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Your eyes widened in fear as you realized that they had planned this out from the start. You sit there trying to cover yourself as best as possible, the only clothing you currently have on is the pink thong that your crush was just wearing. Without even realizing it, the girls took your clothes and hid them somewhere. With their quick action you stood there nearly naked and afraid, not knowing what else they're going to do with you. "Ok I think its time that we play Truth or Dare but you~ are the only one being asked Truth or Dare." A girl said while teasing you. "Truth or Dare? And I should remind you that if you don't say dare, we won't talk to you anymore, and if we won't talk to you then there is no need for us to keep these pictures to ourselves! We'll show the whole class and even the entire campus of you in your pretty little thong!" Another girl chimed in.

"D-Dare..." You don't know what else they have in mind for you but you stopped having a real choice in this the moment you walked into their house. "I dare you to swap the rest of the clothes with your crush!" *snap* Another picture was taken.

"I dare you to let us do your makeup!" *snap* Another picture was taken. "I dare you to let us put you in this tiny pink chastity cage!" *snap* Another picture was taken. "I dare you to pose with your drivers license and student ID!" *snap* Another picture was taken. "I dare you to buy us some snacks for tonight! We're going to need it for the things we want to do to you now..." Teary eyed, you walk out of the house in your new pink getup, as the girls smack your ass every time you pass them to reach the door. "If we don't see you back in an hour, we're going to post all of these pictures to the class group chat! Don't be late!" [Present Time]

You walk around the store isle picking out the snacks the girls wanted you to buy them as you try your best to ignore the stares that everyone is giving you. Your only hope now is that they'll get bored of you and let you go... but little did you know, their last victim was someone who was under their control for years... they only got out when one of the girls began dating them. So, the other girls began seeking out a new person to prey on, and they chose you! This one's a long one... let me know if you like this type of caption or if you prefer short sweet ones more!

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100 Reasons Why Men w/ Tiny Cocks Should Stay Caged 🔐💕✨

