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Today a very friendly Golden Retriever came up to me and I said "hey buddy :D" and the owner asked "do you know each other?" like his dog had a social life he didn't know about

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At first when people around me said I'm just a kind and compassionate girl that loves everyone, I was thinking "but they must be lying, I'm mid to low empathy". But now that I'm a grown ass man I realize, no, it is possible to be low empathy and also be all of those kind things :) yay :) i keep being kind because it makes people love me yaYy

Indeed it is. Good work.

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npd culture is being convinced I could stop a baby crying just by like, existing in their vicinity -🃏

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Dear narcissist in need of supply,

You are the best.

Yes, you specifically, I'm looking at YOU.

You're not a monster, you're not evil like society makes you and your disorder out to be.

You are perfect, you don't need to change for anyone and you're important. Everyone wants to be your friend, everyone wants to be like you because you're so fucking amazing.

You deserve the spotlight.

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npd culture is seeing people talk about pwnpd in comment sections like we're subspecies like "narcissists will gaslight and harm and kill you probably. they have no feelings whatsoever." and seeing everyone in the replies agree. like wow im learning new things about myself!

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NPD culture is thinking that everyone else with NPD besides myself is annoying and obnoxious 😭

💜

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hate an x reader fic do not put me in a situation

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NPD (traits) culture is Ruler of Everything by Tally Hall.

Do you like how I walk? Do you like how I talk? Do you like how my face disintegrates into chalk? I have a wonderful wife, I have a powerful job. She criticizes me for being egocentric/lyr

-👁️‍🗨️🌼

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how to shut up a narcissist:

-give them money

-offer them $1,000 cash

-send a large amount of money to their bank account

-gift them 10 100 dollar bills

-venmo them one thousand dollars

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Who made this edit, it's the most valid one

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The agony of thinking you’re finished doing the dishes only to turn around and to your horror: the pot.

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As a borderline, I love narcissists so much and cannot understand why some people are like “bpd is the result of narcissists/narcissistic abuse” when the term narcissistic abuse was coined by an israel defence solider, who yes, did have npd, but he also blamed his narcissistic tendencies for three counts of securities fraud. He also believes that narcissists “cannot be healed, because they do not exist as real persons, only as reflections” and exist as a false self instead of that just being them or having these be adaptions for survival in stressful situations, all of his takes on narcissists are self-cop outs to demonise other narcissists and make him unaccountable for his actions. And you guys fell for it hard because you didn’t even know that it was made by a narcissist or even the integral history behind it like you guys seem to do with EVERYOTHER thing.

I LOVE it when narcissists are high and low, i LOVE it when they devalue people because they’re being unreasonable or ableist assholes, or even just because they’re being grating and purposefully ignorant and no one wants to say anything. You guys who hate on narcs for being disordered, ESPECIALLY if you have bpd, are just assholes, point blanc. All you want to make a group of people who are already hated on and targeted specifically because they are not your idea of perfect victims which makes you look more victimised in comparison.

TL;DR: you guys fell hard for the term “narcissistic abuse”, clung to it like a baby sloth and didn’t even know the history behind it or that it was made by a narcissist, and you guys definitely don’t know or care what being a narcissist entails or how it forms in people so maybe think twice before you flap your lips and speak up on shit you’re clearly uneducated on. Don’t throw your narcissistic siblings under the bus to get validation from neurotypicals who wouldn’t spit on either of you if you were on fire.

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lets overthrow mama

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NPD culture is hating how part of NPD is thinking ur hot shit when ur not because I actually LITERALLY am doing something extremely important and completely unique that has no one has ever done before (trust me, I've done the research) IT'S NOT NPD I'M ACTUALLY AMAZING! I'm literally one of the most unique people to have ever lived.

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NPD culture is wanting to be everywhere, even if you don't care for the activity you just have to be mentioned;; ... I need to be acknowledged and I need to be the number one in every situation, the world DOES revolve around me thank you very much

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My routine as someone who shifts almost every week. 

There doesn't have to be any pressure on shifting, you don’t have to do it at a specific moment. My routine takes either a moment, a day, or a week. I do specific things in preparation to shift, it isn’t a method, more so a ritual, something to help me align myself with where I want to be.   

I. Bask in who you want to be, spend mornings doing this practice, do it before a nap, before you go to bed, while you eat, etc. Settle in your mind, take this time to be in your desired selfs mind. Think about slow moments, your morning routine, the view outside your window, basking in the sun, anything of the sort; let yourself live in moments from your dr. I've noticed I shift more when I have practiced this throughout the day. 

II. Tell yourself that you are there, that you are indeed experiencing these things. Affirm how many times you feel, you are where you are. Don’t put any pressure on yourself to believe anything, just affirm. Sweep away intrusive thoughts, let them pass and focus on who and where you are. 

III. Each reality has its own soul, familiarize yourself with how your chosen reality feels. Whenever you want to go there invoke this feeling, remember the slow moments, relax and live in your dr. 

IV. I lie in bed and when I'm getting sleepy I visualize myself where I want to be and I’m there, I focus on what I am doing at that moment in that reality. 

V. After I come back I take a couple days to step away from shifting, I don’t think about going anywhere else. I try to live in this reality and when I feel I want to leave again, I begin at step one. 

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