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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 months ago
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Is there a term for being attracted to someone who is brutally honest with you (mostly in a negative way)?
In socities full of fakeness, lies and awkwardness, I find myself looking for roasts or people who are brutally honest. So, when I do stumble across someone who just doesn’t give a damn about being liked and doesn’t care about hurting someone with their ā€œrudenessā€, I often become attracted to them. In a non-sexual and non-romantic way, more of a platonic or social crush/attraction.
I wouldn’t necessarily call it masochism, as these roasts don’t hurt me, when I’m actively looking for them. Plus, when someone’s of honest nature, I’m also using that as an opportunity to be honest (in a ā€œrudeā€ way) with them, without having to worry about softening everything. Like a mutually rude, blunt relationship.
That a thing?
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 months ago
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There's a form of attraction called "idyllic attraction" https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Idyllic_Attraction describing basically what the cupio- orientation https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Cupioromantic means. It makes no sense to me for it to be called "idyllic" when idyllic means "peaceful, happiness". Can't the attraction above be called "cupio attraction" or "cupisco"?
(Cupisco: from cupio (latin: "to desire, to long for") + sco (latin: "to start, to begin" or spanish "large rock, boulder")
Cupio/Cupisco Attraction is a form of attraction in which oneĀ desires, fantasizes about, or wishing they were attracted to a certain genderĀ despite not being attracted to that gender in real life. This also includes wishing or fantasizing about being attracted to a gender in a different way than one is in really life. (For example: fantasizing about being romantically attracted to a given gender despite only feeling platonic attraction to that gender in real life.) This may or may not overlap with one being buenosexual.
Cupisco attraction can be similar toĀ cupioroseĀ and/orĀ electio aroace. However it is different from electio-aroace because someone can feel cupisco attraction while still feeling other forms of tertiary attraction. It's also different fromĀ cupioroseĀ because cupisco attraction says nothing about one's real life actions or desires. One may or may not want to act on their cupisco attraction. Someone with cupisco attraction mayĀ fantasize about feeling a certain attraction, but recognizes that they do not want or can never haveĀ that sort of relationship in real life.
Cupisco attraction can be combined with any other relevant sexuality terms. As an example, an aroace individual who fantasizes about being attracted to men and women could be bi-cupisco.
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Whereas idyllic attraction could be:
A type of emotional attraction where an individual is attracted toĀ someone who's peace-lovingĀ orĀ puts others in a peaceful atmosphere, whether that's intentional or not. Being around them makes oneĀ happy and calm. This may or may not change into a deeper form of attraction, potentially into a domestic attraction or any other form, where you'd want to spend your rest of your life with that person.
Or it can be an attraction to someone whom you want toĀ share a life withĀ as found inĀ idle/lifesim/iyashikei games, such as Animal Crossing. The person one is attracted to does not have to be peace-loving, but one still desires to have that life with them. Perhaps, if their idyllic crush is toxic or fights a lot, the individual attracted to them may hope they can change their nature with the idyllic lifestyle.
A lifestyle that can often be found in the endings of war stories.Ā "The fight is over, the world is peaceful, and it's only us now." (Like inĀ HG Mockingjay 2, for example.)
An idyllic crush can be calledĀ idyl.
Anyone can feel this type of attraction, regardless of their orientation. If you don't, you may be anidyllic (on theĀ anattractionalĀ spectrum).
Can overlap with adornic attraction.Ā 
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Mephistophelian attraction:
The opposite ofĀ idyllic attraction.
Similar to the type of relationshipĀ partners in crimeĀ have. One may desire this type of relationship.Ā 
The individual may or may not want to actually be a criminal, they simply desire that type of relationship, that type of loyalty and closeness, knowing you can count on each other, without it being romantic/sexual or even platonic/friendly. (Although the attraction can shift into something more or mix with other attraction types. For example, ductuaffectian or fidelis attraction may be the base of mephistophelian attraction.)
This attraction may also happen when crushing on a criminal – they make being criminal look like something that is euphoric in the moment, aĀ certain closeness/"brotherhood" gangsĀ haveĀ (can fall into amical attraction) that one may not find anywhere else. One whoĀ shares a goalĀ with someone else, wanting to make that happen and doingĀ whatever it takes.
On some part spectrum, criminals are often able toĀ make a change in the world, when peaceful protests do no difference. Depending on the perspective, it can be heroic, as nothing is black and white, not even the devil. The difference to heroes, is that villains are ruthless in their goal, but usually get things quicker done. Mephistophelian attraction would perhaps be something what theĀ sidekick of (and toward) the villainĀ feels.
Or one desires to "bring hell on earth", but doesn't want to do it alone.Ā 
If you want to create flags for these, be my guest. Anyone’s free to use these terms if they resonate with you.
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 4 months ago
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Aroace has a short form of aromantic-asexual, so why not the same for orientations that are both romantic and sexual?
Literally just take the first two letters, similar to aro-ace with the first three, and you get ā€œroseā€. Coincidentally that’s the flower that’s often used in those two relationships.
And then just attach it to the prefix. Birose, panrose, demirose, frayrose, apothirose, vallisrose, homorose, hetrose/heterorose, merorose, etc.
Easy peasy.
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 years ago
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 years ago
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Astro Notes Part VI
Scorpio midheavens are prone to public scandals or backlash, typically after being exposed for some secret or lie. They are obsessed with controlling the narrative. Their image is carefully crafted and perfected. Their brand is maintained with patience and discipline. They control what the public sees or knows about them. And when they can’t, they get angry, which is typically how they slip up. If their image wasn’t so tightly controlled, it would leave room for error, but since most pretend to act one way, when it is uncovered that the truth has been distorted, they are often subject to disgrace and publicly ostracized, which causes people to discredit all of the good work they did. They need to learn to not victimize themselves when they have done shady things behind the scenes. Sometimes, it’s best to say nothing.
Gemini IC individuals often felt restless or unsupported at home. Their creativity wasn’t celebrated and their gifts couldn’t be expressed. They may have felt like they had to hide parts of who they are because they weren’t allowed to be themselves without being shunned or having to consult someone else or ask for permission first. They may have been denied the tools they needed to feel at home.
Scorpio IC individuals most likely grew up in a home characterized by strife or tension. There may have been power struggles between child and parent or among parents or among siblings. There were aspects of volatile and chaotic living environments & possibly dysfunction. The family was feuding. Family members were at odds. Or, the home was characterized by heaviness. Perhaps someone died. Perhaps someone was gravely ill. These individuals could have been abused or watched or experienced abuse in the home as well. The individual didn’t feel nurtured. These individuals were placed in situations where they felt powerless or helpless or vulnerable. They built a fortress around themselves and shut certain issues out so as to survive. Perhaps they saw or heard things they shouldn’t. Perhaps they were always on edge. Perhaps their parental figures were cold and they wished for warm figures, but they couldn’t be thawed out. Perhaps something terrible happened to them. Something traumatic: if not to them, in the lives of people close to them. They witnessed or were privy to some kind of loss or grief or death, literal or metaphorical. They knew intimately pain and hardship and struggle. Their power was taken away, stolen from them. From a young age, they were made knowledgeable of the dark or shadow side of humanity or of life. Maybe the home life wasn’t oppressive or stifling or traumatic or characterized by psychological wounding, drama, victimization, struggle and hardship. Perhaps they were never harmed, nor were their family members, but they suffered from tragedy. Perhaps they weren’t protected or the adults in their lives were troubled or wrecked. These individuals, from a young age, became acquainted with violence or vulnerability, harm or immoral behavior, despair, death, or illness, trauma, poverty, etc. In the home, it was dire. There was this constant sense of crisis, emergency, urgency, instability, and unpredictability. Something threatening. Something dark or sinister lurked, a threat constantly presented itself, such as the threat of death or eviction for instance. Perhaps none of this is true, and nothing terrible happened at home, but the home was still not a safe place. It brought anxiety or discomfort or unhappiness and worry; it represented emptiness, it was a place of strife where arguments commonly took place, it was toxic and draining, it was sad and reminded one of misery, or unfulfilled dreams. It was hollow. Or perhaps it was positive and transformative and life-changing in an incredibly intense way. Perhaps it permanently altered one’s worldview/the way one sees life in a good way; it was impactful. Perhaps it indicates a strong bond, for positive or negative, between mother and child or father and child. The possibilities are endless.
Scorpio midheavens and moons are more manipulative than Scorpio suns. Cancer suns and moons and Leo risings are just as or are more manipulative than Pisces moons and suns. Taurus midheavens tend to be popular or gain fame or notoriety for their looks/beauty/physical attractiveness and sexuality more than their actual talents. Leo midheavens often have quick rises/ascensions to power and fame, but also quick downfalls, especially if they’re Scorpio risings. Scorpio risings often go through periods when the world loves them and then periods when they are the most hated or reviled. They often get in trouble for being deviant/seen as nonconforming to social norms, even more so than Aquarius risings. They tend to have tremendous breakthroughs and tremendous pitfalls. Public opinion of them constantly changes/fluctuates. They are both elevated and condemned in society & inspire mass fanatics/followers and mass haters. They make friends and enemies easily. Sometimes the people around them don’t act in their best interests or seek to monopolize or profit off of/commodify or harm them. They need to be discriminative in their taste and judgment of who to trust. They often experience betrayal from the people closest to them who weaponize their secrets or lowest moments to self-gain.
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 years ago
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Astro Notes Part VIII
Venus Conjunct Saturn and Venus Opposite Uranus individuals possess stunted or instable relationships. The former has an issue connecting with people & forming bonds and the latter feels like relationships are constantly falling apart or escaping them. Both do not desire to be attached to people, value their independence, and can feel suppressed just by being in a relationship. The former values work above love, the latter just wants a good time and a partner that respects their need to be able to do their own thing and not be confined. Both, but largely the former, push people away. Venus conjunct Saturn self-sabotages themselves and their relationships, but secretly fears being alone. They are married to their work. Venus opposite Uranus needs partners that are exciting, but they often come and go. They struggle to maintain bonds. Venus square Saturn desires connection and intimacy but possesses barriers due to shyness or emotional awkwardness or not being emotionally supported and provided for or nurtured and cared for as a child. They feel like love is hard and only brings pain and suffering. They have a difficult time letting people in and vocalizing and expressing their feelings. They run away a lot. They don’t like to be confronted with love. Their partners tend to be older than them for women and younger for men with this placement. May be attracted to authority figures or have a Daddy-little kink. Is scared of commitment, like Venus Conjunct Saturn. Relationships may be lacking or unloving, cold, and unfeeling. Partners may be cold as well. Difficulty opening up and unfolding.
Sun square Pluto or Sun Square Midheaven or Mars conjunct Pluto may have conflicts with the father or with authority figures. Power struggles abound. May feel powerless or consumed by power. May struggle for authority. May crave freedom. May be emotionally abused or manipulated.
