goes, "AFAB" people act uncomfortable around him. Tinder dates where they didn't realize until they met in person that he was male, clamming up and ghosting. Getting glares in a "queer" self defense class when he uses the word bitch. Complaining that even at a trans/"queer"/kink positive dance, he went home alone, while his AFAB friends found hookups. A female friend of 14 years who'd fully accepted him as a bi, GNC man, cut him off after he started insisting he was a woman.

The whole thing was framed as the world having a problem with "transfems," but all I could think of was the kind of guy who calls every one of his ex girlfriends crazy. If literally everywhere you go, you make female people uncomfortable, YOU are the common denominator. YOU are the cause. Getting mad that women aren't accommodating and coddling you in just the right way to stroke your ego is the most male shit I've ever read.

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once again men are proving us correct when we say that right wing men see us as private property and left wing men see us as public property

100% for real, this lil fash shithead has no idea, but this is such an absolutely perfect encapsulation of how the squalid institution of hetero marriage under capitalism is. Marx could not have phrased it better himself.

This is what they have in mind as the ideal, as the institution that the state is supposed to revolve around. All the means testing, tax shit, etc etc etc All the medieval fuckery that treats people who aren't married as different from people who aren't. This is what it comes down to.

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ever notice how womens clothes are kind of horrible compared to normal clothes

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"How did we not see this?" "How did we not know that what Ariana Grande/Jamie Lynn/Amanda Bynes were doing was a sexual reference?"

Because that is part of the appeal, guys. The fact that you're part of an unwilling, not-understanding audience exposed to metaphors of sexual acts performed by unwilling, not-understanding actors.

You were not supposed to get what "Taynt" was supposed to mean, or what milking potatoes was a nod to, or what a pickle being passed through a hole in a bathroom door was meant to be.

It's all part of the fantasy, pushing children so, so close to the edge without "ruining" them, without giving them access to enough information that they turn into adults.

Wonder why Ariana Grande, in those internet skits, kept repeating "Can a teenage girl do this?" and "Can a teenage girl do that?" This is why. She's supposed to perform sexual adjacent acts, but constantly remind her audience that she's just too young to know what she's doing.

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It’s really a tragedy that most people get their education on what sex acts to perform and how to perform it based on porn. Positions and sex acts in porn aren’t chosen based on how they feel, but how they look like for a camera and what the majority male audience wants to see (which includes violence and pain btw).

People pay lip service to knowing “It’s not realistic” yet, to the best of their ability, a vast majority of those people are mimicking the acts and positions they see in porn.

How many acts and positions that have their origins in a certain camera framing or a trending director’s choice have integrated themselves as “standard”’sex in people’s imaginations? If people focused on pleasant sensation only in their sex- it would probably look radically different from what most people reach for.

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The average man thinks he’s smarter than the average women. And women generally agree.

By Lisa Wade, PhD

It starts early. At the age of five, most girls and boys think that their own sex is the smartest, a finding consistent with the idea that people tend to think more highly of people like themselves. Around age six, though, right when gender stereotypes tend to take hold among children, girls start reporting that they think boys are smarter, while boys continue to favor themselves and their male peers.

They may have learned this from their parents. Both mothers and fathers tend to think that their sons are smarter than their daughters. They’re more likely to ask Google if their son is a “genius” (though also whether they’re “stupid”). Regarding their daughters, they’re more likely to inquire about attractiveness.

Once in college, the trend continues. Male students overestimate the extent to which their males peers have “mastered” biology, for example, and underestimate their female peers’ mastery, even when grades and outspokenness were accounted for.  To put a number on it, male students with a 3.00 G.P.A. were evaluated as equally smart as female students with a 3.75 G.P.A.

When young scholars go professional, the bias persists. More so than women, men go into and succeed in fields that are believed to require raw, innate brilliance, while women more so than men go into and succeed in fields that are believed to require only hard work.

Once in a field, if brilliance can be attributed to a man instead of a woman, it often will be. Within the field of economics, for example, solo-authored work increases a woman’s likelihood of getting tenure, a paper co-authored with a woman has an effect as well, but a paper co-authored with a man has zero effect. Male authors are given credit in all cases.

In negotiations over raises and promotions at work, women are more likely to be lied to, on the assumption that they’re not smart enough to figure out that they’re being given false information.

Overall, and across countries, men rate themselves as higher in analytical intelligence than women, and often women agree. Women are often rated as more verbally and emotionally intelligent, but the analytical types of intelligence (such as mathematical and spatial) are more strongly valued. When intelligence is not socially constructed as male, it’s constructed as masculine. Hypothetical figures presented as intelligent are judged as more masculine than less intelligent ones.

All this matters.

By age 6, some girls have already started opting out of playing games that they’re told are for “really, really smart” children. The same internalized sexism may lead young women to avoid academic disciplines that are believed to require raw intelligence. And, over the life course, women may be less likely than men to take advantage of career opportunities that they believe demand analytical thinking.

Lisa Wade, PhD is a professor at Occidental College. She is the author of American Hookup, a book about college sexual culture, and a textbook about gender. You can follow her on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.

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women need to wake up and understand every feminist throughout history has experienced being called and compared to every terrible thing in the book. we're gonna kindness and politeness and understanding our way back to the 1950s. women have to start being angry.

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Do you know any radfems in real life?

-Yes

-No

-I think so but I'm not sure

-I used to but I don't anymore

-Other

Thanks for the submission Anon!

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Remember, the most important thing when seeking help for your sexual assault is that people can’t *like* the way you were sexually assaulted.

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"Females can't help but display their sexuality" - you mean you can't look at parts of our normal, natural bodies without sexually objectifying them. Because you are porn-addled.

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The switch from the Paris Hilton era of beauty standards to the kardashian era of beauty standards gave me whiplash. It’s so fucked up that the expectations for women’s bodies change like clothing trends, but men have literally always had the same beauty standards basically. When I was 13, women were supposed to be stick thin and have no hips, and two years later we were supposed to be “slim thick” and it literally changes like every ten years. It’s an impossible game - if you were super hot in 2006, then it was physiologically impossibly for you to be super hot in 2016 because it required different fucking bone structure. All men are ever required to do to meet current beauty standards is be kinda tall (but wasn’t Tom cruise the “sexiest man alive” at one point?) and be in shape. Always. That’s it. A man who was considered hot a thousand years ago would still be hot! But women are supposed to radically change ourselves every decade, if we want to be beautiful. Fuck that.