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Please stop usingtags that dont apply, you trigger some people :/

hello. so sorry that this is happening. can you please give me an example?

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Gay USA (1977) dir. Arthur J. Bressan Jr.

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this is extremely important for everyone to understand

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Southern Comfort (2001)

A beautiful scene featuring transgender man Robert Eades and his transgender girlfriend Lola.

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Well, looks like I'm going to actually be homeless in a few months.

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my top surgery is supposed to be in november and my financial situation is pretty bad. im working my ass off with no days off until the date of the surgery but i'll still be $1200-2000 short. if anyone could throw a few dollars at me or reblog this post, i would greatly appreciate it.

paypal: @ gabrieljb

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there is no medical component to a trans kid transitioning

if a little trans boy comes out to his parents & is like 4 all youd do for his transition is cut his hair, buy a new wardrobe, & switch pronouns & possibly change names

no one is gonna put a little 4 year old on testosterone OR puberty blockers until theyre actually about to start puberty & then they give them a few years to really decide if they want to start hormones

a trans kid existing isnt “child abuse.” child abuse is refusing to let your kid live their lives as they truly are & forcing them to present as a gender they arent

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Free Clothes for Trans Girls!

I’ve created the blog @havenscloset where you can look through a list of free clothes that I’m giving away.

My goal is to provide good, feminine clothes to girls who are early in their transition, cannot buy feminine clothes for fear of being outed, or cannot otherwise afford them. 

I will be adding more items and accessories in the future!

Please give it a look and spread the word!

@havenscloset

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@havenscloset

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How to make a gaff, a step-by step tutorial for transfeminine people

You will need:

Scissors

A sock OR Length of pantyhose

A pair of underwear

Step One: Cut a 6-inch/15cm segment of the sock or pantyhose. You can throw away the rest, or keep it to use in making another gaff.

Step Two: Cut off the elastic waistband from the underwear. Throw away the rest.

Step Three: Thread the waistband through the sock.

The gaff is now complete! To wear it, put your legs through the waistband on either side of the sock and pull it up like a pair of panties - lots of other posts have covered tucking, but even if you can’t tuck “properly” (i.e., with the testicles in the inguinal canals), it still works if you just kinda smush everything under. Put a pair of panties on over it, and you’re done!

cc @transgenderteensurvivalguide, @relatabletransgirlthings

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Happy Monday! Thanks for being yourself!

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i dont think tme people get, or ever will get, how deeply affecting the experience of transmisogyny is. will elaborate later.

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There’s so much info about tucking and gaffs (less so) but to all new trans girls.. just get some cotton panties like boyshorts style and push it back gently.

 Like you might have to do slightly (slightly) more for tighter clothes or different fabrics but like… ya don’t need to tape yourself every day… or ever… and gaffs are good but unless you’re wearing something tight n thin cotton boyshorts or some other strong underwear will do the trick.

 Like all this info pretending like you need special gaffs, tape, to shove ur testes up into your inguinal canal, etc. is classist, physically harmful, and preventatively daunting information to be spreading without disclaimers like this.

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hey actualy everyone shut up my best friend just started his gofundme for the top surgery hes been desperate for for years now. 

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i never see enough tips for trans women/transfem people so. here’s a video that came up about tucking :] (don’t worry she doesn’t use tape at all despite the thumbnail)

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hey actualy everyone shut up my best friend just started his gofundme for the top surgery hes been desperate for for years now.