Moon Conjunct Pluto individuals have an appetite for destruction. These people are the most self-destructive people you’ll ever encounter. They are obsessed with self-change and self-transformation. Are super self-indulgent. Have addictive personalities. May abuse drugs. Struggle to express compassion and other soft emotions. Attracted to danger and exhilaration like Aries and Sagittarius placements. Needs to feel meaningful like Sagittarius. Very in-depth and investigative like Scorpio placements. Peace eludes them because they are very focused on revenge. Sensitive but pretends they’re not. Hides feelings so as to not appear weak. Believes showing emotion makes you a p****. Internalizes a lot of pain and anger. Can throw away everything they worked for in a second if not careful. In love/entranced with death. Scared of love and of feeling/caring about people. Careless in relationships. Possesses deep insecurities on the inside. Like Pisces risings, attempts to transcend the self; either through life or death. Pisces risings do it primarily through art and study/academic discipline & humanitarianism.
Venus in 12th house, Libra rising, moon in 12th house, & other 12th house placements, like Pisces Venus, may fall in love with people who struggle with mental illnesses or need to be saved, or people who hurt them emotionally and/or cheat on them. They are drawn to people they can nurture and build up, like Virgo suns and 6th house placements. Cannot let people go or give up on them. Virgo suns are natural healers & obsessed with fixing people. Sun in 8th house people may endure internal conflicts/crises, losses, and major illness, such as cancer or death, or experience it in the lives of their loved ones. May encounter many tragedies and feel empty inside. May be psychic. Cancer, Libra, & Pisces moons are empaths. 8th house Neptune is very curious, insatiably so. May ask questions and look for answers like 3rd or 9th house or Sagittarius placements. Never satisfied. Attracted to danger. Can place themselves at risk: need to remember curiosity killed the cat. 7th house stelliums are empaths. 8th and 12th house stelliums & Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio (water) placements have intense dreams and nightmares. Mercury in the 3rd, 5th, 7th & 9th are gifted writers, affinity is especially in the 7th.
Moon Quincunx Ascendant individuals never feel at home in the world: they feel homeless. They feel invisible or unseen in the world and want to disappear. There is a crisis between their true identity and the face they show the world. They tend to feel out of place or misunderstood. They may feel like they belong to an outside planet or galaxy, not in the world or on earth. There is often a deep loneliness felt, a lack of a sense of belonging. They tend to search for meaning or purpose as zealously as those with 9th house stelliums. 9th house stelliums may be in love with knowledge itself. They may be obsessed with learning or studying; they are eternal students of life: they seek to expand their mind rigorously. They study multiple subjects in school or get multiple degrees, double major and minor. May be addicted to writing or researching. Overabundance of energy for the material and immaterial. May write generously or more than normal/lengthy like Jupiter in the 2nd or 3rd. They are extremely philosophical and they are very in-depth, passionate individuals with strong morals and ideological compasses. They may be righteous and think the world isn’t fair. They may be devoted to reforming the world and helping repair it. They are considered with justice/social injustice and passionate about humanitarian issues & ideals and social problems. They may be involved in multiple charities or start their own organization or foundation to give back to the world. They may value the abstract over the concrete and be besotted with abstract principles. They may be very altruistic and spiritual. They may prefer holistic practice or be obsessed with healing like Virgo and Aquarius suns, instead of medicinal ones. They may study religiously, overstudy, and write heavily and extensively. They may prefer knowledge to experience and enjoy debate. They may be political or apolitical like Aquarius suns, and possess strong opinions. They may alternate between faith and disbelief in God. They may be deeply religious or atheistic or agnostic, or believe in many gods. They may form their own spiritual practice. They may reject dogma in favor of science. They may be very enlightened, wise beyond their years, individuals, old souls even. There is a crisis of meaning. 12th house stelliums or 1st house stelliums may face constant identity crises, as well as existential crisis, along with 9th house stelliums, they may be filled with questions about their selfhood/personhood and place in the world that they cannot answer. They may feel like a stranger to themselves, or feel that the world rejects or constrains or oppresses them. They may suffer constant identity confusion and feel like their body doesn’t belong to them. They may be uncomfortable in their body form and drawn to other worlds or spiritual realms. They may suffer from depression and suicidal ideation throughout their life & value solitude and introspection. They may feel lost and directionless in life. This also applies to Neptune dominant individuals or Pisces risings & midheavens. Pisces risings possess this external sadness to them & internalize it. They feel deeply and as empaths, are often overwhelmed and drained by life. They feel stranded and estranged from the world, like 12th house planets. They feel hopeless and disillusioned by life. They feel like they can’t be who they are. They don’t know themselves. Parts of them feel alone & devalued, they can’t relate to other people or the world doesn’t get them. The evils & horrors of the world sadden their spirit. Mystics. Psychic sponges. Sublime beauty. They absorb all, good or bad. They may question everything that exists in the world, including themselves. 1st house stelliums may want to be someone else entirely. They may often change their physical experience, such as frequently dye their hair, like Aquarius or even Pisces risings. Constantly searching for external change. They may feel lonely. Water sun signs are the most emotionally manipulative people, especially Cancer suns, followed by Pisces & lastly Scorpio suns.
Mercury Quincunx Uranus is found in the charts of a lot of writers, including Virginia Woolf and Sylvia Plath, and in people who commit suicide. It enhances & gives the mind an electrifying/electric quality. Ideas may be revolutionary or come to mind at the speed of light. The mind is sharp and intensely creative. Prone to intense moods or introspection. Leads to a lot of internal investigation into the self and the world, not unlike Mercury Conjunct Pluto.
Moon Trine Neptune
These people are very dreamy and imaginative. They are extremely creative and thrive in unconventional settings or environments that are loosly controlled and grant them a great deal of creative freedom and mobility. Empaths. Poets. Artists. Poetic and kind. Mystical like Pisces risings.
Virgo suns are incredibly intelligent. Virgo suns and mercury have a gift with words. They can write in a myriad of ways and possess very distinct voices. They can be very persuasive. They have this all-knowing sense of what is needed, what needs to be said and done, without being a know-it-all like their Leo and Capricorn sun counterparts. They possess this intuitive sense of direction and deliberation. They are very engaged in the senses, as an earth sign, so they are very intuned with imagery and descriptive language. Many seem to think Virgos are math/science-based and Geminis are more creative/arts inclined, but that’s not true. Virgos are just as creative, especially in the arts, such as in writing, music, film, etc. Most famous writers are Virgo suns, followed by Leo suns.
Taurus risings, moons, or mars or Taurus dominant individuals almost always have beautiful singing voices. As a Venusian sign, their voice is imbued with beauty and enchanting musicality. You see this placement a lot among musicians, as well as Pisces sun, moon, or rising, Aries moon, Virgo sun, Leo sun, and Gemini sun. A lot of actors are Scorpio suns or risings or Capricorn suns or risings. Neptune dominant people tend to be artists, poets, actors, or musicians. Their voice may have a haunting or soulful quality. Taurus in 3rd house have beautiful, light, lyrical, musical speaking voices/tones.
Aries moon & Venus are very impulsive. They get bored of people & situations really quickly. They possess a short fuse and a short attention span. They are very moody and temperamental. They like to lead and control the shots in any relationship, whether a romantic or work one. They are the ones who decide where to go on a date, who’s in charge of what, and etc. They can be forceful and domineering. They are natural leaders. They don’t like losing control or giving over/up control of the reigns to someone else. They love taking risks. They crave constant excitement and stimulation, as a fire sign. They are very restless: they can partake in risky/dangerous activities. They are adrenaline junkies like Sagittarius suns, they love a thrill. Danger excites them. They ignore red flags. They need tension, high energy, or potential for battle/conflict in their relationships. They are very rash, when not careful, their words and actions can get them in trouble. They can be very dismissive of others’ feelings and selfish/self-absorbed. They can be bossy and pushy. They like to get their way. They love a challenge and they see themselves as and like to be seen as a challenge. They love the title of a ā€œsavage.ā€ They love playing hard-to-get. Yes means no to them: they say no when they want to say yes, and expect you to continue to push or fight for them. They can be entitled at times. They get jealous and possessive easily and like making their partners jealous or making people want them. They are very passionate friends and lovers and loyal when they are in love. They can be flighty at times. They are prone to on-off relationships. They are prone to having temper tantrums and physically throwing or thrashing things and even slapping or fighting people when angry. They emotionally lash out, then apologize later when they calm down. They have anger issues/their emotions are not controlled. They need a lot of alone time & independence in relationships. They enjoy solitude at times, other times, they want to be around other people. They don’t like needing people. They can be very emotionally demanding and needy/bratty like Cancers. They have a lot of rules they expect partners to follow.
Aquarius suns are fiercely loyal to their friends & groups and organizations they identify with. Like Sagittarius, they value their freedom and independence above all else and hate feeling entrapped or confined. They are constantly experimenting and challenging the limits of something. They are the innovators of the world. Most are inspired by technology or possess an edge in the field, or are some kind of prodigy in the maths and sciences. They don’t necessarily feel at home in the world, so when they find people they truly like, they form a community with them. Their friends tend to be older than them or a generation or two above them. They can get along with young or old people, but they tend to especially be charmed by older people. This is probably because Saturn is their traditional ruler, so with age comes wisdom, they believe. Older people may appear more sagely to them and experienced, and they are only interested in people they can learn from or acquire intriguing information from. Their friends often become their mentors and vice versa. They are extroverted and tend to have a hierarchy of friends. There’s their intimate circle of close-knit friends, the people they allow to truly know them and let inside, their ride-or-dies or main crew, then there’s their friends who they like but would never share intimate details with, then there’s their distant friends who they talk to every once in a while but rarely enjoy the company of, for instance, friends they see when they’re home or interact with in certain venues or only with other people, then there’s the people who they respect and admire but aren’t a part of their in-group. Then there’s their acquaintances, the people they tolerate or rarely familiarize themselves with, but have some slight connection to; perhaps a friend of a friend, or sorts.
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Astro Notes Part X (Aquarius Profile)
Aquarius suns or dominants, as well as Uranus dominants, are some of the most talented and gifted people. They have a great sense of humor. They are often a constant source of inspiration or admiration to others. While they may not be the most consistent or emotionally available, they are relentlessly focused and resolute people. They have an intense will, an iron will, one might say. They are some of the most resilient people you’ll ever meet; they have an endless resolve. Life can’t keep them down, nor can change or any other circumstance. They are constantly evolving. Many, like Sagittarius and Pisces, have this unshakable optimism or positivism to them, this relentless charm. They are always undertaking something and proving how it can be done in innumerable ways. They are constantly defying the status quo and breaking barriers and limitations for everyone. They are innovators and reformers and humanitarians. They are rulebreakers. They set precedents. They are altruistic and well-meaning. They are dedicated. They are truly some of the most incredible artists and scientists. They often are trailblazers in their field of choice. They step out of the box in their original and creative thinking, or remove it altogether. They are some of the most complex, compelling, and fascinating people, and some of the most enigmatic. They are very hard to get to know, but worth knowing. They are intensely loyal to their friends and value & expect that same loyalty in return. They fear betrayal; those who do betray their trust become their enemies. Trust for them must be earned & never broken.
