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Is being drained an erotic experience? is it supposed to feel good? How can I learn how to do it or enjoy it? What makes it fun or sexy, if it is?

Is being drained an erotic experience?

It certainly is for me. I get a great amount of alpha buzz every time that I see fagcash deposited in my accounts. I never expected findom to be as erotic to me as it is. I would read about it on others’ blogs and get such a vicarious high from it, but I wasn’t sure that I wanted to engage in it in the same way others did. Eventually I found the approach that worked for me and that has really elevated my happiness with the experience, 

is it supposed to feel good? 

I have several subs who cum just from tributing. They get headfucked throughout the day with draining and after some particularly hard tributes, they’ll bust a hands-free nut all over the place. It’s very exciting to watch and encourage. 

Others are less erotic about their service. They prefer being more of an available ATM/servant, rather than making the experience specifically sexual. They also feel good about the activity, but I think their enjoyment is a bit more cerebral than physical. 

Some doms build their dynamic around shame/fear/humiliation/blackmail. This isn’t really my approach, so I can’t speak much on it or how those subs feel. 

All power play should feel good at some point. Whether that’s during the play, afterward, or whatever, the sub should have positive feelings about the experience. Anything else is dangerous abuse. 

How can I learn how to do it or enjoy it?

As always, finding the right fit with your dom is paramount. Just like bondage or breath play, or flogging, findom is a skill and power play in general is a skill. You have to find the findom that works for what is going to tap in to the part of your brain that needs to be poked. That’s the only way to enjoy it. 

Transactions alone are not sexy. The layering, control, reinforcement and power of the dom is what makes it sexy. The exchange of power is what is sexy. Not the money itself. Find the right dom and you can enjoy anything. 

What makes it fun or sexy, if it is?

This is my personal theory. 

Money is one of the most taboo subjects we have in the modern world. Particularly in America, what you do and what you earn are a major part of your identity. We regularly refer to consumers by their “purchasing power”. We talk about finances in terms of “leverage”. Money is an analog of real power. As real as confidence. As real as muscle. As real as education. It’s a way to control and be controlled. 

A police officer with ultimate authority at his job can go to a car dealership and lose all power when his finances are laid out. Conversely, a janitor can go to the same dealership and be treated powerfully because of his bank accounts. 

There is a real, physical, permanent power exchange in giving your money to someone, simply because you worship and obey them. There is incredible power exchange in self-sacrificing quality of life in order to see someone you lionize live an even more superior life. It’s a choice you make daily that truly puts you in a position of service. 

The sexiness comes from the taboo nature of it. From the permanence. From the vicarious living of your life through the happiness of someone else. It’s heady stuff. 

I’m not the ultimate authority on these experiences. I’d love to hear input from:

@fordjordan

@serviceisgolden

@nakedboyservant

@butlerboi

@anothercashfag

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Horny and curious!

I have a grindr profile and a local webpage for crusing guys and offering me as a sexual toys to other REAL Men! and got wondering amongst you other horny and locked up bois do you let ANY REAL Men use you? or do you still “pick”? Cause at work i noticed i gotten so horny that i look at more Men that were “not my type” before and caught myself thinking i would let him use me! hehe So i am talking to a old lovely gentlemen and wondering if i should offer myself to him too as i know he is into Chastity without us ever talking about it. Since the local webpage i use he is a member of the chastity group on that site. So i stop being picking and just accept my role and service any Man! Even if he has not asked and i should just offer first?

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7 Steps to go from “Curious” to Cash Faggot 😈😏

As a superior Cash Master I’ve observed the 7 steps that most virgin cash faggots take;

It’s usually a pretty routine pattern:

1. Compliment

2. Fantasise

3. Excuses

4. Reluctance

5. Acceptance

6. Embracement

7. Ownership

This cash faggot didn’t deviate from the script one bit… 😂😂

1. Compliment: See how the cash fag opens by telling me how amazing I am, obviously I don’t need a lowly faggot to tell me but I know full well a fags need to praise a superior 😏

2. Fantasise: The faggot goes on to talk about how they’ve never experienced a cash Fucking before, it’s a dark mysterious world that this fag needs to know more about because it makes his sad little faggot nub swell up.

