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Guillermo Calderon Aguilar — Sexual Predator and Serial Manipulator. Las Vegas / California Sexual Predator.

@gecagio

Let’s be clear: this wasn’t a misunderstanding. It wasn’t “queer miscommunication.” It was manipulation at every level—workplace, emotional, psychological.

Guillermo Calderon Aguilar is a textbook abuser with a polished mask. He used classic tactics to get away with what he did, and even now, some people still fall for it. But not me. Not anymore.

He groped me when I was 22, disabled, and just trying to make it through the day.

Then he turned to HR and said I was lying. That I was mentally unstable. That I was jealous. 4 days before court he impersonated my friend and reached out. This guy is mentally unwell and goes around calling me mentally unwell.

And HR? At first, they fell for it. Why?

Because Guillermo played every card in the book:

• Preemptive Defense: Claimed he was asexual out of nowhere hoping to make any future accusation look absurd. Used my friend as a shield claiming I made it up for “attention”. Not everybody is stupid like you.

• Gaslighting: Told others I was “obsessed,” while he was the one who crossed boundaries and got my number without permission. Tampered with my friend and I’s communications and printed it out to use as “evidence“.

• DARVO: Denied it. Attacked me. Reversed victim and offender. Classic.

• Triangulation: Turned people close to me into weapons. Made them distrust me. Used them to isolate me.

• Weaponized Identity: He’s gay, sure—but he used that to claim any accountability was homophobia. That’s not pride. That’s manipulation. After groping me he sent messages claiming to be asexual.

He even got someone I cared about to “warn” me:

“If you report me to HR, I’ll tell on you back.”

That’s not love. That’s a threat.

That’s not safety. That’s coercion.

That’s not HR-friendly. That’s retaliation.

And the worst part?

HR was scared of him.

Because he acted irrational, unpredictable, and always had an excuse. They didn’t want to touch it. But I had to. Because he touched me.

So now I’m touching every corner of the internet with the truth.

Guillermo Calderon Aguilar is not misunderstood.

He is not a healer.

He is not a victim.

He is a manipulator who used queerness and chaos as tools of control.

And if no one else will say it, I will: he should not be working around others.

Be warned. He knows how to play the system. He played HR and as angry as it made me he was like a live grenade. Filled with identity political shields. Court? He sat there and pretended he didn’t know English after insulting me 2 days prior.

But I survived. And now I’m speaking.

Because predators only thrive in silence.

This time? He doesn’t get that luxury.

Look at these two messages impersonating a coworker before court. Cluster B adjacent abuse. Stay Away. Partners, Employers, anything involving healthcare, minors or vulnerable individuals. Personification of a predator. He tried presenting my reaction as evidence and the Judge blasted him. Only got away due to an employer technicality in NEVADA NRS 33.270 but the company did save the day eventually for good.

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Guillermo Calderon Aguilar — henderson, las vegas, north las vegas / california (@gecagio)

employer FINALLY acted on this asexual sexual predator. and i thank them, he’s a bit unstable and has gaslit every room so far. quite frankly it doesn’t make sense. he wasn’t a manager. he had no power. he was just another associate and a predator. but still, a monster in human flesh. guillermo was 29. i was 22. i thought he was nice. he bought wing stop and invited me to lunch. i was hesitant and brought grilled cheese. i still ate a little, but in the back of my head i knew everything has a price.

a week later? i feel like a cheap ass Fremont street hooker. At least they know what they are signing up for.

he groped my ass in a crowd while i was younger, disabled, and just trying to get back to work from lunch. i told him not to do it again like a week before i told anybody.

after i told him to stop, he retaliated and spun stupid stories about me being “jealous” and outed my sexuality to the whole warehouse.

and everyday, i hate how passive i was. i shouldn’t have froze like an idiot.

before i ever said a word, he sent me a paranoid text claiming to be “asexual.” like he knew what he did would eventually catch up to him. shameful.

i can’t even look at myself in the mirror some days and nobody understands me, but as a guy, this is like my pearl harbor. i hate how calm i was. i hate how my relationships have deteriorated. he’s been there longer than i was even granted.

some think i’m a liar or attention-seeker, when in reality i’m just miserable and had enough problems. only for this demon to throw a nightmare my way.

i hate that he couldn’t just take responsibility the first time and instead decided to smear me.

part of me wishes i had swung on the spot after getting groped, because getting justice has been a long, exhausting road. sleepless nights and isolation.

i also hate that the burden has all fallen on me and i’m the one being made out to be the bad guy in other people’s minds.