Aquarians derive much of their identity from being considered unique or avant-garde. It can be a farce at times, a facade they hide behind. It’s often why they are very inconsistent or so unpredictable, they become predictable in a sense. They hate order but derive incredible meaning from structure; after all, without a set rule, how could one break it? Without a followed code or algorithm, how could one solve an equation? Some feel they will not be accepted in society for who they are at heart, so developing a persona or front or masks, if you will, allows them to play a certain part/role in society and still be free, independent, and have room to experiment and maneuver in society; it gives them a degree of autonomy. It also allows them to circumvent the limits placed on their expression and create their own space or niche for themselves. They derive a lot of comfort and even confidence from being able to shape this new character or separate entity and mold this identity as they see fit as they encounter the world. They hate feeling trapped or fenced/boxed in or forced to conform or accommodate—it makes them feel stagnant and creatively suppressed. Their creative blockages lead to emotional suppression. However, this separation from themselves or mask-wearing also allows them to hide from even themselves in a way and avoid confronting with or being confronted by their true identity. They can be strangers to themselves and feel estranged from the world—sometimes, their identity is in turmoil/they experience identity crisis because they don’t know who they are as a person, or what they want or why they’re searching for something. They may feel a certain emptiness they can’t escape from. Their persona is often at odds with their core selves. They value authenticity, but some meaning is lost to them in the guise of a persona, wherein some nearly become caricatures of themselves, trying so hard to act out different roles or have the experiences they can’t have and/or are denied to them as their traditional selves. In some ways, their own identities are kept a secret from themselves, and not just the world as intended. Whereas the argument can be made that their fellow air signs, Libra and Gemini have multiple identities (Gemini—dual/multiple, Libra—multiple personalities or roles they play any given day or setting), it can almost be said that an Aquarius doesn’t have an identity/one set identity; it can be argued they have no identity. Their identity is that of constant change or transformation like Scorpio, whatever is different or nonconforming or iconoclast or revolutionary at the time. Society needs to tell them what is right or correct for them to find peace in creating/establishing an identity that differs/is the opposite of that or deviates from the norm. Without a social construction of [the] self, they have no self, no ā€œI.ā€ They don’t always know who they are or feel valid or of belonging or as if they exist or are thrust in the correct or acceptable spaces for them. They may feel like spectators of and in their own life. And in many ways, as much as they do hate rigidity and inflexibility in behavior and imagination when constrained by others, they typically are inflexible and unmoved themselves/unwilling to change if asked by others instead of self-change being initiated, and they are often forced to adapt to certain structures in order to gain acceptance in the world anyhow because they do hate or fear rejection (though, they pretend they don’t/feign indifference or apathy) or negative appraisal, as much as they fear confinement. They are not as immune to outside judgment/opinions as they want you to believe/think & appear to be.
Many Aquarius suns are very intelligent. Some do have a know-it-all or alternatively, a Napeleon complex. Many live with imposter syndrome, believing they do not quite deserve their success or they have not quite earned it or established a place/position in the world or proved themselves worthy yet. They may feel unworthy of the success they do have, while not wanting it to end & fearing it will. They are constantly challenging themselves to outperform or top themselves. They are highly competitive, in competition with themselves & others. They want to be the best or the most salient or creative in the room. The voice of reason. The trusted guide. The most knowledgeable. They need to be to feel important & deserving, they can deny it as much as they want—nonetheless, it’s true. The desire to be recognized for their talents/gifts and even strangeness is what motivates them, there’s a reason why Leo is their sister sign. They want attention just like any other sign, though, they claim to hate it. They want people to be interested in them and their work and their hobbies/interests. They just don’t want attention in the same ways other signs such as Leo, Cancer, & Libra want it; like Capricorn, they may prefer to have attention that is reward or acclaim-based, or they may want or prefer to be behind-the-scenes instead of center stage. They don’t crave the spotlight or limelight like Leo or Libra, but they do want an audience—trust that. They want a loyal following, a support system, a crowd to be amongst. They are the sign of groups after all. They are the faces of a reform or social movement. They make the signs and wag them. They are your progressive, or alternatively, super conservative politicians. Or they are neutral or politically apathetic. They are your indie rock bands. Alternative rock musicians. Infamous sculptor or painter. And so on.
They are brave, bold, daring, ideological, and sometimes even reckless. They are radical—left wing or right wing. They play huge roles in the social imagination and collective conscience. They have a voice. They have devout followers. They don’t necessarily care about being doted on or revered or desired or seen as attractive, or beautiful/conventionally pretty. Being called peculiar or weird is a compliment, not an insult to them. They can have control issues or be huge control freaks and perfectionists like Capricorn, Scorpio, and Virgo, even Cancer. They are often drawn to abandoned or deformed or hurt/damaged or lost animals, [minority] groups, and causes, for instance, issues concerning the homeless or abused dogs, women’s shelters, etc. They feel a special connection to people in need or in dire straits/need of help, assistance or rescue, due to their charitable and generous, humanitarian-inclined nature and altruistic hearts. They often are friendly and sociable. They may adopt rescue dogs or missing cats. They tend to love animals and champion their causes/rights. I’ve noticed a large number of people with Aquarius placements are either apart of PETA, vegan, vegetarian or pescatarian, or are environmental change activists and proponents/believers of climate change and global warming, campaigners of Save the Whales or Save the Bees, crusaders against Sea World, the proliferation of nuclear weapons, and zoos, or supporters of social or environmental justice, and so on. They are very active in social justice issues and very conscientious or committed to raising social awareness about social problems/ills, fixing them, and rectifying social injustice. Often fund non-profits or are large donors/make significant contributions to charity or aid relief organizations. They are very philosophically and morally-inclined, like 9th house or Sagittarius or Jupiter placements, and care a lot about sociology, the earth, the environment, animals, and people. They are pure humanitarians at heart, dedicated to improving, redeeming, and saving/salvaging society. Some, although they like to help others, may be socially awkward or have social anxiety. It’s also common for them to work with special populations for a living, for instance, work with the mentally ill in psychiatric hospitals or special needs populations, be prison wardens, zoologists, or psychologists or psychiatrists. Like Scorpios, they are deeply intrigued by the least understood / most ostracized members of society, those struggling with something or considered abnormal, deviant, or lost souls, etc. They don’t suscribe to labels. The more different you are, the better, to them. They like advocating for people who don’t have a voice for themselves or who have been silenced in society and marginalized; they are generally more accepting than most people are of difference or peculiarity or quirkiness.
Even though Aquarians don’t like to fit in, while they want to stand out, they don’t necessarily like to be singled out because the amount of public attention doing so brings often makes them feel uncomfortable, like a spectacle, or watched, and they hate feeling observed like a lab rat, constantly under the microscope, tested, or put out on display like art in a museum. They hate being copied or imitated. They also hate feeling dictated to or controlled/stifled or made to feel intellectually inferior. They take insults to their intelligence very seriously. They hate being told what to do and how to do it/the right way. They don’t believe there is a right way. They think their way is the right way; they can’t handle being corrected or told they are somehow wrong—it makes them feel defective. They are very driven. They are very chill people, not very emotional or easily emotionally roused, but still, paradoxically, they are easily agitated or angered. They are walking paradoxes/contradictions. They are more contradictory than Geminis even, but far more grounded. They see many sides to an issue, even more than Libras. They often do things without trying or thinking. They are mostly objective. Their opinions are quite subjective, however. They take matters personally. They don’t react well when people disagree with them because they think they’re right and others are wrong. They treat it as very black-or-white because that’s how their thinking is—dichotomous. They think they’re well-rounded but they can be so attached to their worldview that they actually become narrow-minded. They don’t like to live up to stereotypes; they attempt to defy them, as well as upend societal expectations of them. They want to prove people wrong about them. They love to debate or challenge someone and start and attempt to win and finish an argument. They are extremely opinionated people. They are either neutral or have a stance on just about everything. They are easily offended and affronted. They snap quickly. They have trouble apologizing. Saying the word ā€œsorryā€ is cringeworthy and painful to many of them. They rather show you/demonstrate through their actions that they’re sorry, like ask you what you want to eat or if you want to see a movie you’ve been dying to see or help them film a documentary, or go to the museum, and so on. They prefer indirect, nonverbal (cues, gestures & body language) communication to direct, verbal communication, at times.
Like Scorpios, they like to retain an element of mystery, something unknowable. They don’t want you to figure them out or even attempt to do so, even though they hate feeling misunderstood. They prefer not being understood to being understood and decoded, and thus seen and known to the world. They lose part of who they are in that recognition, in the world’s image of them. This is why they often disappear from the world, mentally or physically—retreating into private spaces. They so often feel alien or removed or strange. They may have an attitude or put on ā€œairsā€ at times to purposefully come across as pretentious or arrogant and deter people from interacting with them. They don’t like to feel lonely or be considered/evaluated as or deemed cruel or mean by others, however, even though they care less about their reputation or outside perception than most people. Perhaps in childhood they experienced rejection or bullying for who they were. That is why they are drawn to loners or outcasts or are considered them themselves. They may struggle with moments of nothingness when it seems as though their lives are bereft of meaning or symbolism—they search for symbolism in everything. Something deeply abstract and ephemeral lives in their spirit, like they’ve been reincarnated or have been here before or have had multiple lifetimes; there’s an old soul quality to many of them, and a deep, spiritual wisdom and spirituality. They can also have melancholy temperaments. There is often something very unique/distinctive about them or something that focuses your attention on or calls you to their physical features/appearance as well, usually their hair. It may be unusual in terms of its shape/form/texture or its color—dyed burgundy with stripes of white, teal, hot pink, flaming orange like a Cheeto, magenta or violet purple, turquoise, etc. They find comfort in the striking and unusual. They want to be viewed as distinct, separate from all the rest and unique, just in a good way as opposed to a bad way. They want to be unconventional, but still in a light that is positively evaluated in society. They want to be affirmed and celebrated for their differences, visible and invisible, their eccentrics and eccentricities, their electric and eclectic nature, instead of shoved into the margins and ostracized. They love being unusual or underestimated, but not discredited. They love making others uncomfortable and being shocking or taboo or provocative, like Scorpios and Geminis. They value individuality and freedom of expression and speech above all else. They are ā€œunicorns.ā€ They thrive being the black sheep or the underdog, and they are attracted to people like that and champion those who have struggled or been shunned or rejected in society—the outcasts, the misfits, the miscreants, the rogues, the underdogs, and so on. Those are their people. If no one else/society won’t or refuses to accept them, they will. They are often extraverted but they are highly selective about who they let in and show themselves to. They often belong to certain groups or organizations, and they derive a great deal of satisfaction from that. They tend to form very intense, very fulfilling emotional connections to the people they do allow in. These people are like their chosen or spiritual family, and they guard them and cherish them and are very protective of them. They don’t have a hard time interacting with people, but may struggle emotionally connecting to them or feel bored very easily by others and lose interest in prospective romantic partners. The friendships and bonds they do make, however, are often long-lasting.