3. Excuses: Fags come up with creative reasons why they can’t tribute, this faggot gives it a noble try but this is only going to end one way 😈

4. Reluctance: The urge gets too great and the fag is left feeling there’s only one thing to do, open his online account and just stare at the screen where all that cash is sitting.

5. Acceptance: He is now no longer able to think for himself, the rational part of his brain has totally disengaged and the only thing that’s screaming at him is to indulge in what he’s been wanting from the very first time he saw my superior blog 😏

6. Embracement: It feels good for the faggot to get cash fucked for the first time… too good… he couldn’t even imagine what a rush it would be and now he needs more of that feeling… and a bigger rush comes with a bigger tribute…

7. Ownership: That cash faggot virginity is mine now FOREVER, no one else will have it other than me and this cash fag knows now that he’ll never be able to experience a rush like that any other way than by taking another deep hard cash pounding.

Make sure you share this faggots downfall and spread the word, there’s nothing that can beat giving into your urges and approaching me, begging to Click 2 Submit!

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Why are you doing this to me?

I get asked this a lot by faggots. Two memorable times were: 1) when I was rummaging through a real time faggots (note faggots don’t get a possessive apostrophe- it’s a small but important detail) room throwing it’s contents out the window while it was made to sit on the bed and watch as I took pictures of the important papers in the room. 2) when a faggot was made to pay $6000 to me to ‘buy back’ the right not to have its personal details released - I still post its pics generic because it didn’t pay for that. The often used but simply incorrect answers to ‘why are you doing this to me?’ Is because you asked me to or because you agreed to it. Neither are right in my opinion. Certainly a faggots begging or interest is what led us to each other, but once that happens the suffocating control, the excessive demands, the fucking with a faggots mind are always my choice and the faggot puts up with it because I demand or I coerce it. I have ways around legal impediments and I know how to skirt the line. So why is this happening to the faggot? Because I am turned on by dominating a fag, by making it squirm, by making it frightened and sick to stomach, by treating it like the shit that it is. It never stops and it never goes away. It’s boundaries are smashed and it learns quickly that faggotry is not fun but it’s an unstoppable internal trait that is part of the faggots core make up. This is why it is happening to you!

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He awoke to cool night air on naked flesh…. he stirred. Stretched…only to find his hands restrained, held together… something was very wrong. Jerking upright, he took stock of his surroundings… The floor was cold and damp tiles. The walls cracked and old. The only light filtered through a barred window… Gasping, he took stock of himself next. He was naked. Nearly naked, anyway. Around his neck was a tight leather collar. Upon his calves were tall, well-laced boots. And locked tight upon his cock was a metal cage… not the Star Wars pajamas he had fallen asleep in.

It was only then that he realised he was not alone. His eyes flicked to his prison cell’s fellow occupants… his stomach turned…

Something told him this night was not going to be easy…

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“It’s important to talk down to fags. It helps their self esteem diminish. More people need to be made aware that downward is the proper direction for fags: in self esteem, physically, mentally, etc. When a guy finds out that his buddy is a fag, then it is only natural for him to immediately begin to diminish the loser. It is very important that fags to frequently be reminded how they have failed society, failed their friends, failed their family and how they will continually be a failure to themselves. faggots are literally, living, breathing fuck and rape toys for normal superior men. So, if you are wondering if you can bluff you way through your life; you can’t. All fags are right now or will eventually serve superior men. And yes, that means that you’re a fag. You are a fag. The people in you life will always think of you as a faggot. They will laugh at you behind your back and to your face because you are a fag. And you faggots that were born faggots, well, fuck you. You’re actually worse. You were literally born to be a rape toy. You are an embarrassment to all males, and all males are superior to you. fuck you. So read this and pout, maybe cry. But you know that you are now or will later tonight think about this and know I’m right. You fag dicks will erect and you will push your fag hand into your undies and rub your fag dicks until you come. Fuck You.”