at times it has been very dark and depressing—but i’m not losing my life over a 30-year-old who has nothing for himself.

guillermo didn’t just touch me. he touched everything around me.

he turned people into weapons, especially the one he knew i maybe kinda liked a little bit. he planted seeds of doubt, twisted my image, and smiled while he watched the fallout.

and damn, it broke me.

he really thought those were his own thoughts.

he tried telling hr i lied about getting groped out of jealousy.

he was 20/21, i’m 22, and you’re 29. self-exposure? also you trained him to think letting you go through his phone was a normal thing yet would corner me and confront me about things i said. also got my number and instagram without my permission. sir you are a groomer..

i don’t think he even realized he was being used and was told it was to keep the peace, but guillermo had him warn me that if i reported him to hr, he was going to retaliate and “tell on me back.”

he told people in power that I was mentally unstable in a way that delayed my report. That was no accident.

somehow, he’s still employed even though it falls under retaliation and manipulation and he did retaliate as promised.

he told her i was jealous, even though i didn’t mention all the awful things he made the one i used to honestly love hate me and feed this narrative that i was obsessed. EVERYTHING TERRIBLE YOU ARE, YOU PUT ON MY HEAD AND BE UNMASKED FOR THE WORLD TO KNOW.

now the whole world should know who you are behind the plastic personality. he who interferes with what doesn’t concern him finds what doesn’t please him.

court is not going to fall for that asexual bullshit and see it for what it is.

everything that comes after is your own fault.

in the midst of autoimmune diseases and this was the side quest i never wanted. i get hr may be scared he throws bullshit like mines. i had nothing to lose.

you could’ve just said sorry and been half decent but too much for your ego. he acted like a predator. he made me feel unsafe, touched me without consent, and twisted everything that came after. that’s what predators do.

if you’re reading this, it’s too late.

you didn’t just grope me. you raped my spirit.

you couldn’t spare me, now the judge won’t be sparing you.

you spread that I was mentally unstable because you groped me and needed me to just be a “problem” to everyone around you. You couldn’t match anybody your age, so you picked on me. you knew despite everything I was still a better person.

God is good and I know your karma will be sweet one day I’ve done way less and I have still paid my own price whatever the universe ends up handing you for these actions, it will be sweet.

“with you i’m used to it” gfys you can’t guilt trip somebody who doesn’t feel sorry for you.

all of this manipulation and somehow he still employed. it made me angry initially but it’s like nobody wants to deal with him because he’s irrational. he should not be around other people not our company and outside as well as he’s a dangerous sexual predator. filled with demons, jealousy, obsession, wickedness and stupidity. 5 in one. Future partners, friends, bosses, coworkers, should all be wary. I saw his demons and now the world will too. treating other people like property as well. when i told the boy that you forced enmeshment with mentally & physically that I didn’t have to date him for protection i meant it with my heart even though these scars hurt more than anything else. everybody has dignity and you respect it or you go down. you frame my care as obsession. i didn’t want to believe it at first. i told myself it was confusion. miscommunication. just the kind of weirdness people chalk up to “he’s like that.” But then he groped me. and I said stop. and instead of owning it, he started to warn me not about his actions, but about what would happen if I spoke. that’s when I knew it wasn’t a misunderstanding. it was a game. he didn’t just want access to bodies. he wanted control. to see how far he could go before someone flinched. and when the other boy nearly drowned? i realized how far the game had gone. that wasn’t a rescue. that was a performance. a maybe-i’ll-save-you-but-watch-how-long-it-takes. a blurred moment in water, panic, and skin just enough confusion to touch someone and never be called out. because that’s what predators do. they don’t strike when the lights are on. they create the fog (crowded hallway or “swimming”) then move inside it. they blend crisis with opportunity. help with harm. comfort with violation. and the worst part? they leave you questioning your own instincts. All part of breeding emotional attachment. i don’t question mine anymore. i saw it. i lived it.

you only got away with so much for so long because even hr was gaslit originally and was afraid. somebody who always has an excuse for everything no matter how stupid they say while ignoring the biggest ticking time bomb and a liability.

you call yourself a psychologist and a wizard i say manipulator. You cared more about silencing the truth at court than the damage you cause to my life. Why didn’t you pick somebody strong enough to punch you in your jaw? You spun the fact that I called you a pedo after you tried blackmailing me out of reporting. Thank God the gag order expired. The world must know. Tried spinning me calling you a pedo to HR. I mean you called me a child after the groping and reaching for my number with no permission.

we deserved better and that’s why i’m making sure it doesn’t happen again. 1st AMENDEMT APPROVED.