They tend to be extremely creative and gifted people, especially in the arts and sciences. One of their greatest weaknesses is their inability to handle any sort of criticism or commentary without getting defensive, as I’ve already experienced and pointed out on here. You can’t tell them something about themselves without them responding idiotically or reactively or rudely with some comment like ā€œWHo HuRt YoU???ā€ā€”translation, how dare you speak on me without provocation or think that you know me. Did I ask???You don’t know me, NO ONE knows me (except myself). I’m a mystery to all. Don’t speak to me or come for me unless I send for you, blah, blah, blah, etc, etc, etc. Yawn. I do this to my Aquarius friends a lot and admittedly, they confess that any sort of feedback that isn’t necessarily positive makes them instantly go on the defensive or attack or attempt to spew verbal bullets, and I just laugh. Y’all are way more sensitive than you think you are. You take offense at the slightest provocation—it’s too easy to upset you. It’s okay. I won’t tell your secret. Stubborn as a mule, Aquarians are, being a fixed sign, but they could really benefit from hearing people’s CONSTRUCTIVE criticism without constantly being on guard, because nobody needs ā€œyes menā€ all around them and we all grow from hearing people and being responsive and attentive (and respectful) of what they’re getting at/trying to show us. If your first response is to aggressively belittle or patronize someone every time you feel scorned, you’re never going to find common ground, and it subsequently makes you feel rejected and alienated, misunderstood and alone even, feelings you don’t like to feel. Feelings you run from. Meet people where they are and let your defenses down every now and then. You might just like what you find. And we could all benefit from hearing you and uncovering the gems and jewels of your mind. Remember it is not the message people respond to, but the mode of delivery—how you say what you have to say and respond to what was said. Change or soften your tone sometimes and you may find a world of difference. You’d be surprised how receptive people would be to you, how many people are willing to hear you, see you, reach you, celebrate you, and even share your insight and your interests once you know how to speak to them. Your greatest challenge and setback: communication, more specifically, how (the mannerisms by which) you communicate. Your greatest skill: your creativity. Your greatest weapon: finding and accepting instead of rejecting—before you are rejected—and scaring off or slighting your [potential] community. You shine the best when you allow companionship.
Aquarius suns may lack or struggle with having emotional intelligence. This is their greatest setback to emotional connection and relationships, as well as their greatest liability/weakness and Achilles’ heel. Finding out who they are at the core and learning how to embrace and express that effectively and be emotionally attuned with others will give them the excitement and joy and purpose they desperately want to feel, explore, and get out of life. Letting people in emotionally is often their biggest fear, but pretending not to care and being unemotional or cold will bring them the pain they believe love and connection is, unless they learn to trust and love and connect without fear and constant pushing away, running away, or self-sabotage. No one wants to be lonely. Aquarius knows this feeling more than anyone—loneliness—hence why they hate feeling alone. They may be unwilling to confront with and admit it, but they are starved of connection and belonging, fearful or distrusting of love and emotions, and emotional intimacy and emotional safety will only guarantee them the states of meaningful existence they so deeply crave to enter into. Let go: they need to allow themselves to let go. Stop isolating themselves. What you think is self-preservation and protection is actually self-harm. Self-protectionism will hurt you far more than admitting and expressing vulnerability ever will. They need to let go of their fears and release their inhibitions and trust themselves and others, trust others not to hurt or disappoint or abandon them, and trust themselves not to do the same in kind. Love isn’t this scary monster, the ā€œevilā€ or nightmare or ā€œtrapā€ they think it is. Again, love isn’t a trap. Or a game. There are no winners and losers. Love isn’t confinement. Love can be freeing instead of entrapping and constraining. They need to stop associating love with danger and constraint and impossibility. Early on in their lives, perhaps, they were let down by people they trusted and learned to never again depend on others and believed they had to support themselves independently. They grew up jaded, thinking the world was harsh and cruel and unforgiving, and to survive, they had to be as well, perhaps. They may go in and out of people’s lives, pulling away when they get too close, or be on-and-off with partners for years, like Capricorn placements, perhaps. They don’t realize love can be freeing instead of damaging & restrictive. Love doesn’t have to hurt.
Many Aquarius suns, especially those with strong Capricorn influence or Plutonian dominance/denomination, may struggle with fidelity due to commitment-phobia. They may intentionally or unintentionally/subconsciously push people away, sabotage their relationships, or hurt people because as much as they fear being lonely/alone, they fear or distrust love and associate it with loss or hardship, constriction or risk, especially those who grew up in environments where they were not emotionally nurtured. Aquarius with Scorpio influences may also be paranoid or suspect their partners of cheating or infidelity, or they themselves may struggle being faithful, and arouse their partners’ suspicions. Aquarius need partners who understand their unique, specific needs for personal space, freedom, and movement & don’t encroach upon them. They need partners who respect their boundaries. They encourage their partners’ independence from them. They may thrive in unconventional relationships, such as open relationships, polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships, or casual arrangements such as one-night-stands, hookups, or friends with benefits entanglements with paramours. Or, they may enjoy cohabitation without marriage or with commitment ceremonies instead of entering formal unions. If they do get engaged, they may prefer long-term engagements. They often thrive in long distance relationships because they don’t have to be at a partne’s beck and call and can be their own person. They get bored very easily and their relationships may go through phases. On-off or unstable from time to time. This is because Aquarius need a lot of excitement, change & unpredictability in their relationships to keep their interest piqued and maintain their passion because stability and routine bores them & causes them to grow tired with their relationships or restless, or find their partners boring or a hindrance to their potential, an obstacle to their goals even. If love is not imbued with the potential of being harmed or hurt or disappointed, for Aquarius, love may be confining or a symbol of restraint, an impediment to their autonomy. It can represent identity suppression & loss of freedom to them & cause them to feel fenced in and trapped. Many Aquarius who are Capricorn dominant feel like they can’t be in love/a committed relationship and pursue their goals at the same time; they have to give one up, it’s one or the other. They usually pick their work/ambitions over their personal relationships, not because they don’t care, but because they feel like love can wait but their career can’t. They are opportunists at heart, they want to take every opportunity and grasp it by the wing instead of letting it pass them by. At times, this can make them appear callous, selfish even, but they mean no ill-harm, truly. They just really care about contributing something meaningful and important to them to the world; like Leos, they have natural gifts/talents & depositions/affinities to share with the world and offer, and they intend to do so. It is their life’s work and passion. They can’t compromise it for anyone or anything.
They may get an itch to leave the relationship or go on a ā€œbreakā€ from time to time rather than formally breaking up, because they can feel like their partner is holding them back from achieving their goals. Partners may feel like a distraction to them. A bit of drama or tension or potential for conflict can actually keep them engaged in their relationship & even prolong the relationship because it keeps things fun, exciting, lively, passionate, climatic, unpredictable, & interesting instead of predictable and stale & monotonous. They need to be involved with people, places, or situations that are evolving, otherwise, they may check out or need a lot of space, me-time, personal distance, a break, a place to start over, and so on; when relationships get heavy, intense, and serious as well, they may take a step back and say they need time and it’s better if they slowed it down right now because right now, things are moving too fast. They never like to feel stagnant or pushed into a situation before they are ready to enter it. They hate feeling dictated to, and having to consider others’ feelings can kill their vibe when they just want to do their own thing sometimes. When they do find a partner who matches their needs, however, their relationships tend to be very long-lasting and committed, lasting at least 2 years usually, and even half a decade, or 7 years, or past a decade, multiple decades even. This is because of their Saturnian influence, as Saturn is the traditional ruler of Aquarius. Message for Aquarius: Don’t be so scared to feel. They don’t ever want to need people or rely on them in any capacity. Their motto, like Capricorn and sometimes Virgo and Scorpio placements, is often ā€œconceal, don’t feel,ā€ like Elsa in Frozen. But no one is made of ice, we all need to thaw and allow ourselves to be vulnerable to survive. And no one wants to be with Scrooge from A Christmas Carol or the Tin Man from The Wizard of Oz, hardheaded, emotionally stunted, sometimes heartless, robot-like, desolate, empty shells of living beings. Treat people well and kindly and have enough faith to believe in the potential for good and positive in people just as you see it in the world. Not everybody is out to hurt or malign you. Don’t make the mistake of presuming so. Correct your assumptions about people and lessen your judgment. Don’t write them off. Don’t judge a book by a cover—don’t assume everyone has it out for you or has an agenda or is shallow or superficial. Don’t treat people as subjects who have to answer to your tests and somehow prove themselves to you over and over, like Scorpio, before they gain your trust. Don’t play games relentlessly. People aren’t experiments. Love isn’t a test. This is how you lose people. This is how you hurt people. This is how you turn people away from and against you and teach them or force them to reject you. Don’t treat love as a game. Value people’s feelings. Care. Feel. Allow yourself to feel, and don’t feel guilty for doing so for once. You have nothing to be ashamed of. There’s nothing shameful about being emotional. It’s the human condition. Lesson for Aquarius: don’t cheat yourself out of a lifetime of happiness. Don’t rob yourself and others of knowing you or even wanting to be acquainted with you. Avoid ghosting & emotionally manipulating people, pushing them away as a defense mechanism, hurting before you get hurt, leaving before you get left, distancing before you are ignored, and dumping before you get dumped. When you hurt, traumatize, poison, or cause harm or injury to others, even if by accident, and only by accident, you are harming, hurting, injuring, and poisoning yourself. Allow people to know you. Love is not a prison or cage but a door that can help you achieve everything you desire, and you can open or close it at will; you are not caged in, handcuffed, shackled, held in manacles or bondage to people, places, and situations you don’t want to enter or be stuck with. You are not love’s captive. You are not a prisoner.
Edit: *Had to add this part because of the amount of bullshit I received from idiots offended by some of my previous posts—don’t be like them; if this doesn’t apply to you and you’re not ignorant, just ignore* —————————————P.S. Nobody in the history of mankind was ever hurt by you asking ā€œWHO HURT YOU?ā€ You’re literally just proving yourself to be what the non-intellectuals call sensitive snowflakes or daisies. Grow up. We all aren’t as jaded and cynical and disenchanted by life as you are, Aquarius. Please come up with something else. I promise this is not a legitimate insult. I promise this doesn’t hurt anyone’s feelings. Ever. It just makes me laugh—stop it, my stomach hurts! And for goodness’s sake! Stop getting so offended by the slightest actions/words or behaviors and learn how to convey your feelings without dry wit or condescension. Nobody likes people who belittle or antagonize or verbally berate, accost, or abuse them. Use your words to demonstrate how you feel politely, and people will extend the same courtesy to you. Use your words to offend or retaliate, dismiss, or patronize, and you will receive the same. You get what you give.
