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hi! college is killing me but I just have to last like 3 or 4 more weeks. I'm dying and being a little bitch about it but I have a funny story

so I was showing cool panels from sad sack {by meanboss/barbatus} to a girl in my class that I got zooped up in a group with {?} and she said something like 'you're going to have a very interesting sex life'

it wasn't even one of the pages like that? it was the title page for snuff machinery and she said something about the tongue and when I asked she said 'men have tongues for licking women' and my first response was 'so no-one can have a tongue anymore??'

anyway. tl;dr is the girl who talks about her sex life most of the time {and gave me tips on giving head when i asked how people date??} called me a freak. lmao 🧡

~ }i{ sorry this is long, small story that has big explanation y'know?

idk what that comic is but that's so funny?? Sorry, you were assigned freak in the classroom 😔 and I can't even say you're not cause you're on the Freak Blog™

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i should be riding some nerd's thigh while he gropes all over my body & tells me i'm the girl on his dreams

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"wow i love this character i should look at their tag-" X READER ATTACK 10000 YEARS HOW CHARACTER WOULD REACT TO YOU BEING INFERTILE UNTAGGED SMUT💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🎃⚔📊💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥😳😲🤬🥵🥶😈💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🏓🔨💥💥💥💥💥

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A doodad....

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submissive in the way a livestock guardian dog is submissive to the sheep it kills wolves for

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"You have big hands"

What do you want me to choke you or sumthin?

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something ab guiding ur shy little daughter’s hand over to ur cock

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If anyone convinces you, as a transmasc, that you cannot facefuck someone, then that's the devil talking. Put your hips into it boy.

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Guys getting hurt dot com

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anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of how thoroughly bottom-y so much of the queer/t4t dating scene is. like once someone finds out i can dom it’s just expected of me and i’m fucking tired of it, i shouldn’t have to work so hard to make room for the concept that i might wanna sub sometimes too (which pretty much never gets followed up on), but that’s not even the part that bothers me the most

it bothers me that people don’t seem to realize it’s not only on the dom to assert their boundaries, it’s also on the sub to check in sometimes, to read body language, to read tone, to make an effort to cognitively empathize with the dom and what they’re going through bc domming can be really intense, psychologically and physically. i know so many people/posts romanticize the idea of being so deep in subspace that you can’t even think or talk and only the dom has to worry about anything and sure, that can happen w a lot of trust and consent and communication and be a good experience for both parties, but it’s so sinister to me that it seems to be the starting expectation so much of the time. it’s good in fantasy but in reality that is way too fucking much responsibility if you don’t already have well negotiated boundaries and deep trust. imo that expectation should never be the starting point

like sex and kink (can be) deeply intimate and intense things to share with other people and you should give a shit if you’re making someone uncomfortable!! subspace does not free you from the responsibility of how you’re treating the people you’re sharing those intimate dynamic/actions with!! subs should care about their doms’ boundaries and consent!! consent to be put in a dom position should never be assumed!! domming, just like subbing, should be something earned through trust!! i am so fucking tired

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Random DoL thought

Kyler would totally have a piss kink right? Like, I can just clearly see them tying you down in their basement and making sure you drink plenty of water so you don't dehydrate and once you start squirming they just get on their knees and tell you to just let go for them

Oh definitely!

Omorashi would definitely be their favourite, of course. Watching you get more and more desperate, begging them to let you use a proper bathroom, listening to you whimper and cry, watching your thighs clench and your body shake as you try to keep from pissing yourself. And then getting to see that sweet relief mixed with frustration and embarrassment when you finally can't hold it anymore and wet yourself for them. Watching the wet patch grow and grow, the puddle forming underneath you when you can't hold it any longer...

But they also want you to piss on them, of course. As a way to mark them as yours! The smell, the taste, the warmth... all of it gets them going. No matter how much you beg them not to, how embarrassed you get, they'll lap it all up, drink as much down as they can. They'll revel in having a little of you in them, having you mark them with your scent.

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i think the major issue is that at least in the case of fat people (i would imagine some other marginalized people too, but don't care to speak past my own experience here) the conversation re: chubby chasers has revolved around this mystical spectre of The Fetishist, whose attraction to fat people is bad because it's Fetishistic (in a way that exclusive attraction to thin bodies, by virtue of being culturally normative, is not) and it Fetishizes their partners and creates toxic Fetish Content. it's essentially the discussion of a real problem (the sexual exploitation & abuse of fat people) utilizing only the language of reactionary constructions re: "porn addiction" and non-normative attraction. i don't really give a shit if a guy has only ever dated 300LB+ women, but what i DO care about is what those women say about him and how he treated them, if he was public about their relationships, if he listened when they said "no," etc. honest-to-god shitty chubby chasers aren't bad because of this nebulous idea of Fetishism so much as the violence with which they treat fat people, the harassment they put unconsenting fat people through, the frequent abuse of their sexual partners, and definingly the way in which they exploit cultural fatphobia & the desexualization of fat people to get away with it over and over and over again. and the irony of it is that the more we panic about Fat Fetishists without centering the conversation on power and violence, and the more we by-extension reinforce attraction to fat bodies as an abnormal and abhorrent trait, the deeper this hole is dug -- because it's that very abnormality which pushes fat partners into the shadows and which casts constant doubt over our voices as survivors of sexual violence. it's goofy

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Hi I've been seeing a lot of posts with this weird tone so here's your friendly reminder that the RACK (risk aware consensual kink) kink framework doesn't actually mean "practice the safest possible kink at all times". It means there is ALWAYS risk and you should be aware of what those risks are before engaging.

A basic example is that I keep seeing that post with the safe impact zone chart going around being talked about as though it's the only way to do RACK impact. This is not true. The information is good and important to have, yes, but "safe impact zones" still have their risks, and there will always be people who want to be hit in "unsafe" ways. The correct RACK approach would be to properly research the risks of the type of impact you're planning to do, and make sure that you're comfortable with that level of risk before engaging in the activity, AND that you know what aftercare should be given. THIS is what risk-aware means. It does not mean "under no circumstances should anyone ever hit you in the wrong spot". That's kind of the antitheses of RACK.

RACK is about knowing the risks and consenting. It's informed consent. It's about doing what you want to do as safely as is reasonable. There is risk inherent in every type of kink. RACK says go ahead, have your fun, but just know what you're getting into first.

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Something something dadbod

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woke up. logged onto this stupid website. fought the war on incest on the side of incest. and tomorrow? the same thing.