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It’s okay to have fantasies that you would never want to do in reality. It’s okay to have fantasies that you don’t want to do with other people. It’s okay to try things in real life and decide you only like them in fantasy. It’s okay to only like certain things in certain contexts. You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You are not any less valid in your kinks if you enjoy the idea of them more than the reality.

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Sooo uhh.. if I started writhing and whining pathetically that it hurts once I felt the dull ache of your head prodding against my cervix with every thrust, would you hold me tighter and snap your hips into me even harder and faster, knowing you've found the right spot and only emboldened by my tears? Orrrr ...?

Cishets/Minors/Detrans Fuck Off OP is a Trans Fag

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Does anybody know the going hourly rate for a nerdy masc sadistic top leaning Dom? It's gotta be a better career than whatever this is

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want to be tied up and forced to cum repeatedly :/

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Honestly, I am falling more and more in love with the CRISP consent model. SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) and FRIES (consent should be Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific) are great baseline models for beginners to learn and I'd recommend any bdsm newcomers to start with those concepts. They're easy to grasp and cover most scenarios a newbie bdsm-er may encounter.

However these consent models aren't all-encompassing, don't address risk, and in the case of FRIES, can actually be demonstrably incorrect (speaking specifically about the E in FRIES, Enthusiastic).

I'm not personally a fan of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) or PRICK (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink), as they are entirely focused on methods to mitigate risk and mostly only see use in kink spaces.

In the case of PRICK specifically, I actually advocate heavily against its use as a consent or kink activity framework because of how it centers the experience on individual responsibility during an activity and how one person can keep themselves safe without regard for the fact that sex and kink activities are generally done with more than one person. PRICK can be dangerous even when you follow its core tenets, and that's not what you want your framework doing.

Recently I learned about the CRISP model of consent, which was created by intimacy practitioners for use on set during film production of intimate scenes like childbirth or sex, and I think it addresses every major point about risk and consent in a neutral, all encompassing manner. And because I'm such a nerd about consent, I'm going to tell you all about it and have taken the liberty of transcribing CRISP from an intimacy coordinator perspective to a sex or BDSM perspective.

The tenets of CRISP are:

Considered: Actively take the time to deliberately consider whether or not to give consent. This includes looking at the practicality of the context of the situation itself (for example the question, "do we have enough time to do a sex?" would fall under 'considered') as well as any external factors influencing the situation such as gender, socioeconomic status, etc.

Reversible: What it says on the tin. Anybody participating in sex or kinky play can, at any time and for any reason, revoke consent and deserve to have their revocation both complied with AND respected.

Informed: Each party must be honestly communicating to one another and has a responsibility AND duty to be informed on the activity they're doing, informed on who they're doing it with, and informed of any relevant medical, mental, emotional, situational, or circumstantial risks. This tenet is necessary for the 'Considered' tenet to be acted upon responsibly and accurately.

Specific: Consent to one thing does not mean consent to something else; consent only applies within the terms it was agreed to by both parties and therefore there should be no ambiguity or vagueness in either party's intentions.

Participatory: Consent is ongoing before and after it is agreed upon, is a constant process of checking in with each other, and no one should be excluded or discouraged in any way from the process of any of the tenets above.

Now that last one, participatory, at first I actually didn't get and found it very confusing. But the more I have come to understand it and think about it, the more I think it's absolutely mandatory to include this in all consent models moving forward. It's the glue that holds any respectable framework together.

It's essentially protecting the integrity of the rest of the consent model. Participatory is basically saying that before, after, or during the process of agreeing to consent, anything done by violating the other tenets of the model, damages the integrity of the entire agreement and voids it. Consent must be re-established to continue at that point. It also states that consideration for consent doesn't stop once it's been agreed to and needs to be monitored for any changes throughout. You have a responsibility and duty to the other person, after all, to not bring harm to them. So you must be engaged, present, and participate in the act with them in order to fulfill that duty and responsibility.

The part that gets my goat is that 'participatory' could even be further extrapolated to mean that consent could be given ad-hoc in the moment so long as the other criteria are met, allowing for the wiggle room that often happens in realistic play encounters between experienced and trust-established partners. This is a longstanding issue that most consent models don't even acknowledge happens because they are far too rigid.