*to all my Aquarius mutuals, y’all are the best, please ignore. I’m sorry some people give your sign a bad name/rep 😭 muah, muah šŸ’‹ *
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Astro Notes Part XV
Libra moons & Pisces moons are the most empathic people you’ll ever meet. Almost always empaths. Both can sense when others are hurting or in pain. Libra moons can’t stand or bear to witness others suffer. Their reflex is to soothe them or make them happy, smile, or laugh. They feel the need to undo others’ suffering even when they themselves are in pain. They often take on the pain of others and replace it with or make it their own. They are incredibly caring, selfless people. They value others’ happiness so much, the sadness of others causes them misery, even those who are strangers to them. They are no strangers to suffering, and may privately suffer from depression. Anything that harms others harms them, anything that benefits them is only good and sought for if it also eases and is beneficial to others. They care about fairness more than anything. Lack of morals, conscience, bias, unfairness, and social injustice angers them more than anything. In general, they are more sad than angry. Anger as an emotion may make them uncomfortable. They care about everything, empathy and compassion. Very creative and original thinkers. They can sense when others are upset and are easily distressed by others’ discomfort. Often are attached to social justice issues, but do charity in private. May make generous donations to various funds anonymously. Aquarius moons are naturally altruistic and are drawn to humanitarianism. They are often philanthropists devoted to helping people and helping better or reform the world. They are very proactive, vocal, and outspoken about what they believe to be wrong or immoral. They are constantly championing their causes and charity work, not to showcase them or show-off, but to inspire others to get involved. They are deeply invested and involved in social organizations and interested in psychology and the social causes of inequality or poverty. May work with the poor or children or other special populations, especially those in need. Feel a desire to leave a positive impact/their mark on the world. They are often known and highly respected for their philanthropy and community service, globally, locally, and nationally. Their efforts are often far-reaching and worldwide. May be activists, especially for vegetarianism or veganism, protection from animal abuse or cruelty, including animal testing, environmental causes or change, including saving the planet, greenhouses gases, reducing carbon emissions, solar or wind power, saving the bees and reducing asbestos or pesticides, climate change, Amazon rainforests, etc. They do a lot of work for the community, local or otherwise. May be lobbyists. May lead protests and be involved in grassroots activism. Prominent leaders in their field. Visionaries. Highly respected and awarded/recognized for their worldly contributions. Very cultured. Great cooks, especially if they are Taurus suns. Stubborn and combative at times. May be very offensive when angered: verbally or physically confrontational. May be quick rather than slow to anger. Can be self-righteous at times. Gemini moons are super creative. Originality is common for them. They often do what has never been done before. They break the box or mold, shock the world. There’s a wildness and unabashed quality to their approach to life, and it shows in their art and expresses itself through their creativity. Ballsy. Risk takers. Rule breakers. Defy expectations and self-imposed and external limits. Hate feeling constrained by society. Often do what is taboo or against the grain or unexpected from them, unacceptable even. Can be shunned, ostracized or rejected in society for disbanding from the norm. Free-thinkers. Controversial opinions. Often provoke debate. Hated and loved in society, sometimes one after the other, in cycles. Their work may be censored by the public or considered an abomination or too crude. Likes to experiment, especially with form. Like to play with rules, test them, subvert them altogether and push themselves. Strive for greatness and ingenuity. There’s a timeliness to their work.
Aquarius suns may be aloof at times. Like Gemini moons, they like to test the boundaries of something and of self. They find joy in being unknown or difficult to decipher/perplexing to the world. Like the concrete but experiment with the abstract. Tries to create something immortal. Like Gemini moon, consciously attempts to make a magnus opus, a classic, a staple in the culture. Wants their work to be eternal and lauded. They themselves often want to live for eternity, or alternatively, may have an obsession or fascination with death, and fear failure. Virgo suns are often lauded and achieve great fame or notoriety in life or in their profession. They may be extremely rewarded or acclaimed, like BeyoncĆ© or Michael Jackson for instance. Idolized. Are often groundbreaking in their art/work. May be very loved or attract fanatic fanfare. They are petrified of success and failure. And what both mean. Take criticism very seriously/to heart. Libra moons and suns hate criticism: hate being criticized and having to critique others. It makes them feel bad and they don’t want anyone to be in pain or mad or upset with them. Also makes them feel terribly about themselves, super insecure or inferior. They doubt their abilities. Pisces risings tend to have a mystique or otherworldly quality to them, they are often vague and hard to pin down. There’s a worldliness to them. Virgos and Libras tend to compartmentalize a lot. Earth signs tend to suffer a lot from allergies. Water placements tend to have vivid dreams. Water placements tend to have unusual allergies. A planet or element on its own—a singleton—in the chart tends to dominate an individual’s life. That planet or sign or element may be heavily featured in a person’s behavior and even influence that person more than other elements, planets, or signs that appear more heavily in that individual’s chart. For instance, a person with a Pisces moon, the only water placement in her chart, may appear more Piscean than she is an Aries, even if she has an Aries sun, Mercury, and Venus. I’ve noticed that Pisces and Libra tend to gravitate to each other as much as Gemini and Scorpio. Many Pisces have strong Aries influence, like Aries moon, rising, Mercury, or Venus. They may appear more Aries-like or war-like or aggressive or assertive, fierce, bold and in-your-face, than gentle and soft and ephemeral or quiet or angelic like Pisces placements. For instance, Carrie Underwood has an Aries moon and Pisces sun and she is very fiery, both in her personality and in her music, and her music screams of violence and often involves themes of getting revenge, enacting devious plots and schemes, attacking or murdering cheating partners and damaging their property, etc. It’s feral and I love it. Rihanna also has strong Aries placements, including her moon, and she is known as well for being very feminine and stark and ferocious and very willing to defend herself with ferocity and make her impact in a forceful way, she has a very dominant personality that has made her the successful woman she is today, and she has been known for being very fearless and taking risks and challenging herself to almost subvert expectations of her as a woman, with raunchy music videos and her refusal to be dictated to, her embracing of her sexuality, her defiance, and her strong identity, much of which has been attached to that of the label of the savage, and it has made her the star she is and established her name, helped her become a trailblazer in music, fashion, and art, solidified her as an icon, and cemented her legacy.
Stelliums in the birth chart show where energy is concentrated. You may be drawn to, or alternatively, diverted from those fields or spheres of influence. For instance, someone with a 10th house stellium may be ultra successful and achieve legendary status in their career, or alternatively, be unemployed their whole life and be virtually shut out from the workplace so they are forced to create their own space to succeed in. They may experience great blockages and failures in their career path, and switch from career to career, never satisfied. Someone with a 4th house stellium may value their family above all else and treat their friends and even coworkers as their extended family. They can look for family or home in everyone. Or, they can be very sheltered or cut off from the outside world and find difficulty feeling at home anywhere. They may constantly travel or change homes/addresses, or feel a connection to outside homeland/foreign countries. They may have grown up feeling isolated from or disconnected from their family or experienced a lot of trauma at home and may be estranged from their family, parents or siblings, later in life. They may feel like vagrants everywhere they go, or nomads. Or, they may have grown up an orphan or in the foster system, and their parents or potential guardians may have been lost to them somehow, maybe struggled from addiction or were abusive so they were taken away, or were unable to properly provide for their families so they were removed by the state, and so on. Or, these people could have been adopted and never known their real/birth parents, separated from a young age or perhaps reunited later in life. Their parents may have been in jail or overseas. They may have grown up in boarding schools or been raised by nannies, relatives, godparents, grandparents, or outsiders. May have developed a close or special relationship with a teacher or coach or counselor or mentor that became their ā€œparentā€ or helped raise them in a way. Can take on 10th house qualities. The childhood could have been unstable or unusual or fraught with adversity or even poverty or maybe even abuse or starvation or struggle, especially if Pluto or Mars or Saturn or Uranus appear in the 4th. They may have moved constantly or been a military brat; their parents were in the military, etc. Their parents if Neptune appears in the 4th may have been alcoholics or addicts or invited people with demons or issues into their children’s lives. Children may have felt unloved or absorbed conflict or felt neglected or abandoned if Saturn or Mars or Pluto appear in the 4th. The family might have been a site of conflict or discord/tension and parents may have been absent. Children might have had to parent their parents. Or, they may have had an exceptional relationship with their parents and had several ā€œparentsā€ or formed second or third or ā€œsoulā€ families. Best friends may have become their families, other people’s parents may have helped raise them, or they may have been surrounded by large families, blood or water. They may have had more than enough people who were like family or better to them, and may have formed close-knit communities wherever they went.
Cancer on the midheaven acts more like Capricorn. Highly ambitious and devoted to their career or work. May seem cold or impersonal sometimes. Relentless and determined, cunning and sly as a fox, sleuth-like. More than meets the eye. Capricorn on the midheaven may be just as devoted to family as they are ambitious because of Cancer on the IC. May be very family-oriented or have/run a family business or empire. May appear very maternal and nurturing and caring at times, like a Cancer. Gemini on the midheaven are constantly changing their physical appearance, style, and relationship to the world and to the self. They don’t always feel comfortable in who they are and may like to pretend to be someone else by adopting multiple characters or personas they play. Sometimes, they find freedom in not conforming to gender expectations. They may experiment with their looks and social norms or standards and subver expectations of them as frequently, if not more, than Aquarius risings. Many I’ve known with this placement, if female, have been misgendered as male, or mistaken to be androgynous because they don’t dress overtly ā€œfeminineā€ as society sees it and like to crop their hair in a close fashion that society calls a ā€œboy cut.ā€ Gemini gives duality, so those with this midheaven like to embrace and experiment with to the fullest their feminine and masculine sides/energies/selves. We all have both qualities, however. And it’s important to remember gender isn’t binary, it’s a spectrum, and that these people feel limited by gender or societal restrictions. And like to take risks exploring their gender expression, and possibly even their sexuality. May be gender non-conforming or gender conforming (cisgender) but just not typical, unique in a way. They can easily intimidate or make uncomfortable others who are more conservative with their views. I’ve noticed Virgo and Capricorn and Taurus risings are common among models, even Gemini risings. Virgo moons tend to be more combative and vocal about criticism than Virgo suns. Virgo suns like to shield themselves from the public eye or scrutiny from time to time. The spotlight makes them uncomfortable and they need to retreat to preserve who they are. They love solitude. Venusian moons (Taurus or Libra moons) love art, fashion, beauty, music, or anything they consider aesthetically beautiful, pleasing, or of value. They like their home, decor, style, personality, and even food/culinary palette to reflect aesthetics. They like to keep matters festive. They are most inspired by creative expressions they find valuable or stimulating. Water signs (Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio) don’t like to be alone, especially water suns and moons. Earth signs struggle to take decisive action, do/act instead of just think about acting and dream. Water and earth signs struggle from depression a lot, as well as Aquarius and Sagittarius.
