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Lovely ♥️

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They melt my heart and give me butterflies 🦋💛

I can’t and won’t let go.

No words. Just listen to the video. ⬇️

Xx 🩵

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Came across this article and I thought It could be useful for some of us. 🙂 I also shared the link to the article in case y’all are interested in reading it.

“Let’s call this phenomenon Clear’s Law of Recurrence: The number of people who believe an idea is directly proportional to the number of times it has been repeated during the last year—even if the idea is false.

Each time you attack a bad idea, you are feeding the very monster you are trying to destroy. As one Twitter employee wrote, “Every time you retweet or quote tweet someone you’re angry with, it helps them. It disseminates their BS. Hell for the ideas you deplore is silence. Have the discipline to give it to them.”

Your time is better spent championing good ideas than tearing down bad ones. Don’t waste time explaining why bad ideas are bad. You are simply fanning the flame of ignorance and stupidity.

The best thing that can happen to a bad idea is that it is forgotten. The best thing that can happen to a good idea is that it is shared. It makes me think of Tyler Cowen’s quote, “Spend as little time as possible talking about how other people are wrong.”

Feed the good ideas and let bad ideas die of starvation”

-James Clear

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Im loosing it! lol Im smiling and laughing at the stories, but my heart is like 💔 Ouch! Let’s stop speaking all the negative things into existence. Every time we say “but they haven’t…” bam! It happens.

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I don’t know what I was expecting , but it wasn’t that. I was definitely laughing at first and then I told my husband I needed to shut down for the rest of the evening , I joined two live streams and just heard everyone talk about it and vent., it helped a lot. Yesterday’s news was definitely hard to watch and take in but I think we’re all in support of each other and that’s always a win. Things seem weird right now but I haven’t changed my mind. I still want the Luke and Nic from the WT together, we saw what we saw and I stand by it. I don’t feel lied to or betrayed but maybe a little heartbroken but I blame myself for it no one else. No one ever confirmed anything but I was sure that Antonia was out of the picture and I really wanted to believe Nic and Luke where together but it was still speculation because it hadnt been confirmed. As of now and always, Nic and Jake have a besties relationship. (Watch me be wrong haha! Please God, No!) and Luke and Antonia… idk, this is probably not the right time for me to really make a decision on that things are still too fresh on my mind.

The last couple events leading up to yesterday have made everything so confusing so I’m gonna trust my gut and just take a step back from following Luke so closely. What I mean by that is that I’ll continue to support him in his projects and on his nominations when/if they come up but I won’t have a notification alert me when he posts something. I’ll still be involved and updated because of the people I follow and the discords I’m in but I won’t be anxious to get a post and then be disappointed, to me, because of the type of person I am, that just leads to heartbreak. I’ve always been a bigger fan of Nicola, she is a bright light that one can’t help but attracted to and how she chooses to use her platform to help people is admirable. Also for someone who feels like she’s too old to follow her dreams, like myself, she’s a great example of how much that isn’t true.

Right now im looking forward to attending livestreams and continue to do what we do and see how this love story/ novela develops.

Note to self: Remain respectful to others opinions and take everything with a grain of salt everything is still speculation. We’re all writing our own narrative and we can choose our own ending.

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My thought: What is their damn deal?!

How I feel: I’m ANGRY! My favorite content creators are being silenced.

When I jumped on board this ship I was really new and I didn’t know who to follow, so I followed a bunch of lukola content creators and as the time passed and the fandom started to spiral and we hit chaos island, I slowly started to unfollow or I simply ignored some stories. What I wasn’t expecting was how my favorite creators were so badly harassed that they were pushed out of the platform or they stopped appearing. When it happened on TT I was disappointed and annoyed, and what bothered me most is what some people had to say about it. Everything was based of their own biased opinion if it didn’t fit their narrative then the creators where giving false information or stating something as fact without any prove (which HAHAHA that’s what they are literally doing!) My thoughts to that are, I get to choose what I want to believe and who I want to believe and if something makes sense or it doesn’t. I have common sense I can analyze things and sometimes I question what creators are saying and make my own conclusions. Don’t try to deprive me of what I want to consume just because you can’t handle minor setbacks. Now they are on other platforms, mass reporting and getting accounts suspended, I feel like we’re being taken down one by one and It needs to stop. They need go find some prove to support their story.

Note to self: Get to know who you follow before you put all your trust and loyalty on them. I’m an observer and I trust my intuition, my gut is really fast to tell me when something is not right and it’s usually right.

P.S we need our safe space and content creators back!

P.S.S like the saying says “ love always wins”

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Let’s all laugh with them! Ahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Sorry, that’s honestly what came to mind when I saw the pictures lol. She’s putting on a show and I’m here for it. I don’t see it In a negative way, she’s keeping us interested and invested 🤪 I love her sense of humor and I think she’s playing a long with us.

On another note I’m glad to see her, I was having Nic withdrawals. I don’t need to see her on a daily basis but a pop up here and there is refreshing, now if only Luke could do the same, just a small smile towards a camera will do.

P.S They both look great with a sun tan tho 😉 (Nic & Luke)

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Honestly, what would happen if the Jakolas are wrong?

The comments, the pervy insinuations, the insults, the mocking , and screenshots would have been for nothing.