1. It keeps your focus on serving.

2. Prevents accidental release during teasing.

3. Encourages obedience to your Domme.

4. Enhances the thrill of anticipation.

5. Helps you appreciate the pleasure of edging.

6. Protects your ego from unrealistic expectations.

7. Allows you to fully embrace your submissive side.

8. Reduces the pressure to perform.

9. Keeps you in check, just like you need.

10. Lets your Domme take control of your pleasure.

11. Encourages you to be more creative in pleasing.

12. Helps you learn patience.

13. Makes foot worship even more enticing.

14. Teaches you to cherish every moment of teasing.

15. Allows you to focus on your Domme’s needs.

16. Heightens your arousal with each denied orgasm.

17. Promotes self-reflection on your desires.

18. Helps you bond with your Domme over shared experiences.

19. Cultivates a sense of community among caged subs.

20. Inspires you to improve your skills in other areas of service.

21. Frees you from the fear of rejection.

22. Reminds you that size doesn’t define your worth.

23. Encourages you to explore new forms of pleasure.

24. Provides a perfect excuse to focus on other kinks.

25. Allows for deeper submission to your Domme.

26. Teaches you how to beg for release.

27. Creates a sense of safety in your submission.

28. Lets you appreciate the beauty of chastity.

29. Keeps your Domme feeling powerful.

30. Helps you cultivate self-control.

31. Allows for intense fantasies while caged.

32. Enhances your desire to earn praise.

33. Reinforces the dynamic between you and your Domme.

34. Encourages more intimate forms of play.

35. Inspires you to engage more with online communities.

36. Makes worshiping your Domme even more fulfilling.

37. Fosters a sense of belonging among other caged subs.

38. Teaches you to find pleasure in denial.

39. Encourages you to express your devotion creatively.

40. Develops a deeper understanding of your own desires.

41. Allows for fun role reversal scenarios.

42. Empowers you to embrace your vulnerabilities.

43. Helps you discover new ways to please your Domme.

44. Serves as a constant reminder of your submission.

45. Promotes a healthy dialogue about boundaries.

46. Creates excitement around the prospect of release.

47. Encourages you to become an expert in worship.

48. Reinforces the idea that it’s about the journey, not the destination.

49. Provides a unique thrill in everyday life.

50. Cultivates deeper connections with fellow subs.

51. Challenges societal expectations of masculinity.

52. Helps you develop a stronger sense of identity.

53. Encourages you to explore all forms of pleasure.

54. Inspires you to think outside the box in your service.

55. Teaches you to savor every moment of teasing.

56. Allows you to indulge in fantasies without pressure.

57. Enhances the mental aspect of submission.

58. Provides a playful outlet for your desires.

59. Encourages you to focus on your Domme’s happiness.

60. Helps you learn the art of begging and pleading.

61. Provides a fun challenge for your submission.

62. Allows you to truly understand your desires.

63. Helps you develop new skills in service.

64. Promotes a sense of surrender in your submission.

65. Inspires you to share your experiences with others.

66. Helps you appreciate the power dynamics at play.

67. Encourages you to embrace your unique journey.

68. Creates a heightened sense of intimacy with your Domme.

69. Teaches you to value emotional connections.

70. Provides an opportunity for deeper exploration of kinks.

71. Promotes body positivity and acceptance.

72. Encourages healthy communication about boundaries.

73. Lets you experience pleasure in new and exciting ways.

74. Reinforces the joy of teasing and denial.

75. Allows for playful banter with your Domme.

76. Helps you develop a unique identity within the kink community.

77. Provides a safe space to explore your desires.

78. Promotes trust and communication with your Domme.

79. Lets you focus on other areas of your sexuality.

80. Inspires creativity in how you please your Domme.

81. Helps you learn the nuances of submission.

82. Creates a thrill in the anticipation of release.

83. Encourages you to think about your desires more deeply.

84. Allows for intense mental stimulation through denial.

85. Promotes a sense of adventure in your experiences.

86. Provides a fun way to bond with your Domme.

87. Teaches you to embrace your submissive nature fully.

88. Lets you discover the joy in servitude.

89. Helps you appreciate the beauty of restraint.

90. Encourages you to develop your fantasies.

91. Teaches you to savor every moment of your submission.

92. Provides a unique thrill that can enhance your daily life.

93. Lets you focus on the connection with your Domme.

94. Promotes personal growth and self-discovery.

95. Helps you understand the significance of power exchange.

96. Creates a space for open conversations about your desires.

97. Lets you enjoy the feeling of being wanted and needed.

98. Inspires you to become the best sub you can be.

99. Helps you appreciate the journey of submission.

100. Reminds you that serving your Domme is the ultimate pleasure.

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I Want You to Feel Loved

I worry often about how I come across in my captions and with my writings.  The last thing that I want is to be insensitive to a whole host of identities and varying lifestyle choices.  I trust that many of you are encouraged, but I also don’t want to be discouraging to someone else.  I also don’t want to sound like I’m just “full of crap”.  I desire to be genuine, which is strange because of my anonymity.  LOL.  Now, to ease any pity for me, nobody has ever said anything negatively toward me.  I just want to be more for all of you than another fantasy caption maker…and, of course, we love all of those girlies too! 

One of the driving forces behind my Tumblr page is love.  I want anybody to feel welcomed, seen, valued, and heard.  Yes, there are some sexy push-the-envelope captions, but for the sake of keeping my Tumblr “safe”, I gravitate more to the ideas of positivity and encouragement without images that NSFW.  I believe we all need more encouragement.  There’s a place and time for more elicit fantasies.  I know, because I enjoy that too–and quite frequently. But in the other hand (pun intended), we should want to be a reason that others feel loved.  We all need to know that we belong with some people, that we have a greater sense of value, and that we have something to offer.

We should want to be givers: givers of self, givers of love.  Be a reason that someone feels loved.

CandieHart

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Is it Fear that Holds You Back?