— (via superiorstraightwhiteman)

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$hopping $pree

Like many messages i get, it started off as simple hello and compliment of the the blog (which is always welcome).

 Hi.  Loving your tumblr.

 That easy message turned into a crazy shopping spree just a few weeks later. 

After a few messages of getting into his head it wasn’t long until he was begging for me to drain him and tribute. After much deliberation and his love of seeing me in runners and the recent release of new shoes his first task was to purchase the new Nike runners. 

Luckily for him i was in his town that weekend. So he was allowed to buy my dinner and deliver my shoes in person. Something special that not many get the honour to have. After such a short but blood rushing encounter, he was more then excited for the next opportunity to serve. 

A few days later he replies with a message saying that he is flying to me to be used some more. After telling him to be prepared to be used hard, he was shaking with anticipation.

Skip to the day of the shopping spree and i am greeted to hefty tribute on the table. 

I took him out into the town to buy what ever i wanted in the 2 hour time span. Nothing gets me FUCKNIG HARDER then using someone like that. After lots of walking and hundreds and hundreds of $$$ spent it was time for him to buy me lunch and send him on his way after a few more impulse purchases of course. Some of the purchases included, sunnies, clothes. speakers, electronics. 

After that i don’t have much left. Damn hot!

Needless to say he will be back and craving some more use very soon.

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An interesting morning dealing with a fag in LA who couldn’t handle waiting another day for me to come. So I got him to buy me a 1st class ticket to come today.

That and he sent a session deposit, then another deposit for me to start filling a bottle with piss, snot and spit so he has something to drink when he picks me up at the airport.

I told him to get me a blender, rope, duct tape and plastic wrap. We are going to be doing some heavy bdsm, humiliation and making shit/piss smoothies that I’m going to force him to drink every last drop.

What the fuck else am I going to do tonight? I’ll need to be entertained after a long ass flight. What better way to start my weekend in LA then this.

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Is This Shit For Real??

Q.

Str8Nick writes: I recently went over to a buddy’s house, and there were four of us there, sitting around his living room drinking and talking. As the evening wore on, we started talking about how we were fucking horny. The guy who owned the house said, “I know how you guys could get the best blowjob of your lives, right now!” We all laughed at him, but finally told him “Okay, prove it.”

He went down in his basement, and in a moment lead up a naked guy who he said was his “faggot slave”. The guy had obviously been down there for a long time, and was not exactly clean. The slave kept his head down all the time, and only spoke when asked a direct question. His hands were cuffed, and he was wearing a chastity cage on his cock.

Turns out, this guy is a faggot who my buddy keeps down there 24/7! Not only did he give us all blowjobs (and yeah, they were definitely the best blowjobs we had ever had!) but my buddy then put him on the coffee table and whipped his ass, and then he fucked him. After he shot his load, he had us make the fag lick our shoes while we took turns spitting on him and calling him a fucking faggot. We all even used him as a fucking urinal!

Afterwards, I told my buddy I was kinda freaked out by this, but my buddy sent me the URL to this site and told me that I should learn more about what he calls “true fags”. He said that there are lots of gay men, but that a “true fag” has no shame and lives to serve straight men. Wild!

I keep thinking about the guy in the basement, though. Should I do something? Should I call the cops, or Adult Protective Services, or…someone? Is this consensual? Is the guy really a captive, or is this something he wanted?

Any advice?

A. 

Your buddy is right. There are gay men, and there are fags, and in many ways, they are two different breeds. Gay men are mostly normal guys who just happen to like dudes. Faggots live to suck cock, and they have no shame and a great desire to be humiliated, controlled and degraded.

