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Also, here’s a very important thing: a lot of abusive people will not show their abusive side at all in front of non-victims. Perhaps your friend claims her mother is emotionally abusive, but when you meet her mother, the woman is very sweet and generous and makes for great conversation and even treats you guys to ice cream or something.

Abusive people are alarmingly good at coming across as perfectly good people when they’re not alone with their victims,. They can flip like a switch between being scary and being amiable. Some might even go the extra mile to turn people against you, making it seem like you’re just being selfish and they’re not at fault. The two-faced act may not always be intentional, but that doesn’t make it any less damaging. In fact, it can make things worse because people may not believe you and you may not get the support you need.

So, if someone tells you that their parent/significant other/etc is emotionally abusive, and your first thought is “But they were so nice when I met them!”, this is probably what’s happening. Please don’t dismiss them just because you may have had a positive experience with someone that makes their life hell when you’re not looking. Listen to them.

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when u suckin dick and u look up and they like

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me:

you:

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instead of flirting guys should just start doing weird complex dances in colorful outfits to seduce us like most birds of paradise do to attract mates

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me: casually sexts while sitting with my family

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if u think a girl looks bad u can just keep it to yourself really i mean uh there’s like a billion dollar industry based on them keeping them feeling as bad as possible

u don’t have to assist

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Me: why am I so tired and weak all the time?

Me: *eats nothing of nutritional value*

Me: *has crazy irregular sleep schedule*

Me: *never exercises ever*

Me: I just don't get it

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new ppl in the fandom: omGOD LOOK AT D.O. HE'S SO FRIGGIN CUTE AND SQUISHY AND TINY, I COULD EAT HIM LIKE A MARSHMALLOW ლ(́◉◞౪◟◉‵ლ)

me: ok who's gonna tell'em

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I want to give you a new years kiss. Between your legs. All night.

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*pours heart out* haha lmao

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does anyone else literally get stressed out by how many shows they need to watch like

"oh is the second season of that out?"

"but i need to watch that one too-"

"but all of my friends are telling me to watch that one"

*stress*

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I hate when people over use mental illnesses.

What ocd is: not being able to control your impulses.

What its not: liking things neat. Although it can be, but dont diagnose yourself juat becasue of this.

What anxiety is: Literally being so freaked out in your head that you can not accomplish simple tasks.

What its not: A cute/romantic trait quiet people have. Its not fun its a nightmare.

What depression is: A feeling of loss that can overcome you at anytime, even in happy days.

What it is not: Sadness. This sounds counterintuitive, but everyone gets sad and this does not make you have depression. It's also not a trait that can be magically fixed by another person.

So please, do not use these words lightly because you might hurt someone whos fighting every day with it.

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