I would guess that many of us who spend hours of quality time in Tumblr-land are not as free to be open about our girly preferences as we would wish to be.  We’d love to really glam it up in the girliest way, but life doesn’t afford us that luxury–at least not openly and anywhere.  There’s a little voice in me that keeps saying, “Get over your fearful self, dress however you want, and don’t worry about what people think.”  But is it fear?  Is it fair to call that fear?  Or is it something else?

I can put up a pretty good front in our anonymous, world-spanning camp of femininity, but do I have the same kind of confidence in real life?  Truthfully, I don’t.  Yet, I don’t believe that I’m fearful in my cautiousness.  I’ve embraced the fact that I’m girly, even if I can’t overly portray it.  I’ve jumped into it without much anxiousness.  The facts are as they are, though.  I can’t jump head first into the deep end.  It’s more like I’m wading in the shallow end in my orange bikini.  As someone wisely messaged me, following a sweet compliment to this blog, “You have a full life.”  This person is so right.  There’s so much more going on than whether or not I can tuck myself into panties every day.

Indeed, I don’t think it is fear, but rather reasonableness.  I don’t want to have fear during my personally-gifted opportunities to express and clothe myself in all of my girliness.  I’m so privileged to have Candie moments.  And I absolutely adore those moments.  They’re fun, sexy, and … “forbidden.”  Yet, I can also be reasonable, and be the husband, father, friend, worker, and neighbor that is needed from me without a full blown Candie experience.

I hope that you don’t fear being feminine.  Being a femboy can truly be fulfilling.  Even if its within reasonable constraints (or restraints if that’s your thing), being girly brings some yin to your yang–it can provide some balance and harmony to your life, and as I have discovered, with your loved one too.  Don’t be fearful of it, jump in, and you can still be reasonable … and have a very full life too.

Let’s be girly together,

CandieHart 

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Not Outside Yet?  That’s Okay

We all crave for further expressions of our feminine natures, something more than a few inconspicuous feminine items.  We want to take our femboy selves outside, maybe at night in something deliciously feminine.  Then, into daytime with the sun shining down on our cuteness.  Maybe into public places or around friends, dressed unmistakably as a woman would.  We want a greater sense of who we are and a better sense of acceptance by the people with whom we would share a fuller vision of ourselves. 

I think many of us would like to be as girly as we could possibly be outside the comfort of our homes. Maybe I speak for myself and not everyone, but I think I can say this all for at least a good portion of we passionate seekers of femininity.

There’s no doubt that so many of us girly boys are on varying levels of outward expression (wow! i use that word a lot).  Even the ways we try to express ourselves are so very different.  Then, there are also our levels of comfort for when, how, and where we express our femininity.  For some girly boys–and this can include myself in some ways–going outside in a girly fashion is outside the comfort zone.  It’s too bad that some people claim that as being cowardly.

It made my heart happy the other day when I saw a meme on “National Coming Out Day.”  It read something to the effect of “Not ready to come out?  That’s OK.” 

I want you to know that it’s perfectly fine for you to experience your femininity in the comfort of your home.  Never feel like you are less than worthy by staying private.  If the timing is ever right, or when the timing is right, you can make that bold step then–and it might even be in heels!  Who knows?!

My favorite part of you is that you share in our mutual love and admiration for girliness.  No matter where you are on the spectrum of public expression, you inspire me–and I hope I do you too..  If this means letting yourself go all girl inside your home, private, alone, and in secret, then go for it and don’t be ashamed.  This girly journey needs to be a comfort trip, not a stress-laden one. 

Much love to you all,

CandieHart

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Slide into It

You might not be as inclined as myself or many others who happen to follow my postings to truly want a more open girliness in your life.  Maybe you like to crossdress on the side.  Good for you.  No judgment here.  But I want to tell you something, dear friend.  If my experience has taught me anything, it is that girliness will always be waiting on you.  I don’t think my experience is rare.  I think it’s quite common for hobby crossdressers to eventually want more femininity in their lives, especially as they get older and the day-to-day grind of being “manly” fails to answer life’s longings.