“Just to be wrong”. -Jakola

Some Lukolas also have their share of faults but we’re not hiding behind a wall to protect our feelings, and passionately defend a theory that was made because it was easier to accept a relationship with a third person than to believe in Nic and Luke’s love story. “True love takes time” -Nic. Let’s just follow their journey and keep the peace. At no point is it ok to be a bully, like being ugly towards Jake and Antonia, but the same people that are trying to defend against bullying are the same people bullying. If Nic and Luke confirm we would have always stood by their side, patiently waiting, without putting anyone down (some of us at least) and that makes me happy.

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Could Lukolas be wrong? Yes, and I will cross that bridge when I get there, IF I get there.

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Oh my goodness! I am beyond flabbergasted, at how wildly inappropriate people can be. Its embarrassing. I am as delusional as some of them, I want to know what’s happening and if it’s a “happily ever after” but my dear goodness gracious I would never comment publicly or privately my personal opinions about their personal life to them. I wish I could understand why people feel so entitled to talk or make such assumptions about a celebrity’s private life… under their posts! (It’s different when the speculations are kept within a circle hoping it never reaches their eyes or ears, and even then you have to be careful )

When I came across that comment (under louisas post)It was hard to decide whether it was a Jakola that wrote it. There has been so much back and forth that I don’t doubt that a Lukola could have written it just to get under their skin ( I’m not saying they did, but it’s possible) unfortunately people don’t take in consideration the damage they can cause. Maybe they expect ridiculous comments like that but they shouldn’t have to. What follows is all the attacks on sm media “ y’all did that, no y’all did it!” ( children came to mind) They are not defending or attacking Nicola, Luke or Jake they’re attacking their fandoms, it’s no longer about them. Jakola v.s. Lukolas, fight!

Whatever, I’m just happy that there’s a space to share my thoughts without having to engage, there’s no space to reason with them.

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Why does it matter if she wears black all the time? Or if she’s wearing her rings? Or how many times she’s seen with someone? Im only waiting for a subtle announcement that it’s always been just them, shared by just them.

P.S.S ( Note to self)

Nicola is a gorgeous woman with a beautiful heart. We just naturally gravitate towards her and she welcomes us. She deserves all of the respect and privacy she asks for, appreciate what she shares, celebrate her accomplishments and her success, believe what SHE tells you and have faith that her and her soulmate are together. If they are not, be sad about it for a little bit (or a lot) but learn to let go. ( eesh the thought of that almost made me cry ) Feet firm on the ground, nothing has been confirmed.

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There is so much negativity emanating from one place, it’s insane. It’s suffocating, if your thoughts don’t match what some of them believe reality to be, then in their mind they think you’re hurting a person they deeply care for, in this case Nicola. I am a huge fan of Nic, her story helped me climb out a dark hole, her positivity and bright smile, shined a light on my hopes and dreams (I can be a little dramatic lol), she reminded me that its never too late to pursue the career of your dreams and to never give up, “ sometimes you just have to let your inner drag queen out, push your insecurities a side a little bit, and just do it.” -NC . Although I hold her high on a pedestal and I’m also a little delusional I understand actuality. I may be on the tip of my toes sometimes but I remember that I don’t know her and there’s no confirmation of anything so I accept that the possibilities are endless and that some of those alternative realities may hurt if they are confirmed, but she is human and she lives her own life and makes her own decisions, therefore I plant my feet back on the ground again and remain positive. I know what I hope for and I know what my delusional side believes right now but I’m aware that I may be wrong. Saying that Nic and Jake are a couple because she hangs out with him and they’ve been spotted together on multiple occasions doesn’t mean you’re being realistic, TO ME, it sounds like you’re so deep up their butt that you want to agree, applaud, praise everything you think is true about them. A picture is worth a million words, but the truth behind those pictures only a very few know and I doubt that’s any of us. Reality, in my words and point of view, is whatever you want to believe because that’s your reality, that’s the world you created in your head, that’s what you see and that’s what you perceive, they are not facts because there is no ACTUAL proof. The “proof” mentioned hasn’t been revealed or proven that it exists so in our reality there’s nothing that confirms anything therefore we are entitled to believe what we want and no one should mock us for it and suggest we are harming and being disrespectful because we are basing our theories from what we see. This is Reality! ( my opinion)

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Not to self :

Reality means: "Believing what you're seeing" means accepting something as true simply because you are visually witnessing it, essentially implying that seeing something with your own eyes is enough to convince you of its reality….” - google

Stating your reality as a fact is called "asserting your perspective as absolute truth" - google

Actuality means: “actual existence, typically as contrasted with what was intended, expected, or believed. ”the building looked as impressive in actuality as it did in magazines" -google

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One of the hardest part of this (fandom) is wanting the connection with the people we agree with but coming across all the the negative reply’s and comments. It’s the same people on every platform and them sharing screenshots and fueling hate. The discords that claim to be safe, are not, X 🙈🙉, TT 🙈🙉🙊, I’m running out of platforms to comfortably use. I just want to freely and safely ship, I want people to respect my thoughts and opinions the way I respect others, if I don’t agree I move on. I am no one to dictate how someone should react to information or how to deal with how information affects them (unless they ask for my opinion/help). It’s also not up to me to tell people what they should believe or how to interpret information (unless I’m asked, I’ll give them my opinion) “Your perception, your reality”. No one can take or should try to take that away from you. I believe that your entitled to your opinion and I’m entitled to ignore it (and vice versa) and that doesn’t mean to go comment on peoples post and be ignorant, it means that if you don’t agree with it then scroll.

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Note to self: My next entry “reality” and “accepting reality” why do people seem to be confused by the meaning of that? 🤦‍♀️