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What no one tells you about adult relationships

•Unless you live or work together, you don’t spend as much time together as you want

•Based off of financial situations, gifts become much more meaningful regardless of what you get

•Expectaions of where you will both be at your life will not correlate unless you both talk about it

•Your relationship will end in one of 2 ways, it’s up to the both of you to work on which you want

•Your partner will never read your mind no matter how long you two have been together so talking and communicating is the only way to resolve your problems.

•Playing games and trying to manipulate your partner to get what you want is childish and will end poorly

•Jealousy comes from a partner or a couple who is not confident in their own trust for each other

•You and your partner need your own time apart, your own “me” time because, you’ll have the rest of your life together and sometimes you need your own alone time to relax

•Constant asking for attention can suffocate your partner

•NEVER. EVER. DISRESPECT. YOUR. PARTNER. No matter how “funny” you think it will be, ask yourself if you would like to be treated the way you treated your partner and if your answer is no then don’t do it.

•You and your partners problems are just that, YOUR PROBLEMS and work it out with your partner.

•Focus on your relationships and don’t compare your relationship to another, yours is unique and yours. You and your partner have found out how to make it work for YOU. If you compare your relationship, that will affect your happiness.

•Lastly, do what makes you happy, your happiness is the most important thing to you, if you aren’t happy with what you’re doing or what you have, work hard to make yourself happy. Put yourself first because you do not want to die tomorrow thinking you did not live a happy life.

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Tom’s shenanigans on the set of The Avengers [x]

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random → captain america: the first avenger

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Thank god!

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The truth is a matter of circumstances, it’s not all things to all people all the time. And neither am I.

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Seb and Chris being absolute dorks at interviews

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the only political statement lgbt people need from fiction right now is that lgbt people are valuable and important and deserve to be happy but like by all means keep murdering our fictional role models while we’re grieving

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Random Edit- 1130-1131/-?

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I could definitely fix that problem

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Who’s the funniest?

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Speaking on the whole Taylor Swift/Tom Hiddleston thing. I have no opinion toward her. I don’t listen to her music or follow her on any form of social media and yet, I still know more about her personal life than I want to. She seems like a nice girl, and she seems to have jumped from guy to guy within the last 10 years unsettles me just a little. Maybe it’s because I’ve been single all my 22 years of like and become dependent on myself alone but to see someone constantly in a relationship and have it broadcasted over the internet does make it look fake and staged. I get she’s trying to find love and from what I’ve seen she is never the one to end it. Think about that for a second. To have dated all those guys and each one leave her must hurt. That’s probably why she must have taken time off from dating to find who she truly is. Maybe she is someone who needs constant validation from being in a relationship or maybe she’s this “feminist” icon who tells girls it’s okay to be single. I don’t know and I couldn’t care less.

Now to bring Tom Hiddleston I to the mix. I genuinely adore this man. He’s a very talented actor, super great human being and I watch just about everything he is in because I think he’s great. I respect the crap out of him for all the things he does. To be caught in this whole public thing must be a little overwhelming to him. Imagine having to go from being a known celebrity to having your every move documented and followed must be terrifying. But these two must have agreed that this is what they want and moved forward. I obviously can’t do anything about it and I may not like it but what else can I do. They are two people who probably want to live their lives and as of right now there are more important things to worry about than the personal lives of two celebrities.

Instead of spreading hate and anger toward one another try focusing on more important news happening around the world like the situation in Orlando this past week or all the small cities in the middle east being freed from their governments, or even educating yourself about the news involving the Stanford Rapist. Pay attention to the world’s events instead of hating each other. We are all we have and to quote Mr. Hiddleston himself “Make Love, Not War”

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Let me just clarify. I do not have a problem with Taylor Swift. I listen to her music and when I was younger I would have called myself a fan of her. But without a doubt Tom Hiddleston is my favorite human being on this planet (that includes people I know irl… Talk about antisocial). That man is very dear to me and I regard him extremely highly. The reason I do not like this whole Tom and Taylor thing is because of Taylor’s track record, she does not have a good history with guys, and I do not want to see Tom hurt by her.

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Tom Hiddleston doesn't need to use his love life to get a role he has something better

His amazing fucking talent

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SOHO, June 17 [x]

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