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dr. house as a caregiver <3

"okay, kid. here's how this is gonna work. i've got a case. you can stay in my office while i figure this crap out with my team, and-.... oh, hey. don't cry. don't- listen. you can't be in there with me while we're working, it's confidential. ....jeez, you're really a kid, huh? okay. okay. just... just take some deep breaths. you're gonna be fine. i'll... i can stay in here with you for a few more minutes, that sound good? yeah, yeah. don't get too used to it. ....oh. thank you. thanks. ....i'm not really a hugger, so-.... okay. it's okay. i've got you. i've got you."

requested by @eflen-n-reegee!

aughhhh i love cg house!!! he would absolutely be huffy and pretend like he hates affection & is bothered by clinginess, but he secretly loves it. "i'm not a hugger".... sure, greg. i just know he'd pretend to hate it for exactly two seconds, and then hug you back and not let go. <3

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I wish I had someone to rub my back when I'm small, and to let me rest on them, someone who knows that look in my eyes and softly guides me by the hand to look at toys, who understands that when I'm upset it's because I want to go play but I'm too big and I'm too sore to be a little kid..

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-ˋthings some lil ones want but struggle asking forˊ-

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꒰ 🧺 ꒱ nap time > : (

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ cuddles / kisses / praises / reassurance!!

꒰ 🕊 ꒱ to be tucked in to bed. sounds silly but sometimes someone putting us to bed is magical ^^

꒰ 🍓 ꒱ quiet time / just time to sit and be in peace but with someone with us so we don’t get lonely

꒰ 🧚 ꒱ for someone to let us play with their hair or someone playing with our hair :’)

꒰ 🧺 ꒱ for someone to let them ramble for how ever long they need, sometimes we have a lot on our precious minds !!

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ love / care / the basics ,, sometimes we get shy or struggle in general asking for simple things

꒰ 🕊 ꒱ to be reminded we are not a burden and that you / our carer enjoys taking care of us, that they aren’t just doing it cause they feel they have to ^^

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-ˋ₊˚. sensitive & shy lil one things .˚₊ˊ-

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꒰ 🧺 ꒱ sweater paws / playing with the end of clothes :’)

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ teary eyed / can feel anxiety in their chest most of the time ,,

꒰ 🧚 ꒱ probably nonverbal / only makes lil hums and “ hmph’s” when responding to things

꒰ 🍓 ꒱ grabby hands n points !!

꒰ 🧺 ꒱ it isn’t always a cute thing, they probably get very anxious and worked up sometimes

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ will silently try n hold your hand / carers hand and not make eye contact while doing so :’)

꒰ 🧚 ꒱ speaking of hands- they’ll probably play with their own fingers a lot or other peoples fingers

꒰ 🍓 ꒱ is quiet but gets very interested in things quickly, sit them in front of a show they like or an actively they love and you won’t hear a peep from them ,,

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˗ˏˋ regressing due to childhood trauma things ˎˊ˗

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꒰ 🧺 ꒱ getting sad because you realize you were never allowed to be a child and now you have to regress just to try and feel what you should’ve had

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ being overly shy / anxious around cg’s cause you were never shown that type of affection :’)

꒰ 🧚‍♂️ ꒱ just wanting to be shown that you are genuinely cared for ,, we weren’t shown that enough

꒰ 🍓 ꒱ feeling scared / unsettled / an obscure amount of anxiety when regressed for no specific reason

꒰ 🧺 ꒱ having issues with trusting cg’s

꒰ 🌲 ꒱ not wanting a cg because of uncertainty

꒰ 🧚‍♂️ ꒱ fussing / tantrums / bratty moments that aren’t on purpose

꒰ 🍓 ꒱ agere feeling so hopeless after awhile because you shouldn’t have to relive your childhood ,, it should’ve been enough then

꒰ 🧺 ꒱ crying for no reason ,, feeling abandoned for no reason

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Having chronic pain as a regessor is like: oh dang that hurts *involuntarily regresses to a toddler making the pain 1000% more upsetting*

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Ways to help a sad middle regressor : a list for caregivers

Laughter is the best medicine so tell us a funny joke or story !!

Give us a treat like a stuffie or a small piece of candy

Give us a drink in our favorite cup and a snack that helps us go into middle space (if you talk to your regressor then you'll know what I mean)

Encouraging words and support

Ask us why we're feeling down and talk to us about it a listening ear goes a long way!!

Make sure we have our comfort item at all times (item that makes us feel safe)

Cuddles and a little affection

Brush our hair or do something soothing to help us relax and calm down

Keep us warm and cozy with blankets and pillows and lots of stuffies !!

Tell us how cute you think we are and don't forget to use cute little pet names for us !!

Put on our favorite song you can even dedicate a song for you and her/him/them

Plan a date night or a day out for us where it's just you and them !!examples of places middles like to go : the zoo,the aquarium ,out for ice cream or lunch ,a walk in the park or stargazing

When you're busy give us something to read or focus on so we feel less lonely

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•nighttime smallness•

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- cuddling with stuffies

- can barely keep your eyes open

- tiniest stretches !

- little mumbles and "mmhs" throughout the night <3

- lullabies playing to soothe your wild mind

- listening to the outside noises, and maybe you're a little bit scared of them (don't worry! the outside noise won't hurt you, dear <3)

- falling asleep and waking up once or twice in the night, just to fall back asleep immediately

- waking up in the morning with sheet marks on your skin, because you just slept so well <3

good night, little one!

sleep tight ^_^

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A punk agere moodboard! Battle jacket and paci designed/edited by me :) I don't often see a lot of alt little things, especially punk agere things, so here's to all my fellow small punk rockers !!

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age regression culture is sometimes regressing only emotionally but not cognitively (and vice versa) and trying to keep your composure when you’re actually so upset about things like feeling tired or lonely

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Goth themed agere mood board

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overly specific, sure, but shoutout to regressors with cyclic vomiting syndrome

i know it’s really yucky and no fun and i’m sorry :( but don’t let it make you feel like you’re a bad regressor. agere is a great way to cope when you have an episode. if you start feeling unwell and you need baby time, that’s completely okay! me too, friend!

your stuffies and blankies don’t mind needing to be washed a little more often than most, and they don’t think you’re gross or weird. sometimes agere looks like crying and holding a stuffie because your headache and nausea are so bad, and that’s ok! nothing to be ashamed of! it’s not impure or wrong!

take care, cvs regressor friends! make sure you’re avoiding trigger foods, have some painkillers and an anti-nausea med if you have one close by, and keep on keeping on! we rock! i’m proud of you!