CRISP, however, is flexible within reason that it can allow for improvisation. Knowing where it originated from, which is intimacy practitioners, that flexibility is definitely not the intent, so I will exclude this as being an official part of the model. However I bring this up because I personally think it could very easily be incorporated into that last tenet so that it acknowledges how real people play and how we can continue to affirm consent while we improvise.

I can't properly express how much I am nerding out about this and am such a fan of this consent model. This model allows for all kinds of sex and kink activities to be included and accounted for. That's not always been true for certain activities, especially when it comes to lifestyle dynamics or edge play. But CRISP includes those activities and guides folks on how to start doing and continue doing them safely and responsibly.

Sometimes consent isn't enthusiastic, but it's still perfectly valid consent. Sometimes consent models aren't focused on everyone involved. Sometimes consent models don't address risk at all, or they entirely focus on it to its own detriment. CRISP does all of these things and does them well. It acknowledges that enthusiasm is not inherent to consent, it addresses how to handle risk, and it implements risk management in the overall process for how to determine if consent has been established, is still present, and what factors could contribute to the violation or unwilling manipulation of one's consent. It's amazing!

And I encourage everyone to start thinking in terms of CRISP because of how cohesively it encompasses many different aspects of sex, play, and relationship dynamics and gives people a universal framework that is healthy and respectful to all involved. It's really just putting into words how a healthy sexual or intimate interaction works under the hood and takes away all the mystery or doubt surrounding consent.

tl;dr

There's a practical universal model for how consent works called CRISP and you should read about why it's so good above.

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Anal not because it feels better, or because it's tighter. No, darling, all your holes are fucking perfect. Anal because it's uncomfortable and hurts a little and barely gives you any physical pleasure and makes you feel like a disgusting, used little toy. Anal because it's so humiliating and dehumanizing it unlocks that primal instinct buried deep in your subconscious that makes you revert into a pathetic, wounded prey animal. Anal because it's the best way to break your stupid empty brain and helps me mold you into the dumb, violated, perfect little object I want you to be.

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part of the appeal of boot humping for me is the little pieces of intimacy. being all needy and desperate while kneeling beneath someone, wrapping my arms around their leg and pressing my cheek against their thigh. looking up at them with tears in my eyes as they brush my hair out of my face and tenderly stroke my cheek <3

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being fucked so hard from behind that you collapse forward and then they lean over you and use their weight to keep you completely pinned so you can’t do anything but whine and take it

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Ex-Playboy Snow Leopard Hybrid is used to bringing out the vocal side of his sexual partners. Both outside and inside the bedroom. They just can’t hold it in around him, their endless sounds of pleasure.

It’s no surprise how easy it is for him, he’s more than well aware that he’s special. He’s a prize, a rare hybrid that anyone would give their lives to pleasure. And he took advantage of that for a long time.

That is until he met you and gave it all up.

On average he can make a person unravel and scream their throats raw with ease. It barely took any effort for him at all. But like everything when it comes to you, is a special case.

He’s trying and failing not to lose himself in you as he fucks orgasm after orgasm out of you. Bringing you to release at least twice on his fingers, another thrice on his tongue, and who knows how many times he’s rolled you around into different positions till you’re squirting all over his sheets.

Yet while he’s drunk off your holes and your sweet essence, you look completely indifferent. Your eyes just barely glassy with arousal is the only proof he has of his effect on you. A harsh whimper tears out of him. He’s getting desperate here.

Slipping out of you causes you to softly whine, momentarily soothing your bf from going feral on your ass. But it’s still not enough, not even close. He digs his claws into your plush hips and flips you back over, his arms hook beneath your knees and he folds you into a mean mating press as he slams his cock back inside you in one brutal snap of his hips.

He growls furiously as you don’t even gasp, your eyes only slightly widening and your back arching. He needs more, he needs to hear you. His tail thrashes around behind him and he’s not even controlling it as it wraps your ankle tightly, claiming every part of you.

It’s impossible to control himself now that he’s back inside your snug walls so he immediately starts back up at a frantic pace, driving his cock upward and hitting all those deep sensitive spots inside of you. Meanwhile his eyes never leave yours, looking for any sign of a reaction. A flush of your soft chubby cheeks or a tear of euphoria that falls from your gorgeous eyes.