I’ve had guys ask, “Is this just a fantasy site?” No, it is definitely for real. But the thing that a lot of people don’t understand is, this is all consensual. We do live in the “real world” and if someone forced another person into slavery (even if that person was a faggot), they would be taking an awful risk. If it was ever found out that they kept someone against their will, they could be brought up on kidnapping charges, be put in prison for the rest of their lives, lose everything they owned. So yeah, no one actually does it that way. (Or rather, only sick guys do that who you read about in the news when their captives escape.)

But because the universe has given us straight guys these beings called faggots, we don’t have to worry about getting in trouble. Faggots will do anything – ANYTHING – that we want. Your buddy didn’t kidnap that slave, the fag probably begged him to let it live in his dungeon. Trust me: for every faggot living as a 24/7 slave in someone’s dungeon, there are 500 more who WISH they were!

So should you do something? Damn right you should. You should go over there often and use that faggot, and maybe even find a faggot of your own to serve you.

And finding a faggot of your own is easy. A buddy of mine recently put an ad on Craigslist, saying he wanted a faggot slave to debase and use on a regular basis – he got 75 responses! 

So join the party! As a straight alpha guy, you deserve to have faggots at your beck and call, sucking your cock, drinking your piss, licking your boots, cleaning your house, doing your laundry, washing your car. Find some faggots and have fun! 

Is This Shit For Real?? was originally published on Straight White Man

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Hi, fellow fag. I have a question for u what can I do to attract straight men and make them want to abuse me. I mean I have no good looks cause I am ugly as fuck. Also I am as fat as a pig. Cause I was just wondering why would a straight superior man want to do with a fag when he has women or hotter more pleasing to the eyes faggots

Serve him in other ways. Be as depraved as possible. Do things for him that no other human would do since they have self-respect. 

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Sir I want to tell you about 6 months ago I was on the verge of suicide. I found your site and now I understand all the feelings of disgust and hate I felt are things I should feel. My purpose in life is clear and I'm happy and I have a reason to live. You saved my life Sir.

Never kill yourself. That’s the chicken way out. Find your calling and stick to it.

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If you have any intention other than swallowing the Piss as efficiently as possible, then you’re doing it wrong.

question about piss drinking etiquette

Q.

theurinal writes: i have been a urinal for Straight Men for several years, and i really love it. i think drinking Piss is the ultimate submission, much more so than sucking Cock. i love when a Straight Man just walks up and uses me as a urinal, and treats me the same way He would treat a real urinal – just uses my mouth and leaves.

i watch a lot of videos about it, and i see mostly that the guys do not really drink the piss. It goes in their mouths and then runs out down their chins. i guess that may be erotic for a Man to see a fag letting itself get covered with Piss. But i do not know, it seems disrespectful to let a Straight Man’s Piss fall to the ground or go down the drain.

What do you think?

A.

When a man uses a urinal, he expects that his piss will be processed. A porcelain urinal takes the piss down the pipe. That’s the reason a man uses it, he wants his piss in the urinal – not on the floor or walls.

It’s the same thing when a faggot drinks piss. Most men don’t want their piss wasted, they want a fag that will gulp down every fucking drop. Think about when you suck a man’s cock – do you waste the cum? Or do you swallow down every fucking drop in gratitude and appreciation? Of course, you take it all. That is the right thing to do.

And it’s also a sign of respect. By swallowing every drop of his piss, you show him how much you worship him. 

Those videos that you see are not made by people with a lot of brains, nor are they guys who really understand the true role of a faggot like you. Don’t pay attention to influences like that. Fags drink piss – as much as they can get.

So even if he pulls back and pisses all over you, that piss should not be wasted. When he is done, get down on the floor and lap up every drop of his sweet nectar. After all, that is one of the few things a faggot is good for – swallowing a man’s piss and keeping the toilet, the ground, the walls clean. Plus, in areas that have water restrictions, drinking a man’s piss is a good way to help him save water – he doesn’t have to flush a slave!

Gulp down every fucking drop, faggot. You know it’s the right thing to do. Don’t disappoint the men who use you.

question about piss drinking etiquette was originally published on Straight White Man