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Life is sooo hard as an illegal shipper. I have to run every and each day from the police force because I ship two siblings! I'm in a wet little cave right now typing this on a Nokia. I hope they don't see the newest drawing of them hugging.. (＞＜；)

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i know that a lot of people already know this, and that this may come across as condescending to those who do, but it has become increasingly clear to me that many people, particularly younger people, don't understand this but—

purity culture is more then just thinking sex is bad and evil and gross

purity culture is the belief that you can be corrupted, that there is an level of purity that can be tarnished by thinking or doing something deemed sinful or icky and that once you lose that purity, you are lesser then those who have not been "tainted". it's the belief that seeing, thinking, or doing something inherently nonharmful to others will fundamental change you in a negative way

purity culture is watching gory horror movies and being told that you are disgusting for finding it interesting to watch

purity culture is being told that violence in books, movies, games, etcetera will make you violent

purity culture is being told that wanting to hurt someone makes you bad, darkens your heart, whatever, even if they hurt you first, even if you have no plans to ever act on that desire

purity culture is being told to forgive your abuser, rapist, or even just people who have slighted and hurt you or else you will never fully heal, or that it makes you in someway bad too, or even just as bad as them

purity culture is being told that hating someone is equally to killing them, or wanting to kill them

purity culture is when people have intrusive thoughts that scare and harm them that make you uncomfortable, possibly even triggered, and telling them that they secretly want to do, have, etcetera, those things or else they wouldn't be thinking about it

purity culture is being told not to curse because it makes your mouth filthy, makes your heart filthy, makes you mean and bad and unpleasant

purity culture is being told that jealousy, anger, rage, disgust, and other stigmatized emotions are "bad" or "unhealthy" emotions

purity culture is refusing to let youths or even teenagers read or watch potential upsetting books, shows, movies, games, comics, etcetera out of fear they will act them out, become violent, possessed, unruly, etcetera

purity culture is being told that writing, drawing, or just in general making something dark and uncomfortable makes you gross and evil

purity culture is telling you that you have to portray bad things as bad or else people won't under that it's still bad, that it will normalize this bad thing, that people can be corrupted by it because they can't think for themselves whether this bad thing you portrayed as good is not actually good

purity culture is thinking bad things done for good reasons is just as bad as bad things done for bad reasons, like a mother stealing baby formula to keep her child alive versus someone stealing your pet because they wanted it are equally wrong

purity culture is being told that drinking, smoking, being addicted to drugs, unemployed, homeless, makes you lesser and filthy and corrupts you

purity culture is believing that someone wanting to do something bad, but choosing not to do it because they know it's bad, still makes them bad because they still want to do it

purity culture is thinking people getting tattoos, dying their hair, piercing, wearing make up, getting cosmetic surgeries secretly hate themselves and are disrespecting themselves

purity culture is so much more then just sex. it expands so much further then just christian/religious people and communities

purity culture is doing something bad, and when you try to seek atonement or correct the mistake, that it is unforgivable and will alway be a blight on you, even if others can "learn to look past it"

if you think that someone thinking or do something that does not cause any inherent harm makes them lesser, makes them bad, makes them gross, corrupts them or can lead them to corrupting others, you are pushing purity culture

this is coming from a women raised in an extremely sex negative christian household who spent years hating herself and her body due to sex based purity culture being pushed onto her from the age of six due to early puberty by the way, so don't try to gate keep purity culture on this post as only a religious and or sexual thing

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guys. we have got to start making our own shit and not just steal from antis. im pretty sure most of us can make better posts than antis anyways since we actually allow ourselves to create freely.

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Imagine being reunited with your f/o after they were convinced they lost you. The way they cup your face, eyes flicking over your features as though they were afraid they'd never see them again. How they pull you into a tight hug, heart racing, tears filling their eyes, muttering promises of how they'll never let you go as long as they live. You're their world, and they couldn't bear to lose you.

Stolen from an Anti. Proship please interact.

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🍒 mad scientist F/O who's so distraught at your sudden death they spend months researching how to resurrect you!

🎀 occultist F/O doing rituals and exchanging their body parts to bring you back to life!

🍓necrophiliac F/O taking care of your corpse! preserving you so you don't decompose too quickly!

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the post: everything has a right to exist in fiction, even if it's fucked up

the comments: i was going to reblog this until i realized op likes fucked up stuff in fiction. this is a common dogwhistle phrase for people who like fucked up stuff in fiction. they have to talk in code to trick people into agreeing with them. stay safe out there!

