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Watch me get what I want in life

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Realistically I could never get rid of tumblr because it gives me the illusion of a community of strange young women all around my same age, all slowly figuring out how to live too

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They will rarely ever show it, but deep down people always respect a gold digger. Even if it’s in a perverse, subconscious way, people will have respect for someone who set stringent high standards and refused to tolerate anyone who wouldn’t meet them. Most people who mock hypergamous women are just jealous they don’t have the discipline and self-respect to maintain those same standards in their own lives.

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My sole purpose is to spend my adult life fulfilling my inner child. Whatever my inner child wants, she gets.

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“Only the disciplined ones in life are free. If you are undisciplined, you are a slave to your moods and your passions.” - Eliud Kipchoge

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[A white fortune cookie paper with blue text. Front: Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness. Lucky Numbers 9, 31, 21, 1, 8, 48 Back: Cherry, Chinese text (yīng) (táo)]

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who else cant wait for hot summer nights mid july when you and i were forever wild

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With phones off and wi-fi unplugged, go away from the world and into solitude with your lover for a few days. Cook real food. Make love. Play. Photograph each other. Listen to music together. Read books together. Lay around in the nude in your togetherness. Go for long nature walks. Explore your unrepressed sexual interests. Return to the quiet with your lover. Create a life where your shared solitude is highly regarded and possible. -India Ame'ye, Author

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don’t let ugly ppl make you ugly

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Traits I’ve Noticed in Confident People 

Disciplined - if a target is set, it is achieved 

Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point. 

Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much 

Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about 

Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate

Good posture

Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds 

Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained. 

Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it. 

Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges. 

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You have options. I promise you, you have options. Even if you blow up your whole life, change your name and train hop half way across the country- you still have options. So long as you are alive you have choices and chances. If you can’t see them, ask someone else. Ask a stranger or someone who loves you. Anyone not in your situation will have different a perspective. Stay safe and stay alive.

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