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29 things I learned in 29 years
Life is a journey filled with lessons, experiences, and moments of growth. As we navigate the ups and downs, it is essential to embrace wisdom and guidance along the way. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 4:7 (KJV), “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” With this in mind, here are the 29 valuable lessons I learned over the years that reflect on my life, faith, and personal growth.
1. Be open to change—it’s inevitable. Life constantly shifts, and resisting it will only make the process harder. Embrace it with a flexible mindset.
2. Stay teachable—everything is a learning experience. Whether in success or failure, there’s always something to learn. Being a lifelong student keeps you growing.
3. Practice patience. Most worthwhile things take time. Don’t rush the process—trust it.
4. Hard work pays off. It might not happen overnight, but consistent effort will always yield results, even when you least expect it.
5. Earning money is hard; spending it is easy. Learn to value what you earn, and be intentional with how you spend.
6. Be punctual—respect other people’s time. Time is one of the most valuable things you can give or take from someone. Being on time shows respect.
7. Don’t take everything personally. Often, people’s actions are a reflection of them, not you. Let go of the need to internalize everything.
8. Learn to have fun; not everything needs to be serious. Balance hard work with play—laughter and joy are necessary to enjoy the journey.
9. Read the Bible and meditate on God’s Word. It provides wisdom, direction, and comfort, grounding you in faith.
10. Pray every day. It’s a way to reconnect with God, find peace, and gain clarity in life’s chaos.
11. Always strive to be the better person in the room. Lead by example with kindness, humility, and integrity.
12. Be involved and make time for the important people in your life. Relationships are built on shared moments and presence. Be intentional in fostering those connections.
13. Stay humble. No matter how much you achieve, humility keeps you grounded and approachable.
14. Respect others’ opinions and really listen to them. Everyone has a unique perspective. Listening opens doors to understanding, even when you disagree.
15. Support local businesses. It builds community and uplifts those who pour their hearts into their craft.
16. Make yourself available for the Lord. Prioritize spiritual growth and openness to His plans for your life.
17. Be grateful for everything, big or small. Gratitude shifts your perspective, helping you see blessings even in challenging times.
18. Friendships don’t require constant communication. True friends remain connected even with time and distance in between.
19. Laziness won’t take you anywhere. Success requires consistent effort, and procrastination only delays your progress.
20. There’s a whole world outside your room. Don’t limit yourself—explore, connect with nature, and see new things.
21. You decide what you want to believe in. Your beliefs shape your reality, so choose them wisely, aligning them with your values and truth.
22. Sleep is important. Rest is necessary for mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Don’t sacrifice it for short-term gains.
23. Health is wealth. Without your health, nothing else matters. Take care of your body and mind, as they carry you through life.
24. Having a pet is a step closer to parenting. It teaches responsibility, patience, and unconditional love, preparing you for future responsibilities.
25. You choose who to connect with; people come and go. Relationships ebb and flow. Cherish the ones who stay, and let go of those who drift away.
26. There is joy in chaos. True joy comes from within, not material things. Life’s messiness can still hold beauty. Learn to find joy in small moments and inner peace.
27. Appreciate the help of others. No one achieves success alone. Gratitude towards those who assist you strengthens your bonds and acknowledges their kindness.
28. Be accountable for your past mistakes. Own up to them, learn from them, and move forward without letting them define you.
29. You cannot pour from an empty cup—take care of yourself first. Self-care isn’t selfish. When you prioritize your well-being, you’re better equipped to help others.
As I reflect on these lessons, it’s important to remember that life is a continuous process of learning and seeking God’s will. Philippians 1:6 (KJV) encourages us, “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” May we continue to grow in wisdom, faith, and love, always trusting in God’s plan for our lives.
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My thoughts on turning 29
"Laon."
"Old maid."
"Tatanda kang dalaga."
"Malungkot ang buhay kapag walang kasamang tumanda."
"Napaglipasan ka na ng panahon."
People in my life have already decided about my future. I laugh at their unwanted comments and opinions because they are funny. They are straightforward, so they are sure that I will be alone in life if I don't get a partner before I turn 30, and worse, if I don't get pregnant before 35. I hear these statements almost at every family get-together or even just casual chats. It makes me wonder: Is a woman more valuable if she's married or in a relationship than those who choose to be single? Are we less of a woman, or a human being, if we are contented with being just single at a certain age that society thinks is appropriate time to settle down? Believe me, this is not coming from a fed-up perspective but really, a curious one. Does it matter if I am not as desperate to get hitched as the next person? Does it really make a difference if you're not rushing to settle down just because everyone else is? The truth is, there's no universal timeline for these things. Some people find love early, others later, and some don't even look for it because they're busy living a fulfilling life on their own terms.
We spend so much time worrying about what society thinks -- about hitting certain milestones like marriage or kids by a specific age. But why should our value as women, or even as people, be measured by whether or not we conform to those expectations? Why can't we be enough just as we are, with or without a partner?
I've realized that being single doesn't make me any less valuable. It just means I'm taking my time to live my life at my own pace. After all, happiness isn't about checking off boxes; it's about being true to yourself and finding contentment in your own journey -- whether or not that includes a relationship.
At the end of the day, what matters most is how we feel about ourselves, not how others see us. And right now, I'm more focused on enjoying life as it comes, without pressure to follow a script that doesn't fit me.
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