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Proship/pro-kink/pro-para/sex positivity resource document

Contains: 90+ sources covering the topics of BDSM and kink, fetishes and paraphilias, sex work and the porn industry, and general sex positivity.

Document Link

Now, why did I make this? Why’d I go through allll the trouble of compiling a bunch of sources for something like this? Well, for one, it’s a special interest of mine. The topic of human sexuality is intensely fascinating to me, and through my time on the internet, I have been exposed to two things: weird sexuality, and people who shame weird sexuality. The goal of this doc is, of course, to act as a ‘hub’ of sorts for sources in order to combat the rhetoric spread by anti-ship, anti-kink, anti-paraphilia, and sex negative groups and individuals. If nothing else, I hope that this document can give you an edge in an argument, a better understanding of people around you, or even just an opportunity to learn something new.

I’m posting this in every relevant tag I can think of (without the post being auto-filtered), come what may. No amount of harassment from any direction will devalue the hours of research and the thousands of words written across dozens of medical journals, articles, and personal anecdotes. If you have any questions or concerns, don’t be afraid to bring them up in my DMs or ask box. Reblogging is heavily encouraged.

Happy reading!

 - Dante

Keep reading

[transhualians]

Hot fandom discourse take but framing dark content as only being acceptable if its a vehicle for exploring personal trauma is just giving ground to the puritan segments of fandom.

Simply liking dark content for its own sake is perfectly fine.

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freaks and degenerates are just so much nicer and kinder than the rest of you idk. i love you perverts with illegal and unethical fantasies thank you for being so nice to me

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When people think that I haven't considered the other perspective... dude, I used to be an anti. Like, not even long ago. About a year and a half or so ago. The reason I changed my opinion is because I'm autistic and I have enjoyed reading results of clinical research trials on psychology topics for most of my life (psych is also my major)! Couple years ago I developed a special interest in human sexuality as well, and while reviewing all of the research on this and similar subjects I realized that being heavily against taboo sexual fantasies does not help childhood trauma victims at all (not an outsider perspective either btw, I'm diagnosed with cPTSD), and in fact actively harms us.

If you are a childhood trauma victim who is always triggered by reminders of your trauma, that's okay! I do implore you to seek professional help so that your daily life will not be impeded by unavoidable triggers, but not wanting to interact with fictional rape or pedophilic etc. content is completely understandable. Block tags or people who make you uncomfortable.

If you are a childhood trauma victim who finds pleasure or catharsis in fantasizing about your abuse in a way that allows you to take control of the situation by deciding to engage with that content (ie. CNC roleplay), that is also okay. You are not defective.

Both of these methods of coping with trauma can and must coexist.

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I genuinely have no idea what you mean by this.😭 Not all proshippers ship pedophilia and incest, proship simply means believing in everyone's right to consume any type of fictional content without being censored or attacked (although I'm sure that just like any other label made up to describe a group of people you will get different definitions depending on who you ask).

Some proshippers do consume fictional pedophilia and incest content for various reasons, yes.

Firstly, it does not seem that taboo sexual fantasies are uncommon to begin with [1] [2], although many proshippers who do consume this kind of content regularly are trauma victims (particularly of CSA or childhood physical abuse) in whom atypical sexual fantasies are even more common than in the general population [1].

I can provide more resources if you are open to having a discussion, as human sexuality is a special interest of mine. If not, I will just block you, and I ask that you stop hate-stalking tags as you are not providing anything constructive for yourself or the people within those tags.

it sucks that I think genuinely a lot of antis don't know what proship actually means and refuse to learn bc they have such a visceral reaction to the word itself. I think that if I were to ask people over the age of 15 if they thought it was ok to tell people to kill themselves over fictional content Most of them would probably say no. and literally all the time I see ppl posting "omg I love toxic yuri/yaoi😍😍😍" with proship dni in their bio Girl what are you talking about. Fun fact: if you think people should be able to consume whatever fictional content they want without backlash or you enjoy toxic dynamics in fiction, You are a proshipper

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Content: SFW, AFAB but ambiguously gendered reader, menstruation comfort

Whether your f/o has experienced menstruation themselves or not, they would take the utmost care to make sure you're as comfortable as possible during your period.

If you're lucky enough to have the day off, they would make a convenience store run to stock up on whatever you request— ice cream, chocolate, midol, extra menstrual products, anything at all— before rushing back home to stay with you all day long. Back home, they grab your heating pad, switching it on to the highest setting that they know relieves your pain most throughly. You hear shuffling in the kitchen as they place food items into the cupboard and fridge.

