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we as a society have surpassed the need to shave our bikini lines. we’re either making swimsuits into actual shorts or just letting ppl show their pubes in public bcuz im tired of this

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If female celebs are gonna keep doing the no pants/sheer/coochie out look, the least they could do is showcase some fucking bush. Grow her out until it looks like you’ve got Questlove in a leg lock.

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ig: mimvely_0.0  

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Magic of water, Kobe, Japan, 1951 - by Koji Takashima (1937), Japanese

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The latest episode of Our Unwritten Seoul...

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Being an adult in this recession and being like wow I am totally "splurging" on 3 new sets of cotton underwear and 3 pairs of socks like whoaaaaa hold your horses duke of the land where's all this money gonna come from

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Not to be totalitarian or anything but there should be decibel limits on street legal cars and motorcycles

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Saw my best friend's partner yesterday which is something I usually avoid but I have to catsit for them this weekend, anyway. He's a piece of shit, basically a 6ft toddler with anger management issues. The worst thing is recently my best friend kept saying he'd changed and I actually started to believe her bc, like I said, I usually manage to avoid him and she sounded convincing. But unfortunately he's worse than I remember.

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hi everybody please reblog this and tell me your go-to coffee order right now and if you don't like coffee feel free to include your go-to tea order instead

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The friends that are chronically 30 minutes late are so important to have because they teach u patience and the meaning of loving someone so much u let ur anger go. I have not mastered either yet but I’m sure it’s coming

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When I was like 15 or 16 I helped conduct an intergenerational LGBT meeting. I presented alongside a millennial nonbinary bisexual woman to a room of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and two spirit elders. The presentation was to inform these elders on what the new generations of local LGBT people are doing, and how we're identifying, and with what words. We ran through a bunch of sexualities and trans and nonbinary gender identities and "queer" identity.

These people who were all 50+ were trying to keep up with the times, but their bodies visibly tensed when we started using the word "queer." They started whispering to each other, becoming less engaged. I remember one flamboyant guy started rolling his eyes and lightly heckling. At the end we took questions, and they started telling me and my millennial mentor about the word queer.

Most of them had been called it derogatorily, like a slur. Many of them were called that while being beaten–that was a story that many of the gay men spoke up about. An elderly lesbian for angry at the presentation and told us that she would never be queer because she's not unusual. One gay man had a homophobic bully that terrorized him as a boy, called him a queer and they got in a fight. The gay man grabbed a brick and hit the guy's head–he ended up dying and the gay man was convicted of manslaughter. He was crying while he admitted all this, telling me that that's how serious the word "queer" is to the older generations. I think it's one of the largest reasons why we are disconnected from our elders.

After the meeting I felt awful. I couldn't stop thinking about how they were talking about not liking what the community is becoming, but back then I was too young to fully grasp it. My mentor assured me that progress takes time, and they will eventually do the right thing and come around to using the proper pronouns, and accepting of "queerness". But I wasn't so sure. Whenever I hear the word queer, I think of all the people that we alienate.

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世界遺産 石見銀山 World Heritage Iwami Ginzan Silver Mine

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Je sors de chez Gibert avec deux romans japonais... c'est une addiction

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Gacha guardian by 湯島猫部

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me pretending my enormous feelings arent crushing me to death and carrying out routine tasks that are good for my health and longevity