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Venus in Leo
Venus in Leo needs something to believe in. Without it, they feel hopeless and disenchanted. Lost and unmotivated. Unprepared and withdrawn. They need to sustain and never suspend hope or belief in something. This is how they preserve their body, pursue their goals and dreams. There is a relentless ambition that is near unrivaled with this placement, but it is birthed out of a desire to create something meaningful, lasting, and important. Venus in Leo are not very impressionable creatures like Venus in Gemini or Pisces. Nonetheless, make no mistake, they do like to impress. They are performers at heart, but sometimes, they are their only and most important audience. Venus in Leo are influential because they will stop at nothing to prove themselves. They have something to say, something to create, something to do, something to inspire or motivate. There is something about them that incites or invites awe or respect from people who know them. There is a deep appreciation, both sensory and personably, for all that they are and all that they showcase and bring to the table. They are immensely talented individuals, and visibly so. It is difficult to find a Venus in Leo native that lacks creativity or an affinity for something. They are natural-born creatives. But one of the reasons they work so hard and attempt to prove themselves so much is because part of them cannot believe they are truly worthy of everything people say they are. They don’t believe they can live in the spotlight without earning it. Long after they have earned their dues, they still doubt whether they’ve truly deserved their flowers—they still feel like they have to do more. They are devoted to their work—which is their love and their passion—their craft. Their sensuality is intertwined with their gifts. If art is their craft, their beauty and sexuality shows in their artistry—their aesthetics, their bodily movement, their performance, their painting, their drawing, their sculptures. Their art always enhances and reveals the aesthetics of the body, and this is not to say their bodies are props, but rather, their bodies and the way they own their movements is art. There is something very naked and raw about the way they use their bodies and their art to emote and to work and to display passion and heart. Their art reveals their vulnerability—the core of who they are—their reason for being. When their work is celebrated, their very lives—their very selves—are celebrated as well. The body is a work of art, but it is also a communion. Venus in Leo natives understand this: the art of communication. Especially of the nonverbal kind. And this is not to say all Venus in Leo natives are intentionally sensual or deliberately knowledgeable of the way the earth mirrors their work or their body movements, rather, it is to say that these natives are sensuous without trying. Simply by stroking a brush acrosss a canvas, for instance, these individuals appear very striking, sexy/attractive, interesting, open and engaging, even when concentrated, they look as though they are performing a dance. They can put you in a trance. They belong on stage, where many of them long to be looked at. Still, there is this aspect of self-consciousness and insecurity to them that a lot of individuals don’t see on the outside. They tend to appear highly confident, sometimes cocky and pretentious even. They are actually deeply self-aware, and highly self-critical of their flaws. Some love to entertain, others are highly extroverted, others are very unsociable and detest the presence of people—commoners, ha!—but all, or nearly all, I should say, love to perform.
By this, I don’t mean all put on a sparkling tutu and a tiara, and their best tap shoes, but, if you give them an order —don’t fail—not only will they rise above your expectation, they will topple it. If you instruct them to sell 50 Girl Scout cookies in one day, they’ll sell 2,000. They are constantly striving to outperform, to outdo expectations of themselves, to outrun. Tell them to run a mile, and they’ll finish it in 4 minutes and 35 seconds. Tell them to beat their best time, they’ll get it under 12 seconds. Tell them to network with 5 people, they’ll befriend the whole company. There is a hunger to them that is unmatched. They need to compete, but their only rival is themselves. They need to win—it’s not enough for them to cross the finish line. They tend to have a love or deep respect or appreciation for companionship, dogs, art, cinema, high-class events, entertainment, and performance-based evaluation. But make no mistake, they don’t need you to clap for them. They are always their own audience, before they ever let you into the building to judge and evaluate them.
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Astro Notes 2 āœšŸ»āœØ
āœšŸ» Scorpio, Pisces, Capricorn, and Virgo placements practically purges the fuck out of people that every person that comes out of their life is a completely new person with a completely new life
āœšŸ» (referring to the observation mentioned above^) The ones with more dominant Scorpio & Pisces placements almost always doesnt even realize it until someone tells them!
āœšŸ» Aries physically have big heads, if not head, a big forehead for sure
āœšŸ» Tauruses are usually said to have soft features, but I’ve personally almost always come across ones who have sharper features. Long noses, prominent nose bridge ā€œarchā€, medium-high cheekbones that shows an indented line, but still gives out a soft vibe, almost a blur. Its that scenario where you bring it up in a conversation starting with a ā€œI just noticedā€ or ā€œI never noticed (until now) thaā€”ā€
āœšŸ» While it’s said that Cancerian/Lunarian (Cancer/Moon) dominants have wide set eyes, Tauruses are the opposite.
āœšŸ» Your solar return ascendant the same sign as your natal north/true node means this will be/the start of your most productive/progressive but also most difficult year(s) of your life. This is what your soul & spirit has been eagerly waiting for.
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šŸ’žAstro Notes III {synastry edition}
*this is based off personal experiences and observations, when looking at synastry you need to take both individual charts into account and the chart as a whole*
šŸ’— saturn in 3rd house overlay can manifest as feeing like two people run out of things to talk about. It could also play out where the house individual (sometimes planet) won’t feel 100% comfortable expressing themselves to the other so some things get withheld.
šŸ’— mars in 7th house overlay is seen in fast moving relationships, more than often the mars person is eager to keep moving ahead with the house individual. This can also be a binding aspect as it creates this desire to stay together despite any bumps in the road.
šŸ’— plutonian synastry is hard to resist and may even be hard to break out of. there’s this underlying energy that even when it’s over it’s not.
šŸ’— house rulership will provide another layer of understanding the energy between two people
ex: if your first house is in cancer, you would look to the moon. if your moon falls in the other persons 9th house, you’ll have an emotional response to the way this individual expands their own or your world. since 9th house deals with marriage you may even feel a love at first sight or desire to connect deeply with this individual.
šŸ’— Lust (4386) is a fun little aestroid to see where two people turn each other on.
šŸ’—6th house synastry is slept on and often gets the stereotype of being boring or mundane. This is a good overlay to have if you want to live with a partner as it helps your day to day go smooth. (esp. with venus or moon)
šŸ’— with that being said uranus in 6th house overlay however, can cause upsets to the house person. Uranus is wild energy so just think of someone’s routine or daily life getting thrown off or even bringing annoyances. (depends on the person and individual chart).
šŸ’— another thing about 6th house synastry: can be a very intimate overlay as well, the people you go to when you’re upset and need council. 6th house also deals with healing so these people can really become places of comfort.
šŸ’— jupiter synastry is soooo important, jupiter in synastry (romantic, friendly, work) brings a very light best friend feel to any relation. jupiter hitting sun, moon, mercury esp.
šŸ’— Venus overlayed in the 8th house has mixed reviews but one thing i notice is how this overlay creates unconditional love. Even if this person isn’t your type there is this deeply stemmed love and attraction you can’t necessarily ignore.
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gemini/aquarius rising, and/or second house most likely has/likes many aesthetics.
i see many air men/earth women, and fire men/water women couples (sometimes the gender is switched, but i see it more common this way).
gemini/mercury in 2nd house may be attracted to intelligence or may be sapiosexuals.
taurus moons are one the hardest placements for self improvement. they don’t like change, and they’re stubborn asf, and sometimes can be closed minded, so it may take them longer. same can go for any personal taurus placement tbh, but esp the moon and esp if there’s no sag/aqua or 9th/11th house energy in the chart
cancer/moon in 3rd house, mercury in cancer maybe, moon-3rd house ruler and moon-mercury aspects indicate expressing yourself/crying at school(i literally do every year😹).
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3rd house=driving style. mars aspecting 3h ruler, 3h ruler in aries, or 3rd house in aries means you may get angry easily on the road/have road rage easier than others.
fire sign in 3rd:fast drivers, thinks they can do no wrong on the road/arrogant drivers, gets angry/impatient easily w/other drivers.
earth sign in 3rd:careful, and aware when on the road. easygoing drivers, drives at a good pace, uses common sense. may get anxious when driving(mainly virgo).
air sign in 3rd:gets easily distracted when driving/may text, may daydream/zone out when driving, may get stressed when driving(mainly gemini).
water sign in 3rd:may also daydream when driving. driving may relax these individuals or just bring up some type of emotion. thinks of others on the road, not just themselves.
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a lot of tauruses are snitches
your 12th house sign you may dislike that sign at first, but love that sign later
whatever house you have a stellium in, you may take a liking to that sign/favor that sign. for ex:9th house may favor sagittarius, 2nd taurus, 12th pisces, etc
water signs are more likely to break up with someone over the littlest thing/over something stupid. gotta walk on eggshells around these folks smh. y’all gotta learn how to communicate and be strong through thick & thinšŸ¤žšŸ¾
aries/mars in 8th like horror movies, and may even like watching uncensored videos of ppl dying😟. (dude i was talking to had this, and tried showing me a video of someone being stabbedšŸ˜—). they may also have a violent, bloody death, and/or their life may be short. also a lot of these ppl have veiny dicks and may be curved.
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Lilith in leo/5th may love or don’t mind being called promiscuous, a maneater, heartbreaker, etc bc we love the attention. we love validation from all genders, no matter what our sexual orientation is/what gender we’re attracted to. compliments are our energy sources lol. confidence is seen here😌. bad bitch energy in general.
Cancer in 3rd have soft, warm, and tender hands, and can have fat/chubby hands lol, as a result we give amazing handjobs
also cancer in 3rd may make jokes/like jokes that talk abt our trauma or we relate to emotionally. same goes for moon in gemini, and in sag, and moon-mercury/jupiter aspects.
moon in first definitely indicate big boobies. also jupiter in 4th probably does too.
moon-uranus indicates taking your phone everywhere, not wanting to be far from it, and yeah having an attachment to it🄲.
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5h ruler positively aspecting the moon can indicate a liking to bake. a negative aspect may hate it. look at your 5h ruler to see what hobbies you may have, and what you may be like flirting wise or when it comes to dating/in the beginning of a relationship, esp if yours lacks planets.
the opposite sign of your 4th house sign may be how you view your mom for some reason lol. i have leo in 4th, but i see my mom with aquarius traits(distant, on her phone a lot, independent, intelligent, funny, hardworking, etc).
also your moon sign is a good indicator of how you may view your mom(this is why you and your siblings have different relationships with her/view her differently). if your moon sign is one of her dominants y’all may be really close or you may even be her favorite child.
4th house sign indicates how you may design your house/room. ex:pisces in 4th ppl may have/want tapestries, and paintings in their house.
mercury in 8th house ppl are powerful. we know how to get under your skin, we know how to seduce you, we know how to fuck with your mind, we just know. a lot of us are into psychology, are observant, and just intelligent in general.
saturn is what you’re good at, or you become good at it. ex:4th comforting ppl/being there for others, 2nd dressing up or cooking maybe, 7th having long term relationships/dating, etc.
jupiter/sagittarius=many/a lot of/quantity. for example:6th house, many pets, 11th many friends, 7th many hoes/exes, etc.
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if you have the 6th house stellium in synastry with one of your parents, or if their malefic planet is in your 6th house they may be very controlling, and that parent likely affected your pov on everyday things, positive or negative.
also your parents saturn in your 5th house indicates that parent being strict over 5th house themes. for example:may not let you have sleepovers often or at all, may not let you date until you get out of their house, may not let you eat snacks/ā€œunhealthy foodsā€ ever, may make you come home right after school, etc. i have this with my dad, and i’m glad to say i live with my mother😃
actually wherever your parents saturn is, is where they come at your neck at. for example:6th house, nags you to death to do chores, 11th may force you to make friends when you don’t want to or may nag at you for being on the internet too much lol.
if your moon is in one of your parents 4th house, you could be their favorite child, or very close to them, and remind them of themselves when they were growing up✨
5th house stellium in child-parent synastry chart can indicate hanging out and having fun with that parent. can be besties with that parent.