One particular smack of your hips against his has you crying out loudly, your body writhing beneath him and silently begging for more.

“F-fuck, nngh, yes!!” You cry out.

Your bf gasps in awe like he’s finally found his perfect prey after a long hunt. It’s no scream or mewl but it’s a start. And thank god, he was starting to wonder if he’s actually bad at this. But of course he’s not.

And he continues to prove it as he picks up his pace, rutting into you like he’s gone into his rut. Eliciting louder moans, cries, and even small shrieks with every precise and carefully planned plunge of his cock along your sopping tight hole.

“Oh, yes! Ah— fuck yes, right there! Don’t stop!” You scream as if possessed and your grins, his fangs glinting in the light as he fucks into you at a steady rough pace.

“Wouldn’t dream of it, baby,” he purrs, low rumbles vibrating from his chest while he watches the pleasure he wracks out of you as he fucks you brainless.

Satisfaction curls in your bf’s chest and he hasn’t even cum yet. But your sounds are sweeter than any release he’s ever experienced in his entire sexual history. He can tell that each snap of his hips sends you closer to release. There’s nothing he wants more than to give that to you. I

“So good, oh my god, it’s so good! More, more, mmph-more,” you scream out your ecstasy with stars in your eyes. And there it is. Just what he’s been looking for.

“Well… only ‘cause ya begged so pretty,” he rasps and slips a hand between your hot sweaty bodies.

Your body jolts against his as he rubs his fingers along your bundle of nerves, forcing out strings of delightful shrieks and moans. The force of his thrusts send your thighs shaking and your hole fluttering around his toe-curling girth. And the dual stimulation has you hurtling over the edge.

Waves of euphoria wash over you and your final orgasm crashes through your body like a storm. Noises even he’s never heard of fall out of you, the sounds warping and crackling under the weight of pleasure. Worse than the sounds of a dying animal. And your bf is relishing in it, letting it fuel him to reach his own release.

With one final buck of his hips, he slams his knot inside of you just in time to release his heavy load as deep inside your hole as he can get. He roars while he empties himself of you, spurt after spurt flooding your tight channel and filling you to the brim.

He works you both through it until your trembling body relaxes and merely twitches from the aftershocks. Afterwards he plops down right on top of your plush frame and nuzzles into the thick curve of your neck, purring loudly and contently. Looking at him like this you never would’ve guessed he was ever a playboy.

His own satisfaction in himself and how good he made you feel makes you happy in return. A soft smile spreads across your face as your arms curl around him. Relaxing and holding him close as his knot keeps you two locked together.

Seeing just how proud he is of himself maybe it’s better not to tell him that while the climax was real, all of the noises were faked.

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There are no real monster fuckers or fake monster fuckers.

Just because someone only likes werewolves or hybrids doesn’t mean they’re fake monster fuckers.

WE’RE ALL FREAKS! YOU’RE NOT SUPERIOR BECAUSE YOU’D FUCK MORE NICHE MONSTERS!

All of us are seen as weirdos by outsiders. So shh….

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Tbh this blog is both a treat and a torture site for Lovely. I think that's perfect.(shy bunny can't handle they have urges even though thats a role they hold and their prideful when it comes to helping others with it? Awweee. Let's fix that. >:])

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wearing a bunny tail plug so you can tug on it and make me whimper while i’m bent over your lap <3

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Sex shop date where I tell you to "pick whatever you want," but in truth I'm encouraging you to choose things that are slightly too big for you and making it seem like it was all your idea. You seemed so confident that you could take it.

So when you're struggling and squirming, I get to gently cup your face and tell you that it's your fault. It was your choice. Aww, was it the wrong one? That's why I think for you.

"You can't even pick the right toys, poor thing," while I'm clearly enjoying every second of it.

You look so pretty when you cry <3

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This is my aesthetic. I've found it at last. mountain road signs bearing sexual puns.

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Look all i'm saying is that in theory. i want to have him gut me and eat me like a snack in the process

I wanna be a snack in all ways.

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hehe rammin this vag down to your balls

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Okay but what if I want to ride you till you cry?? What then!! Let me overstimulate you, let ride you without any pull outs. If you want me to be such a good ram you need to give me some in return. Let me make you cry from lust.