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*tertiary, non-rose, or fragarian attraction are any forms of nonromantic and nonsexual attraction; such as platonic or familial! this is a simple definition!

this was requested by anon, thank you for your request! :D

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— Greg Santora (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

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Self shippers with self-esteem issues and deep seeded self worth issues that make it hard for you to believe that your f/o truly loves you, I see you and I love you.

Having these issues doesn't mean you're hard to love or that you're a burden to your f/o. That's what they're here for. They want you and every piece of you, even if you think its too much to handle. They love you, and they will remind you everyday if that's what you need.

Using our f/os to punish ourselves or inflict emotional self harm is a hard habit to break and it may feel like its deserved, but its not. Your f/o doesn't want that. They want to be a light in the dark for you. Please remember when your brain is being cruel to you, your f/o wouldn't say or do those things.

They love you. Now and forever. 🧡

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𓄹 Imagine - you're cleaning the room you share with your F/O and, suddenly, you find a box of letters they wrote and never showed you.

You didn’t know the box existed until you found it tucked away on a high shelf.

Inside, the edges of folded papers peeked out, some worn at the corners, others crisp and new. Your fingers trembled as you pulled one free — the ink was messy, like it had been written late at night when the words spilled too fast to catch.

Some letters were unfinished, thoughts trailing off mid-sentence like they’d been too fragile to hold steady. Others were so raw and vulnerable, it felt like the writer was reaching through time and space, hoping you’d understand the parts they never dared say aloud.

You read about the nights they stayed awake, wrestling with the weight of loving you; not because it was easy, but because you were worth every uncertain moment.

You found apologies for days you didn’t even remember, confessions of admiration that made your throat tighten, and promises whispered quietly to a version of you they saw even when you couldn’t see yourself.

And somewhere between the pages, you realized: every word, every hesitation, every imperfect phrase was a map — a quiet guide through the complicated, beautiful truth of being known and loved.

You folded the letters carefully, pressed them to your chest, and for the first time in a long while, you felt seen in a way words usually couldn’t reach.

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requested by anon, some choices added by me! thank you for your request!

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i had a vision please use these for good or evil or whatever

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Ah, ah-choo! Sorry, allergies… I guess that means it’s time to pick the

FLOWERS!

Can’t exactly throw a bouquet if we don’t have one! Now, I tried my best to find pictures of bouquets that already had forget-me-nots in them, but a lot of people do not get them in their wedding bouquets… so we’re gonna have to use our imaginations here! Also, fun fact, did you know forget me nots can also come in pink? I thought that was so cute, they really are eagleace flowers :) enough rambling,

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Taglist! Let me know if you’d like to be added or removed! I will be posting polls every other day until the wedding on June 26th!!

@scaramutual @okiria @scientistkerberos @arsene-fixates @dreamwinged

@thetalesofforestsblog @sunflawyer @l0v3sickl0s3r @charge2005 @catships777

@sparkyscissorhands @natetrx-selfships-n-shit @dreamspace24 @varganardi @moxanji-real

@eternally-selfshipping @lizardposting @celestetheseaunicorn @achangelingslove @3lectro-heart

@cupid-selfships

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who does your f/o consult for relationship advice, if any?

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Hey sapphic selfshippers, psst…

That male character that your lady is always shipped with? That guy is so so confused looking at all that art and writing like, she has a partner already??? He can’t possibly imagine her with any one else but you! He’ll say as much to anyone who claims otherwise.

That female character she’s always shipped with? She also very confused! She doesn’t see your f/o like that at all! Rest assured, she sees you two together and sees a perfectly happy couple! And if someone insist she’s with your love, she’ll be the first one push back and talk about how much you guys love eachother!

Any character who is shipped with your f/o is simply not right for them, and they already know it bc you are right for them! Always have been, always will be~

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requested by stuck-in-the-archives-walls! thank you for your request!

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Imagine hiding a body with your F/O. that's it. that's the post.

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imagine telling your f/o about your insecurities. maybe you’re feeling down about your looks, or that your personality isn’t attractive to them— and it breaks their heart to see you say such harsh things about yourself. from that day forward, they make it a point to show you exactly how they feel about you. whether they are naturally vocal about their feelings or are typically more reserved, you don’t miss the way they compliment you on just about everything you do in a day, from your adorable bedhead in the morning to your soft breaths when you’re fast asleep at night. your f/os wish you could see yourself the way that they see you, and they’re happy to show you just what they mean.

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depressed selfshippers please know that your f/o would be kind to you. in no world would your f/o shame you for struggling with self-care. in no world would they ever see you as a burden. infrequent showers, struggling with brushing teeth, poor appetite, little activity, anything you can think of. it's okay to struggle. they love you; they would never judge you for this. they'd never judge you at all. they are so, so happy that they can be your safe space. one step at a time.

pr♡shippers + variants, please do not interact with this post...

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selfshippers stop scrolling.

imagine giving your f/o a lil smooch on their forehead and how their eyes would crinkle as they smile.

thats all carry on <3