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a lot of pisces have BIG heads lmao.
underdeveloped virgo women can be really toxic and the type to say backhanded compliments or just point out all the bad stuff abt someone smh. the type to insult you all the time and label it as a joke. can apply to the men too.
capricorn women are short more often than notšŸ˜…. also a lot usually have/need glasses.
people with mercury-mars vocab is half of cursing lmao(atleast for me personally)
mercury-uranus aspects are the type of ppl to make the most random/animal/cartoon character noises out of nowhere or just speak gibberish just because lmao.
mercury aspects indicates how you talk, 2nd or 3rd house(idk which one but yeah maybe both lmao) indicates the sound of your voice(high, raspy, low, weird, etc)
i feel like saturn in 12th/saturn-neptune individuals may be scared of hospitals or the doctors office.
pluto in 4th people will not tell you about their childhood/upbringing, esp if it was bad. hard to know individuals. these people also love to squeeze and touch boobies like there stress balls lmfao.
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always check what decan your rising goes into. whatever planet it goes into, you need to read that sign that rules it when looking at rising posts. you may even look like that sign. this guy i was talking to had a virgo rising but in saturn decan. the capricorn rising readings definitely applied to him more, esp when it came to looks.
capricorn venuses may stay in toxic relationships. mainly if it’s been long. we don’t like our time wasted and we want to see things through. we try to think positive. ending things hurts us deeply, and it does take us a bit to move on, esp if we really cared abt you. but we always learn our lesson, and get someone better afterwards and not repeat the same mistakes. we’re very loyal and try to make things work. we stick through thick and thin, and know how to be by your side and there for you. honestly one of our best traitsšŸ¤Ž.
virgo moons like to help people in need. caring, and definitely not selfish. workaholics omg lol. y’all get a high from working. feels incomplete when unemployed.
leo’s are hands down one of the warmest sign, definitely the warmest out of the fire signs, even tho all of y’all are sweet. most of y’all are just really have a good heart. some of the men be hoes tho lol. if underdeveloped, can be a narcissist and mean.
virgo in 5h, and virgo venus may have a thing for people that will take care of them like dry them off with a towel when they get out the shower, make sure they eat a good amount, etc. can also apply to mars in 12th/pisces or mars-neptune.
7th house ruler can indicate your love language(and your 5th house sign to a lesser extent). Ex:my 7th house ruler is in 6th house therefore my love language is quality time, ruler in 3rd house may be words of affirmation, etc
gemini placements, esp moon live off of snacks. can go the whole day just eating snacks and not actual meals lol.
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gemini moons have a way with words. we can be really convincing, but our words can also be really warm and caring. we’re some of the best paragraph, and love letter writers. we say our words with soul😌.
as a gemini moon, i feel like a lot of ppl aren’t there for us. they think we don’t have emotions bc we joke around a lot, but that’s just our way of hiding and coping with our emotions. please check up on your gemini moon friends every once in awhile. we’d appreciate itšŸ˜ž.
also gemini moons are reflective. if you’re being an asshole we’ll be one back, if you’re being affectionate we will be towards you too, etc. if you feel there’s something off, then check yourself first or just ask us in general.
last gemini moon note. we love our friends. we value friendship as much as romance. if you backstab us, you’ll pay..
venus in capricorn LOVE styles from different decades. i feel like this can apply to venus in aquarius too. my friend has a cap venus in 11th house and the way she dresses reminds me of the 70s and 80s, and it’s so fucking dope.
also capricorn in venus are the type to just wear mascara and lipstick and be on their way. this is how it is for me. also still on the topic of looks from decades the 1950s-60s look was one of the best hands down😌
the moon can indicate your favorite color, and probably the 4th, 5th and/or 11th houses too. my fave color is red, my moon is in the 1st house which is ruled by aries which is associated with the color red, also my moon has a scorpio degree. my best friend is a sag moon, her favor color is purple. my other bestie has her 4th house in gemini, and her favorite color is yellow.
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scorpio venus men hate when their girlfriends have boy best friends and/or talk to boys a bit. don’t even think abt telling them something that you and that friend talked abt bc then the scorpio venus man will start saying things like ā€œoh y’all would be so cute togetherā€ šŸ˜‘. they like what’s theirs. they don’t want to share and want all your attention(even when they don’t give you all of theirsšŸ’€).
virgo risings in the saturn decan have very nice hair usually. can be mistaken for a capricorn rising easily.
capricorn moons seem to hate facetime lol.
you may actually NOT get along that well with people that have the same moon sign as you. too much alike or just really can connect bc there’s not any differences.
venus in 2nd house are very touchy. the type of ppl to think ā€œbreaksā€ in a relationship are stupid. envious when they’re in love. may be the type to ā€œbuyā€ your love or try to lmaoo. likes to genuinely give gifts tho.
having all air in your big 3 can make you an airhead fr lmao, esp if libra is present(i’m looking at you miss addison rae).
moon-neptune peeps more than likely like music that is emotional or just chill music that like you can get high to lmao.i think of sweater weather when it comes to this placement, and gasoline by halsey. music that just makes you think.
all the gingers i’ve met have aries in their personal planets or just a prominent aries in their chart.
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Hi, I hope you're doing well and feeling better! I wanted to ask about astrocartography! Could you tell me what being near your Lilith line could mean? Thanks!
I will use my astrocartography map as an example and talk about all of the planets:
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This is from astroseek as it has the names of all of the cities, I also recommend the one in astro.com. Just google "astrocartography calculation" and both of them will be the first/second options on Google.
I plan to start offering astrocartography readings soon as many people have messaged me about them, so expect them in my next monthly readings post :)
Here are all of the planet symbols:
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The Sun line in astrocartography can be interpreted as the places where you will be confident, where you'll feel outspoken, admired, receive validation, feel in tune with yourself (not emotionally but overall comfort of being). It can feel like you're surrounded by things that make you feel you. It can show the place where you may have more friends, it can be fortunate, honorable. It can be associated with good reputation and nobility. In some ways, it can be connected to the father.
The Moon line in astrocartography can be interpreted as the places where you will feel emotionally at home - it can be places where you feel unexplained attachment or nostalgia for. Like you have been there before or have an unusual connection to. It can be a place that feels good for living but is also prone to many changes and lack of stability. These places can be good for travelling, but can also give you expenses - unexpected gains and losses. These places can also bring change to appearance.
The Mercury line in astrocartography can be interpreted in many ways - it can be connected to education (places you can travel to for education). It can be the places you go to study any form of craft or sport. Mercury is associated with mobility, as well as any measuring and weighing, certifications, any form of trading/work with coins and currencies/mathematics/markets and sales. These can be the places you experience versatallity in your life and discover things. It can be interpreted as the places where you trade or teach, it can be a place where you find a job or some form of service, it can be a place where you show your charm and intelligence and you feel listened to, understood by the people there.
The Venus line in astrocartography - for many it can be the place you can find love. At least for me in was - the city I met my partner in is passed by my Venus line. These are the places that can bring you love, good fortune and opportunities. It can be the places where you meet people who will be valuable to you - whether it's friends or romantic partners. These can be the places you find aesthetically pleasing, the places you find beautiful and harmonious to live in. It can also be the places that inspire you artistically ans push you to create. These can be good places for any form of investments and financial decisions. It can be good for any contracts, agreements, companionship. You may feel very inspired by the culture in these places. It can also be connected with crafts and trades.
The Mars line in astrocartography is quite complicated - it many ways, these are the places in which you will feel extra driven, motivated, ambitious, courageous, energetic, but these are also places where you may experience violence, loss of property or any losses, you may feel alienated. It can be connected to robberries, punishments, lawsuits, any physical damages or health problems (especially infections, diseases - these can be the places where your body doesn't feel alright). These can be places that bring out your adventurous side, but also bring difficult circumstances. A lot of competition may be there. It can show enemies, fights with friends, love affairs/cheating.
The Jupiter line in astrocartography is one of the best ones in my opinion. These are the places that bring abundance. These can be the places where you meet great people who can change your life, give you great opportunities. These places are connected to prosperity, populaity, positive growth, benefits. They can be good for investments or being there to make money will have a good outcome. These are places where you will experience freedom, but they can also be connected to troubles, overindulgence, overspending and sometimes lack of control or caution. It can make you greedy, bring lack of satisfaction unless you have had enough. It can be good for having a property there or purchasing any material possessions.
The Saturn line in astrocartography can bring you many hardships, but also teach you to deal with difficult situations. These are the places where you will feel obligated to become more disciplined, organized, handle your life on your own as no one will do it for you. These places can be bad for love and relationships. These places can make you feel lonely, isolated, miserable. Professionally, there can be unemployment or obstacles in any businesses and projects made there. These places are good for creating your own power but it will come after many years and a lot of persistence and hard work. It won't feel easy living there.
The Uranus line in astrocartography can be very chaotic - in these places you are likely to experience a lot of ups and downs. It won't feel harmonious and balanced, but it can be a good place to explore another side of yourself - live a different life, it can feel like you have a whole new identity. It shouldn't be a place you settle down in, make any commitments or sign any contracts in, any financial decisions should be avoided as it can go drastic (in both positive or negative way).
The Neptune line in astrocartography can be very inspiring. These places can heighten your intuition - you may feel subconsciously attracted to them and travelling there may be something that you have always wanted. These are the places that can bring out your inner muse - these may be the places you explore any artistry, any spiritual practices, etc. These places can also bring losses so any financial matters shouldn't be handled there, as well as property investments should be avoided. You also have to be careful about relying on people you meet there or are with there as it can lead you to be taken advantage of.
The Pluto line in astrocartography can feel quite negative, but it can lead to a lot of self-reflection, growth and character development. These are the places in which your life may feel extra complicated and hard - the places that can bring unpleasant circumstances. If you survive these circumstances, it can lead to a lot of strength and personal development, but they can be very hard. As many would say, Pluto=Rebirth. These places can feel like the hell you have escaped from and you're ready to rise again. A lot of psychological influence. It can also be interpreted as the places that give you pain, trauma.
My personal experience - I was born on my Pluto line and although I cannot complain about my circumstances, my early life before moving wasn't very happy. I always felt tense, disconnected, as if I was alone against everyone else. Major lack of trust, a lot of events that influenced me psychologically and I guess made me stronger and less dependent on anyone. Yet I still have attachment to that place and enjoy being there from time to time lol
The Chiron line in astrocartography is also connected to pain - but the pain that we learn to grow out of ourselves. These are the places that will teach you new things, they can either give you pain or help you overcome past pain. They can be positive places for retreat, self-reflection, holistic activities and practices. In the positive aspect, it can feel like you have restored your energy there, as if you're ready to be a new person after overcoming all of the setbacks and negative experiences.
The Lilith line in astrocartography can be interpreted as the places that can feel like some form of sexual awakening. In other cases, it can be the places that are reminiscent of your insecurities. These can also be the places where you feel free and independent - self-reliant and ready to pursue anything with nothing stopping you. These can be places you hold no attachment to.
The North Node line in astrocartography - the best way I can interpret it as is the places that will be very meaningful to you, places that feel like something you have waited all your life for. It can feel like the end of a long journey being there. You may feel accepted there, finally experience the result of the growth and efforts you have put in your whole life. Being in these places may feel like you have finally found the thing you have looked for your whole life - and nothing is holding you back from being there.
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 3 years ago
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Asexual labels explained using cereal
You are in a kitchen, opening a pantry door. It contains every brand of cereal in existence.
