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ooh patton dom drop is interesting !!! out of him, roman and virgil do any dom drop frequently do you think? or have common triggers? (i imagine anything dub con would be a big one of pattons)

i wouldnt say any of the frequently, i think theyre pretty good at heading that kind of thing off at the pass. and lord dont let me break this was an outlier

and they all need a lot of checkins for dubcon stuff, as in drag my teeth across your chest

but there are things that are more likely to trigger it - virgil cant be too mean to the other three. teasy-mean is fine (and frequent) but its all sweet under the thinnest veneer. if something happens that makes him feel like he's actually hurt or upset them he's liable to immediately go to fret mode and probably cry

Roman's touchy around dehumanizing stuff - names like toy, pet. the muzzle the previous poster mentioned and collars are a no for at least a few years after the main story, tho ive been thinking about him warming up to collars, so i was thinking i might loosen him there too

he also has a tendency to sympathetically drop - if someone else goes down he has a hard time not following, subbing or domming

Patton just has A Muzzle Trigger, for that specific thing, but more generally has a tendency to drop after really GOOD scenes. things that went perfect and everybody had a great time and those endorphins are just spinning spinning and then - boom, crash. he HATES this, he's gotta be really corralled into not apologizing for it because he feels like he totally killed the vibe

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i just opened my notes app and i just have a note saved from about a month ago just reading "they should muzzle laoft logan i think itd make him go feral" and i need to know your thoughts

this is definitely not where you thought this was going but i think thats an interesting idea for giving patton a turn on Dom drop a la and lord dont let me break this

post-that it might be something analogical (or mayyyyybe logince?) get up to on their own but i definitely think it'd be a hard limit for patton

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So I used to be a pizza deliver driver, and that was pretty great for me; it made me feel like a video game character doing Quests. And when you started your shift as a driver, you got a wad of 15 singles for making change which was deducted from your tips at the end of the night. And this was back in the very early 20teens so $15 American just so happened to also be the price of half a tank of gas and a pack of Marlboro reds, so it was often also a sort of interest-free loan.

Now, a trope in pornography which was once so common that I myself have never actually seen a genuine portrayal of it but only seen it parodied runs thusly: A brave hero is delivering a pizza to some beautiful person who, upon receipt of the pizza, says, "Unfortunately I don't have any money; could I perhaps cover the cost of the pizza with sexual favors?" And always the hero agrees to this Faustian bargain which I'm sure must seem quite reasonable to you uninitiated civilians.

But, see, I'm making minimum wage. I have no savings. And I already spent my bank on half a tank of gas and a pack of Marlboro reds. So I'm $15 in the hole, and do you know what happens when you don't cash out at the end of the night? The manager calls the cops, and the cops come to your house. Mr. Domino is gonna get his $15 back by hook or by crook. I seen it happen. So if I accept the beautiful person's modest proposal, I'm mortgaging future tips against the $15 *and* the price of the pizza--which can get up there, depending on the order--and if I don't fix those books by the end of my shift, that could get to be a real pain in my ass.

Just doesn't make sense, y'know, from like a business perspective. Maybe it'd be worth a gamble. Maybe if it was like a beautiful woman who was a service top and also a werewolf, maybe you roll the dice and hope for the hard 6. But you gotta be risk-aware, is all I'm sayin.

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you guys need to be normal about people who don't like penetration. people who don't get hard easily. people who finish quickly. people who participate in kink without having sex. people who don't like being touched. people who don't like giving head. people who only like penetration. people who (almost) always squirt. people who take a long time to cum. people who have a hard time getting wet. people who don't talk during sex or anything else that is not part of the way you think people or bodies should behave during sex

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Congratulations to Brooke from Let's Not Date for winning Father's Day.

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can i stress the importance of boundary setting? of being able to say no? if you want to be able to play with this shit, or really engage sexually at all, you need to be able to look someone in the eye and say “i don’t want this.”

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robot girl bouncing on it but it keeps making the connect/disconnect jingle and it's really distracting

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it's actually so funny how challenging it is to write bona fide graphic, horny smut. like people don't give smut writers enough credit. you are constantly running out of words to describe the same 2-4 body parts and same 4-6 motions. you are constantly attempting to do interesting and dynamic things in the prose with this extremely limited set of words. you are looking at your prose for the nastier bits and wondering if it actually sounds hot or if it just sounds goofy. you are then toning down your prose and then wondering if it now sounds tasteful or if it's just boring. you do ctrl+F for the word "cock" and there are 37 instances of it in the doc but you hate the 1-2 acceptable synonyms so there's nothing much you can do about it

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aw wait thats actually so sweet, tobys getting very mixed signals, one time he wakes up in the middle of the night to virgil fast asleep spooning him, the next day virgils especially prickly and refuses to look him in the eye

im always a fan of platonic tsundere. i have the same thing going on with early virgil and janus in ping verse its just so good a trope in that context

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So you said that Greta + Toby don't do threesomes but do they do platonic cuddle puddles? Like Toby has at least one sibling so you KNOW he's good at cuddles, plus the sheer siblingy awesomeness of Greta + Virgil (+ Elliot if it's after Forever) would make for very effective chill* cuddle time I feel

* that wasn't an intentional pun but we're having a heatwave where I am so I would in fact kill for a fair folk cuddle puddle if it meant being less hot lmao

virgil showing up in the middle of the night while theyre asleep and climbing into the bed on greta's other side is a frequent and expected occurence XD

the first few times it sent toby goddamn near out his socks but greta's like 'dont make him feel bad he's fae this is normal' and toby's like 'well uuuuuh okay' and then tries not to die of embarrassment when he wakes up with virgils hair in his mouth.

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what happens if someone who's not Toby hits on Greta? I doubt he'd get as aggressively possessive as she would

random guy: perhaps you could leave your mere coal miner husband and warm MY bed-

Toby: oh dear [ducks]

Greta: [launches a watermelon from the nearby fruit stand at the guys head full force]

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seeing strange fetishes im not into on my dash is like observing an edible herb on a walk. Hmm. someone wise ☝ could make use of this... but i shan't 👴

you paint such a beautiful picture with your words anon thank you

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hear me out…

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I assumed there'd be foetus witchy nonsense but now I need to know if witches only get immunity to fire and poison etc. when they get familiars like did Roman just one day stop getting burnt?

yep! roman makes a comment about in for the worlds more full of weeping that Mamaw is immune to popping grease and he isn't. when he gets dizzy later, he's not gonna notice that he doesnt have the probalme anymore for a very long time lol