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Well, it is a woman's prerogative to change her mind.
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Big Boy Pants

I'm using a Quinn.Klaxon photo here for this Essay.
Recently I read something from @https://www.tumblr.com/denial-permanente where Mrs. Edge said something along the lines of: You asked for this, and at times it's going to be just life, and so in that context, when the sex isn't hot and the domination isn't happening, put your big boy pants on, and just do the work through the week. Serve your wife, take care of yourself, don't whine. Life is being lived, and the sexual energy is not always going to be high."
What it means to me is exactly what's happening today (Which is Tuesday, July 22nd, 2025). It's the middle of the week. Yes... I'm caged, and my wife is off to work and I'm here at work. And... the sexual energy is low. Of course it is. And... I can feel myself slipping into that 'life anxiety' mode. What do I mean by that? Well, every morning in a gentle beautiful ritual, I wake my wife with coffee, and tickle her back. I make her breakfast and lunch, and get her ready for work. Is it a chastity sex slave thing? It can be... but at the core of it is me taking time to gently serve her with love and care. I should, theoretically, do this without the cage and so forth. Having said that, in the context of the game, the cage does make it easier. But.... it doesn't make it happen if I'm choosing to be anxious, overwhelmed, and so forth. Which was this morning. I just slept in, and she woke herself, got her own coffee, made her own lunch, and went off to work. While I slept. --- And guess what, I was NOT in the mood to help her this morning. I was dead tired from working very late. --- So, an older part of me, would have whined that 'Mistress' didn't wake me up, grab my caged balls, and insist I serve her. But... that's just total bullshit. It's what Mrs. Edge is talking about. Put your fucking big boy pants on, and choose to get up and help her. Sure it's fun you have the cage on, but she's also your WIFE, and you want to do kind things for her, regardless of the sexual tension energy. And honestly, I get more sexual energy from my wife (especially when I'm caged) than most people, I guarantee that. So... it's not her job to wake me and grabbed my balls. It's my job to fulfill what I choose to do: Serve her gently and lovingly in the morning. It's like working out. I often don't want to train for my Marathon. But... I do it anyway. Same with doing nice things for your partner, REGARDLESS OF THE CHASTITY ARRANGEMENT.
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