Libido- How hungry you are
Sexual Attraction- How appealing each cereal is to you
Sex-Repulsed- The mere act of eating cereal disturbs you. You flee the kitchen to watch Netflix instead.
Sex-Indifferent- Someone brings you a bowl of cereal. Even though you don’t crave cereal, you decide to eat some anyway. Maybe because you want the person to feel happy you’re eating something they provided you. Maybe you’re just that hungry. Regardless, you’re fine with eating it since it’s already there. If it wasn’t, you wouldn’t care either.
Sex-favorable- Though you don’t particularly crave cereal, the act of eating cereal is enjoyable. So enjoyable, you go through the trouble of picking a brand to eat.
Asexual with low/no libido- You are rarely hungry, and none of the cereal appeals to you.
Asexual with average/high libido- You are often hungry, but none of the cereal appeals to you.
Aegosexual-Ā  Eating cereal sounds fun in theory but not in practice. You certainly have no interest in eating cereal yourself. You’d rather fantasize about other people eating cereal, thankyouverymuch.Ā 
Gray Asexual- You only like Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks. And maybeĀ Fruity Pebbles but you’re not quite sure.
Demisexual- You see a box of Trix. You are familiar with the rabbit on the box, due to the commercials you’ve seen. You always sympathized with the rabbit for never getting any Trix. There are things in life you’ve wanted but have never gotten. You feel a bond with the rabbit. Suddenly that box of Trix looks tasty.
Fraysexual- You see a box of Cocoa Puffs. You have never heard of Cocoa Puffs in your life. But something about it is oh-so-appealing. You pour yourself a bowl. As you start to eat, you catch a commercial for Cocoa Puffs on TV. You now know what the mascot on the box is like. You lose interest in Cocoa Puffs for reasons you cannot explain.
Lithosexual- You notice a box of Fruit Loops. You feel an urge to eat it. Toucan Sam comes to life and asks you to eat them. This makes you uncomfortable, so you leave to watch Netflix with the sex-repulsed ace.
Reciprosexual- You have no interest in any of the cereal. Not even that box of Frosted Flakes. But Tony the Tiger shows up wanting you to eat the Frosted Flakes. Now that he wants you to eat Frosted Flakes, you want to eat Frosted Flakes.Ā 
Cupiosexual- You want to eat cereal, but none of the cereal looks appealing. Maybe if you grab that box of Corn Flakes, it’ll become appealing to you later? It’s happened to other people. You consider grabbing that box of Corn Flakes, just in case.
Orchidsexual-Ā Some of the cereal looks appealing, but you have no interest in eating cereal.
Aceflux- None of the cereal looks good, so you close the pantry. A few days later, you decide to open the pantry again. Now, some of those brands look appetizing. You check the pantry again the next day. None of the cereal looks good anymore.
Quoisexual-Ā You have no idea if you like a cereal because you want to eat it, or if you just think the box art is pretty. Does liking the box art count as wanting to eat it? Do you just like the mascot? Does liking the mascot count as wanting to eat the cereal? After reading everything I’ve written, you are still confused. You bang your head against the pantry in frustration.
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 4 years ago
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Pink asks
šŸ’˜How are you?
šŸ’ Meaning of your url?
šŸ’– Favourite quote
šŸ’— Do you drink?
šŸ’“ Do you have any hobbies?
šŸ’ž Last book you read?
šŸ’•Last movie you watched?
šŸ‘„ Describe your physical appearance
šŸ‘…Describe your personality
šŸ¦„ Do you have any pets?
🦩Someone who can always make you smile?
🌸 Where do you want to be right now?
🌷 Something you want to learn to do?
🌺 Can you cook?
šŸ­ Sweet or savory foods?
šŸŽ  Dream aesthetic ?
🧶 What do you want to do in the future?
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timefliesaway999 Ā· 4 years ago
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Astro Notes #4
Hello my friends!🧔 Hope that you are having an amazing day! So here are my fourth astro observations. Remember, this is made by my personal observations. Made by pisces sun, capricorn ascendant and aquarius moon✨
🐣Fixed moons are more stubborn and strong opinionated than fixed suns.
🐣Air risings have a unique, beautiful and pretty smiles, specially if it makes an aspect with neptune.
🐣Scorpio chiron may have had issues with their sexuality. Probably they lived on a homophobic environment, ore they own believes went/go against what they truly want.
🐣Saturn in the twelfth may carry a lot of sorrow, they are the type of people to put a smile in their face to not worry others. They may have depressive tendencies and may feel alone even if they are with other persons. People don“t get to see how reliable and mature these people are, they are the type of person to be the support of others, their indestructible tower.
🐣Jupiter conjunct/opposite/square Moon may eat a lot. Moon represents alimentation and Jupiter increases everything that it touches.
🐣Retrograde Pluto are either afraid of death, or love talking about it.
🐣People with the Sun in the 10th house are way more workaholics than Capricorn suns.
🐣I’ve noticed that a lot of people also relate with their moon persona chart. Not only by the planets’ signs, also by their house position.
🐣If you want to analyze better the draconic chart, I recommend you to compare your natal chart with the draconic one. 
🐣Mars in the 1st uses a lot of red clothes.
🐣Moon conjuct Pluto either feel a deep connection with the mother, or may want to keep a distance with her.
🐣Venus conjuct Neptune are in love with art. Especially with cinema and music. If there is earth energy prominent, they may be even a little critical about it.
🐣Aquarius degrees (11°, 23°) make an independant, unique, and carefree person. A rebel, progressive and liberal character.
🐣Grand trine between Saturn, Jupiter and Mars shows someone with an excellent work ethic.
🐣Aspects between moon and venus make awesome cookers.
🐣Signs that make semisextiles (especially sagittarius and scorpio) make the best friends.
🐣People with jupiter opposite/square mars have a bigger egos than Leos.
🐣North node at the 6th should learn to do schedules and to be more organized. They need to take care better of themselves, to be healthier. In past lives they were so devoted to others, they took care a lot of others that they forgot themselves.
🐣Jupiter in the 9th/3rd love comics. Also Sagittarius stelliums.
🐣Pisces sun felt their father was absent, while pisces moon felt their mother absent. I“ve known some pisces moon whose mothers died when they were kids.
🐣Mars or Pluto in the 4th lived in a violent environment and may have had a violent family member.
🐣Chiron in Cancer and Pluto in 1st have something in common… They hate been perceived as weak. They like to be and appear as strong, unbreakable and powerful individuals. They want to feel like they have control of their emotions. Chiron in CancerĀ“s feelings were hurt, ignored or not taken on count, while Pluto in the 1st had a hard life, they started distrusting other people.
🐣For knowing how would be your future husband, check out asteroid Groom (5129), and if you want to know how would be your wife, check asteroid Briede (19029).
🐣Jupiter and/or Mercury in the 3rd make awesome writers. 
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Astro Observations #8
Hello my dear readers! Well, I“m updating right now since I“m not going to be active for two days. Here are my astro observations. You don“t have to reasonate remember, this is just entertaiment. Made by a Pisces Sun, Capricorn Ascendant and Aquarius Moon perspective. Enjoy!
šŸ”®Many mutable signs are saxophonist, IĀ“ve seen especially virgos (ex. Charlie Parker, Sonny Rollins, Wayne Shorter, etc).
šŸ”®Saturn square North Node must be realistic without being pessimistic. They must become more responsible and must overcome periods of depression. They must mature.
šŸ”®Scorpio over the 5th or 11th may be into criminalistic series or series full of drama.
šŸ”®It’s really difficult to lie to a fixed moon/fixed dominant.
šŸ”®Neptune in the 2nd or 3rd make awesome singers. They put their soul while doing this activity.
šŸ”®If you feel that your synastry with your special one is zero relatable, try doing a draconic synastry, since draconic charts are the ā€œcharts of the soulā€, there may be interesting things!
šŸ”®Men with Libra Mars are gentlemen. They tend to show themselves as romantic, polite and delicate lovers. But if Mars has hard aspects, he could be a charmer/casanova.
šŸ”®Gemini/Mercury over the 6th may be really interested in mental health.
šŸ”®Capricorn with water moons are really nurturing, tender and sweet with their loved ones.
šŸ”®Aries and Geminis tend to drive really fast.
šŸ”®Earth risings/venus love wearing watches.
šŸ”®You can see depression by Saturn-Moon/Ascendant hard aspects. And there are also some asteroids for that: Deprez (9795), Dolores (ā€œpainsā€ in Spanish, 1277), Lacrimosa (208), Melancholia (5708).
šŸ”®Pisces degrees (12°, 24°) makes someone have this ā€œnot of this Worldā€ vibes. They may be seen as mystical, mysterious and artistic.Ā 
šŸ”®Sun square/opposition Moon may have divorced parents.
šŸ”®Jupiter in Leo/ Jupiter in Libra are usually loved by others easily. People like to be around these natives because of the positivism that they irradiate.Ā 
šŸ”®Venus conjunct Ceres may be similar to a Cancer Venus: sweet, protective and caring of their partner.Ā 
šŸ”®Lilith square Ceres woman are most likely to not wanting to have kids.
šŸ”®If you are interested in acting, check out the asteroid Lumiere (775), it means light and it could mean acting abilities and, if its well aspected, opportunities.
šŸ”®Check out the degree where your North Node is placed, it could mean what kind of attitude you need to develop in order to grow. As an example, if yours fall in the 11°, 23° (which are Aquarius degrees), you have to learn to be more independent, to be who you really are and to stop following rigid schedules.
šŸ”®Uranus in the 5th could indicate a miscarriage.
šŸ”®Leo Chiron could feel that they were ignored while being kids. That is why they keep feeling ignored. Actually, they are really talented individuals, but they don’t see it that way. They try their best to show how worthy they are for recognition, but they don’t see that the only person that they really need to convince is themselves.
šŸ”®South node over the 9th/12th could have been a spiritual mentor for others. In this lifetime, they have a lot of inner wisdom.Ā 
šŸ”®People open up with Cancer Mercuries because they are awesome listeners.
šŸ”®Pallas in Libra/7th may be really good lawyers.
šŸ”®Neptune, Jupiter and Venus dominants are really loved by people! (including me ;>)
šŸ”®IĀ“ve notice that Leo and Aries Moons tend to have many discussions with their mothers.Ā 
šŸ”®10th house stelliums are really influenced by their dads. It could be for the best, or the worse.Ā 
šŸ”®Mercury square Saturn tend to have a sibling that they dislike/hate.
šŸ”®In many cases that I have seen the Lunar Return of people, when Pluto is in the 5th house or 7th house, they tend to have break-ups.
šŸ”®Moon in the 1st tend to have a baby face. I notice that some of them also have smooth skin.
šŸ”®A lot of people that I have met with Lilith in Cancer or at the 4th, change a lot of residence.
šŸ”®Aquarius Lilith could have been bullied.
šŸ”®Ruler of the 10th in the 10th may indicate fame and/or success in career.
šŸ”®When people talk about writers, they usually mention Gemini, Virgo or even Pisces. But I’ve noticed that Capricorns and Aquarius are amazing writers too.Ā 
šŸ”®People with Moon in 11th rather hanging out with friends instead of family.
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