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In case anyone is having a bad night

(The best of this post and its reblogs, but with links that work)

Here is a website where you can scroll down to all the different levels of the ocean 

Here is a website where you can see the future of the universe

Here is a website where you can press a ‘make everything okay’ button, over and over, until things really are okay

Here is a website that you can read if you feel like a burden

Here is a website where you can look at strobe illusions (TW strobe/flashing)

Here is a website where you can cut stuff up (TW blood/sh)

Here and here are websites where you can play with sand

Here is a website where you can draw with macaroni and other fun foods

Here is a website where you can paint someone’s nails

Here is a website where you can grow a garden with emojis

Here is a website with hundreds of videos of people hugging you (rightfully dubbed ‘the nicest place on the internet’ because it really is, y’all, it made me cry)

Here is a website that will take you to other useless websites

Here is a website where you can make a tiny cat play bongo drums (and other instruments!)

Here is a website to help give you gentle reminders <3

Here is a website where you can grow a tiny farm

Here is a website where you can take a bunch of scientific personality tests

Here is a website of calm rain noise

Take a breath. It’s going to be okay, I promise.

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Here's to us, bone tired and worn down by life by the time we're 20.

Here's to us, who don't want to "build a little family of your own", coz we already did the parenting, in place of childhood.

Here's to us, whose dream life is living alone, on our own terms.

Here's to us, leaving life backwards, because we fought like hell, and we got free, and we deserve to take everything they failed to give us.

Here's to us, may we forever thrive.

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Ok so this whole Mature content label mess is a platform wide epidemic, most likely due to @staff implementing some new filter bot.

I suggest you all go through your posts and file appeals on flagged posts.

Hopefully if we drown @staff in appeals they will turn the damn thing off.

Please reblog to spread the word!

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If you didn't make your boundaries known and another person crossed them, that's on YOU.

"But shouldn't they have... " NO.

It's YOUR job to show them your boundaries, not their job to magically guess where they are.

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Sometimes, the greatest gift you can offer someone in pain is your presence, not your answers. Listening is its own kind of healing.

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Alan Ritchson recounts the time he tried to take his own life, his head space at the time and how it lead to him getting diagnosed with bipolar disorder

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Pre-menstrual depression is always depicted as like "He He! I had a box of icecream bars and cried while watching the Titanic!" But in reality, it's more like, "I'm standing the edge of an abyss. There is nothing good inside of me, I'm filled with rage and desperation."

It's crazy that being told how to deal with that is never a part of anyone's menstrual sex education.

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some additional info, if you're interested: clitoris as an organ is mostly inside the vulva - you can see it on this scheme:

What's on the surface is called clitoris head. As you can see here, it's located above the urethral opening, and as OP said is usually partially or fully covered by the clitoral hood.

When developing in the womb, from the same tissues female forms clitoris and male forms a penis. Meaning, penis is basically enlarged clitoris head, only much less sensitive.

When not aroused, clitoris head is soft and touching it feels neutral, and in some cases - slightly uncomfortable.

During arousal clitoris fills up with blood (sounds familiar, doesn't it?), and head becomes firm and protrudes slightly - that's usually when you can feel it under the hood with your fingers (or tongue). Touching it becomes pleasurable.

For those born with heightened sensitivity, touching aroused clitoris head directly may feel painful. However, as trade off, for the same reason, indirect stimulation of clitoris body through vaginal walls may feel very pleasurable, enough to orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, without head stimulation.

Does the clitoris have a hole? I've tried searching it up before but I can't find anything on it. Some of the sources suggest I'm talking about the hood or the urethral hole, but I don't think it's either of them. It's a straight-up hole where the clitoris is. Is this normal?

The clitoris itself doesn't have a hole but your clitoris can be small and/or your clitoral hood can be long/large and that causes what looks like a hole where the clitoris is!

It usually just means that your clitoris is deeper inside and isn't visible. You can usually tell by stimulating the shaft of your clitoris to feel it and/or gently pulling back the hood a little, depending on how yours works.

It's very much normal; not everyone has a visible clitoris and there's nothing wrong with that at all!

It's also possible you don't have a clitoris, which is a normal intersex variation, but that usually [as I understand, at least] involves not having a clitoris hood or having a fused clitoral hood.

Let me know if this helps or if you have anymore questions, Anon! <3

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buck decorating his loft w cool old firefighter stuff 🥺🥺🥺

screenshot from this post

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just had an absolutely atrocious thought

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So I’m on AO3 and I see a lot of people who put “I do not own [insert fandom here]” before their story.

Like, I came on this site to read FAN fiction. This is a FAN fiction site. I’m fully aware that you don’t own the fandom or the characters. That’s why it’s called FAN FICTION.

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Reblog to open a rail line from your blog to the person you reblogged this from

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So, here's the deal: main source of pleasure for afab is clitoris. And if you look at the anatomy of it, you'll see that during penetration clitoris body is stimulated indirectly through vaginal walls:

Now, level of sensitivity of clitoris body is highly individual. For some it's high enough to orgasm from penetration alone, however statistically it's only about 20% of afabs. For majority penetration feels from mildly pleasurable to indifferent.

Yes, other parts of genitalia are sensitive as well, and erogenous zones are highly individual. That being said, generally, for majority, easier and faster way to orgasm is through stimulating the exposed part of clitoris, aka clitoris head.

hi so I know you probably get a lot of questions about this but I figured I'd ask anyway. I'm afab and I just. Don't like penetration. It's not painful for me it just doesn't really feel like anything more than like tapping me on the arm. Is that normal?

Hi! I get an average amount of questions about penetration [have a lot in the queue rn] but it really doesn't bother me. I love answering questions and I'm glad you trusted me to answer!

It is actually fairly normal. Plenty of people don't enjoy penetration and/or just feel neutral about it. It's not for everyone.

If you're not used to masturbation and aren't quite sure to go about including penetration in masturbation, that can make penetration feel boring/neutral but if it's just that penetration itself isn't interesting to you, that's fine!

Sometimes it can be caused by something [for example, antidepressants can change sexual function or even lack of lube can make or break penetration for someone] but if that's not a concern, at the end of the day, it's very much personal preference.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions! <3

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Nobody deserves punishment.

Because it's not it's function.

Punishment is a tool used to prevent repetition of socially unacceptable behavior. That's all it is. That's all it needs to be.

Causing someone pain for behavior that someone else personally disaproves of is not punishment, it's retaliation.

Hurting someone back because they hurt someone else is not punishment, it's revenge.

Both retaliation and revenge are anti social, destructive tactics.

Punishment is constructive or it isn't punishment at all. It relies on logic, not feelings.

Punishment isn't deserved. It's required or not required. And in mentally healthy environment it's barely required at all. It's the last resort, not the first.

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the "is it ok to have sex when your kids are in the house" thing is so funny to me because like. if you have lived with both of your parents at the same time there's a 99.5% chance they have had sex while you were in the house. if you co-slept then your parents probably had sex while you were in the same bed. this is the gender neutral bathroom debate all over again.

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The Squeeze 1x02 Taylor Lautner: Fame is a Drug