Personally, I think I’ve been sliding into a healthy girly boy balance.  There was a time when it was all about pretty clothes and trying to see how close I could get to “passing” as a woman.  Maybe with the help of some professional makeup artists, I could, but on my own, it wasn’t going to happen.  I’ve gravitated, instead, to a much less desire to look like a woman to a greater desire to simply be girly as my boy self.  Yes, this still includes female clothing, but it’s more about the disposition, the attitude, the self-care, the girly passion, etc.  Trying to be a macho manly type all the time doesn’t cut it for me.  It’s not that being a man is horrible or that being manly is a waste of energy.  There’s a lot of manliness about myself that I would not change.  Girliness simply calls to me and I’m more than happy not to keep it waiting.  I’m happy to answer it, to slide into it, and not to keep her waiting.  The panties and bras, the shoes, the pants, the shirts, the workout wear, the lotions and creams, the opportunities, etc. etc. …it’s all waiting on me…on you. 

Just slide into Girliness.  Don’t keep her waiting.  It might be more “you” than you ever thought it could be.

CandieHart

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How So?

Some might wonder why I would even suggest that girliness is good for boys. The short answer is that I believe it is.  But I don’t guess that’s what anybody is looking for in a blog claiming that girliness is good for boys.

To begin, I would say that girliness is not for all boys, but that seems to be obvious.  At the same time, girliness is something positive for boys who have never thought about it, been tempted by it, or have experienced it.  These are the boys that I believe would benefit from girliness, even if it’s only occasional.

How is girliness good for boys?  I’m no counselor.  I have no degree that would even come close to giving me the resources or knowledge to make an educated assessment.  With that said, I do believe that my experience with crossdressing, being girly, and a lifetime of interest in being who I am in my most natural way of being, gives me some insight to answer this question.  I’ll offer three thoughts that are more than “It feels great!” I could offer more, but I invite you to answer in the comments and want you to have a say.

1) It Counters Male Toxicity: Not every man’s man is poisoned with chauvinistic attitudes, but the aura is prevalent and tempting for all boys–and that’s not even taking into account the systemic problem of male domination that still presents itself today against women.  Beware: Girliness doesn’t bring a boy down to the level of women.  That’s a toxic attitude and one that is even present with “sissies in humiliation.”  To feel degraded because one is made to be feminine is a result of the problem, not a healthy answer to it.  Girliness can and should elevate women.  When a boy is girly, he develops an admiration of the strength and versatility of women instead of thinking of them as less.

2) It Provides Balance: Sure, it sounds cliche.  Everybody these days is looking for some balance in their lives.  For many boys, having this experience between boyhood and girliness may indeed be more than a motivational speaker’s selling point.  It can bring some balance and sense of wholeness.  Girly boys find ways to be and feel softer.  They look for ways to expand upon who they are.  Girliness provides the opportunity for boys to enhance their lives, while also tempering their societal-expected views.

3) It Aids in their Health: While it is true that there are men who are just as concerned for personal hygiene, girly boys take it a step further.  They are concerned not simply with oral health and body odor, they are extra attentive to skin, hair, and nail health.  They are concerned about being well-groomed, including but not limited to body hair.  There is physical health too.  Being girly can translate into better food portions, more movement and flexibility, and workouts.  And there is also mental health in which girliness promotes a more nurturing attitude toward oneself.

I can’t imagine that these three thoughts are earth-shattering or that they are the glue that adheres a boy to a more feminine lifestyle.  But I do hope they are some thoughts that are helpful if you or someone you know tends to be or needs to have some girliness in his life.  There is obviously a novelty to being girly that is pursued by many.  I don’t blame them; and many who began their journey into girliness began with fantasies and erotic imaginations.  It’s not all bad.  Girliness, though, can offer so much more than eroticism.  It can be good for boys.  It could be exactly what you need.

Much love to you, my friend!

CandieHart