Your f/o knows how much you crave curled-up cuddles during the first few days of your period, so they huddle onto the couch with you under a huge and fluffy weighted blanket. You're curled into their side while they wrap an arm behind your shoulder, scrolling through different movies, shows, and youtube videos on the TV. You get to pick what you watch— would you rather watch something emotional, mindlessly funny, relaxing and comfortable? If you can't decide, they'll ask what you're in the mood for, and make an excellent choice for you.

You pick up the bowl of ice cream they set on the coffee table for you, lazily mouthing at the spoon as your f/o pets your hair. They ask if they can get you anything else, and you begin to feel guilt knawing at you— aren't you holding them back? Are they even happy doing this? They dote on you so much that you fear they won't have time to take care of themselves.

When you voice your thoughts, your f/o turns towards you, cupping each cheek with a hand as their gaze burns into you with fiercely adamant adoration.

"Love, there is nowhere I would rather be right now." They kiss you, as if gently and sensually massaging your lips while you melt into their hands.

"Making sure you're taken care of is how I take care of myself."

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it sucks that I think genuinely a lot of antis don't know what proship actually means and refuse to learn bc they have such a visceral reaction to the word itself. I think that if I were to ask people over the age of 15 if they thought it was ok to tell people to kill themselves over fictional content Most of them would probably say no. and literally all the time I see ppl posting "omg I love toxic yuri/yaoi😍😍😍" with proship dni in their bio Girl what are you talking about. Fun fact: if you think people should be able to consume whatever fictional content they want without backlash or you enjoy toxic dynamics in fiction, You are a proshipper

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Shout-out to self-shippers with villain F/Os who prefer their relationships dark and unequal.

Shout-out to the prisoners, the kidnapped, hostages, and pets.

For those who like their F/Os to abuse them. Violate them. Use them for their pleasure. Torture them with unwanted feelings and sensations.

For those who like gentle moments from their F/Os to be surrounded by violence and degradation.

You're so entertaining for your F/Os. They love playing with you. You're such a fun toy.

And your self-shipping is 100% valid.

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the human mind is truly such a fascinating thing bc why do I find the fictional idea of being a tradwife for my f/o appealing but if you made me be a tradwife irl i would kill you and burn your body

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CW: abusive + manipulative f/o, noncon mention

thinking about being in an abusive relationship with my f/o🥰🫶 it's just like a hardcore lifestyle D/S relationship except they didn't bother to ask for consent beforehand! just so infatuated with the idea of having absolutely no control over my own life.

I'm too tired to pick my own outfit? That's okay, I only wear whatever my f/o picks out for me anyway! If they want me in a full face of makeup and an extravagant dress just so we can go to the store, that's what I'll be in.

I'm reluctant to go to a party? That's okay, my f/o will make me go one way or another! They know what's best for me, after all.

I don't feel like having sex? That's okay, they'll make that decision for me! I just need a little more coaxing.😚💞

I can't be trusted to make my own decisions, can I? Just look at the last time they threatened to abandon me after I stubbornly insisted on being bratty— I crumbled, falling to the floor crying and pleading for them not to leave. I'm absolutely dependent on them for every decision I make, I simply can't live without them.

After hearing my begging and sobbing, how could they refuse? They pat me on the head as I snovel at their feet, gently scratching my chin as if I were a pet as they praise me: reassuring me that I'm so good for them, that they would never leave.

And maybe next week they'll berate me for talking to a friend for too long, or not dressing up to their specifications, or not obeying their demands in bed— but that's okay.

After all, they said they would never leave me; what more could I ask for?💞

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TW: self-harm, depression, BDSM

Imagine you are your favorite character’s sub.

They like to inspect you before every session. They seem like they’re checking out how turned on you are, or inspecting your privates to turn themselves on, but they also ask questions about different bruises, scratches, and other marks on your body that they haven’t seen since the last time you were inspected. You answer honestly, as a sub should never lie to their dom. Your FC warns you very quietly, but strictly, “Your master would be very cross to find that you are hurting yourself.” You feel tears stream down your cheek. Your FC says in the same tone, “If you seek pain, my pet, then come to me. Allow me to handle that for you.” Your FC wipes your tears away, telling you to repeat what you were just told. You repeat that you will come to your FC every time you seek pain, and you apologize as you did not mean to violate the bond you have with your dom. Over time, you simply cannot live without your FC’s control in your life. Your FC helps you work through all those feelings of self-harm and self-hatred to replace them with a deep love and understanding only they can provide. You grow to be healthier, and your FC loves the fact that you come to them with absolutely everything now.